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jidxin:
in yoruba tradition daughters or son are not chattels or goods or property to be sold. we are concerned about happiness of the union.

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YORUBA DONT HAVE CULTURE.

YOUR MARRIAGES ARE DIVORCE PRONE.

U ARE FACED WITH A MASS EXIT OF YORUBA GROOM NOT MARRYING YORUBA WOMEN.

E.G. DAVIDO BROTHER MARRIED CALABAR, DAVIDO IGBO.

hammerU:
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YORUBA DONT HAVE CULTURE.

YOUR MARRIAGES ARE DIVORCE PRONE.

U ARE FACED WITH A MASS EXIT OF YORUBA GROOM NOT MARRYING YORUBA WOMEN.

its a known fact...igbos dont have culture or any pre existing precolonial political structure. the whole world knows that. but talking about culture and tradition yorubas are very extremely rich.

Administration1:
You attend Living Faith Church Woji

Nope
My Church is Divine appointment ministry international.

Pastor Ben Eragbai( Jesus Soldier)

Lest I forget, We are even having an all night deliverance program at National stadium Surulere, this evening theme : WAR AGAINST SATANIC MANIPULATIONS.

it's all night, just for tonight against witches , wizards , occults and ancestral curses or any form of curses with any ailment.

Deliverance is tonight. Be Free

If only you believe .

jidxin:
its a known fact...igbos dont have culture or any pre existing precolonial political structure. the whole world knows that. but talking about culture and tradition yorubas are very extremely rich.

IN YORUBA CULTURE, YORUBA WOMEN ARE MADE TO PAY FOR THEIR OWN MARRIAGE.

AS IF THE GROOM IS DOING HER A FAVOUR BY MARRYING HER.

IT IS ONLY YORUBA THAT PRACTICE THIS IN THE WHOLE NIGERIA.

YET YORUBA MEN RATHER GO WHERE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID.

hammerU:



ARE U JUSTIFYING GOING TO MARRY WHERE THEM DEY VEX PUT?

How is it her business if them dey vex put for there? She is an individual in her own right with God given freewill. If d universe sovereign Yahweh doesn't not tamper with d freewill he has given her, who is her father a human like her to do so?? Such a very grave consequence is attached to tampering another human beings freewill on matters of d heart such as dis now. She is an individual in her own right. Dis nonsense notion of "after all I did for u" by African parents should stop. It was ur choice to ve d sex that produced d child, it was ur choice to keep & nurse d pregnancy. So it ur responsibility u had to do when u gave birth to d child, not a favor.

hammerU:
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GO AND MARRY WHERE DEM DEY VEX PUT, THAT IS CLEARLY YOUR DESTINY.

IT IS NOT FOR ME.

U re not knowledgeable at all I pity d woman that wil fall in love with u. U re weak & mediocre in ur thinking.

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newdawn2017:
How is it her business if them dey vex put for there? She is an individual in her own right with God given freewill. If d universe sovereign Yahweh doesn't not tamper with d freewill he has given her, who is her father a human like her to do so?? Such a very grave consequence is attached to tampering another human beings freewill on matters of d heart such as dis now. She is an individual in her own right. Dis nonsense notion of "after all I did for u" by African parents should stop. It was ur choice to ve d sex that produced d child, it was ur choice to keep & nurse d pregnancy. So it ur responsibility u had to do when u gave birth to d child, not a favor.

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STOP SOUNDING LIKE A PRODIGAL DAUGHTER AND UNGODLY.

THE COMMANDMENT OF GOD SAID HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER SO YOUR DAYS WILL BE LONG.


KEY WORD IS HONOR.


SHE DID NOT GIVE BIRTH TO HERSELF.

HER MOTHER DID NOT IMPREGNATE HERSELF.

SHE DID NOT CARE FOR HERSELF INTO ADULTHOOD.

SHE OWES HER FATHER SOMETHING AND DAT THING IS RESPECT.

WAT SHE DID WAS VERY DISRESPECTFUL, IF MY DAUGHTER TRY DAT, I WILL GO FOR MY GUN AND PEOPLE WIL DIE.

Chi59:

The same way your father cursed you right?
Avoid me

you should be 100% avoided because your likes seek the wrath of curses on themselves. I will forever be by the side of my father am sure similar stuff can't be said about you hence the bitterness of your father towards you.. fool!

hammerU:
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STOP SOUNDING LIKE A PRODIGAL DAUGHTER AND UNGODLY.

THE COMMANDMENT OF GOD SAID HOUNOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER SO YOUR DAYS WILL BE LONG.


KEY WORD IS HONOUR.


SHE DID NOT GIVE BIRTH TO HERSELF.

SHE DID NOT CARE FOR HERSELF INTO ADULTHOOD.

SHE OWES HER FATHER SOMETHING AND DAT THING IS RESPECT.

WAT SHE DID WAS VERY DISRESPECTFUL, IF MY DAUGHTER TRY DAT, I WILL GO FOR MY GUN.

At cost of ones freewill & peace of mind?? No! It's witchcraft. It's on heard off. She is an adults now, an individual in her own right. Her parents must recognize that & not make it difficult for d child to honor them. Respect is reciprocal. She can't stay put while he disrespect, shames, riddicle & humiliate ur child just because they came into d world through u. Toxic is toxic it wears victim out mentally emotionally & psychologically victims work on eggshells & re told they re still ur pareñts. Blood isn't thicker than peace of mind.

The Wife should have known the implication of given out daughter in marriage without father's consent. Father will always be father to her daughter as long as he's alive. She should have allowed him to play fatherly role in that wedding. Also, that Man shouldn't have gone to that extent by cursing his daughter, she's innocent in this situation. The parent should be blamed for whatever decision she's taken. He needs to pray seriously for his daughter.

victorian:
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Ojukwu who married Biance against the father's wish and prayers. Didn't they live well? Didn't they have children? I think 5 kids or so. Till Ojukwu grew so old and when it was eminent old age is about to take him peacefully to the world beyond, Bianca's dad had no choice but to accept him as his son inlaw.
After the dowry was paid he later died peacefully in his sleep as well aged man.

So what are u saying? About all mighty tradition?

No tradition can supersede God.

Well. Anyways I wasnt talking to you in the first place. So please respect yourself and keep your archaic views to yourself or share it with someone of like minds with u. I don't have strength for unnecessary insult tonight.

Thanks

Archaic bah... Na ur likes be the girl mum!
Am 100% sure you're not married and if you do with this attitude of yours... wait who would even look at you and your routine attitude in the first place.. modern Era women are running out of husband house like no tomorrow! I like my archaic life style

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newdawn2017:
At cost of ones freewill & peace of mind?? No! It's witchcraft. It's on heard off. She is an adults now, an individual in her own right. Her parents must recognize that & not make it difficult for d child to go him. Respect is reciprocal. She can't stay put while he disrespect, shames, riddicle & humiliate ur child just because they came into d world through u. Toxic is toxic it wears victim out mentally emotionally & psychologically victims work on eggshells & re told they re still ur pareñts. Blood isn't thicker than peace of mind.

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WAT FREEWILL, WHO DO U THINK U ARE?

U THINK THE MARRIAGE IS ONLY ABOUT WAT U WANT?

MARRIAGE IS ABOUT YOUR ENTIRE LINEAGE AND COMMUNITY.

AT THE TOP OF THAT PYRAMID ARE YOUR PARENTS.

ALL THE COMMUNITY CARE ABOUT IS DID THE PARENTS GIVE THEIR BLESSING.

IF THEY DID, EVERYBODY IS HAPPY.

EVEN IF SHE IS UNDERAGE, U CAN MARRY HER WITH PARENTAL CONSENT, DAT IS TO SHOW YOU THE POWER OF THE PARENTS.

TYGA WAS DATING KYLIE WEN SHE WAS UNDERAGE, NOTHING HAPPEN BECOS HER PARENTS ALLOWED IT.

hammerU:
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WAT FREEWILL, WHO DO U THINK U ARE?

U THINK THE MARRIAGE IS ONLY ABOUT WAT U WANT?

MARRIAGE IS ABOUT YOUR ENTIRE LINEAGE AND COMMUNITY.

AT THE TOP OF THAT PYRAMID ARE YOUR PARENTS.

ALL THE COMMUNITY CARE ABOUT IS DID THE PARENTS GIVE THEIR BLESSING.

IF THEY DID, EVERYBODY IS HAPPY.

EVEN IF SHE IS UNDERAGE, U CAN MARRY HER WITH PARENTAL CONSENT, DAT IS TO SHOW YOU THE POWER OF THE PARENTS.

TYGA WAS DATING KYLIE WEN SHE WAS UNDERAGE, NOTHING HAPPEN BECOS HER PARENTS ALLOWED IT.

What happened to respecting her choice as an adult as well as taking d said lady's own feelings into account?? Na them wan live with d Man & possibly every other outcome from d union?? What re u saying??

hammerU:
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WAT FREEWILL, WHO DO U THINK U ARE?

U THINK THE MARRIAGE IS ONLY ABOUT WAT U WANT?

MARRIAGE IS ABOUT YOUR ENTIRE LINEAGE AND COMMUNITY.

AT THE TOP OF THAT PYRAMID ARE YOUR PARENTS.

ALL THE COMMUNITY CARE ABOUT IS DID THE PARENTS GIVE THEIR BLESSING.

IF THEY DID, EVERYBODY IS HAPPY.

EVEN IF SHE IS UNDERAGE, U CAN MARRY HER WITH PARENTAL CONSENT, DAT IS TO SHOW YOU THE POWER OF THE PARENTS.

TYGA WAS DATING KYLIE WEN SHE WAS UNDERAGE, NOTHING HAPPEN BECOS HER PARENTS ALLOWED IT.

Our modern day babes are sounding like they fell from heaven.. lol

Some persons here are using this opportunity to spew the hatred they have for their fathers.

newdawn2017:
What happened to respecting her choice as an adult as well as taking d said lady's own feelings into account?? Na them wan live with d Man & possibly every other outcome from d union?? What re u saying??

see as she don bend the matter, did the dad reject the grooom? stop posting blindly and let me reset your brain to the topic here..


they went behind the father, carry marriage to a foreign land and do... traditional marriage for that matter... stop this bent analysis. A father and mother can be separated but the rights must still be completed. unless you're saying the man is no longer the father of the girl for divorcing the mum.

now the man is angry that he wasn't even told about anything...

She simply showed her husband how she can disrespect her own father by not going to him for blessings.

The husband should not be surprised if she disrespects him in the future.
No matter what, Father's consent is very necessary.

In the case of ojukwu n Bianca, that shldnt be an example because ojukwu had many wives. After his death Bianca was battling his properties with ojukwus first son.

When both parents are Anambra, it wasn't proper for her to marry in Asaba. Why did she avoid Nnobi where she's from?

Commentor:
Taaah!


Na today?

This comment mocks his curses so well

Mrs Ezeonu, The Cursed should rent Saraki to do it in front of Mr Ezeonu, The Curser

victorian:









My dear their marriage will be fine and will last long.
Bianca's dad said worse during Bianca time.
No be today.

A childhood friend of mine got married to an igbo girl without both parents consent and even in a Muslim way. Cos the guy is a Muslim. Infact she abscond and went to the guy's father house for nikkai and from there move to the guy house and lives as his wife.
The parents of the girl disowned the girl. But guess what? The girl got pregnant a year in the marriage, they have 3kids, two boys and one girl.
As I speak to you today. That Muslim Guy is the best son inlaw they can ever dream of and he became so successful during the marriage, upon the girl parents curses.

While the other sisters who married igbo guys. One of the igbo guys left her. While the other sister, igbo guys are just playing her up and down.

The parens had no choice but to accept the Muslim boy as their son.. after 4years of marriage, and with grand children. the father of the girl called the boy for reconciliation when he saw how he's taking care of his daughter and even employed her elder sister in his company.

So forget story jare.


As long as their marriage as being offered to God. No human being or spirit can break that home.. God supersedes all.

In both your examples, the parents were united against the unions.

Quite different from a father saying he was not allowed to be involved in his daughter's wedding.

If he refused to be involved that's not the same.


Did the groom ask the bride why they preferred to hold the wedding in Asaba instead of Anambra? Did he grow up in Nigeria?

She must be in a movie set. She ll bear all manner of fruits and vegetables and you ll not be invited for the naming

Sperm and egg no sabi curse

victoronyekwelu:

Ifite-Ogbunike

Ok, brother. I'm from Azu

femi4:
She must be in a movie set. She ll bear all manner of fruits and vegetables and you ll not be invited for the naming

ednut1:
Sperm and egg no sabi curse

Have u heard wen people get married have children on freak accident happen kill all of them. Dont play with curses.

victorian:






The father is an evil man and God will disgrace him.

I now realize why my pastor will make us prayer certain prayers about blood.

Any blood spitting fire of troubles or problems in our lives, whether the blood is alive or dead in the grave, we decree the blood to shut up and never speak out again. We decree any blood who wants to destroy us, we decree destruction to that blood and the voice of that blood to be silenced forever. And if the blood is alive? It must go 6ft under.

Before I use to wonder why Pastor will make the congregation pray such prayer for like 40mins and decree fire of the Holy Ghost on it and every curse back to sender


Now I know.


What a devilish father.

This prayer is selfish and it's not sanctioned anywhere in God's Word. It can't get God's attention. Every prayer must be in line with God's Word else you talk to the air and may even attract demons to yourself.

Once you were an enemy to God, why didn't He killed you at once? Why praying that God kills someone? God can offer you protection without killing anyone. There's no point praying for someone to die before you are free. If you go that way, you'd kill everybody because you can't live in this world without an enemy and if you don't have an enemy, there's something wrong with you. It means you are not making progress because progress attracks enemies.

Rather than pray for them to die, pray God prepares a table in the presence of your enemies. Let them live to see what you'll become in life. That's just the prayer for your enemies. Let's stop calling for blood, please. Christianity isn't an occult. We ain't vampires.

ClixMaster:
Ok, brother. I'm from Azu

wow I know that place I have relatives there

topboss:
Have u heard wen people get married have children on freak accident happen kill all of them. Dont play with curses.

bullocks

hammerU:
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A FATHER HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW WHO IS COMING TO SEEK HIS DAUGHTER HAND IN MARRIAGE.

ALL OVER THE WORLD, INCLUDING THE WESTERN WORLD, WOMEN DO NOT GIVE AWAY CHILDREN IN MARRIAGE.

THAT IS THE ROLE OF THE FATHER.

Unfortunately for you, that's not Meghan's fahter but Harry's.

What kind of father curses his child

topboss:
Have u heard wen people get married have children on freak accident happen kill all of them. Dont play with curses.

Africans and stupid beliefs.

Causes of accidents includes reckless driving, bad roads etc

A god cannot curse another god

hammerU:


IN YORUBA CULTURE, YORUBA WOMEN ARE MADE TO PAY FOR THEIR OWN MARRIAGE.

AS IF THE GROOM IS DOING HER A FAVOUR BY MARRYING HER.

IT IS ONLY YORUBA THAT PRACTICE THIS IN THE WHOLE NIGERIA.

YET YORUBA MEN RATHER GO WHERE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID.

yoruba hardly marry igbo people... Just 0.08 percent of yoruba man will marry igbo. Few cultures of igbos are againt public opinion, they are repugnant to natural justice, against good conscience and mostly incompatible with Nigerian law

jidxin:
yoruba hardly marry igbo people... Just 0.08 percent of yoruba man will marry igbo. Few cultures of igbos are againt public opinion, they are repugnant to natural justice, against good conscience and mostly incompatible with Nigerian law

A YORUBA MAN LIKE YOURSELF, WAT CONCERNS YOU WITH IGBO PEOPLE CULTURE?

DID DEY FORCE IT ON YOU LIKE ISLAM?

LAST I CHECKED, IGBO CULTURE ARE EXCLUSIVE RESERVE FOR THE IGBO PEOPLE.

FatherBona:

And someone will wonder why the continent is backwards and years behind in civilization.

Papa dey curse pikin kwanu?!?
Imagine a father taking pride in saying he doesn't want the progress of someone in his family.

Tufiakwa!!!!

Indomi fool