botrix:
Why did you check her fone,?,you got what you searched for,congrats.I stand against spouses checking each other's phones.

so that she can continue cheating and then get aids , then give her innocent boyfriend abi

XhosaNostra:



Wow, don't believe you ever mentioned them to me lol.

Pretty much at the last part.

LOL. You never asked.

Jaqenhghar:

LOL. You never asked.

And I thought we were bosom buddies with no mysteries between us

Jaqenhghar:

no kee me abeg

it may sound funny but its true nau .instead of op to dump his promiscious gf he is now consouling imself that he is in love with her

XhosaNostra:



And I thought we were bosom buddies with no mysteries between us

Yea I know right
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lefulefu:
it may sound funny but its true nau .instead of op to dump his promiscious gf he is now consouling imself that he is in love with her

Clearly. Funny how people 'in love' can't see the most obvious things. Thays why sometimes when the live dey shack me, I take a step back and assess the whole thing carefully.... remove the mumu cap

Jaqenhghar:

Yea I know right
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jagaban002:
3 men and you call that cheat , my brother that’s a LovePeddler begging you there . For a lady you called ur gf is having an affair with 3 men while you away for just a month and u want to consider her my brother sorry to say U not with 100% senses for even thinking of giving her another chance don’t u read how cheating wife’s kill there husbands this days even the one wey don born for there husbands , I no Dey pity people like you because God just deliver u for a lifetime danger and u thinking of going back there . You on ur own jare

Haaaaaaa

Ehhhh

[quote author=ATTemi post=88618007]Among ur friends, none of them fit beat sense into ur skull?[

I haven't told anyone yet, I feel so ashamed, I used to brag with her being so decent and faithful

In just a month, a lady cheated with three men including married men (which shows that she do not even respect marriage), denied you sex with false excuses, and is manipulating you with crocodile tears, and you cant even see that you're been played here. Bro, come on. Your brain should be above your emotions.

Yes you still love her, but so? I love tigers, but I wont be stupid to house one, and you should not be stupid to marry her, because since a tiger can kill instantly, you'll live to regret the decision to marry her, either she gives you disease, you father another mans child, continuously cheating, with other dilemma untold.

If you have to seek advise online for something so infinitesimal and inconsequential as this, it only suggest that you may not be fit to marry and lead a home. If after all the advises you've received here and you still marry her, then you deserve whatever problem comes your way.

This might seem stupid, but OP did you ask her “why”?

Just want to hear her response. Not one, but 3 guys?

[quote author=Newdawn30 post=88622868][/quote]

Please, I personally will like to be invited to your wedding ceremony as at due date.

I can't wait to celebrate and dine with you.

I shall be using your marriage as a case study to future references assuming it lasts more than a fewer years.

Cheers pal, indeed love is a wonderful mystery not to be associated with confusion.

Please quote me when next you open a thread after some years into your union.

Mummy Imade has Spoken

Newdawn30:
Everything was fine BTW us till late last year when she started changing. Our sex life was great till late last year, whenever I make a move to touch her she always say she was tired or not in the mood. It was strange cos she has a large appetite for sex. Then every weekend she hardly spend time with me, it either she had to for her a week training or she had to go home to see her parents which was odd . Even when I told her to stay she refused, it was always one excuse or the other.Then we began having fights even over the silliest things. I was away for a month and I came back early because of the lowdown. I decided to check her message, that's how I learnt that she had been having affairs with other men(3) Including married man she introduced to me as a friend. Same girl that hated ladies that sleep with married men was doing same.
I feel so broken cos I never expected such a thing From her . We are supposed to get married by 3rd quarter this year... I still have feelings for her cos she has been begging and saying she regrets her action begging me not to tell her mom. Her mom is the only person I can trust to knock some sense into her. I'm scared that if I forgive her she might do it again.
Nairalanders I need your advice. I had built my world around her

Change is constant, when a girl tells u she can’t date this type of people or this type of guy..... watch her well cus she will date dem, I had a girl years ago that told me she can’t date Yahoo guys that she is scared of them, today she be yahoo bois food for the town

lefulefu:
After she now infects u with HIV u will now come back creating a thread saying HIV is not death sentence

Lwkm!

Baba, forget the girl, move on.

Once was a mistake, twice a calculated adventure, thrice means she’s taking you 4 granted.[quote author=Newdawn30 post=88622868][/quote]

https://www.nairaland.com/5799985/simps-everywhere-smh


AAND WE HAVE ANOTHER SIMP.

Lamanii22:
Put a hold on marriage for now... Both of you need to go for therapy sessions... I don't know if you both believe in God, if you do, you can dedicate your lives to God, pray more... Don't look at this situation only on the physical aspect... Look at it from the spiritual too...

Lolx...really?

Dont date/marry anyone out of pity

Newdawn30:

I have always told her cheating was a deal breaker, my real worry is she might do it again in the future

I hope you ended that worthless relationship with that wrong-babe?! Forge ahead and get a lady whom deserve you better... Becareful with ladies!

Newdawn30:
Everything was fine BTW us till late last year when she started changing. Our sex life was great till late last year, whenever I make a move to touch her she always say she was tired or not in the mood. It was strange cos she has a large appetite for sex. Then every weekend she hardly spend time with me, it either she had to for her a week training or she had to go home to see her parents which was odd . Even when I told her to stay she refused, it was always one excuse or the other.Then we began having fights even over the silliest things. I was away for a month and I came back early because of the lowdown. I decided to check her message, that's how I learnt that she had been having affairs with other men(3) Including married man she introduced to me as a friend. Same girl that hated ladies that sleep with married men was doing same.
I feel so broken cos I never expected such a thing From her . We are supposed to get married by 3rd quarter this year... I still have feelings for her cos she has been begging and saying she regrets her action begging me not to tell her mom. Her mom is the only person I can trust to knock some sense into her. I'm scared that if I forgive her she might do it again.
Nairalanders I need your advice. I had built my world around her

I don't usually go around throwing insults but this one time i have to. OP you're a fool. Go stand in front of a moving vehicle tomorrow and rid the world of your stupidity. Nonsense.