CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'RE MAKING SMALL SMALL POINTS, BUT AS THE ERROR HAS OCCURRED... DO WE CURSE AND BLAME THEM FOREVER LIKE YOU'RE DOING? OR ENCOURAGE THEM TO BE BETTER PEOPLE?

Omar09:


Oh no they're quick to portray them as heroes just wipe off their mistakes. If Lamanii22 your sister was a hero as you say she is, why didn't you go her way?

Sîlly beings.

ProfDview1:


Ur sis sef get fault... Omar09 is right... Her sense didn't tell her dt she shud use condom..

Why was she so quick to open her pant? She suffered the consequences of her stupid actions bcox the stupid man dt fvck her wasn't ready for a baby


The same blame the guy deserves, so does ur sister Also...

Lamanii22:




I'm proud of my sister... If this should happen to your future daughter disown her lol...

Lamanii22:



If this should happen to your future daughter too tell her those words lol....

seunlayi:
don't mind most of these people. Continue to encourage your sister, things will pick up for her. She should remain focused on her goals. Shame on all single fathers for starting what they can't finish.

A single dad can hardly become my friend, I know if you can let down a lady that you struggle to to win her heart before she open her legs for you, I m sure you can do worst to me as a fellow man.

ProfDview1:


U must be joking bro.. Keep painting men as evil... So for every single baby mama, the guy is at fault.


Omar09 see ur brother oo

ProfDview1:


And if ur future son too does that to a lady just like dey did to ur sister, tell him those words too

Lamanii22:




I'd gladly accept my grandchild and he must give me reasons as to why he wouldn't marry the lady he impregnated.... I won't be behind wickedness...

Omar09:


Why not loud being chaste. And of course I'm talking about you. I'm talking about women, the sisterhood. I think having sex is good, I mean all the women decides to be chaste, how will we have sex, but all I'm advocating for is safe sex. And I also preach to men I know about safe sex for their own good. But one thing is to preach, you can never enforce it.

Kingarthur21:

Yours is beyond louding being chaste,it is pure hatred for them. Since i have known you on this forum you have made great opposition towards them ,if it is possible you will stone them. There are more people to hate instead of them,there are ladies involved in paternity fraud,gold diggers,ladies that strip men off their entire life savings in divorce courts,they are ladies that ruin a man future by false rape accusation,killer wives etc but SM are the only sect of women you have been vile and brutal to.

Your aim has been to cripple their self esteem and potray them as worthless.it seems you believe your opinion about them counts and what you say concerning them stands. No Omar,they will grow to great heights(if they move and learn from their past),achieve great things,marry and raise a family,they will live normal lives,despite how you feel about them. All you can do us troll them and abuse their potential spouses,and be angry about it,but they will make it in life whether you like it or not!

Omar09:


I see your point. I don't hate them SM neither do I like them, I'm just indifferent. About how the view themselves, they view themselves with low self esteem even before they got pregnant. But I'm beginning to see your point I am not supposed to make harsh comments on them, nor derogate them in any form, they need encouragement as to pick up from where they dropped. Well I'm gonna do all except encourage them or be of any support, that's the whole point of being indifferent.

Kingarthur21:

Great,as long you leave them alone,I am fine...thank you

AstroG:
Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy.


A Word is Enough For the Wise

seunlayi:
don't mind most of these people. Continue to encourage your sister, things will pick up for her. She should remain focused on her goals. Shame on all single fathers for starting what they can't finish.

A single dad can hardly become my friend, I know if you can let down a lady that you struggle to to win her heart before she open her legs for you, I m sure you can do worst to me as a fellow man.

robosky02:




Becoming a single mother is not a crime in fact avoiding it has made so many girls commit the real crime abortion....

nelogee7:


No sense in your last paragraph... you want to blame men , too bad the society is breeding a generation of Simps and Male feminists

Kingarthur21:
the society sees a single dad as someone good to have accepted the responsibility and a single woman as someone wrong to be with a child. This logic is flawed.why?
They have accepted men absconding from pregnancies as normal and acceptable,they have accepted wrong behaviour as norm,so something above that norm should be celebrated. Fair point.
But,
Why don't they praise SM since a lot of ladies commit abortion,throw babies with in the gutter?if they excuse single dads and applaud them for accepting responsibility of a child when other guys will flee then they should also excuse single moms for accepting a baby when other girls would have aborted...

The society has always excused bad behavior in men,you hear comments like "men have ego" "men are polygamous in nature" "men love respect" etc then for those negative things women do they use shame and threat of being unattractive to a man to curb her down.

Its a pity though,people who are supposed to be ones with logic and good sense of judgement are the ones propagating stereotypes and biased views.

robosky02:



Some young men even have babies with as many as four different mother's. Yet they are idolized

Omar09:


With all due respect sir, I wish to point out where you failed, and where we failed as humans. This thread shouldn't be one where we are subtly encouraging young women to have unprotected sex all in the name of love that won't yield anything.

it. It's that simple!

Kingarthur21:
exactly...as you can see ignorance is bliss.
For opening her legs she is evil and she must be a terrible person ...
For spreading his seed ,well,he is good ..

Glad you stand for the truth bro

Kingarthur21:
exactly...as you can see ignorance is bliss.
For opening her legs she is evil and she must be a terrible person ...
For spreading his seed ,well,he is good ..

Glad you stand for the truth bro

Omar09:


Our first order; BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY

robosky02:




Note we are not encouraging single women to have unprotected s.ex


First you need to understand the. Reasons for becoming a single parent include

divorce, break-up, abandonment, death of the other parent, childbirth by a single woman or single-person adoption.

It is not all that are runs girls or baby mamas

What we are saying


We need to encourage the genuine once to become successful instead ofs making them sink down due to stigmatization


Because they could as well abort a thousands time and then be celebrated in society as good girls

Kingarthur21:
save your strength,Omar will never change,not now at least.

Lamanii22:
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards....



Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them.


Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother..



I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah...

Eberechi24:

An thunder, ASUU and Covid-19 go strike am.

Amatarasha:

King of Arthur of England or dat of ajengunle?

Kingarthur21:
you wanna bring religion into this?

funmisticqueen2:
I heard that you are a single mother, and you bleached your skin, is it true?

Martinez39s:
Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself.