Your story/advise just motivated me... Thank you sir. God bless!

Iogobenz:
Op see ehn...to make it in this life,you've got to believe in the cause you are in and pursue it to the fullest,letting no one hold you back,not even God!
My story is similar to yours,just that I wasn't a sheep like you to do as I am told.
I was 17 after high school,decided to join the family business rather than go to any damn school.I was good at it and saw what my brothers didn't see.
I showed them to my mum,she took my proposal hook,line and sinker and invested in it massively but with someone else and her running the damn business while she shipped me off to university.
It wasn't what I wanted,dropped out after 3weeks and went to Europe to hustle.
I frustrate pass you then,HOHA!
Came back to Africa,started school again fully sponsored by her,saw a business opportunity in Trans-African trade,told my mum,requested for loan to start but she started yapping about school bla bla bla...
I no answer am,dropped out again and use my fees,rent,utility money plus my best friend's investment to start it.
Few years down the line,I have built a very good business and still got a degree.
My mom dey respect me die because of the bold steps she knows I can take!No bagger tells me what to do.
I hate it!
So my friend,your life is in your hands,take your decisions for your cause without ever looking back.
That's what being an adult entails.
Also,100k and YouTube business?are you mad?
Don't you know things like that takes a VERY LONG TIME to pay off and 100k can't sustain it?
To me,buy off that bus lease off your father and either own the bus instead and drive it or make him work for you and clearly show him who owns what,no time for sentiments.
When you make enough money,you can go chase your desired YouTube business.
Dem no dey give person money!know this from today.
I personally don't do it!better learn now or have yourself to blame.
Goodluck!

Had wanted to encourage you but when I saw " the greeds of igbo".....
But let me tell you , I did transportation biz in Lagos.
Yoruba people showed me shege. U buy land to build, they will not let you rest.

But never had I come online to say the greed of Yoruba people .
U are very hypocritical and not worth an advice from me.
Don't know your tribe but u can never make it with such silly mindset.

As in, this guy is messed up

Does he know the tribe of the people advising him?

His family sucks his money every week, they are not greedy

Igbo people minding their business and life are greedy

Rubbish! Some people sha. Please dont forget to mention Igbo peoples' greed on your Youtube channel so we can see your stupidity for ourselves

Ayofaks:


Drop his email for what Oga Oga talk wetin you wan talk for here make we follow see.

ifyalways:

i just hope you are not planning to collect that 100K from him under the guise of sure investment with 300% profit in abc days?
OP, be careful o. Dont reply or send anyone here any PM. The wolves are out to grab that 100K from you.
Buy your camera and do your thing. Your dad will.be fine.

Lol. I'm not after his money. Wetin concern me. I've Modified the original

Life is a bitch bro, she Bleep you bad and still owe you nothing.. Sort out ur debt for d tricycle and leave ur comfort zone/home, have a heart to heart talk with your parent about ur decision and give them good reason why u need to leave then pray about it, surely God will lead u through... Go to a neigboring state where you u will nt be distracted by friends and relatives. use d little money u garther from ur hustle to rent a small shop and buy phone accessories in bulks, note that d earpiece u buy 300naira is sold for 90 naira or 110 naira in bulks, 800 naira charger head and 700 naira original cord are sold for 450naira and 380 or 400naira respectively. u will attract customers since u can repair phone, plus u can buy a london used mini laptop to do flashing and downloading. I know it's easier said than done guy but u only need to think deep, go as planned and never give up. God Bless Ur Struggle Ma Street Soldier!!

Bro it's too early to start this tribalistic challenge,and don't even have strength for it if I wanted to. The way you guys just misinterpreted the phrase "igbo people and their greed". Which I only aimed at the fact that alot majority of them would never rent out their land to you,except you want to pay millions for it. Upon everything you saw,the only point you could pick out of it was just "five words"! This proves your intelligence...Well thanks anyways!

midnighter:
As in, this guy is messed up

Does he know the tribe of the people advising him?

His family sucks his money every week, they are not greedy

Igbo people minding their business and life are greedy

Rubbish! Some people sha. Please dont forget to mention Igbo peoples' greed on your Youtube channel so we can see your stupidity for ourselves

cheeseballs:
Bro it's too early to start this tribalistic challenge,and don't even have strength for it if I wanted to. The way you guys just misinterpreted the phrase "igbo people and their greed". Which I only aimed at the fact that alot majority of them would never rent out their land to you,except you want to pay millions for it. Upon everything you saw,the only point you could pick out of it was just "five words"! This proves your intelligence...Well thanks anyways!

Oh shutup! You dont have the strength but you have the strength to mention Igbo people in your personal challenges when you came to solicit for help in a public forum where you know people of all tribes would like to come and help you

Look who is talking about intelligence! You are a budding social media star who doesnt even know how to package his opinions and keep his personal biases to himself when discussing issues. Do you know what that is called? "Public Relations" and "media training".

You dont know some celebrities have lost serious endorsements and contracts because of stupid throwaway comments just like that

As I said you should make your first video about this subject if you really know yourself. Pathetic

Forget about the YouTube channel. You have worked so hard to make this money and a YouTube channel takes months even years to break even. Why not find something that will be giving you daily cash flow. That's what you need now.

Go and find peace my brother.... This is my gift to you!!!

midnighter:


Oh shutup! You dont have the strength but you have the strength to mention Igbo people in your personal challenges when you came to solicit for help in a public forum where you know people of all tribes would like to come and help you

Look who is talking about intelligence! You are a budding social media star who doesnt even know how to package his opinions and keep his personal biases to himself when discussing issues. Do you know what that is called? "Public Relations" and "media training".

You dont know some celebrities have lost serious endorsements and contracts because of stupid throwaway comments just like that

As I said you should make your first video about this subject if you really know yourself. Pathetic

blessedvisky:
cheeseballs drop your email. I understand what is going on and how to go about it but I won't like to type it here since it concerns you and you only. I'll contact you

What is going on exactly? I want to know too

cheeseballs:
Thanks for your advice!

Op, don't test the waters with both feet. Continue your keke business while you run the YouTube venture as a side business.

Also, it appears you see your family's influence as disrupting your career plan. It's probably best you work towards financial independence from them

Words of wisdom! God will bless you for this!!!

Resurgent2016:


Op, don't test the waters with both feet. Continue your keke business while you run the YouTube venture as a side business.

Also, it appears you see your family's influence as disrupting your career plan. It's probably best you work towards financial independence from them

cheeseballs:
I have done alot of study into fish farming in my area. But no one in my area would lease his or her land to anyone (greed of the igbos)

Greed of the Igbos? You should probably have written “igbos don’t give me advise” on your post.

No wonder you’re such a victim.

sometimes family na scam. do what makes u happy and bear the consequence!

cheeseballs:
Your story/advise just motivated me... Thank you sir. God bless!

For what it's worth cheeseballs, I believe in you.
I'm rooting for your success with all my heart. You'll do well.
I wish you'd leave your parents' house and get your own place. Staying with them and constantly getting negative feedback and criticism from them will kill your self esteem and make you prone to making bad decisions because your mind is not at peace.

I don't know your situation but try and get away from your parents. Be with people who encourage you and believe the best of you.
I believe in you cheeseballs.

midnighter:
As in, this guy is messed up

Does he know the tribe of the people advising him?

His family sucks his money every week, they are not greedy

Igbo people minding their business and life are greedy

Rubbish! Some people sha. Please dont forget to mention Igbo peoples' greed on your Youtube channel so we can see your stupidity for ourselves

Please don't take it the wrong way. I'm sure he didn't mean to castigate the entire Igbo tribe. Some Igbo people are good while some are greedy. That's the truth.
No tribe is perfect not even the Igbos. He was only talking about his experience with the Igbo people in his area.
Please let's learn to not see tribe in innocuous comments. Thank you.
@sassysure.

Iogobenz:
I don't think he is lazy,he just doesn't believe in his cause yet,hence the dilly-dallying.

You don see lazy man weh dey ride keke before?

logobenz, I use to hate you but....you're alright. You're alright. Thanks for your advice to cheeseballs.

kneehighbootz:



Please don't take it the wrong way. I'm sure he didn't mean to castigate the entire Igbo tribe. Some Igbo people are good while some are greedy. That's the truth.
No tribe is perfect not even the Igbos. He was only talking about his experience with the Igbo people in his area.
Please let's learn to not see tribe in innocuous comments. Thank you.
@sassysure.

What!

You just reminded me of this guy now. The problem is that I dont know how to condense my posts and people think Im just vomiting grammar over nothing

What exactly is innocuous about what he said Why wont we see tribe when he just mentioned it, for absolutely no reason? Why are you quoting me when you can't even caution him for what he said? You're "sure he didnt mean" to do what? His parents who finished his life, what tribe are they

Instead of him to apologise, he even replied back that he doesnt have strength for tribal problem early in the morning. It must be a tribal problem oh

Since you want to advocate for him you can kindly explain why somebody will be talking like a tout in public. No decorum whatsoever, even where he came to seek advice from people who wish him well. Total Rubbish.

kneehighbootz:


logobenz, I use to hate you but....you're alright. You're alright. Thanks for your advice to cheeseballs.

You tube takes years to flourish. Years of hard work and interesting content, to build your followership. Until you start having tens of thousands of followers, you cannot get any money from you tube.
The youtubers you see all had steady jobs till they were able to afford resigning and going full time you tube. Infact, majority till now have their side businesses.
Dont waste your money buying camera for youtube. Get a phone with a camera, and record with that instead. If your phone can record, use it and save your money.
Look for what you can invest that 100k on.
Have you thought of opening a roadside shed/table n chairs where you can make indomie/fried eggs on the go for people? If cooking is not your fort, look for other things you can do. But people must eat sha.
YouTube should be your side hustle and not a job

Thanks man.... Finding peace is all am aiming at now!

kneehighbootz:


For what it's worth cheeseballs, I believe in you.
I'm rooting for your success with all my heart. You'll do well.
I wish you'd leave your parents' house and get your own place. Staying with them and constantly getting negative feedback and criticism from them will kill your self esteem and make you prone to making bad decisions because your mind is not at peace.

I don't know your situation but try and get away from your parents. Be with people who encourage you and believe the best of you.
I believe in you cheeseballs.

kneehighbootz:


logobenz, I use to hate you but....you're alright. You're alright. Thanks for your advice to cheeseballs.

I am a very nice person if you get to know me.
Just that I might be too realistic to a point where it hurts..
We are all street kids men

Nnaabros:


What is going on exactly? I want to know too

I've modified

cheeseballs:
When I ask for it,they kinda blackmail me.

Then face your life..,they've lived theirs.

www.jonevisagroup.com what do you think about this website, it's owned by a close friend

Iogobenz:
I am a very nice person if you get to know me.
Just that I might be too realistic to a point where it hurts..
We are all street kids men

Kobo!!I Won't give him....

cheeseballs:
Hello guys! I need your advice on this issue that has been giving me sleepless night for more than a year now. Am a youth below 25yrs.
2016 I dropped out of the polytechnic because I never knew why I was there in the first place. All my life,I follow strict orders from my parents about what I do and how I live my life. The saying has always been "you are the first son,so u must become an engineer". I remember vividly when I wanted to pass over into ss1,I told my father I was going for art. He frowned totally at it and took me to a lecture for counseling. I gave them my reason that "I have always tried my best at maths and am never good at it",even my teachers knows I was very good at Art related subjects. I always top the class in drawings that my work once made it into the art studio. But the lecturer told me that I can still meet up in the future,that am lazy and it's not hard. So I later wrote jamb and barely made it. But my parents worked my way into part-time study auchi poly. Man.... It wasn't funny at all. Everything was purely mathematics. And my parents wasn't the rich type who can afford to always send me money for blocking. I tried all my best,read all night,went for extra tutoring. But I can't still understand simple theories. My GP dropped so bad that I just gave up in 2016. When I dropped out,I was just roaming the street from bet9ta to a random barber shop to gist. Everyone saw me as worthless even my family members. My father made arrangements for me to go and learn mechanic,but after two weeks I stopped. I just knew that wasn't for me. He then asked me to go back to school,I told him that I can't because I have gone too far into science and even if I have to go back to school,I will have to start all over again. Even at that, iam very lost in life because I threw all my drive for art in the thrash many years ago to pursue science. Am just like in the middle of the dessert. 2017 I told him I wanted to do business,with the mind set that I might soon be independent and maybe discover myself/passion then. They didn't support it with their heart at all. I went to learn how to repair mobile phone,after learning my father asked me to go and learn all over again for he is not satisfied. I got angry and left home from a friend's advice to go and work at bet9ja at another state. After two months,I came back home with about 100k and I sent it to that friend of mine who advised me to go and work at bet9ja cos he stays at Lagos and he said he can send me phone accessories at wholesale price so that I can start phone business at small scale. But scammed me. My family judged me for more than a month,cos I was always at home helpless and indoors with regret. So I decided to use the little I had to start a road side repair shop close to my street,but it wasn't paying off after about three months. I had the inspiration to start a YouTube channel,but I never had a camera neither did I know what the channel would be about.... I just had three options about what the channel would be about. Fitness (because am huge and a little bit muscular,comedy(because people always say am funny),short films (because have got alot of stories to tell). So December 2018,i started doing odd jobs. Which my parents didn't support, instead they keep pressuring me to get back to school while I keep telling them I want to do business and need capital to start. 2019 two of my junior sisters got into the university. January 2019 i got a job at a company that pays me less than 20k. The job wasn't easy at all. I always cry when am alone and thinking about where I am in life. After five months,I saved about 95k. Used 55k to apply for Keke for hired purchase at a company,but they said the one left has been driven for two weeks,and I said I would manage it. After a week I noticed it had fault and decided to return it so that the company can give me another one,but my father opposed it that I should return it and ask for a refund,that he and my mother will raise money and borrow money from his relative to buy me a Keke. My parents made sure they borrowed all the refunded money from me and never payed back to me. I was just stranded again for about a month before the Keke was bought. My father's relative gave us the money,but to be paid back with interest. To my surprise my parents said I will also pay them every week,with all sorts of rules that follows it,like telling me "when to leave,when to come back, where to go and where not to go". No matter what I pass through in a week would not stop them from collecting that week's money,rather it would be added to the next. Even when I had an accident due to I wasn't perfect at driving. They never told me sorry,nor asked if I was injured. I spent alot of money putting the Keke into order,and didn't go-to work for about three days,and they still collected that week's money. Depression has eaten so deep into my life. I remember 2017 when I attempted suicide,but woke up at an hospital. All I pray to God now is that I don't want to live long but he should grant me the power to leave a great mark on Earth. Now my father needs 150k to get back a bus he was driving on hired purchase from a company he's driving it for so that it can become his,he's now looking helpless and looking for who to borrow him. The thing is that I have about 100k I have saved and plan on using to buy a camera so that I can buy a camera for me to start YouTube,for I have it deep in my heart and am always telling my friends how I will soon start a YouTube channel. So should I give up this dream and give the money to my father or should I buy the camera and gradually save to give to him cos he has a deadline of December? Please guys I need your advice.
Cc
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Semid4lyfe
Obinoscopy

In as much as I love children to respect their parents, your parents derailed you from your future plans and since then, you have lost balance and you are making efforts to gain yourself

Am glad you have developed the habit of savings

Pls forget about your dad's predicament, face your own predicament

Sort yourself because even if you are down, no body will raise you up except God

You have become a laughing stock in your family just because you lost your balance

Don't look at their direction, get your direction by yourself and use your savings to start something before you will be tagged tgat you brought mis fortune to others because you are the first born

Very soon, your time will expire in that house, that's when this advice would have been useful

Your advice is very inspiring! Thank you alot....

frozen70g:


In as much as I love children to respect their parents, your parents derailed you from your future plans and since then, you have lost balance and you are making efforts to gain yourself

Am glad you have developed the habit of savings

Pls forget about your dad's predicament, face your own predicament

Sort yourself because even if you are down, no body will raise you up except God

You have become a laughing stock in your family just because you lost your balance

Don't look at their direction, get your direction by yourself and use your savings to start something before you will be tagged tgat you brought mis fortune to others because you are the first born

Very soon, your time will expire in that house, that's when this advice would have been useful

cheeseballs:
Your advice is very inspiring! Thank you alot....

Thanks dear

Keke riding is your job not your business. Any activity that requires your presence to function is a job. You already have a job. What you need now is a business. But to succeed in any business you need information and experience. What better business can you venture into other than transport business, where you have the know how. Get another Keke and have someone with guarantors ride it for you. Continue to accumulate funds and continue the circle untill you have about four riders. Then you can get required capital to venture into phone accessories.

This is a lesson to all parents, support your kids to follow their passion.

cheeseballs:
I have done alot of study into fish farming in my area. But no one in my area would lease his or her land to anyone (greed of the igbos). And crime is so high that we fear coming back home around 8pm. I also thought of buying an okada or second hand Keke to give to someone, but there are countless of cases where by they run away with it. Even my friends that borrow money from me never return it and still act like all is cool. I would rather invest in myself and bear the loss... I would love to do a business with the money I have and later on pursue my YouTube dream,but it's so small to do any reasonable business with. And come to think of it I already have a business am doing "riding Keke". That 100k I have was raised in less than 5 weeks. It would be a great achievement for me to start this YouTube stuff that has been on my mind now,and before February next year raise money to study a course at the University even if it's a professional course while supporting myself with the Keke. And maybe people will start believing in me and give me the help I deserve.... Thanks for your advice man!!!

Auchi poly has one the best art department in Nigeria, they have produced great artists. You might even be our missing Picasso or Micheal d’angelo, since you said that your work has made it to the studio once. I don’t know why naija parents keep making this same mistake over and over again, trying to change their kids destiny with their preferred choice. All the same, do what’s best for you, you need to get your life back on track