Pls say something else,11yrs, well if he is,dat means it runs in d family

LordAdam16:


Like I don't give a sh*t if you decide to use your brain or not.

The reply is not just for you. It's also for the other people who would appreciate an expose on sexuality. Most of us are too busy with our lives, work, family, surviving, and other issues to carefully read multiple blogs, research papers, op-eds and other publications, or even engage in open discussions about sexuality.

Well-detailed posts like the one you quoted are relatively abridged content forms to better inform this category of people.

Don't flatter yourself unnecessarily. All the talk and conversation of racism doesn't get to the heads of the light-skinned people killing blacks in Libya, Russia and elsewhere. Nor does all the talk and conversation about women emancipation get to the heads of the Shieks and Alfas in the Middle East, Northern Nigeria and elsewhere.

Some people are condemned from birth to be irredeemable bigots. If you are one of such people, I can't waste my pity on you or pander to your ego (however inflated).

The LGBTQ+ movement does not have a pause button and is only growing stronger. How do you feel?

-Lord

you need to change, brother. Your attitude is bad. you keep a closed mind to arguments. Now, you are advising me to subscribe to your line of thinking when you've shown yourself to be someone who's too rigid to advices. I will advice you one more time... Stop writing long texts where they aren't needed, it doesn't make you sound smart. it only depicts you as someone who's incapable of arriving at his point.

secondly, on your LGBT orientation, I will like to ask you this; children steal without even knowing why they do so, so according to you, we should allow and encourage them because it has been their orientation?

My point is, gay attitude is a bad attitude just as stealing which when properly and constructively managed is eradicated.
PS: please if you are going to bore me again with long unnecessary post don't mind replying me, cheers.

ozoebuka1:
you need to change, brother. Your attitude is bad. you keep a closed mind to arguments. Now, you are advising me to subscribe to your line of thinking when you've shown yourself to be someone who's too rigid to advices. I will advice you one more time... Stop writing long texts where they aren't needed, it doesn't make you sound smart. it only depicts you as someone who's incapable of arriving at his point.

secondly, on your LGBT orientation, I will like to ask you this; children steal without even knowing why they do so, so according to you, we should allow and encourage them because it has been their orientation?

My point is, gay attitude is a bad attitude just as stealing which when properly and constructively managed is eradicated.
PS: please if you are going to bore me again with long unnecessary post don't mind replying me, cheers.

Oh finally, you read my post.

What doth it profit you to be unnecessarily arrogant?

And again what is it with being pathologically judgmental. What you think about the length of my post is immaterial. Pointless nonsense to be frank. You may find it unnecessary, but I don't give a hoot. Because someone else will find it necessary. So what makes your opinion of what is and isn't necessary more important or valuable than mine or some other person? Especially, when your poor excuse of a retort doesn't paint a good picture about your rationality.

Stealing and sexual orientation are two polar opposites. They shouldn't even be in the same sentence.

Stealing directly hurts other people. Look no further than the present state of our country.

Since your intelligence is somewhat deficient and unable to process drawn out logical thought processes, let me ask you a simple question. Who does sexual orientation hurt? In fact, to be more direct. Does homosexuality directly hurt you?

Your point is an illogical point. It's comparing apples to oranges.

-Lord

mazizitonene:
Well...I don't have anything to say......


but one thing is certain, keep your nephew dafuq far away from me..... cause.......

you will Bleep him.......right?

LordAdam16:


Oh finally, you read my post.

What doth it profit you to be unnecessarily arrogant?

And again what is it with being pathologically judgmental. What you think about the length of my post is immaterial. Pointless nonsense to be frank. You may find it unnecessary, but I don't give a hoot. Because someone else will find it necessary. So what makes your opinion of what is and isn't necessary more important or valuable than mine or some other person? Especially, when your poor excuse of a retort doesn't paint a good picture about your rationality.

Stealing and sexual orientation are two polar opposites. They shouldn't even be in the same sentence.

Stealing directly hurts other people. Look no further than the present state of our country.

Since your intelligence is somewhat deficient and unable to process drawn out logical thought processes, let me ask you a simple question. Who does sexual orientation hurt? In fact, to be more direct. Does homosexuality directly hurt you?

Your point is an illogical point. It's comparing apples to oranges.

-Lord

you are delusional and your cerebral processing is very slow. so, you are tryna tell me that 2/3 of the world's population that has been kicking against lgbt has been doing so out of sheer wickedness? if thats your thought then, you must be a slowpoke. I don't see why a sane person will feel indifferent when he sees his male child acting gay. if gay people ain't abnormal people, tell me what abnormality is?

ozoebuka1:
you are delusional and your cerebral processing is very slow. so, you are tryna tell me that 2/3 of the world's population that has been kicking against lgbt has been doing so out of sheer wickedness? if thats your thought then, you must be a slowpoke. I don't see why a sane person will feel indifferent when he sees his male child acting gay. if gay people ain't abnormal people, tell me what abnormality is?

common you are out of point..... Having sex out of marriage or before marriage is abnormal too..... Deal with that.... We all have our lives to live

electricpole:
common you are out of point..... Having sex out of marriage or before marriage is abnormal too..... Deal with that.... We all have our lives to live

so because people cheat, we should also allow gay rights?? this your analogy is the stupidest thing I've seen since today. it's just like saying, since people steal at home, we should also endorse politicians who steal. Have you seen how stupid u sounded?

ozoebuka1:
you are delusional and your cerebral processing is very slow. so, you are tryna tell me that 2/3 of the world's population that has been kicking against lgbt has been doing so out of sheer wickedness? if thats your thought then, you must be a slowpoke. I don't see why a sane person will feel indifferent when he sees his male child acting gay. if gay people ain't abnormal people, tell me what abnormality is?

Why can't you answer the simple question?

Does homosexuality really hurt you?

Don't bring the herd mentality into the equation. There was a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt black Africans (like you) weren't human. That you are an ape. Did it make them correct?

There was also a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt okay with slavery. Did it make them correct.

Black Africans were called abnormal once? Did it make the proponents correct?

Are you abnormal?

This is the definition of abnormality:

an abnormal feature, characteristic, or occurrence, typically in a medical context.

Note the part in bold.

In a medical context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In a sociologist context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In all scientific contexts, homosexuals are not abnormal.

So you and most of the world's population are wrong. Which is why most of the world is correcting their wrongs by adopting a more homophilic stance as the years progress.

Gay/Asexual/Pansexual/Bisexual/and people with differing sexual orientation are not abnormal people. They only have a varied sexual orientation.

Like different colors. That's the reason for the RAINBOW being the pictorial representation of the LGBTQ+ society.

For the avoidance of doubt, this is the definition of variation:

a different or distinct form or version of something.

I don't expect you to have a radical shift in your ideology at a time. I don't even think I can force you to accept it. I'm pretty sure you do not have a close relationship with any homosexual person. So, I can understand how you feel. Humans are hard-wired to oppose anything that they aren't familiar with.

As a Christian you'd ask, why do muslims bow to pray? It doesn't sound right.
As an African you'd ask, why do Western kids call older relations by their names and not their titles? Like "How are you doing, James" instead of "How are you doing Uncle." It doesn't sound right.
As an extrovert you'd ask, why do introverts always so quiet? It doesn't sound right.
As a calm person you'd ask, why do brutes always like fighting? It doesn't sound right.
As a quiet person you'd ask, why do loud people raise their voice? It doesn't sound right.

I could continue. We are humans because we understand variation when we see it. We grow to understand ourselves more and realize that previous misconceptions aren't eternal truths (like that Earth is the center of the Universe). And when we realize these previous misconceptions we adopt the newer enlightened explanation even if it takes time and some adjustment. But we eventually come around.

I have faith that most heterosexuals will come around. That they would see the diversity of sexual orientation as they see the diversity in the plant and animal kingdom, in personality, in temperament, between celestial bodies, between races, even in colors.

The strength of mankind is in diversity not conformity.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


I don't know about you but I didn't wear makeup and dress like a girl when I was a boy. The nephew is probably gay I'm thinking the uncle has a hand in this.

story for d gods.

@OP. Ur nephew na young faqqot be dat oo. Nothing can be done here.

He has been acting the way he does even before his parents till you came to stay with them for your job. So if he is obviously stereotype toward males like him, his parents should understand better. So i will advise you to try speak to his parents, maybe they haven't taken it serious. If they wouldn't listen then let him be. It's not his fault, judging from his age.

LordAdam16:


Why can't you answer the simple question?

Does homosexuality really hurt you?

Don't bring the herd mentality into the equation. There was a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt black Africans (like you) weren't human. That you are an ape. Did it make them correct?

There was also a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt okay with slavery. Did it make them correct.

Black Africans were called abnormal once? Did it make the proponents correct?

Are you abnormal?

This is the definition of abnormality:



Note the part in bold.

In a medical context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In a sociologist context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In all scientific contexts, homosexuals are not abnormal.

So you and most of the world's population are wrong. Which is why most of the world is correcting their wrongs by adopting a more homophilic stance as the years progress.

Gay/Asexual/Pansexual/Bisexual/and people with differing sexual orientation are not abnormal people. They only have a varied sexual orientation.

Like different colors. That's the reason for the RAINBOW being the pictorial representation of the LGBTQ+ society.

For the avoidance of doubt, this is the definition of variation:



I don't expect you to have a radical shift in your ideology at a time. I don't even think I can force you to accept it. I'm pretty sure you do not have a close relationship with any homosexual person. So, I can understand how you feel. Humans are hard-wired to oppose anything that they aren't familiar with.

As a Christian you'd ask, why do muslims bow to pray? It doesn't sound right.
As an African you'd ask, why do Western kids call older relations by their names and not their titles? Like "How are you doing, James" instead of "How are you doing Uncle." It doesn't sound right.
As an extrovert you'd ask, why do introverts always so quiet? It doesn't sound right.
As a calm person you'd ask, why do brutes always like fighting? It doesn't sound right.
As a quiet person you'd ask, why do loud people raise their voice? It doesn't sound right.

I could continue. We are humans because we understand variation when we see it. We grow to understand ourselves more and realize that previous misconceptions aren't eternal truths (like that Earth is the center of the Universe). And when we realize these previous misconceptions we adopt the newer enlightened explanation even if it takes time and some adjustment. But we eventually come around.

I have faith that most heterosexuals will come around. That they would see the diversity of sexual orientation as they see the diversity in the plant and animal kingdom, in personality, in temperament, between celestial bodies, between races, even in colors.

The strength of mankind is in diversity not conformity.

-Lord

Firstly, I will like to tell you that I don't hate gay people, but that doesn't mean that i will be happy to have one as a son or daughter. My problem with you gay right activists is you portray the act to be "all good" when it isn't. In today's world, people have been made to believe that it's imposable for a man not cheat on his wife.
..There are people with sickle cell anaemia, I don't hate them and I will never will, but that doesn't mean that I will ever pay media houses to promote people to marry those with the ailment when I'm pretty sure of the threat that will cause to the human race.


secondly, I can tell you that no one was born gay! homosexuality can traced to sexual abuses... people are deceived to believing they were born gay, but it's a pure lie. it's either you were abused into believing you were born gay or you you have "klinefelters syndrome" Which is a health condition resulting to having "xxy chromosome " instead of the normal "xy" for men or just one "x" instead of "xx" for female.

My point is this, no one was born gay, it's either they were abused into it or they have a health condition called klinefelter's syndrome Which made them believe there are gays.

Let me emphasize this again, I don't hate gay people, I only hate the act and the people that see it as normal when in reality it isn't. I won't quote you again tho'. stay with your belief and leave me with mine.

LordAdam16:


You do know there is no such thing as a heterosexual gene right?

And since you're so convinced about choices, please can you tell me when you chose to become an heterosexual?

I ain't gay, so don't even try to switch to expletives. Simply answer the questions.

-Lord

Brother,i would like to thank you for all your posts on this thread.If i could,i would "like" them over and over and over again

ozoebuka1:
Firstly, I will like to tell you that I don't hate gay people, but that doesn't mean that i will be happy to have one as a son or daughter. My problem with you gay right activist is that you portray the act to be "all good" when it isn't. In today's world, people have been made to believe that it's imposable for a man not cheat on his wife.

There are people with sickle cell anaemia, I don't hate them and I will never will, but that doesn't mean that I will ever pay media houses to promote people to marry those with the ailment when I'm pretty sure of the threat that will cause to the human race.


secondly, I can tell you that no one was born gay! homosexuality can traced to sexual abuses... people are deceived to believe that they were born gay but it's a pure lie. it's either you were abused into believing you were born gay or you you have "klinefelters syndrome" Which Which is a health condition resulting to having "xxy chromosome " instead of the normal "xy" for men or just one "x" instead of "xx" for female.

My point is this, no one was born gay, it's either they were abused into it or they have a health condition called klinefelter's syndrome Which made them believe there are gays.

Let me emphasize this again, I don't hate gay people, I only hate the act and the people that see it as normal when in reality it isn't. I won't quote you again tho'. You can go stay with your belief and leave me with mine.

Your belief is toxic to mankind, and I'm not even trying to be judgmental.

I've asked a single question if homosexuality hurts you, and you've simply refused to answer it.

Homosexuality is not an ailment. There is no scientific evidence that it is. So, please show me research that states homosexuality is an ailment. If you can't show data or proof that homosexuality is an ailment or an aberration, where are you pulling your conclusions from?

This is bigotry plain and simple. You are shown facts and you choose to bury your head in the sand. You are asked to support your positions with facts and you say you don't have to provide facts, that you should be allowed to transform unverified positions as facts. Note the arrogance and illogicality.

Time and again you compare apple to oranges. You compared homosexuality to stealing, and when that didn't hold. You've brought up homosexuality and sickle cell anaemia. Despite the obvious anaemia being a medical condition by the entire medical community, you've managed to equate it to homosexuality that isn't a medical condition by the entire medical community.

Why try so much to cherry pick which medical assertion to believe and which one not to believe, when facts are posted to support all assertions, especially when it affects more than 15% of the world's population.

About Klinefelter's syndrome, I'll share a quote from an expert Medical resource--"Some parents of boys with Klinefelter syndrome are concerned that their sons may grow up to be homosexual. This concern is unfounded, however, as there is no evidence that males with Klinefelter syndrome are any more inclined toward homosexuality than are other men."

So, where did you get your evidence from to be so authoritative to say, "I can tell you that no one was born gay!"

How many gays have you studied and interacted with to form your conclusion. Seriously?

The people that do the interactions and study gender orientation for a living say there's no evidence. You a pseudo, arm-chair psychoanalyst that doubles as a geneticist, that also triples as an endocrinologist, that also quadruples as a gender identity specialist, can say for certain that all homosexuals are "lied to and are either abused or are sufferers of Klinefelters syndrome."

Clap for yourself!

I'm surprised you didn't even find a way to say they may also be people with Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome. Maybe, AIS wasn't in the biology textbook you read or right-wing bigot website you read. You know how someone makes illogical arguments and try to use high-sounding words to appear intelligent, that's what you've been doing.

As I said, some people are condemned from birth to be irredeemable bigots, if you are one of such persons I don't have the time to massage your ego.

If you want to be part of the religious far right that don't accept homosexuality simply because it is not part of their religious beliefs, that is understandable. Religious beliefs by nature are illogical hogwash. And religious rights are protected as long as it does not erode fundamental human rights. But you can't say there is evidence that "no one is born gay" when there is none. Don't flirt with science when you don't intend to go the whole way. Stick with your ancient religious belief. Saves everyone the stress.

And let me make it absolutely clear. Being a homophobe and heterosexist hurts homosexuals and other non heterosexuals, when you vocalize your disgust and many times act on it. In exactly the same way that racists hurt members of other races when they vocalize their disgust and many times act on it. Yet, homosexuality doesn't hurt you. We can see who is the martyr here and who is the persecutor.

If you want to hate people (you cannot like homosexuals as human beings and HATE homosexuality, that's like someone saying a Caucasian doesn't like blacks but HATE black racism) because they are not like you. That's fine by me. Whatever rocks your boat. But don't make yourself the posterchild of how other heterosexuals should behave. Same way KKK members cannot be the posterchildren of how other Caucasians should behave.

Keep being a bigot. I have faith in humanity not in one anonymous individual seeking validation by invalidating others.

-Lord

mablie:
Brother,i would like to thank you for all your posts on this thread.If i could,i would "like" them over and over and over again

It's my pleasure mate. Somebody once did this for the black race. I'm eternally grateful to those people, irrespective of race, gender, or religion.

Someone (yet unborn) one day will be eternally grateful (just as many are today) for the people who stood against discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity.

Let's do our little (nothing is too small) to make the world a better place.

-Lord

ozoebuka1:
so because people cheat, we should also allow gay rights?? this your analogy is the stupidest thing I've seen since today. it's just like saying, since people steal at home, we should also endorse politicians who steal. Have you seen how stupid u sounded?

your are still out of point..... Gay rights is inevitable... All you can do is cry foul while they care less....... I really dont know when someone's sexuality becomes another person's burden to the extent of been cruel...... We all should mind our business... No matter the epistle of words, some people will never understand this LGBT issues::::::: your stealing analogy is out of the box

electricpole:
your are still out of point..... Gay rights is inevitable... All you can do is cry foul while they care less....... I really dont know when someone's sexuality becomes another person's burden to the extent of been cruel...... We all should mind our business... No matter the epistle of words, some people will never understand this LGBT issues::::::: your stealing analogy is out of the box

people like you will also support paedophilia and incest and still come online to give me stupid reasons why I shouldn't comment on the issue. after all it's their sexual orientation... nonsense.

ozoebuka1:
people like you will also support paedophilia and incest and still come online to give me stupid reasons why I shouldn't comment on the issue. after all it's their sexual orientation... nonsense.

Pedophilia and incest are not sexual orientations.

And I'd break it down so that you can understand very clearly. A homosexual has sex with a boy child--Pedophilia. An heterosexual has sex with a girl child--Pedophilia. Pedophilia is wrong whether it is done by an heterosexual or an homosexual. Simply because it hurts the kid as the kid did not give consent.

Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.

-Lord

LordAdam16:


Pedophilia and incest are not sexual orientations.

And I'd break it down so that you can understand very clearly. A homosexual has sex with a boy child--Pedophilia. An heterosexual has sex with a girl child--Pedophilia. Pedophilia is wrong whether it is done by an heterosexual or an homosexual. Simply because it hurts the kid as the kid did not give consent.

Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.

-Lord

I told you not to quote me again. I've told you before about your bad attitude Which is your inability to open your mind to learning new things. Stop showing your stupidity everywhere with your long epistle. "Paedophilia is a “sexual orientation” like being straight or gay, according to a criminal psychologist." source: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/paedophilia-sexual-orientation-straight-gay-criminal-psychologist-child-sex-abuse-a6965956.html . I know that you don't like learning new things but I will try to change you, "use of terms are not always finite" always remember that. You are not just dull but also a fool who likes wallowing in ignorance.

ozoebuka1:
I told you not to quote me again. I've told you before about your bad attitude Which is your inability to open your mind to learning new things. Stop showing your stupidity everywhere with your long epistle. "Paedophilia is a “sexual orientation” like being straight or gay, according to a criminal psychologist." source: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/paedophilia-sexual-orientation-straight-gay-criminal-psychologist-child-sex-abuse-a6965956.html . I know that you don't like learning new things but I will try to change you, "use of terms are not always finite" always remember that. You are not just dull but also a fool who likes wallowing in ignorance.

You said you wouldn't quote me remember, not that I shouldn't quote you. You can read your reply if in doubt.

Now, one psychologist theorizes that pedophilia is a sexual orientation, and you make a scholarly evidence.

For starters, check what the APA (leading authority on psychology) defines pedophilia as and compare it to the definition of any of the currently accepted sexual orientations. In fact don't go that far: Just use Google...

Definition of homosexuality:

sexual attraction to people of one's own sex.

Definition of pedophilia:

sexual feelings directed toward children.

Note the syntax and use your brain.

Relying on the controversial definition of a lone psychologist just shows you are good at cherry-picking. Like picking the opinions of self-acclaimed christian scientists on evolution over what mainstream scientists think about evolution.

Maybe you are also one of the nutjobs who like the North Carolina GOP lawmaker thinks incest too is a sexual orientation.

I like learning new things. Just not from uninformed people who can't do a Google search to save their lives. I like to hear from Expert bodies and even ponder on unpopular theories from loner experts.

You have been unable to answer the question if homosexuality hurts you. Yet you want to preach about accepting that sexual orientation is "not always finite." Seriously, a bigot heterosexist like you preaching to me that sexual orientation is not always finite. I know that and appreciate it. You don't even understand what it means. Imagine the irony.

Pedophilia hurts kids. Incest ruins the gene pool and predisposes offsprings from such relationship to undue genetic complications. Bestiality abuses animals.

Tell me how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. Don't switch to expletives.

Calling me "dull," "fool," "wallowing in arrogance" is an old trick to dodge the conversation. It says more about you than myself. I told you to use Google if you are unsure of what to write. I understand how a bigot will think that to be an insult. After all, your posts have shown that you type faster than you think or that you type authoritatively about concepts you do not have a basic understanding about.

I haven't replied you with an insult since we started conversing. So, if you feel that's the tangent you want to go, know I wouldn't play in the dirt with you.

-Lord

FunkyMetahuman:
Because he is acting like a gay doesn't make him gay.
Like his father said, he is just a kid.

we all do feminine stuff when we were his age, especially those who grew up with older sisters like us.

Give the boy a break.


About the petting, I suugest you get the boy a pet. A dog preferably.

oga I didn't do feminine stuff oh... read the story well, THE KID IS DAMN GAY, all this ur explanation na wash

LordAdam16:


You said you wouldn't quote me remember, not that I shouldn't quote you. You can read your reply if in doubt.

Now, one psychologist theorizes that pedophilia is a sexual orientation, and you make a scholarly evidence.

For starters, check what the APA (leading authority on psychology) defines pedophilia as and compare it to the definition of any of the currently accepted sexual orientations. In fact don't go that far: Just use Google...

Definition of homosexuality:



Definition of pedophilia:



Note the syntax and use your brain.

Relying on the controversial definition of a lone psychologist just shows you are good at cherry-picking. Like picking the opinions of self-acclaimed christian scientists on evolution over what mainstream scientists think about evolution.

Maybe you are also one of the nutjobs who like the North Carolina GOP lawmaker thinks incest too is a sexual orientation.

I like learning new things. Just not from uninformed people who can't do a Google search to save their lives. I like to hear from Expert bodies and even ponder on unpopular theories from loner experts.

You have been unable to answer the question if homosexuality hurts you. Yet you want to preach about accepting that sexual orientation is "not always finite." Seriously, a bigot heterosexist like you preaching to me that sexual orientation is not always finite. I know that and appreciate it. You don't even understand what it means. Imagine the irony.

Pedophilia hurts kids. Incest ruins the gene pool and predisposes offsprings from such relationship to undue genetic complications. Bestiality abuses animals.

Tell me how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. Don't switch to expletives.

Calling me "dull," "fool," "wallowing in arrogance" is an old trick to dodge the conversation. It says more about you than myself. I told you to use Google if you are unsure of what to write. I understand how a bigot will think that to be an insult. After all, your posts have shown that you type faster than you think or that you type authoritatively about concepts you do not have a basic understanding about.

I haven't replied you with an insult since we started conversing. So, if you feel that's the tangent you want to go, know I wouldn't play in the dirt with you.

-Lord

firstly, You are the type that sees other people's opinion superior to yours. That is the only logical conclusion I have drawn from your rants about checking Google.

secondly, if you truly know the meaning of orientation, you would've been so ashamed of yourself to have said "paedophilia has nothing to do with orientation"

thirdly, I've also found out that you are the type that lies without shame...you said you never insulted me but this particular statement was boldly written in your last post and I quote "Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.
-Lord " what if I tell you that you sound incorrigible, Hope that wouldn't sound offensive?

Let the boy be! . He is just 11 .

uzoclinton:
some people are born kleptomanic... How can you say that... the habit of stealing is something you pick up... that's why its called a habit, no one is born with it.

Kleptomania is different from ordinary theft, kleptomaniacs have an irresistible urge to steal things they usually don't need. There's a belief that people are born with it but I'm not totally sure.

LordAdam16:


I meant to ask, what are the ways he could increase his cousin's testosterone levels?

I'm waiting to hear the child abuse examples you are so eager to share.

-Lord

Getting on the floor and doing ten pushups a day is not child abuse.

JacksonD7:


More testosterone = more masculinity

That's basic man science, even butch lesbian are known to have abnormally high testosterone levels.

i am anti gay.
But @ bolded is complete rubbish.
Gay men dont lack testosterone. Haven't u seen a gay man with a muscular structure even bigger than u? Just say u don't kno. Dont bring up rubbish hypothesis.

LordAdam16:


Your story sounds like BS! But let's assume it's true.

Most heterosexuals I know including myself puke at gay (especially male gay) porn. Why do you think many heterosexuals hate homosexualism so much. Many can't even imagine it much less veer into a porn site to view them. It's like Ewww!

Even the sight of two guys kissing can seem offensive to near-complete heterosexuals.

If you like we can do a poll on this site. Most of these vaseline crew that masturbate all day do not veer into the gay section of XNXX, XVIDEOS, PORNHUB or any other niche porn site you can think of.

So, you aren't an heterosexual. You are probably a bisexual or pansexual who identifies as a heterosexual. You want people to see you as an heterosexual because you are very much aware that our society is heavily homophobic. That's not who you are, that's what you want people to see.

Porn did not Bleep up your brain that you started enjoying gay and transgendered porn. You were exploring your sexual desires like most young males do and found something that ticked your box--gay and transgendered porn.

Don't believe me? There are over 100 porn niches. Bestiality, pissing, defecating, bondage, foot fetish, just to mention a few. If you say you were so engrossed in porn at some point, then I can with absolute certainty that you encountered some or all of these niche fetishes. What was your experience? Why didn't your twisted brain (since you want to blame it on your twisted brain) also like to see animals do humans (or vice versa) or get aroused at people pissing on each other (or spy photos of people pissing) or get aroused at people playing with faeces?

You see where I am going. For a bisexual who is both interested in straight, gay, and transgendered porn; of course you can decide (although difficult) to forgo one or all of them because you are pressured by your immediate homophobic environment and religion to conform to heterosexuality. That doesn't make you who you are, that's what society made you.

You are a bisexual or pansexual good for you. But the kid in the OP didn't start watching straight porn then veered to gay porn and felt satisfied with gay porn then started acting gay. The kid doesn't even know what straight and gay is all about. We are the ones placing the label on him.

He is a normal kid. He isn't abnormal, nothing out of the ordinary (I mean in social, academic, or developmental context). His only crime is that he has homosexual behavior. I'm pretty certain he is already been bullied at school, if not (maybe because he attends private school), then more of it is coming as he grows older. He'd be made to feel depressed, unwanted, and ashamed of something he didn't get to choose while being perfectly normal in all sense of the word.

Everyone must not be like you. I identify as an heterosexual. I am an heterosexual. And I sure as hell am nothing like you. That you believe you are sort of the perfect, ideal human being in whose image all 7 billion other human beings evolved (or created, depending on which school of thought you belong to) is the most arrogant, myopic, intolerant thing I've heard anyone say in my lifetime.

I'm pretty sure you do not know that 1%-2% of humans are asexuals. People who are not sexually attracted to other people (be them same-sex or opposite sex). Most of which puke at the very thought of having sex. I don't mean the religious monks who forego sex for religious reasons. I mean people without societal or religious obligations who in an overly sexual world see the rest of us are rabid sexually-bemused animals.

If I ask you about when they made the choice, I'm pretty sure you will cook up another story of how you've been celibate for X years and so it's all a choice.

Well I'm sorry to break it to you. For most of us, it is not a choice. I did not choose to start noticing the bums of ladies and ignore the bums of guys at some point in my life. I've always been that way. I didn't even ever grow to the point where I started noticing at the bum of guys, then one day decided I didn't want to any longer. Only bisexuals are able to do that, not heterosexuals. And yes, bisexuals can choose to identify as heterosexuals or homosexuals, which fits you perfectly. They can choose to slap whatever identity they like on themselves, it only makes them bisexual not heterosexuals who only have one identity--heterosexuality or homosexuals who only have one identity--homosexuality.

Again, everyone is not like you. We are all different.

-Lord

First of all, the story I put up there is a true story of my life, you were never a porn addict so you have no idea what it feels like to have your brain messed up by porn.

Second I am not bisexual, some belief that our sexual tastes in porn reveal our inner selves but this is totally untrue. The fact is porn conditions us and makes us acquire tastes that sometimes go against our default orientation.

Why did I start looking at gay toons and shemales?, it was simply because I had watched so much regular porn that I had a dopamine crash. In order to get high again I had to look for more novel porn, and stumbling on gay and transgendered porn gave me the new high.

When an addict finds a product that gives him a high he usually sticks with it and if you keep on that line neuroplasticity sets in and you get sexually conditioned to whatever genre you were high on.

The articles below will offer more insight

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

electricpole:
I see nothing bad in been gay..... Gay rocks.... Leave the little kid alone! Brother visiting his uncle, mind your biz.....one's Sexuality shouldn't be another person's problem or issue

gay rocks, if your definition of rocks is spending 14 years in jail and gettin ur anus regularly bastardized.

ozoebuka1:
firstly, You are the type that sees other people's opinion superior to yours. That is the only logical conclusion I have drawn from your rants about checking Google.

secondly, if you truly know the meaning of orientation, you would've been so ashamed of yourself to have said "paedophilia has nothing to do with orientation"

thirdly, I've also found out that you are the type that lies without shame...you said you never insulted me but this particular statement was boldly written in your last post and I quote "Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.
-Lord " what if I tell you that you sound incorrigible, Hope that wouldn't sound offensive?

Firstly, I'm the kind of person that has an open mind and would relate to an opinion that is more factual and therefore correct. Then adopt it. If you don't have an open mind, then you are a bigot.

The basic premise of being humans is that our opinions change in the face of superior argument. I'm not larger than life or infallible. If you think you are, well that's a shame, because you aren't. And you can see the contradiction in one sentence you made. If I simply "see other people's opinion [as] superior to" mine, then I would have automatically taken your bigoted opinion as superior to mine.

I've given you more than 4 tries to state how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. You haven't been able to do so, and you expect me to accept your opinion as fact.

Even though you are headstrong, it doesn't mean you haven't changed your opinion about something before in the face of superior argument. I am of the opinion that you have.

Let's say I ask you in which country is Hafnarfjordur located. A. Sweden B. Ghana C. Iceland D. Norway. Initially, you may have your opinion about one of the countries. But when you check Google, or an Atlas or Encyclopedia, a superior opinion with the authority changes your prior opinion.

Secondly, according to the APA, pedophilia is not a sexual orientation. So, if you are taking your understanding from lone psychologists without peer-review acceptability, then maybe you should also believe American psychologist Arthur Jenson who said black Americans had lower genetic intelligence than whites and Asians. You see how ignorant and unintelligent you appear.

Thirdly, if I wanted to insult you, I wouldn't add "No offense intended." It's like when I call you a bigot. You may class it as an insult, but it isn't. It's what you are.

Definition of bigot

a person who is intolerant toward those holding different opinions.

You have low linguistic intelligence because you can't even do a quick Google search to understand the meaning and correlation of words you use. And yes, I don't intend to offend you, but you aren't a kid so yeah don't cry or throw tantrums (like calling me a fo.ol).

You've called me delusional. Did I think that's an insult? No. I think you are delusional. You think I am delusional. It's like a mad man thinking other people are mad while he is normal. It's only objectivity that'd point out who is really mad.

If someone said I have low artistic intelligence (meaning I can't draw), I wouldn't feel offended. I can't draw to save a life. It's not a skill that I have. And I wouldn't be arrogant or authoritative to start telling artists or even people with average drawing ability of what brush type is best for touching or what pencil type is best for counter shading (this is exactly what you are doing when you compare kleptomania to homosexuality and call pedophilia a sexual orientation).

If I sound incorrigible to you, with all your half-baked, flip-flop comments; then I don't even consider it an insult. I consider it a compliment. It's like a primary school kid telling an astronaut that he sounds incorrigible. That'd make for a good laugh and a compliment too. Of course, the astronaut will sound incorrigible to the kid.

You can't even recollect what you typed (maybe you didn't even understand the sentence you wrote). You said you wouldn't quote me. Then you turned around to say you said I shouldn't quote you. Now you've quoted me two times after I even pointed out your own statement to you.

Are you okay? And no, I don't mean that as an insult.

Maybe you should take your own advice that you just want to be with your beliefs (whether it is fair or correct). That's way better than running from pillar to post here, unable to answer a simple question, contradicting yourself shamelessly, and openly displaying that you are no different from a racist.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


Getting on the floor and doing ten pushups a day is not child abuse.

And doing ten pushups a day will boost testosterone levels enough to make a gay kid not gay.

Wow! You are very intelligent!

Please cite instances when this has helped? I'm dying to know.

-Lord

electricpole:
JacksonD7 , common, u aint straight..... A heterosexual watching gay porn? Common you have a fantasy of the gay world.... You are bisexual.

I am not bisexual, I never had fantasies of the gay world. I stumbled upon it when I was low on dopamine and it gave me a high. A worsening addiction and sexual conditioning set in and for a time I couldn't tick for anything besides transgendered porn.

I got on a recovery program and close to 90 days down the line nothing turns me on more than light skinned ladies with curves in the right places.

Was I having gay thoughts before I started watching porn? No, do I have gay thoughts now I've recovered? still No. Contrary to popular belief sexuality is not set in stone, it plastic and its very possible for a gay to turn straight and vice versa. Read the articles below for clarification on sexual conditioning and the effects of porn addiction on the brain.

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

beardlessdude:
story for d gods.

@OP. Ur nephew na young faqqot be dat oo. Nothing can be done here.

So I order words you wore makeup when you were a kid.