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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by savio93(m): 6:02am On May 29, 2018
An I the only one that saw the "Anglican Catholic church " behind.

But the babe fine sha....

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by AntiWailer: 6:06am On May 29, 2018
SoapQueen:
She done marry now?

I am sure you did not read before rushing to comment.

Now you may modify your comment.
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by onatisi(m): 6:08am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
A father's advice will always be DEEP. Am sure her mum wanted her to marry Mr. A because his father is the senior Priest of thier church and she thought that her daughter marrying the Senior Priest's Son will boast image in front of her fellow mumu Women.
either you didn't read the story or your brains can't understand the simple English the lady wrote or you are just plain brain lazy . The mother is the one that was against the wedding ever taking place

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Oluwabenjamin(m): 6:09am On May 29, 2018
That was how my dad disapproved of my ijebu girlfriend, I thought he was wicked until she showed me a month later...
most times our parents are our Demigod..God didn't make a mistake sending us to them instead of the couple next door

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by livinus009(m): 6:17am On May 29, 2018
Mr Man, Read the Story again.
Dead Brain!!
onatisi:

either you didn't read the story or your brains can't understand the simple English the lady wrote or you are just plain brain lazy . The mother is the one that was against the wedding ever taking place
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by kennypedia(m): 6:21am On May 29, 2018
The lady is beautiful sha I hope I will marry from your side lol
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by SoapQueen(f): 6:23am On May 29, 2018
Sarang:


That is eeh.. is marriage a ticket biko nu shocked

You should calm down and ask me what I meant before jumping to conclusions. Did I blame her for not staying married to the guy?

I only asked just the way her dad asked about her ex.
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:31am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
A father's advice will always be DEEP. Am sure her mum wanted her to marry Mr. A because his father is the senior Priest of thier church and she thought that her daughter marrying the Senior Priest's Son will boast image in front of her fellow mumu Women.


Loool.

So this is what you got from the thread? Chai!

Some people's comprehension skill is... lipsrsealed

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by SoapQueen(f): 6:31am On May 29, 2018
highqueen:

better to stay single and happy than to marry a chronic woman beater.

I didn't ask because I wanted to blame her for leaving her abusive ex. I asked because I was curious just like her dad.
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:32am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
Mr Man, Read the Story again.
Dead Brain!!


shocked shocked shocked


This is hilarious.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by SoapQueen(f): 6:37am On May 29, 2018
AntiWailer:


I am sure you did not read before rushing to comment.

Now you may modify your comment.

I will modify it because it was misconstrued and the question, misunderstood. I am not a proud person who cannot make corrections.

I didn't rush to comment, I am not a teen who gets kicks from being in FTC
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by anibirelawal(m): 6:38am On May 29, 2018
Esseite:
Sorry to derail your thread, but how true is this about introverts?

Have been told to advise people to marry more of introverts if they happen to meet one.


Reason being;
-They have integrity.
-They hate drama or attention seeking issues
-They are conservatives.
-They are good financial planners.
-They are intelligent and acute thinkers.
-They are the best advisers you can get.
-Once you can break one, you have your prince charming.
-They rarely cheat.
-They are barely broke.
-They are neat and tidy


You just described me mehn... grin

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by tetula123(m): 6:40am On May 29, 2018
SoapQueen:
World pipo said I asked an insensitive question by asking 'is she married now?'

I didn't ask because I felt she lost out by not marrying her ex. I asked because just like her dad, I was curious.

I never would condone abuse in any form neither am I in a haste to get married like someone said down there.
the better you learn how to stop explaining yourself to people the less headache you get. if they can't understand your question or see it from your point of view, let them be. you musnt please everyone.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 6:44am On May 29, 2018
Wow somehow this is me..does that make me one?
Esseite:
Sorry to derail your thread, but how true is this about introverts?

Have been told to advise people to marry more of introverts if they happen to meet one.


Reason being;
-They have integrity.
-They hate drama or attention seeking issues
-They are conservatives.
-They are good financial planners.
-They are intelligent and acute thinkers.
-They are the best advisers you can get.
-Once you can break one, you have your prince charming.
-They rarely cheat.
-They are barely broke.
-They are neat and tidy

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by sisisioge: 6:45am On May 29, 2018
SoapQueen:
World pipo said I asked an insensitive question by asking 'is she married now?'

I didn't ask because I felt she lost out by not marrying her ex. I asked because just like her dad, I was curious.

I never would condone abuse in any form neither am I in a haste to get married like someone said down there.

OK, its insensitive and inconsequential... She didn't marry the aszzzhole. I'm sure the arrangee wifee too wishes didn't marry him too grin

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by junbi(f): 6:45am On May 29, 2018
Esseite:
Sorry to derail your thread, but how true is this about introverts?

Have been told to advise people to marry more of introverts if they happen to meet one.


Reason being;
-They have integrity.
-They hate drama or attention seeking issues
-They are conservatives.
-They are good financial planners.
-They are intelligent and acute thinkers.
-They are the best advisers you can get.
-Once you can break one, you have your prince charming.
-They rarely cheat.
-They are barely broke.
-They are neat and tidy


Well I am one... kinda right tho embarassed

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by onatisi(m): 6:45am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
Mr Man, Read the Story again.
Dead Brain!!
You are a complete moronic ediot. Read the story again and stop displaying your acute stupidity on a public forum.
The mom was against the wedding because the guy wanted it done in his own church,she was even angry at her mother for making her lose the guy until her father calmed her down. Jeez only God knows how you guys even manage to pass ur exams if not by cheating

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by adamapple: 6:47am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
Mr Man, Read the Story again.
Dead Brain!!
Mr. Man, you're actually the one who should read the story again.

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 6:47am On May 29, 2018
Twitter stories are mostly lies. She dey find husband

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 6:50am On May 29, 2018
Sarang:


Did I just read this? undecided
So she should die because she wan do marriage..
And you are actually a female lipsrsealed

Baby calm down don't get your panties in a bunch I bet he was just being an arse

Sleep well? I bet you are exhausted from all that running you did from.me.in your dreams all night long ehn?

grin
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by MissJoy29(f): 6:55am On May 29, 2018
Esseite:
Sorry to derail your thread, but how true is this about introverts?

Have been told to advise people to marry more of introverts if they happen to meet one.


Reason being;
-They have integrity.
-They hate drama or attention seeking issues
-They are conservatives.
-They are good financial planners.
-They are intelligent and acute thinkers.
-They are the best advisers you can get.
-Once you can break one, you have your prince charming.
-They rarely cheat.
-They are barely broke.
-They are neat and tidy
Very true. In fact, over true. At least I know 4. They might be more than if I think well. They are tested and trusted. Please remove "rarely cheat" and replace it with "NEVER cheat". smiley

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by obafemi04(m): 6:57am On May 29, 2018
Did you guys notice the sign BOARD? ANGLICAN CATHOLIC CHURCH!
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by tunjilana: 7:05am On May 29, 2018
The father simply made her understand the role of communication and understanding...If she still hasnt learnt the place of sacrifice/compromise and keeps arguing over thibgs like church to wed, the story wont change even wen anoda man is in the picture...Cos even if she gets a man who is cool with church, will they always b cool on everything and will she always want to stand put on her point as learnt from her mother ?

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Olay3me(m): 7:06am On May 29, 2018
Abi
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by SoapQueen(f): 7:07am On May 29, 2018
highqueen:

I'm disappointed at her comment.
so she'd actually be happy to see her fellow lady go into trauma with bruises all over her body.



smh!!some ladies shaa.

For real? All these for a comment I made that was taken in bad light? How you came to multiple conclusions from me supporting a domestic abuser to me being happy about it and deserving beating is funny.

Well, thank you!
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by DIYhackers: 7:07am On May 29, 2018
MissJoy29:

Very true. In fact, over true. At least I know 4. They might be more than if I think well. They are tested and trusted. Please remove "rarely cheat" and replace it with "NEVER cheat". smiley
May I know you so I can know one of the 4
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by TheVerdict: 7:09am On May 29, 2018
For some reasons, I do not totally condemn the guy. While I do not support violence in any form,can we please stop to think that this guy is in a loveless marriage...Our Op would definitely have known if Mr. A was prone to violence. In this world, people sometimes do things out of pride/foolishness; he may have married another woman because of this and as a result is unhappy and realises everyday the mistake he made and being a Pastor's son too 'spiritual' to get a divorce.

Again, I do NOT support violence and I can never hit a woman but...well, what do I know?
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by VivaDeAngelo(m): 7:10am On May 29, 2018
livinus009:
A father's advice will always be DEEP. Am sure her mum wanted her to marry Mr. A because his father is the senior Priest of thier church and she thought that her daughter marrying the Senior Priest's Son will boast image in front of her fellow mumu Women.


Your comment is a total contrast to the personality of her mother. Why can't you just read the post, understand and digest it before commenting?

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 7:12am On May 29, 2018
SoNature:
She's beautiful grin
Of course she is Igbo

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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 7:15am On May 29, 2018
Moral of the story; the guy is an afonja. How do I know? 1. His father is a general overseer. 2. He is not confident. Afonja men are the most unstable and unsecured group of men in the world. Their father and mother must approve of their fiancée. If their father or mother says no, then they will back out of that marriage. I have seen this same thing play out of a dozen times, all from afonja men. An Igbo man doesn't listen to nobody, if he loves a woman, his father and mother cannot interfere, let alone stop him.
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Father Saved Her From An Abusive Marriage by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:18am On May 29, 2018
you get luck. .your case would have been like that of tonto....maybe by now you would be in tv series or doing videos to tell us how the Mr, A beats you and cheat on you. . .best of luck to you...hope you found the perfect man..cheers

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