donnie:


This is the problem and exactly what the OP is pointing out. How can you know what is right without knowing God's set order.

He is the creator of all things including the institution of marriage. It has to be His way if it's gonna work.

It's not by force to marry na.

Mofe72:


The Bible never said women should submit to men. You people will not read properly.

It said ‘WIVES’ submit to your husbands.
‘HUSBANDS’ love your ‘WIFE’ as Christ loved the ‘CHURCH’.

Meaning that husbands should be able to go the long run for their wives.

The same bible says that a man that can’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Today we see families where the husband does nothing and still makes demands. Abegii.

If not for feminism, would we have women in school?? RUBBISH!

Yes, a lot of people have abused the term/movement. But most men who get irritated by feminism do so because of their fragile masculinity and ego. KMFT!!

ericbertrand:
I've just come to realize this. One even said she feels God is a woman. Bloody hell, only Christ can save this generation.

AmazonTopaz:

Too much sense.Correct oil dey your head.
They are shouting that women should be deployed for war who caused many wars is it not men soif we are to reject the fight for gender equality it would also be fair that men alone fight these wars because na dem dem cause am.
Some of these anti feminest have no solid points against feminism except using marriage.religion Satan demon etc to drive home their flawed points how can you subject half of the world population to second class citizens and feel it is fair?

AmazonTopaz:

Amberon11,has been giving you solid points word for word oya stop spilling rubbish.feminism has come to stay in Africa and beyond and there is nothing you can do about it.

Hanseel1:


Queen Victoria of England fought alot of wars in the 18th century, Britain colonized many countries during her reign.

During these wars, people who fought were 100% men.
Queen Anne of Britain and Queen Elizabeth 1 both fought wars and in those wars women didn't fight.
I can still go on with the number of female rulers that engaged in massive warfare but didn't fight with women.

If we should use your ideology, women are the only ones supposed to fight those wars since the wars were started by women,right ?

killsmith:
be gone beech....

AmazonTopaz:

Yes,And there are women even in their time who may have been willing to go into warfare but were not given the opportunity.

dometome:
You are generalizing, ....

PDPGuy:

I agree with you 100%

Guess what my former handle was?

Amberon11:
Again you're quoting me out of context.
I never said everything coming out of the Western world is good and must be accepted, No. I must they are the standard for everything that brings about world development. The mobile phone, science and technology, art, literature you now learn today we're all birthed in the west.

I never said the husband wasn't the head of the wife. That is what you feminist haters don't understand. You think feminism emasculates you and takes away your place as the head of the home. Thanks is not so. A ship has captains , Chief captain and co-captains. It is a partnership, not a parasitic relationship.
The captain does not dehumanize the co-captains. There is cooperation from all parties.

I never said I plan on visiting Dubai. I already visited and you don't know nothing about Dubai. Women are at liberty in Dubai and that is why the country thrives. As a woman in Dubai (especially as a foreign woman in Dubai), you can go anywhere you want and do whatever you want. They don't have double standards like the rest of the middle East and that's why they're moving forward. Women are present and well represented in every sector of the economy from commerce to medicine and don't think for a minute that the Arabs had any contribution in building the infrastructure you see in Dubai. They were all built by westerners. Anyone who has lived in Dubai knows this.

AmazonTopaz:

how many men can say they love their wives and can give their lives for them as your Christ did for your church.
Some men would be quick to abuse the word headship and they do not know the responsibilities that follow they think it is to order around.A leader would always be subject to the wishes of his followers.
Anyway this one nor concern me when I marry I am my husbands equal and partner.

killsmith:
look at this foolish girl. An article from Wikipedia will reduce your IQ?

I can't believe I've been wasting my time with someone with such low level of reasoning.


Maybe you wanted to write, "I come from a family of foolishness", then you mistakenly wrote "i come from a family of lawyers" .... Either ways... I hope you find a cure for your hypocrisy and foolishness.
Women have decided to treat themselves like commodities, we will continue to subjugate and treat you like the commodities that you are.... Your feminism will not cross the borders of Africa. Try nonsense in this Africa and we'll put you in your place.

Useless bunch of frustrated people.

rock003:


Do you know when women started driving in Dubai? Please do Google Search.

So you think Dubai is thriving because women are given freedom? I'm sure you'll agree that such a manner of reasoning as this is childish and akin to stupidity and intentional self deception.

And yes, one principal conduct of feminists is refusal to obey their husbands at home.

Boukieolaleye:
This is where I stand.
Most women don't want to hear the word 'submission' especially when it concerns their relationship with men. To them, it sounds like 'keep mute always, don't let your voice be heard, be a fool, let the men step on your rights and take you for granted'.
A woman who constantly have to fight not to be taken for granted doesn't know her worth or does not have a worth. Read more https:///p9rx8M-cf

ericbertrand:
I've just come to realize this. One even said she feels God is a woman. Bloody hell, only Christ can save this generation.

UjSizzle:

I have no idea

Amberon11:
My comment was in line with what I observed from that person's response to me.

I understand your frustration and lack of comprehension and I must say it is not new to me. You all suddenly develope fangs and claws when this issue is being discussed and I'm not surprised at all.

Which divine decree tells to subdue women and deny them rights that you yourself have? Didn't your Bible say "do onto others what you want them to do you you"? Didn't you Bible say "love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it"?

Mumu, what part of my comments show any antagonism to God?

You're in no place to compel your wife to be a housewife if she doesn't want to. Even God doesn't compel humans do things. He gave us free will.

Maybe you're in the Stone age but in today's world , you don't have to be present o fight for a struggle. She is reaching out women all over he world , not just to Nigerian women. In case you didn't notice she is global now and doesn't have to be present in every country to speak for the women there.

You seem to be really frustrated. Like I said my comment was in response to that user. Emancipate yourself from your archaic mentality else the world will leave you behind.

Shugavee:
defies all logic to you?? Not me. I believe in God n not the Bible I must not agree with everything written in the Bible cause it was written by humans like me n you, not God himself,, most especially the fact it was written by men

AmazonTopaz:
And what is wrong if she feels God is female?I thought they said God has no gender or is he male?This generation did not say it needs saving mtchewww.

daveP:
Sorry to ask, how do you hear from God then and how do you reach him and relate with him?

Mofe72:


You’re SICK!

To think a woman carried you for 9 months.

dometome:
I understand quite....

Mofe72:


Every individual that has in anyway fought or advocated for equal opportunities for women is a feminist or is pro-feminism.

It’s not all about marriage.
Have you asked yourselves why women weren’t allowed to go to school years ago?
Have you asked yourself why women are insulted for being single and men are not?
Have you asked yourself why women could not vote or contest for positions a while ago??
There are so many examples.

How would you feel, if someone told your sisters or cousins they couldn’t do something they loved, because they were born as women.
Or they should give up some of their dreams.

I know the benefits of feminism.

My grandmother’s brothers were sent to school, but she wasn’t allowed because she was a girl. Imagine if someone didn’t speak up... maybe my mum would have shared the same fate.

Feminism is simple... FAIR treatment. Most men can’t understand because we’ve been privileged for a very long while.

You see a woman driving a fancy car and the first thing that comes to mind is rich boyfriend or father or sugar daddy. She may have a profitable business oh.

But a guy driving a fancy car “NA CHAIRMAN!!”


It’s simply fair treatment. No human is superior to the other, whether they be male or female. Respect is reciprocal

yeyerolling:
Any woman against feminism is a fool. At a time women could not vote, women could not work and belonged to the kitchen, women are expected to be seen as hoes wen dey fuk around bt men as dons, we have seen pple like arouma oteh akunyili and other okonjo who suppose to be in the kitchen. But made waves in male dominated sectors. Nonsense weak tweeter

Mofe72:


Every individual that has in anyway fought or advocated for equal opportunities for women is a feminist or is pro-feminism.

It’s not all about marriage.
Have you asked yourselves why women weren’t allowed to go to school years ago?
Have you asked yourself why women are insulted for being single and men are not?
Have you asked yourself why women could not vote or contest for positions a while ago??
There are so many examples.

How would you feel, if someone told your sisters or cousins they couldn’t do something they loved, because they were born as women.
Or they should give up some of their dreams.

I know the benefits of feminism.

My grandmother’s brothers were sent to school, but she wasn’t allowed because she was a girl. Imagine if someone didn’t speak up... maybe my mum would have shared the same fate.

Feminism is simple... FAIR treatment. Most men can’t understand because we’ve been privileged for a very long while.

You see a woman driving a fancy car and the first thing that comes to mind is rich boyfriend or father or sugar daddy. She may have a profitable business oh.

But a guy driving a fancy car “NA CHAIRMAN!!”


It’s simply fair treatment. No human is superior to the other, whether they be male or female. Respect is reciprocal

AmazonTopaz:


Same goes to you too nincompoop.

jomoh:



And the devil starts quoting the Bible.

If you know the Bible so much and you’re not trying to usurp the command of God then why abandon he bible and name your struggle feminism instead of Christianity.

Are you trying to say the Bible or Christianity is promoting female genital mutilation and the rest you stated up there

if NO then why the necessity to create another struggle apart from the Devine gospel of God.

If YES then it means you’ve neglected the message of God and you’ve seen yourself a as been smarter than God himself.

These are the messages of the article. And everything still points to your insecurity. Insecurity with the message of God and his commands.

Your reply to me shows you are clearly the frustrated one here if not you should’ve seen the duplicity and stupidity in your cause.

Your insecurity and frustration is deep rooted with the African man not with those you’ve stated above cos we have religions already that has everything in its teachings. Rather than promote the teachings in the religion, ‭‬you choose to start your own because you feel insecure with the way God has handled it through his religion.

You clearly but unknowingly showed your frustration and insecurity with your reference to the African man.

Madam carry your frustrated soul Comot my mentions.

Mumu confused human being.

rock003:


Do you know when women started driving in Dubai? Please do Google Search.

So you think Dubai is thriving because women are given freedom? I'm sure you'll agree that such a manner of reasoning as this is childish and akin to stupidity and intentional self deception.

And yes, one principal conduct of feminists is refusal to obey their husbands at home.