victoronyekwelu:
can someone tell this man that we from Ogbunike don't fear or take shit!!! maybe he should check his history books

Have u been to Ogbunike? look at this my mama said am from Ogbunike fool.

samuelson06:


This prayer is selfish and it's not sanctioned anywhere in God's Word. It can't get God's attention. Every prayer must be in line with God's Word else you talk to the air and may even attract demons to yourself.

Once you were an enemy to God, why didn't He killed you at once? Why praying that God kills someone? God can offer you protection without killing anyone. There's no point praying for someone to die before you are free. If you go that way, you'd kill everybody because you can't live in this world without an enemy and if you don't have an enemy, there's something wrong with you. It means you are not making progress because progress attracks enemies.

Rather than pray for them to die, pray God prepares a table in the presence of your enemies. Let them live to see what you'll become in life. That's just the prayer for your enemies. Let's stop calling for blood, please. Christianity isn't an occult. We ain't vampires.

The prayer is not selfish one bit!

In the recent times, our enemies can be from our own household or people close to us but pretending to love us.

Enemies of these recent times, do not pity or spare anyone in their curses.
Enemies of these recent times have no conscience

So why spare them? And allow them to live to see what I will become?

Abeg I'm not sparing anyone who wishes me evil! Never! I will not.

If not for my pastor's prayers, I would have been 6ft below since! My immediate family except my dad who aged well and died peacefully, the rest was wiped out with either cardiac arrest or stroke and u are saying we shouldnt scream for any blood and we are not vampires?
Anyways my philosophy is Head for an head. Eye for an eye. No mercy!

If not for God and fervent prayers I would have been wiped out as well. Cardiac arrest 4times, slumped, I thought I was dead then woke up out of the blues all alone in my apartment and alive today. Dead 4times, woke up 4 times! All alone! .

Recently I experience face stroke, just last month. I shook my head, smiles with my slightly bent face and mouth, I went to church, drank holy communion and with fervent prayer, my face came back to normal that same evening and my bp was normalised. Everybody in church were so happy screaming with joy, what a miraculous God we serve. Pastor was high in joy!
I was so relieved and happy.

The night I was healed , the next day I was called from the village my Aunt whom I wished happy New Year first of the year that we will. Live long o and well o, didn't answer me but cut my call. I was shocked. I said well na she sabi. For me I will. Live long and well. They said she fainted that night I receive healing.

As soon as I was set free from a bent face, which is face stroke, I received a call from. One of my uncles that Aunty slumped and she's in comma. They've rushed her to hospital. I was surprised.

The next week another holy communion service, God said to. Me Vicky I will complete your healing And set u free , go to the service again . I went. Holy Spirit threw me down, how I saw myself on the floor I don't know in church. I took holycommunion went home happy and completely strong and full of life. The next day I received another call, aunty died through her comma, she didn't wake up. I'm not saying she's the one who caused the stroke but enemies have been using strokes and cardiac arrest to wipe out my family.

So it's best the enemies die as they don't want me to enjoy my life in good health ND peace . My guardian angel will not spare any of my enemies, if u like say we are occult. I don't fucvkin care! Say we are vampires? That's not my business.

It's survival of the fittest. Just let me be and enjoy life. I no owe anyone anything. I'm not struggling property with them. I left all my inheritance for them, so I can hustle in Lagos and live peacefully. Cos I don't want fight over property. But some still want to finish me off.
My God will not spare anyone who wants me to suffer after I've worked so hard and well.
So they should lemme stay on my lane jeje. Live and let live.

Practice forgiveness in order to have peace.

Cursing does not give peace, it only strengthens your enemies as you have said.

Take nl for example, sometimes you make an innocuous post and someone replies with bitter curses, if you respond in like manner you have allowed them to transfer their bitterness and cursed spirit to you.

So forgive just like Jesus commanded, and leave vengeance to God.

If your enemy is rejoicing that they have harmed you, that is not your problem. Let them rejoice but focus on your own goals.

asanwafo:
Indomi fool

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hammerU:



A YORUBA MAN LIKE YOURSELF, WAT CONCERNS YOU WITH IGBO PEOPLE CULTURE?

DID DEY FORCE IT ON YOU LIKE ISLAM?

LAST I CHECKED, IGBO CULTURE ARE EXCLUSIVE RESERVE FOR THE IGBO PEOPLE.

History shows that there so called culture crystallised from the 19th century picked from here and there

@ victorian

Well, it's sad that you are going through all the challenges. But on the flipside, you've drawn closer to God and your prayer life is also strengthened as a result of the challenges you've passed through. To an extent, you are mature in the things of God. This is a big plus for you and I know no demon can kill you (not because you've been attacking your seemeth enemies). Life isn't a bed of roses but a battle ground.

However, one thing is sure: you can't live in this world without challenges. These challenges may come from anywhere, but don't forget that we are not fighting against flesh and blood (which include your relatives, neighbors and humans in general) but against principalities and powers; against rulers of darkness (which cannot be seen with the optical eyes).

If anybody is telling you that your brother, sister, or a relative is responsible for your challenges, he/she is telling you a lie. If you cannot believe that there are powers that may rise against you which cannot be seen, then you will keep fighting the wrong battles and seeing everyone as your enemy; labeling people witches and witchcraft.

Our common enemy is Satan and his demons. Channel all your spiritual darts against them. Learn to form your prayer words accordingly and most importantly, they must be backed by God's Word; not man's words. Cheers.

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If this man was actively present in the you girl's life, there is no way she would have excluded him from her wedding. Even if the mum wants to exclude him, tYou can't abandon a child, allow one parent to raise her then expect her to come to you fo blessings when it's time to get married. Times have changed, it was back in the days that absentee parents are respected by the children they left behind. These days, abandon a child and expect him or her to look for you talkless of seeking your consent to get married, you will get the shock of your life except you're lucky the child is one that want to do so.

victorian:






The prayer is not selfish one bit!

In the recent times, our enemies can be from our own household or people close to us but pretending to love us.

Enemies of these recent times, do not pity or spare anyone in their curses.
Enemies of these recent times have no conscience

So why spare them? And allow them to live to see what I will become?

Abeg I'm not sparing anyone who wishes me evil! Never! I will not.

If not for my pastor's prayers, I would have been 6ft below since! My immediate family except my dad who aged well and died peacefully, the rest was wiped out with either cardiac arrest or stroke and u are saying we shouldnt scream for any blood and we are not vampires?
Anyways my philosophy is Head for an head. Eye for an eye. No mercy!

If not for God and fervent prayers I would have been wiped out as well. Cardiac arrest 4times, slumped, I thought I was dead then woke up out of the blues all alone in my apartment and alive today. Dead 4times, woke up 4 times! All alone! .

Recently I experience face stroke, just last month. I shook my head, smiles with my slightly bent face and mouth, I went to church, drank holy communion and with fervent prayer, my face came back to normal that same evening and my bp was normalised. Everybody in church were so happy screaming with joy, what a miraculous God we serve. Pastor was high in joy!
I was so relieved and happy.

The night I was healed , the next day I was called from the village my Aunt whom I wished happy New Year first of the year that we will. Live long o and well o, didn't answer me but cut my call. I was shocked. I said well na she sabi. For me I will. Live long and well. They said she fainted that night I receive healing.

As soon as I was set free from a bent face, which is face stroke, I received a call from. One of my uncles that Aunty slumped and she's in comma. They've rushed her to hospital. I was surprised.

The next week another holy communion service, God said to. Me Vicky I will complete your healing And set u free , go to the service again . I went. Holy Spirit threw me down, how I saw myself on the floor I don't know in church. I took holycommunion went home happy and completely strong and full of life. The next day I received another call, aunty died through her comma, she didn't wake up. I'm not saying she's the one who caused the stroke but enemies have been using strokes and cardiac arrest to wipe out my family.

So it's best the enemies die as they don't want me to enjoy my life in good health ND peace . My guardian angel will not spare any of my enemies, if u like say we are occult. I don't fucvkin care! Say we are vampires? That's not my business.

It's survival of the fittest. Just let me be and enjoy life. I no owe anyone anything. I'm not struggling property with them. I left all my inheritance for them, so I can hustle in Lagos and live peacefully. Cos I don't want fight over property. But some still want to finish me off.
My God will not spare anyone who wants me to suffer after I've worked so hard and well.
So they should lemme stay on my lane jeje. Live and let live.

U need to change your diet to plant based food.

Then u need to do exercise even if it is long walks everyday.

Do it where is safe. As u get better start jogging small. Ideally 1hour to 1 hour 30minutes a day, as you get strong.

There are floor exercises that are also good.

My philosophy is good food, clean food, healthy diet and exercise.

Watch your weight.

Also, there are medication used to control high blood pressure that leads to stroke.

Avoid stress or worry, do little you can and rest. Take each day as it comes.

Go to a good hospital for the test first. General health check up, blood, heart and bmi.

BACK TO THE TOPIC.

AFRICANS SUFFER ALOT FROM THEIR OWN WICKEDNESS.

WE HOLD EACH OTHER DOWN AND HATE EACH OTHER FOR NO VALID REASON.

IF WE ALL DO THE RIGHT THING, WE WILL ALL BE ALOT HAPPIER AND OUR LIVES WILL HAVE ALOT MORE VALUE.

IT TAKES NOTHING TO GO TO YOUR FATHER AND TELL HIM YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED.

IF HIM AND YOUR MOTHER DID NOT WORK OUT, IT DOES NOT CONCERN U.

YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER RELATIONSHIP IS SEPARATE FROM HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AS HIS CHILD.

IF I GET MARRIED WITHOUT TELLING MY UNCLES, I KNOW THEY WILL NEVER FORGIVE ME.

NOT TO TALK OF MY UNCLES THAT ARE MY PARENT SIBLINGS.

SO HOW DO U MARRY WITHOUT TELLING YOUR FATHER?

FCUCKED UP BEHAVIOR!

asanwafo:
Have u been to Ogbunike? look at this my mama said am from Ogbunike fool.

why the talk pain you now lol oga me and my village again you are vexing

**why do I always think Onitsha is the capital of Anambra state**

jidxin:
yoruba hardly marry igbo people... Just 0.08 percent of yoruba man will marry igbo. Few cultures of igbos are againt public opinion, they are repugnant to natural justice, against good conscience and mostly incompatible with Nigerian law

Stop displaying your lack of enlightenment. Right from Ur comment abt the world knowing Igbo has no culture, are U serious? Hope you are not high on paint or codeine.
Go to Sweden, UK, many whites speak/rap Igbo ,even study so many of their customs/ tradition,, even New yam festival is well recognised n admired internationally.

So many yoruba men keep marrying n love to marry Igbo women ,over 98% of the men.

Stop allowing ethnocentrism to becloud Ur reasoning.

Why are people always fighting over Yoruba men, haba.

What about the other Nigerian tribes.

Even on this thread where the groom clearly has a lot more work to do as per his nuptials, folks are still busy arguing over Yoruba men as if they don't see the topic?

goldony:


Stop displaying your lack of enlightenment. Right from Ur comment abt the world knowing Igbo has no culture, are U serious? Hope you are not high on paint or codeine.
Go to Sweden, UK, many whites speak/rap Igbo ,even study so many of their customs/ tradition,, even New yam festival is well recognised n admired internationally.

So many yoruba men keep marrying n love to marry Igbo women ,over 98% of the men.

Stop allowing ethnocentrism to becloud Ur reasoning.

. It's obvious you are the one displaying ignorance here... From their egalitarian society to caste system of osu only points to the fact that igbo dont have custom

hammerU:
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A FATHER HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW WHO IS COMING TO SEEK HIS DAUGHTER HAND IN MARRIAGE.

ALL OVER THE WORLD, INCLUDING THE WESTERN WORLD, WOMEN DO NOT GIVE AWAY CHILDREN IN MARRIAGE.

THAT IS THE ROLE OF THE FATHER.

So when father's abandoned wife and children to go fool around with side chicks , then in the future they will want to reap where they didn't sow. This is are lessons for us to learn from. Cos as of today, so many guys are rejecting their baby and the baby mama. But in the future they will now want to eat from a single mother sweat. No, it doesn't work that way. If you're out you're out

Did they not sow when they fathered the baby?

And how does the topic concern single mothers/baby mamas when the lady in question was not one?

The whole matter is starting to seem fishy.

Abeg Mr man shut up


As long as your ex wife (ngozi) is no longer your wife, invariably,her daughter is no longer yours so curse all you like,kolework


See painment oooo

hammerU:
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A FATHER HAS A RIGHT TO KNOW WHO IS COMING TO SEEK HIS DAUGHTER HAND IN MARRIAGE.

ALL OVER THE WORLD, INCLUDING THE WESTERN WORLD, WOMEN DO NOT GIVE AWAY CHILDREN IN MARRIAGE.

THAT IS THE ROLE OF THE FATHER.

eskis sir, SPERMMM DONOR IS DIFFERENT FROM FATHER . therefore a FATHER has the right to GIVE HIS DAUGHTER'S HAND IN MARRIAGE, not speermm donor or sex mate

dominique:
If this man was actively present in the you girl's life, there is no way she would have excluded him from her wedding. Even if the mum wants to exclude him, tYou can't abandon a child, allow one parent to raise her then expect her to come to you fo blessings when it's time to get married. Times have changed, it was back in the days that absentee parents are respected by the children they left behind. These days, abandon a child and expect him or her to look for you talkless of seeking your consent to get married, you will get the shock of your life except you're lucky the child is one that want to do so.

exactly


My point exactly.suctinctly put.all those entitled speermm donors ranting all I want is a baby mama you're free to make your choice BUT YOU'RE NOT FREE FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR CHOICE.when the child grows up and realizes that you weren't there for him or her,don't expect royal treatment.this days children are only useful to the parent who was useful for them

Even a useless aunty,uncle or relation will be shoved to the background if he didn't contribute to the growth and success of a child and the sucess comes, he/she now wants to start feeling entitled or famz

Everyone is at fault here.

The dad for not speaking out before the wedding.

The mum for insulting the father in this manner (whose name was on the wedding invitation as the father's family?)

The daughter who happily got married without involving her dad in the wedding or allowing him to refuse to be a part of it

The groom who married without seeing his wife's father or asking why. What did they discuss during courtship?

The guests and nollywood folks who are refusing to get involved after the father spoke out

The officials who did not clarify what is going on (who stood in for the father?)

The babalawos or advisers who are keeping quiet

nlPoster:
Everyone is at fault here.

The dad for not speaking out before the wedding.

The mum for insulting the father in this manner (whose name was on the wedding invitation as the father's family?)

The daughter who happily got married without involving her dad in the wedding or allowing him to refuse to be a part of it

The groom who married without seeing his wife's father or asking why. What did they discuss during courtship?

The guests and nollywood folks who are refusing to get involved after the father spoke out

The officials who did not clarify what is going on (who stood in for the father?)

any man, woman,boy or girl especially in this generation who chooses not to be useful when he/she ought to have been will be sidelined as if he/she doesn't exist.thats what happens when you choose to be an irresponsible adult

dangotesmummy:
any man, woman,boy or girl especially in this generation who chooses not to be useful when he/she ought to have been will be sidelined as if he/she doesn't exist.thats what happens when you choose to be an irresponsible adult

Are you the wife's friend, the groom's associate, a wedding guest, nollywood organizer?

nlPoster:


Are you the wife's friend, the groom's associate, a wedding guest, nollywood organizer?

I don't have to be.this is basic common sense

You reap whatever you sow maximally

So no need to feel entitled when you weren't there for anybody

dangotesmummy:
exactly

My point exactly.suctinctly put.all those entitled speermm donors ranting all I want is a baby mama you're free to make your choice BUT YOU'RE NOT FREE FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR CHOICE.when the child grows up and realizes that you weren't there for him or her,don't expect royal treatment.this days children are only useful to the parent who was useful for them

Even a useless aunty,uncle or relation will be shoved to the background if he didn't contribute to the growth and success of a child and the sucess comes, he/she now wants to start feeling entitled or famz

Don't mind them, awon association of sperm donor. Let them keep abandoning their kids and expecting the kids to grow up and look for them. E go do them like film trick, they go curse tire.

dominique:


Don't mind them, awon association of sperm donor. Let them keep abandoning their kids and expecting the kids to grow up and look for them. E go do them like film trick, they go curse tire.

see how pained he is that he had to resort to cursing especially WHEN THE MOTHER HAS BLESSED THE CHILD AND MARRIAGE. Biko who's prayers hold more weight and are more effective in a child's life

Then again the father and mother of the bride are divorced which therefore means that the child is no longer his daughter (except he was there for the daughter) so why body con dey pepper am

Btw you RARELY SEE DAUGHTERS or MOTHER of the bride ignoring their dad on their wedding day even if their parents are not on good terms but for the girl to ignore the dad and the mother does not give a fok ( which is very unusual) regarding how forgiving and loving a woman is,then it shows how terrible the man must have been


Ok let me even ask the man,if the bride you cursed con get belle and give birth nko? Wetin you go con do? Jump for 3rd mainland bridge?


For you to even curse your own daughter because you weren't recognized shows how horrible you are.afterall shebi it's the mother you have a problem with,why transfer your bitterness on the child

Moreover they say hell hath no fury than a woman scorned,I no know say e apply to men too

victorian:






The prayer is not selfish one bit!

In the recent times, our enemies can be from our own household or people close to us but pretending to love us.

Enemies of these recent times, do not pity or spare anyone in their curses.
Enemies of these recent times have no conscience

So why spare them? And allow them to live to see what I will become?

Abeg I'm not sparing anyone who wishes me evil! Never! I will not.

If not for my pastor's prayers, I would have been 6ft below since! My immediate family except my dad who aged well and died peacefully, the rest was wiped out with either cardiac arrest or stroke and u are saying we shouldnt scream for any blood and we are not vampires?
Anyways my philosophy is Head for an head. Eye for an eye. No mercy!

If not for God and fervent prayers I would have been wiped out as well. Cardiac arrest 4times, slumped, I thought I was dead then woke up out of the blues all alone in my apartment and alive today. Dead 4times, woke up 4 times! All alone! .

Recently I experience face stroke, just last month. I shook my head, smiles with my slightly bent face and mouth, I went to church, drank holy communion and with fervent prayer, my face came back to normal that same evening and my bp was normalised. Everybody in church were so happy screaming with joy, what a miraculous God we serve. Pastor was high in joy!
I was so relieved and happy.

The night I was healed , the next day I was called from the village my Aunt whom I wished happy New Year first of the year that we will. Live long o and well o, didn't answer me but cut my call. I was shocked. I said well na she sabi. For me I will. Live long and well. They said she fainted that night I receive healing.

As soon as I was set free from a bent face, which is face stroke, I received a call from. One of my uncles that Aunty slumped and she's in comma. They've rushed her to hospital. I was surprised.

The next week another holy communion service, God said to. Me Vicky I will complete your healing And set u free , go to the service again . I went. Holy Spirit threw me down, how I saw myself on the floor I don't know in church. I took holycommunion went home happy and completely strong and full of life. The next day I received another call, aunty died through her comma, she didn't wake up. I'm not saying she's the one who caused the stroke but enemies have been using strokes and cardiac arrest to wipe out my family.

So it's best the enemies die as they don't want me to enjoy my life in good health ND peace . My guardian angel will not spare any of my enemies, if u like say we are occult. I don't fucvkin care! Say we are vampires? That's not my business.

It's survival of the fittest. Just let me be and enjoy life. I no owe anyone anything. I'm not struggling property with them. I left all my inheritance for them, so I can hustle in Lagos and live peacefully. Cos I don't want fight over property. But some still want to finish me off.
My God will not spare anyone who wants me to suffer after I've worked so hard and well.
So they should lemme stay on my lane jeje. Live and let live.

@bolded: Eyaah, sorry oo, you cannot die if it's not God's time yet, I hope you are feeling better now?

Blackmiserable:


@bolded: Eyaah, sorry oo, you cannot die if it's not God's time yet, I hope you are feeling better now?

That's what I notice too. He's the one keeping me alive.
If it's not my appointed time to die by God's verdict. I will not die.
They can try but they won't succeed. I will bounce back and wake up.

I'm hale and hearty. I'm very OK today. I thank God. Only God deserve the praise. That's why for me and my household it's God forever!

No two ways about it. . Baba God you 2 much! Love you Yahweh!

victorian:








That's what I notice too. He's the one keeping me alive.
If it's not my appointed time to die by God's verdict. I will not die.
They can try but they won't succeed. I will bounce back and wake up.

I'm hale and hearty. I'm very OK today. I thank God. Only God deserve the praise. That's why for me and my household it's God forever!

No two ways about it. . Baba God you 2 much! Love you Yahweh!

P
Mrs. you get mouth jare.

I'm happy you're alive, hale, hearty, and strong like 10 elephants lmao. Well, we thank God.

Kids commenting upandan.

When some of you marry,raise kids ,you will understand the power of a vengeful ex wife.
The man could have been playing his fatherly role and be in the girl's life till the parents started having issues.

Women use kids as pawns in their battles with their exes everyday. it's not new. They always use kids to deal with their former husbands. The person who ends up losing out as always,are the children.

Constant bad-mouthing of your father everyday by your mom can make any child unwittingly detest their father. Everyday, the child is hearing " your father did this, your father did that"... You end up hating him.

He may have also remarried to another woman,which may have doubled the hate.