VANENON:


Do the needful to his children and ignore her.
Your/his responsibility is to your children and not to her. Irrespective of her action pay/pay part of the children fees send her feeding money. Keep the evidence of transfer to her account or to children's school and show the evidence everywhere she goes to shout.

VANENON:


Do the needful to his children and ignore her.
Your/his responsibility is to your children and not to her. Irrespective of her action pay/pay part of the children fees send her feeding money. Keep the evidence of transfer to her account or to children's school and show the evidence everywhere she goes to shout.

revolt:
how do u know the woman wasn't using the kids to blackmail him as pained women usually do and the guy decided to hands off? Have u heard the guys own side. Do u really think a man would leave his kids for no reason. She's a eking sympathy like the saint , when ppl dey warn am make she calm down she probably was forming strong woman. Anyways goofluck to her.

makydebbie:
Speak for yourself and not all men. I've seen men abandon their kids and I'm reacting to this story not even looking at gender. You all should leave me alone, if the table were turned, we'll hear how women are heartless and so on.

Ladyhippolyta88:
See them nairaland guys as it is a woman let us hear the other side of the story but if it was a man who reported this all of you would crucify her.How do you know she is pained and the man is innocent of the accusation?

shaybebaby:

He lucky he is in naij, try that shit here and claim it's the new wife with money,she'll pay for the upkeep of his children.

If he is cash poor but asset, the law will take a portion for the children. Except he wants to live with nothing in his name and unmarried, nigga will cough up. Nonsense!

revolt:
I've never in my life heard a man complain tht the woman left the kids for him to cater for. Even if she's wealthy. Women are built to always expect something from any sacrifice they mke. Little wonder I keep reading the kids will care for me in my old age and the man will be be put in his place...I ask how many of us are caring for our parents these days...the kids will hve their families and all resources channeled tht way. Better prep for an independent old age

Ladyhippolyta88:
See them nairaland guys as it is a woman let us hear the other side of the story but if it was a man who reported this all of you would crucify her.How do you know she is pained and the man is innocent of the accusation?

Rubbiish:

The bold is responsible for all the lopsided comments u ladies have been making on here...Be true to yourselves for once & stand for the truth...

revolt:
I've never in my life heard a man complain tht the woman left the kids for him to cater for. Even if she's wealthy. Women are built to always expect something from any sacrifice they mke. Little wonder I keep reading the kids will care for me in my old age and the man will be be put in his place...I ask how many of us are caring for our parents these days...the kids will hve their families and all resources channeled tht way. Better prep for an independent old age

Rubbiish:

God bless u....Women are selfish being...

Ladyhippolyta88:
What truth? I am not blinded Because of gender and what I wrote at the bolded was not a lie everyone claims to know the truth and I have stood by mine

Ladyhippolyta88:
And men are angelic beings

Rubbiish:

Lady hippopotamus u stood by your opinion, which wasn't based on fact, truth isn't personal...

Ladyhippolyta88:
You can lie.So one should be prepared to live independent at old age nawa.

Rubbiish:

I never said that...

Ladyhippolyta88:
Don't you ever in your life call me hippopotamus if you have no idea who Hippolyta was don't spoil the name. I took the woman's word for it it is not my life so I can't take it personal.

revolt:
yez msam. The kids WD be occupied with their own families. The west has accepted this fact... Thts y they hve old ppls homes.

Ladyhippolyta88:
But you said all women are selfish.

Rubbiish:

My bad! Lol
I thought hippolyta is another short for hippopotamus...Since most ladies love hippopotamus..
What is the meaning & why did u choose such a name?

Rubbiish:

Yes...& how does that translate to men being angelic beings?

zeb04:


you are an Idiot.I am sure you reason like this because your father probably left your mum. It is a family cycle thing for you.

This woman will be the one providing up to the university level.if they are sick,still her.if they are bullied,still her.house chores,still her and you want to tell me men have been doing all this from inception? You are a mor.on

If you can bring a child into this world,you should be responsible for them.


In old age,everybody will be saying children are partial forgetting,it had an origin.

Irresponsible cowards.btw we that had two participative parent can't understand the buckshot you are saying

shaybebaby:

No, so the time and resources required to raise them should be shared equally.

revolt:
by sharing you mean custody inclusive abi? Or typical of women ud expect to hold on to the kid while he trains them for u and they barely know him

Mowunmiaf:
An exasperated mother of three children has taken to her social media page to call out her ex-husband who she had her three children with, over the news that he’s about to remarry.

According to one Ndukwe Nkechi on Facebook, she and her estranged husband moved on after their separation but she has been the one taking care of their three children – this is because, her estranged husband supposedly didn’t have the resources to but now, he’s about to get remarried and Nkechi finds this unfair.

She says she too ought to have a life of her own and not have to worry about accumulated bills as she could get resources from her estranged husband.

She wrote:

So I just found out that my ex hubby who I had 3 kids with got married last Saturday. It doesn’t hurt me because he moved on, but because I’ve been caring for our kids alone thinking he’s got nothing.

Which man abandons his kids this way please
I’m pained
Not happy at all
I’m sad!
I too deserve to save some cash and fix my life up.
I too have personal needs to meet.
I too deserve to think about myself even if for just a minute and not worry about accumulated bills.
Life’s a fucking asshole!

Maybe he’s here
Who knows?? Incase you’re seeing this, “you’re a damn Coward: just so you know Mr. N. D#

SOURCE: http://aftrending.com/nigerian-mother-of-three-calls-out-her-ex-husband-whos-set-to-remarry/

BleSSedMee:
'Child support' could a fixed this ish.
Nigeria should upgrade on this.


I feel for you madam. It ain't easy.





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highpriestess:

don't mind him,they are easily spotted.
womanizers,pain instigators, joy killers,demons of no nation,that's what his type is.

shaybebaby:
Irresponsible and dead beat dad! Later now we won't hear word about men being providers. Don't provide for your ex-missus but atleast provide for your kids.

Abi divorce turns kids to ex-kids too?

Tallesty1:
The woman's post........





Why should we believe her? Because she's a Woman?

Jabioro:
Yes my dear..at times there may be circumstances beyond them that may warrant separation....in my own case I was into deep financial mess,in fact everything I own went down the drain..Here am I today better than before, she is even looking for the way to come back I always remind her of her marital status, she said after all she has no other child apart the those we had... see life.