JacksonD7:


So I order words you wore makeup when you were a kid.

we all did brother. No need denying.

Its an anonymous forum

beardlessdude:
we all did brother. No need denying.

Its an anonymous forum

If you did that then that's your problem, I never did so don't rope me into your category.

JacksonD7:


If you did that then that's your problem, I never did so don't rope me into your category.

says d dude who posted this shiit

Your own sef worst. Jacking off to gay porn. Pheew

beardlessdude:
i am anti gay.
But @ bolded is complete rubbish.
Gay men dont lack testosterone. Haven't u seen a gay man with a muscular structure even bigger than u? Just say u don't kno. Dont bring up rubbish hypothesis.

I know gay men don't lack testosterone and I never said he should raise his levels to stop being gay. I said he should do that to curb the femnity, an increase in testosterone is known to turn wimps into men.

LordAdam16:


And doing ten pushups a day will boost testosterone levels enough to make a gay kid not gay.

Wow! You are very intelligent!

Please cite instances when this has helped? I'm dying to know.

-Lord

Read my post before you quote me, I said he should raise testosterone levels to tackle the feminity, I didn't say it would stop him from being gay.

beardlessdude:
says d dude who posted this shiit

Your own sef worst. Jacking off to gay porn. Pheew

Yes, its absolutely disgusting and I regret those years wasted jacking off to nude pixels on a screen, I would gladly go back in time to kick myself in the face before I messed up my life.

I have my regrets but I've moved on, use it to judge me if you like but I don't care because you have no idea what I went through.

JacksonD7:



Read my post before you quote me, I said he should raise testosterone levels to tackle the feminity, I didn't say it would stop him from being gay.

so he should give an 11 yr old kid testosterone?

JacksonD7:


Yes, its absolutely disgusting and I regret those years wasted jacking off to nude pixels on a screen, I would gladly go back in time to kick myself in the face before I messed up my life.

I have my regrets but I've moved on, use it to judge me if you like but I don't care because you have no idea what I went through.

am not judging u bro. Everyone makes mistakes. As long as you've left d act.

Don't take it d wrong way.

LordAdam16:


Firstly, I'm the kind of person that has an open mind and would relate to an opinion that is more factual and therefore correct. Then adopt it. If you don't have an open mind, then you are a bigot.

The basic premise of being humans is that our opinions change in the face of superior argument. I'm not larger than life or infallible. If you think you are, well that's a shame, because you aren't. And you can see the contradiction in one sentence you made. If I simply "see other people's opinion [as] superior to" mine, then I would have automatically taken your bigoted opinion as superior to mine.

I've given you more than 4 tries to state how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. You haven't been able to do so, and you expect me to accept your opinion as fact.

Even though you are headstrong, it doesn't mean you haven't changed your opinion about something before in the face of superior argument. I am of the opinion that you have.

Let's say I ask you in which country is Hafnarfjordur located. A. Sweden B. Ghana C. Iceland D. Norway. Initially, you may have your opinion about one of the countries. But when you check Google, or an Atlas or Encyclopedia, a superior opinion with the authority changes your prior opinion.

Secondly, according to the APA, pedophilia is not a sexual orientation. So, if you are taking your understanding from lone psychologists without peer-review acceptability, then maybe you should also believe American psychologist Arthur Jenson who said black Americans had lower genetic intelligence than whites and Asians. You see how ignorant and unintelligent you appear.

Thirdly, if I wanted to insult you, I wouldn't add "No offense intended." It's like when I call you a bigot. You may class it as an insult, but it isn't. It's what you are.

Definition of bigot



You have low linguistic intelligence because you can't even do a quick Google search to understand the meaning and correlation of words you use. And yes, I don't intend to offend you, but you aren't a kid so yeah don't cry or throw tantrums (like calling me a fo.ol).

You've called me delusional. Did I think that's an insult? No. I think you are delusional. You think I am delusional. It's like a mad man thinking other people are mad while he is normal. It's only objectivity that'd point out who is really mad.

If someone said I have low artistic intelligence (meaning I can't draw), I wouldn't feel offended. I can't draw to save a life. It's not a skill that I have. And I wouldn't be arrogant or authoritative to start telling artists or even people with average drawing ability of what brush type is best for touching or what pencil type is best for counter shading (this is exactly what you are doing when you compare kleptomania to homosexuality and call pedophilia a sexual orientation).

If I sound incorrigible to you, with all your half-baked, flip-flop comments; then I don't even consider it an insult. I consider it a compliment. It's like a primary school kid telling an astronaut that he sounds incorrigible. That'd make for a good laugh and a compliment too. Of course, the astronaut will sound incorrigible to the kid.

You can't even recollect what you typed (maybe you didn't even understand the sentence you wrote). You said you wouldn't quote me. Then you turned around to say you said I shouldn't quote you. Now you've quoted me two times after I even pointed out your own statement to you.

Are you okay? And no, I don't mean that as an insult.

Maybe you should take your own advice that you just want to be with your beliefs (whether it is fair or correct). That's way better than running from pillar to post here, unable to answer a simple question, contradicting yourself shamelessly, and openly displaying that you are no different from a racist.

-Lord

1.you are full of yourself that prompted me to calling you incorrigible.

2. precision and concision is lacking in your texts.

3. I said I wouldn't quote you again and I didn't until you hijacked my discussion with "electricpole" with your frivolous assumption that paedophilia isn't a sexual orientation, which you stylishly did to make me sound less intelligent...

4. I had to quote so that gullible minds wouldn't take your fallacious statement as true.

5. According to you, any term apa doesn't define verbatim should be disregarded "even though words have both deductive and connotative meanings" Which to me sounds very hilarious.

lastly, I will still say; homosexuality just as paedophilia are both sexual orientations that need to be tackled constructively. to that effect o think the site bellow can help u.

NB: https://medium.com/pedophiles-about-pedophilia/pedophilia-as-a-sexual-orientation-d414e0780f6d#.rmd5qfwk0 Check it out, I pray it broadens your mind on why you should stop advocating for homosexuality if you are not one of them.

PS: That you didn't intent to insult me in your former post doesn't mean I shouldn't feel insulted, thus my backlash.

JacksonD7:


First of all, the story I put up there is a true story of my life, you were never a porn addict so you have no idea what it feels like to have your brain messed up by porn.

Second I am not bisexual, some belief that our sexual tastes in porn reveal our inner selves but this is totally untrue. The fact is porn conditions us and makes us acquire tastes that sometimes go against our default orientation.

Why did I start looking at gay toons and shemales?, it was simply because I had watched so much regular porn that I had a dopamine crash. In order to get high again I had to look for more novel porn, and stumbling on gay and transgendered porn gave me the new high.

When an addict finds a product that gives him a high he usually sticks with it and if you keep on that line neuroplasticity sets in and you get sexually conditioned to whatever genre you were high on.

The articles below will offer more insight

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

Okay so why did bestiality, pissing, defecating, foot fetish, masochism, sadism porn genres not give you new high? Why is it only gay and transgendered porn that gave you a new high?

You're a bisexual or pansexual (most likely pansexual) that identifies as a heterosexual. You may think otherwise, and I can't force you to adopt that label. But what all this shows is that you have ZERO pedigree to give other people labels when yours is in dispute.

A corrupt judge shouldn't be judging a case on corruption.

Now let me prove to you that your explanation is hogwash. If neuroplasticity sets in for one type of heterosexuality, say big black a**, as an heterosexual you move to another form of heterosexuality, say petite, big boobs, young girl (18+) and mature man, mature woman and young boy (18+)... There's a lot to choose from.

But no, you veered completely to a different sexual orientation and have self-diagnosed yourself that it resulted from neuroplasticity. Dude I'm sorry to break it to you, that isn't the case.

Someone with neuroplasticity for a lower grade of heroin will get a new high from higher dose or a higher grade. At worse, which is not common, he'd switch to cocaine. Not Henessey or binge drinking.

Most of what is on sites like yourbrainonporn and yourbrainrebalanced is hogwash. It's classic anti-porn fear mongering by conspiritologists who think mainstream science is too slow for their high pseudo-intelligent brains. None of the owners of those sites are recognized authorities in Psychology. Yet you take your health advice from them. Really, and you expect us to take those rabble-rousers word for it.

It's like agreeing with the moon landing conspiritologists that there is a dark side of the moon, when that is technically incorrect.

Here is what I picked from one of the links you posted

This phenomenon of morphing sexual tastes in Internet porn users does not appear to have been researched at all, so the "bulk of scientific research" is badly skewed at present.

No research yet he is so authoritative about morphing sexual tastes. Where then does he base his half-a**ed conclusions from?

And you listen to him. Seriously, mate you are very very confused.

Companies were producing asbestos, when asbestos was found by mainstream science to be carcinogenic, those companies went under. The tobacco industry despite its size has had negative conclusive research stamped against it. In fact check any cigarette pack, you'll see a disclaimer. The tobacco industry in its peak is and even now is bigger than the porn industry. So, if mainstream science agrees with these pseudo-experts, there's nothing holding them back.

Read from real experts -- https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive

You are bisexual or pansexual. Listening to unverified charlatans profiting from your confusion (I wonder whether you bought their $4.99 "expert" "research-backed" book) doesn't change your orientation.

-Lord

@op lol he's just a kid. . .let him grow. . .and even if he is gay, it really shouldn't bother you. Normally that shouldn't be an issue but since we live in a country of 'conservative hypocrites' let the issue be between him and his family. Like you said you have no problem with him being gay so let him grow up and if he's gay he'll come out of the closet in due time.

JacksonD7:



Read my post before you quote me, I said he should raise testosterone levels to tackle the feminity, I didn't say it would stop him from being gay.

And why should he tackle "feminity" by raising testosterone levels?

I'm simply extrapolating from your statement. Effeminate male homosexuals exhibit the "feminity" you refer to. So theoretically, if ten pushups can raise testosterone levels, then it can tackle feminity in these effeminate male homosexuals and make them behave more like typical butch males and thus move to the heterosexual side of the spectrum (since you said one's sexuality is a choice).

Except that your advice is laughably idio*ic. 10 pushups to increase testosterone levels. It's rooted in science, but it's laughable that pushups would make someone lose his or her effeminate characteristics. There are ladies who do the equivalent of that exercise (jug round the park) and their testosterone levels don't increase to the point where they have deep voice or no longer become emotional hotbeds of tears.

You can see the fallacy in your advice. I asked you to share any evidence to back your advice, and you can't answer that, rather you want to shift the discussion to semantics. Well, if you still have the evidence, you can still share, now that you know your lame attempt at changing the discussion is null and void.

-Lord

LordAdam16:

You're a bisexual that identifies as a heterosexual. You may think otherwise, and I can't force you to adopt that label.

Actually, pansexual. . .since he watches tranny porn as well. But nice analysis of his situation. Most people who think being gay is a choice because they were 'formerly gay' are actually bi or pansexual but won't admit it or don't even know.

ozoebuka1:
1.you are full of yourself that prompted me to calling you incorrigible.

2. precision and concision is lacking in your texts.

3. I said I wouldn't quote you again and I didn't until you hijacked my discussion with "electricpole" with your frivolous assumption that paedophilia isn't a sexual orientation, which you stylishly did to make me sound less intelligent...

4. I had to quote so that gullible minds wouldn't take your fallacious statement as true.

5. According to you, any term apa doesn't define verbatim should be disregarded "even though words have both deductive and connotative meanings" Which to me sounds very hilarious.

lastly, I will still say; homosexuality just as paedophilia are both sexual orientations that need to be tackled constructively. to that effect o think the site bellow can help u.

NB: https://medium.com/pedophiles-about-pedophilia/pedophilia-as-a-sexual-orientation-d414e0780f6d#.rmd5qfwk0 Check it out, I pray it broadens your mind on why you should stop advocating for homosexuality if you are not one of them.

PS: That you didn't intent to insult me in your former post doesn't mean I shouldn't feel insulted, thus my backlash.

I knew you would quote Ender, classic bait that you fell for.

This is the profile byline...

Non-offending, anti-contact pedophile. I am sexually attracted to kids, but know sex with kids is wrong, so I

He knows having sex with kids is wrong. But he is not an expert to self-diagnose himself that what he has is a sexual orientation. That is his opinion. Doesn't make what he says scientifically accepted by the APA. He is simply a pedophile who doesn't have to be arrested, yet, and rehabilitated (although, that's up to debate). Even kleptomaniacs think their behavior is normal. How much more a self-confessed pedophile.

Now to the APA definition, dude as I said, using high-sounding words does not make you intelligent. We listen to expert bodies and mainstream authorities to define industry-specific terms on the back of evidence-based research. That you don't understand this is not puzzling.

If there are no peer-reviewed scholarly bodies and authorities, then the entire bedrock of science falls apart and everybody becomes an expert with half-baked ideas like you are doing. I would not post another example, because what I say appears to be flying above your head rather than entering your brain.

About insults, I don't give a h**t about what you think. I've said it many times. If you did not read my post, that's your problem. If you don't want to use Google to check simple definitions, that's your problem. If you feel insulted after I make it pointedly clear that I don't mean to offend you, that's your problem. I will not pander to your ego.

Now, if you cannot state how homosexuality hurts you or anyone you know, but want to equate it to pedophilia that is (according to tens of thousands of psychologists around the world) not a sexual orientation, then I'll take all further comments from you as ramblings of a troll.

I'll reply you, but I'll simply point out that you're acting as a typical troll.

Definition of a troll:

One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup or message board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument

-Lord

AnonyNymous:

Actually, pansexual. . .since he watches tranny porn as well. But nice analysis of his situation. Most people who think being gay is a choice because they were 'formerly gay' are actually bi or pansexual but won't admit it or don't even know.

Yep, you are correct. It is highly probable that he is a pansexual. I'll edit my post accordingly.

I think the puzzling part is the arrogance and the fact that they become so authoritative that the experience they have must be the same for every other person.

He is lucky he isn't in Jamaica and wasn't caught during one of his homosexual porn episodes by one of the radical homophobes there. Them for don behead am.

-Lord

LordAdam16:


Okay so why did bestiality, pissing, defecating, foot fetish, masochism, sadism porn genres not give you new high? Why is it only gay and transgendered porn that gave you a new high?

You're a bisexual or pansexual (most likely pansexual) that identifies as a heterosexual. You may think otherwise, and I can't force you to adopt that label. But what all this shows is that you have ZERO pedigree to give other people labels when yours is in dispute.

A corrupt judge shouldn't be judging a case on corruption.

Now let me prove to you that your explanation is hogwash. If neuroplasticity sets in for one type of heterosexuality, say big black a**, as an heterosexual you move to another form of heterosexuality, say petite, big boobs, young girl (18+) and mature man, mature woman and young boy (18+)... There's a lot to choose from.

But no, you veered completely to a different sexual orientation and have self-diagnosed yourself that it resulted from neuroplasticity. Dude I'm sorry to break it to you, that isn't the case.

Someone with neuroplasticity for a lower grade of heroin will get a new high from higher dose or a higher grade. At worse, which is not common, he'd switch to cocaine. Not Henessey or binge drinking.

Most of what is on sites like yourbrainonporn and yourbrainrebalanced is hogwash. It's classic anti-porn fear mongering by conspiritologists who think mainstream science is too slow for their high pseudo-intelligent brains. None of the owners of those sites are recognized authorities in Psychology. Yet you take your health advice from them. Really, and you expect us to take those rabble-rousers word for it.

It's like agreeing with the moon landing conspiritologists that there is a dark side of the moon, when that is technically incorrect.

Here is what I picked from one of the links you posted



No research yet he is so authoritative about morphing sexual tastes. Where then does he base his half-a**ed conclusions from?

And you listen to him. Seriously, mate you are very very confused.

Companies were producing asbestos, when asbestos was found by mainstream science to be carcinogenic, those companies went under. The tobacco industry despite its size has had negative conclusive research stamped against it. In fact check any cigarette pack, you'll see a disclaimer. The tobacco industry in its peak is and even now is bigger than the porn industry. So, if mainstream science agrees with these pseudo-experts, there's nothing holding them back.

Read from real experts -- https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive

You are bisexual or pansexual. Listening to unverified charlatans profiting from your confusion (I wonder whether you bought their $4.99 "expert" "research-backed" book) doesn't change your orientation.

-Lord

I am not bisexual before porn I never fancied guys, after porn I still don't fancy guys. There was a time when I crashed and stumbled upon bestiality and got high on it, so don't make it look like I went looking for transgendered porn on a normal day cause I didn't.

You quoted the psychology today article and believe to be true, well as a recovering porn addict I can tell you that article is absolute hogwash. Apparently the psychologist didn't understand the definition of addiction.

Wikipidea defines addiction as a brain disorder characterized by compulsive engagement in rewarding stimuli, despite adverse consequences.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addiction

If porn is not addictive the why do porn addicts go through the cycles of addiction?, if porn is not addictive why do porn addicts self-service their life away even when they know its having negative effects on their life?.

Finally, if porn is not addictive then why do porn addicts experience withdrawal symptoms when they quit porn?. Read the Wikipedia article and the article from your brain on porn and tell me if you can't spot the addiction pattern in there.

beardlessdude:
am not judging u bro. Everyone makes mistakes. As long as you've left d act.

Don't take it d wrong way.

I understand no hard feelings.

LordAdam16:


And why should he tackle "feminity" by raising testosterone levels?

I'm simply extrapolating from your statement. Effeminate male homosexuals exhibit the "feminity" you refer to. So theoretically, if ten pushups can raise testosterone levels, then it can tackle feminity in these effeminate male homosexuals and make them behave more like typical butch males and thus move to the heterosexual side of the spectrum (since you said one's sexuality is a choice).

Except that your advice is laughably idio*ic. 10 pushups to increase testosterone levels. It's rooted in science, but it's laughable that pushups would make someone lose his or her effeminate characteristics. There are ladies who do the equivalent of that exercise (jug round the park) and their testosterone levels don't increase to the point where they have deep voice or no longer become emotional hotbeds of tears.

You can see the fallacy in your advice. I asked you to share any evidence to back your advice, and you can't answer that, rather you want to shift the discussion to semantics. Well, if you still have the evidence, you can still share, now that you know your lame attempt at changing the discussion is null and void.

-Lord

First of all ten pushups was not literal, it was a figurative term for exercise. Secondly, if an effeminate man had high testosterone levels he would not be effeminate, its simple science really.

Thirdly, I never said raising testosterone levels would stop someone being gay, I said it would tone down the effeminate character. Also, ladies can never have the same testosterone levels as men naturally so there's no way working out can make a woman develop a deep voice.

As for evidence I'll use my experience as an example, growing up I was a shy and I wasn't good with girls and anything social. Sometime in secondary school I did flexibility exercises for a month, went to school the next term and witnessed a transformation.

For the first time in my life I was bold enough to put my arm around a girl, I got vocal in class and my classmates noticed I had changed. I also got a voice so deep teachers would come from other classes and tell me to bring it down. I developed some anger issues and threw some aggression around.

Unfortunately I didn't maintain the work out plan and I eventually lost it as time went on.

JacksonD7:


I am not bisexual before porn I never fancied guys, after porn I still don't fancy guys. There was a time when I crashed and stumbled upon bestiality and got high on it, so don't make it look like I went looking for transgendered porn on a normal day cause I didn't.

You quoted the psychology today article and believe to be true, well as a recovering porn addict I can tell you that article is absolute hogwash. Apparently the psychologist didn't understand the definition of addiction.

Wikipidea defines addiction as a brain disorder characterized by compulsive engagement in rewarding stimuli, despite adverse consequences.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addiction

If porn is not addictive the why do porn addicts go through the cycles of addiction?, if porn is not addictive why do porn addicts self-service their life away even when they know its having negative effects on their life?.

Finally, if porn is not addictive then why do porn addicts experience withdrawal symptoms when they quit porn?. Read the Wikipedia article and the article from your brain on porn and tell me if you can't spot the addiction pattern in there.

Dude, as I said, I cannot force you to accept a label. I don't even expect you to tell me the whole truth (after all, you are just saying that you crashed and stumped on bestiality, you didn't mention that before). Your experience is anecdotal with multiple holes in the narration.

The fact is that your experience does not mirror the exact experiences of every other heterosexual.

As for the porn and addiction; there is a reason why experts are so careful to associate certain things with addiction. I'm not a psychologist. But I'm not going to take the opinion of a snake oil salesman over that of distinguished learned members of a profession.

As far as I know, addicts don't typically seek help (the vast majority of them don't), they're serial liars about their addiction and often have to be coerced by others to do what's right for them. But most of so-called "porn addicts" often have the mental capacity to notice they're spending too much time on something that isn't particularly productive. Some joke about it, some even stay up late in night exploring how to ween themselves off their habit. Heroin addicts and hood rats don't go around looking for rehab centers to check into.

And that's the keyword. When does something switch from being a habit to being an addiction (habit is part of addiction, but it isn't necessarily addiction). Psychologists are still contemplating whether food addiction is a thing. It's not set in stone yet, but there's still on-going research (some of which are giving preliminary positive results). And that's why they are the experts and we listen to them. When the body of research overwhelmingly supports the notion of food addiction (or eating addiction), it wouldn't be a charlatan that'd sound the bell. If preliminary porn research isn't giving any positive results that porn is an addiction (rather than a self-indulging habit), then why are you so transfixed on making your opinion a fact without evidence.

That is the issue. If there's unsurmountable evidence, we wouldn't just be hearing about it on yourbrainonporn. It'd be on psychologytoday, webmd, mayoclinic and elsewhere. PubMed will be overflowing with articles because every researcher would want to cash in on taking a swipe at a multi-billion dollar industry.

What you had was an habit. Don't veer towards addiction to try to explain away your diverse sexual orientation. Even if it was an addiction, there is still ZERO evidence that addiction can change one's sexual orientation. Stop being gullible.

See, I wouldn't spend valuable time trying to make you see something you don't want to see. Whether you are pansexual or not, you are lucky to have an heterosexual part (amongst other parts), and that means you can be accepted into our heavily homophobic society. Some people do not have that luxury to change their colors depending on the environment like a chameleon.

That you can does not mean that others can. If you will continue insisting that others can, then I don't think I want to continue this back and forth with you.

It is stale now.

90% of people on this thread say they don't have that luxury. Only you maintain that everybody including us (that clearly say we don't) have that luxury. Can you see how arrogant and silly you sound?

-Lord

JacksonD7:


First of all ten pushups was not literal, it was a figurative term for exercise. [s]Secondly, if an effeminate man had high testosterone levels he would not be effeminate, its simple science really.[/s]

Thirdly, I never said raising testosterone levels would stop someone being gay, I said it would tone down the effeminate character. Also, ladies can never have the same testosterone levels as men naturally so there's no way working out can make a woman develop a deep voice.

As for evidence I'll use my experience as an example, growing up I was a shy and I wasn't good with girls and anything social. Sometime in secondary school I did flexibility exercises for a month, went to school the next term and witnessed a transformation.

For the first time in my life I was bold enough to put my arm around a girl, I got vocal in class and my classmates noticed I had changed. I also got a voice so deep teachers would come from other classes and tell me to bring it down. I developed some anger issues and threw some aggression around.

Unfortunately I didn't maintain the work out plan and I eventually lost it as time went on.

It's not simple science.

Here's a simple fact you should know... "Men today have around 60% LESS T level than 60 years ago." Now are you trying to tell me that you and I are more effeminate than men who existed 60 years ago?

Effeminate characteristics are not exclusively linked to testosterone levels. If you will, it is just one piece of the equation. Sometimes, it may not even be a piece of the equation. There are many butch men who suffer from Low-T.

I'm asking you to provide evidence, and you want to share another tale by moonlight story. Do you think this thread is a beer parlor?

Now you are relating flexibility exercises to deep voice. So if you hadn't done those flexibility exercises, you wouldn't have developed a deep voice? And you lost your deep voice because you stopped doing flexibility exercise. Guy them need to check you.

Dude, do you know what puberty is?

Seriously, e dey do me mk I use cane pursue you.

-Lord

LordAdam16:


Dude, as I said, I cannot force you to accept a label. I don't even expect you to tell me the whole truth (after all, you are just saying that you crashed and stumped on bestiality, you didn't mention that before). Your experience is anecdotal with multiple holes in the narration.

The fact is that your experience does not mirror the exact experiences of every other heterosexual.

As for the porn and addiction; there is a reason why experts are so careful to associate certain things with addiction. I'm not a psychologist. But I'm not going to take the opinion of a snake oil salesman over that of distinguished learned members of a profession.

As far as I know, addicts don't typically seek help (the vast majority of them don't), they're serial liars about their addiction and often have to be coerced by others to do what's right for them. But most of so-called "porn addicts" often have the mental capacity to notice they're spending too much time on something that isn't particularly productive. Some joke about it, some even stay up late in night exploring how to ween themselves off their habit. Heroin addicts and hood rats don't go around looking for rehab centers to check into.

And that's the keyword. When does something switch from being a habit to being an addiction (habit is part of addiction, but it isn't necessarily addiction). Psychologists are still contemplating whether food addiction is a thing. It's not set in stone yet, but there's still on-going research (some of which are giving preliminary positive results). And that's why they are the experts and we listen to them. When the body of research overwhelmingly supports the notion of food addiction (or eating addiction), it wouldn't be a charlatan that'd sound the bell. If preliminary porn research isn't giving any positive results that porn is an addiction (rather than a self-indulging habit), then why are you so transfixed on making your opinion a fact without evidence.

That is the issue. If there's unsurmountable evidence, we wouldn't just be hearing about it on yourbrainonporn. It'd be on psychologytoday, webmd, mayoclinic and elsewhere. PubMed will be overflowing with articles because every researcher would want to cash in on taking a swipe at a multi-billion dollar industry.

What you had was an habit. Don't veer towards addiction to try to explain away your diverse sexual orientation. Even if it was an addiction, there is still ZERO evidence that addiction can change one's sexual orientation. Stop being gullible.

See, I wouldn't spend valuable time trying to make you see something you don't want to see. Whether you are pansexual or not, you are lucky to have an heterosexual part (amongst other parts), and that means you can be accepted into our heavily homophobic society. Some people do not have that luxury to change their colors depending on the environment like a chameleon.

That you can does not mean that others can. If you will continue insisting that others can, then I don't think I want to continue this back and forth with you.

It is stale now.

90% of people on this thread say they don't have that luxury. Only you maintain that everybody including us (that clearly say we don't) have that luxury. Can you see how arrogant and silly you sound?

-Lord

First of all, porn addiction is real. I didn't spend 5 to 6 years of my life watching porn every day because it was a habit I loved. And who told you addicts don't have the capacity to seek help to stop their addiction. Apparently you didn't read the Wikipedia article and compare it with the your brain on porn article otherwise things would be clearer to you now.

Stop trying to label me as pansexual or bisexual because I'm not. I have no sexual or romantic attraction to guys whatsoever. You were never a porn addict so you don't understand what it feels like to be one otherwise you wouldn't be saying this trash.

I advise you spend some time reading the stories of recovering/recovered porn addicts that will give you a clearer perspective on what porn addiction can do to a person.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts

LordAdam16:


It's not simple science.

Here's a simple fact you should know... "Men today have around 60% LESS T level than 60 years ago." Now are you trying to tell me that you and I are more effeminate than men who existed 60 years ago?

Effeminate characteristics are not exclusively linked to testosterone levels. If you will, it is just one piece of the equation. Sometimes, it may not even be a piece of the equation. There are many butch men who suffer from Low-T.

I'm asking you to provide evidence, and you want to share another tale by moonlight story. Do you think this thread is a beer parlor?

Now you are relating flexibility exercises to deep voice. So if you hadn't done those flexibility exercises, you wouldn't have developed a deep voice? And you lost your deep voice because you stopped doing flexibility exercise. Guy them need to check you.

Dude, do you know what puberty is?

Seriously, e dey do me mk I use cane pursue you.

-Lord

Testosterone levels decline with age its simple science really, at least you know that testosterone is part of the masculine equation.

I well aware of what puberty is, in case you don't know high testosterone levels in puberty cause vocal cords to thicken and lengthen thereby creating a deeper voice.

https://www.sd-200.com/blogs/articles/10-signs-of-high-testosterone

http://testosteronetalks.com/9-reasons-high-testosterone-makes-you-attractive/

Basic deep voice equation

1. You have high testosterone levels during puberty your vocal cords grow larger and you get it

2.You have low testosterone levels during puberty your vocal cords don't grow so well and you can end up with a squeaky voice.

The kid might be enacting what he might have seen somewhere or experienced, but let him be he will grow up to understand himself better, no point putting pressures on him and try to make him feel that he is not normal

JacksonD7:


First of all, porn addiction is real. I didn't spend 5 to 6 years of my life watching porn every day because it was a habit I loved. And who told you addicts don't have the capacity to seek help to stop their addiction. Apparently you didn't read the Wikipedia article and compare it with the your brain on porn article otherwise things would be clearer to you now.

Stop trying to label me as pansexual or bisexual because I'm not. I have no sexual or romantic attraction to guys whatsoever. You were never a porn addict so you don't understand what it feels like to be one otherwise you wouldn't be saying this trash.

I advise you spend some time reading the stories of recovering/recovered porn addicts that will give you a clearer perspective on what porn addiction can do to a person.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts

Oga, I'm done with you. You can keep lying to yourself. Not my problem.

You don't want people to label you, but you want to label people.

Maybe you didn't get my last message:

If you will continue insisting that others can, then I don't think I want to continue this back and forth with you.

It is stale now.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


Testosterone levels decline with age its simple science really, at least you know that testosterone is part of the masculine equation.

I well aware of what puberty is, in case you don't know high testosterone levels in puberty cause vocal cords to thicken and lengthen thereby creating a deeper voice.

https://www.sd-200.com/blogs/articles/10-signs-of-high-testosterone

http://testosteronetalks.com/9-reasons-high-testosterone-makes-you-attractive/

Basic deep voice equation

1. You have high testosterone levels during puberty your vocal cords grow larger and you get it

2.You have low testosterone levels during puberty your vocal cords don't grow so well and you can end up with a squeaky voice.

You have very basic problems with comprehension.

Where did I say increased testosterone is not one of the reasons why males have thicker voices? In fact, why would you think I don't know that when I'm the one that first pointed puberty out to you?

According to you, it was exercise that made you had deep voice, when in essence it was a simple biological change that set in with puberty.

Then you said, you lost your deep voice because you stopped exercise when in essence it was a simple biological change that happens as males grow older.

In males, the production of testosterone ramps up, and the larynx increases in size. Men that produce higher levels of testosterone during puberty will usually develop lower voices as they grow into adulthood. Source

Or can you tell me that you had to do exercise too before you were able to grow beards?

Your ability to make incoherent arguments is legendary.

I refuse to waste my time with you. I have better things to do. I hope the OP can look at your suggestions through the lens of silliness that it deserves.

-Lord

kachi19:


oga I didn't do feminine stuff oh... read the story well, THE KID IS DAMN GAY, all this ur explanation na wash

and if he is, what is your damn problem with it..... He is good been GAY.

ozoebuka1:
people like you will also support paedophilia and incest and still come online to give me stupid reasons why I shouldn't comment on the issue. after all it's their sexual orientation... nonsense.

I really can't connect with your train of thought on this issue, all your arguments are far out of context.

JacksonD7:


First of all, the story I put up there is a true story of my life, you were never a porn addict so you have no idea what it feels like to have your brain messed up by porn.

Second I am not bisexual, some belief that our sexual tastes in porn reveal our inner selves but this is totally untrue. The fact is porn conditions us and makes us acquire tastes that sometimes go against our default orientation.

Why did I start looking at gay toons and shemales?, it was simply because I had watched so much regular porn that I had a dopamine crash. In order to get high again I had to look for more novel porn, and stumbling on gay and transgendered porn gave me the new high.

When an addict finds a product that gives him a high he usually sticks with it and if you keep on that line neuroplasticity sets in and you get sexually conditioned to whatever genre you were high on.

The articles below will offer more insight

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

did you say GAY porn gave you high dopamine? In a nutshell, you enjoyed gay porn and yyou are straight..... That's hilarious and unbelievable..... Seems you don't wanna admit your fantasies...... See ehn, a real straight heterosexual being, either a guy or girl don't even think, abuse, or talk about gay, lesbian etc issues or sex cos they always feel less concerned and interested in anything that has to do with LGBT, but you enjoyed watching and downloading gay movies and you say you are not bisexual, you did that to increase your dopamine issue..... Hmmm, see ehn..... Am short of words oo..... I watch gay movies too and i dont believe your dopamine increasement excuse..... Let us leave that

beardlessdude:
gay rocks, if your definition of rocks is spending 14 years in jail and gettin ur anus regularly bastardized.

basta what?..... Common your thoughts seems too shallow.... And again may I know the number of people convicted and sent to 14years imprisonment because of GAY acts in Nigeria presently?.... Seems you don't know much about how gays operate in naija.... The ones that made the laws, the ones that will prosecute are all involved..... The law was just made by extremely over zealous lawmakers..... We need better life enriching laws for the social betterment of nigerians

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I think it's too early to conclude that the boy is gay just wait til he's about 16yrs old

FunkyMetahuman:
still proves nothing.

Wait till he is at least 18 before.

Many tomboy girls when we were kids too, acting like men, does that make them gay too?

Allow the op abeg he knows what he is talking about.