A single mother ( or parent ) is a person who lives with a child or children and who does not have a spouse or live-in partner.

Reasons for becoming a single parent include

divorce, break-up, abandonment, death of the other parent, childbirth by a single woman or single-person adoption.


Single motherhood has become a part of our society with some coming out successful while some sink down due to stigmatization


So ladies in the house share your experience or give a word to a single mother


Source: Robosky02
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Sometimes some slay mama's are mistaken as single mother's



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Jobiski:
There is no difference

I think there is......


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I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....



Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..



I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah...

Lamanii22:
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....


Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..

I say amen to all the curses poured on him
Some men are pathetic

Stacyomolola:

I say amen to all the curses poured on him
Some men are pathetic

I swear... Those times were dark times for my sister, she cried almost every night... Thank God for the kind of mom we had, she really was there for her.. And my sister really loved him, his love really captured her... She's really an independent person, she just fell into the wrong hands...

Lamanii22:



I swear... Those times were dark times for my sister, she cried almost every night... Thank God for the kind of mom we had, she really was there for her.. And my sister really loved him, his love really captured her... She's really an independent person, she just fell into the wrong hands...

Wow stuff like this happens



But the good thing is she didn't drop out from school, and thanks to wonderful mother you have that was supportive.


Mother will disown their daughter's till they get confused and abort and losses their womb

Never have unprotected sex outside marriage them no go hear.

Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy.


A Word is Enough For the Wise

is realy hard for single mum to get marraid this days

How does a woman live alone and cope, o ga o

Stacyomolola:
I say amen to all the curses poured on him Some men are pathetic

I'm happy you added that word.

Lamanii22:
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....



Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..



I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah...

That's life
But your sister isn't serious in the first place sent to school and got pregnant

Stacyomolola:

I say amen to all the curses poured on him
Some men are pathetic

Wetin men do now
It is women that should use their head not to fall for cheap scope from all this guy

Lamanii22:



I swear... Those times were dark times for my sister, she cried almost every night... Thank God for the kind of mom we had, she really was there for her.. And my sister really loved him, his love really captured her... She's really an independent person, she just fell into the wrong hands...

Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself.

ZINIBANKS:

That's life
But your sister isn't serious in the first place sent to school and got pregnant

Anything can happen... She's serious minded.. She only fell in love...

Martinez39s:
Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

This is not war/blame against gender .... It's just the struggle of being a single mom... And my point is pregnancy shouldn't stop a girl from furthering her education... Lots of parents have disown their girl child cause of this....

robosky02:




Wow stuff like this happens



But the good thing is she didn't drop out from school, and thanks to wonderful mother you have that was supportive.


Mother will disown their daughter's till they get confused and abort and losses their womb

That's true
But I still blame the girl
Your parents sent you to school so you gonna make headway in life and you got pregnant
That shows how uncultured you are
I know a girl back then in school
She can play like we boys that is she can play anyhow with you
So one day we are outside playing as usual and one of my guy just touch her in the ass
Come and see slap
I was shocked the guy later apologize to her and it all ended there
So the following day I told her about the scene that happened yesterday that she really caused a movie scene
What she told me was that
Playing with us doesn't mean she' lost her dignity
Now tell me this one now say she got pregnant
Her mom was supportive bla bla bla
I know a wicked neighbor of mine that will make life miserable for her and her baby nonsense

Martinez39s:
Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself.

How I wish I can give you 5O likes
Bro help me tell am
That shows how useless and uncultured she is
Supposing it's my mom walai she will regret herself

Stacyomolola:

I say amen to all the curses poured on him
Some men are pathetic

No be everybody curse dey catch. If you mumu open ur leg for a random man,stuffs like this happened,then u come dey curse am. mtchhhhh,e no dey work

Lamanii22:



Anything can happen... She's serious minded.. She only fell in love...

Something keep telling me it your story just trying to add your sister to it

Lamanii22:
This is not war/blame against gender .... It's just the struggle of being a single mom... And my point is pregnancy shouldn't stop a girl from furthering her education... Lots of parents have disown their girl child cause of this...

Errrrm... I wasn't engaging in a gender war. You are just seeing things. I have nothing against your sister, I was just a bit disappointed that she played silly games and won stupid prizes. Her situation could have been avoided with sheer common sense and self-control... anyway, śhit happens. An additional lesson (which happens to be the best) one can learn from her case is to be careful when making choices and to consider the long term consequences of one's decisions. Beside, not every parent would lenient as yours. I wish your sister and her child all the best.

ZINIBANKS:

Wetin men do now
It is women that should use their head not to fall for cheap scope from all this guy

thank u

Martinez39s:
Errrrm... I wasn't engaging in a gender war. You are just seeing things. I have nothing against your sister, I was just a bit disappointed that she played silly games and won stupid prizes. Her situation could have been avoided with sheer common sense and self-control... anyway, śhit happens. An additional lesson (which happens to be the best) one can learn from her case is to be careful when making choices and to consider the long term consequences of one's decisions. Beside, not every parent would lenient as yours. I wish your sister and her child all the best.

Okay... Thank you anyways..

ZINIBANKS:

Something keep telling me it your story just trying to add your sister to it

It's my sister's really...

Lamanii22:
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....



Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..



I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah...

I have interest in her case. Can we talk in private....my mail is above.

Stacyomolola:

I say amen to all the curses poured on him
Some men are pathetic

Those things don't work sear, forget it.

AstroG:
Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy.


A Word is Enough For the Wise

Any sensible guy knows this...

That was how one girl, sweet fine girl hid it from me, we got to know for a little over a month, she was about 24 then, the first day we had sex I just knew something wasn't right at all... incidentally I got to her phone, saw her chats affirmed she had a boy (from a school BF, u can imagine, no be even better person) , I just told her to dress up I want to take her to her house I insisted, she dressed , I took her to her house, after telling her all my new findings about her. Dropped her at her house, that was the last she heard from me, or we saw, after calling me unsuccessfully, she adviced herself...
That's the way my brother., everybody bear your cross and carry the consequences of your action, not delegating it to another man, life doesn't work like that.

AstroG:
Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy.


A Word is Enough For the Wise

Dude what is problem?are you mentally stable?are you aware you derailed this thread?kindly read before commenting.

Martinez39s:
Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself.

Hey bro,why does the mention of SM gets you triggered?do they haunt you?
Will heaven fall if you don't stay clear off this thread? The title is to share success story,no one is talking about marrying them or if they are good,the point of this thread is to encourage them to still pursue their education and don't quit their dreams. Your input was not necessary,you are derailing this thread. Like you promised Capslocked,open a thread talking of the demerits of SM or start a say no to single mothers movement but don't come spoil this thread . This has become trolling.
This is so petty,you missed the entire point of this story because you have a passion for pulling those ladies down and heaping blame. My joy is that both mum and baby are safe and that she made a second class honours,you had to pour your negative vibes.

The thread is for women strictly,have some dignity please.
Please don't bother replying Martinez,I have classified you as someone who is "disturbed".,you are very brilliant,but you are investing your brains in gender bigotry.

Not matter how you hide your misogyny it is crystal clear you are one,I know you sugarcoat it with seemingly "speaking the truth" or "saying things as it is" but I wonder how one will invest his time and effort and data into all this gender stuffs,the negative one for that manner,seek help before whatever malady/absurd passion that is bothering you destroy you,you have a bright future indeed,all this distractions are doing you no good,even though you believe so.


You are still young,so I guess all this will end soon.

Kingarthur21:
Hey bro,why does the mention of SM gets you triggered?do they haunt you?
Will heaven fall if you don't stay clear off this thread? The title is to share success story,no one is talking about marrying them or if they are good,the point of this thread is to encourage them to still pursue their education and don't quit their dreams. Your input was not necessary,you are derailing this thread. Like you promised Capslocked,open a thread talking of the demerits of SM or start a say no to single mothers movement but don't come spoil this thread . This has become trolling.
This is so petty,you missed the entire point of this story because you have a passion for pulling those ladies down and heaping blame. My joy is that both mum and baby are safe and that she made a second class honours,you had to pour your negative vibes.

The thread is for women strictly,have some dignity please.
Please don't bother replying Martinez,I have classified you as someone who is "disturbed".,you are very brilliant,but you are investing your brains in gender bigotry.

Not matter how you hide your misogyny it is crystal clear you are one,I know you sugarcoat it with seemingly "speaking the truth" or "saying things as it is" but I wonder how one will invest his time and effort and data into all this gender stuffs,the negative one for that manner,seek help before whatever malady/absurd passion that is bothering you destroy you,you have a bright future indeed,all this distractions are doing you no good,even though you believe so.


You are still young,so I guess all this will end soon.

I hope you didnt create a new account just to respond to me. If you did, it's a waste of time because I don't care what you think. Don't take medicine over my illness. It's best you start ignoring me because I ain't gonna change.