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Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by vaca1: 8:51pm On May 23, 2020
Let's Discuss This.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:57pm On May 23, 2020
vaca1:
Let's Discuss This.

their dick game becomes boring, they become hypertensive and diabetic, they come home smelling of peppersoup and beer.

Then there is that disgusting pot belly.

They stop being romantic, taking the woman out, being supportive and empathetic, hust because he paid bride price. He stops trying.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by babythug(f): 8:59pm On May 23, 2020
Marriages can get clogged and bogged down with issues of life, this could generally lead to a lack of interest on both sides actually!

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:01pm On May 23, 2020
I will lift what I just wrote in the other thread directed to men in response to someone:

Honestly, there is a war against marriages.

How spouses would be more tender to bosses, subordinates, friends, random people, neighbors, colleagues, classmates than themselves is worrisome.

When it comes to their spouse, 'I won't take it, I can't do it, I can't compromise a little, it is my way or no way'...

'I, I, I, I' and yet will place on their CV as 'team players; ability to negotiate; ability to work under pressure' bla bla.

Practice these skills at home.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by xteve(m): 9:04pm On May 23, 2020
Most husbands no longer do much to 'impress' their wives. Or let me say, real life starts.

I never marry sha

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by abelswife(f): 9:05pm On May 23, 2020
I'm hearing this for the first time. Its actually the other way round

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:09pm On May 23, 2020
Most men stop being nice, stop loving and stop trying to make the lady happy because in their mind they've "caught the fish, what's the use of throwing worms into the water to lure them"
Without realising that after marriage the love should triple and the value placed on the lady shouldn't drop.

Same goes to the ladies, you feel too relaxed, stop making up, don't bother getting your toiletries and stop looking good, because you feel you've gotten the man of your dreams so no need looking good...
SO WRONG

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by vaca1: 9:10pm On May 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
their dick game becomes boring, they become hypertensive and diabetic, they come home smelling of peppersoup and beer.

Then there is that disgusting pot belly.

They stop being romantic, taking the woman out, being supportive and empathetic, hust because he paid bride price. He stops trying.

Lol....fire on...You forgot one thing. Carrying STDs upandan infecting their loyal wives. This is the new normal now. My fellow women stop going raw after childbirth to avoid stories that touch.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 23, 2020
Being irresponsible.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:13pm On May 23, 2020
abelswife:
I'm hearing this for the first time. Its actually the other way round


Wives do lose interest in their husbands too, it is now new, that's when she focuses all her attention on the kids and ignore the husband completely, especially when she tries to air her reasons why to him and he refuse to listen or take caution.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by northvietnam(m): 9:14pm On May 23, 2020
vaca1:


Lol....fire on...You forgot one thing. Carrying STDs upandan infecting their loyal wives. This is the new normal now. My fellow women stop going raw after childbirth to avoid stories that touch.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:16pm On May 23, 2020
vaca1:


Lol....fire on...You forgot one thing. Carrying STDs upandan infecting their loyal wives. This is the new normal now. My fellow women stop going raw after childbirth to avoid stories that touch.
or request for an STD test every 3 months before opening shop

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by vaca1: 9:19pm On May 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
or request for an STD test every 3 months before opening shop
Nice one
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Miarose: 9:21pm On May 23, 2020
What a table
funmisticqueen2:
or request for an STD test every 3 months before opening shop
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Carfreak966: 9:23pm On May 23, 2020
Because they have seen the man finish and need attention from outside. Marital home is getting boring and a little spice is needed. Finance is coming slow (from the man) and her friends on social media have seemingly “Made It”

They go after much older men with pot belly because he has a highlander and the husband is yet to own a car. So many so many...

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by yvelchstores(f): 9:26pm On May 23, 2020
when a man is constantly tormenting her with questions due to lack of trust, breathing on her neck 24/7, trying to control as much as the air she breathes.

that you are the man of the house doesnt translate to meaning you must have a say in EVERYTHING.

When a man Nags like a woman and is so petty....

it will be nice for a husband to give his wife benefit of doubt and if she says she is going somewhere,his response can be "drive carefully dear" and not "going where?why?so you can't just hide yourself? when will you have sense? don't dare step outside?"

Oga o.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by vaca1: 9:27pm On May 23, 2020
northvietnam:


Lol...Truth is bitter though
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:30pm On May 23, 2020
lol. This is the comeback thread.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:31pm On May 23, 2020
abelswife:
I'm hearing this for the first time. Its actually the other way round
Indeed, it is usually the other way round.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by yvelchstores(f): 9:34pm On May 23, 2020
bukatyne:
I will lift what I just wrote in the other thread directed to men in response to someone:

Honestly, there is a war against marriages.

How spouses would be more tender to bosses, subordinates, friends, random people, neighbors, colleagues, classmates than themselves is worrisome.

When it comes to their spouse, 'I won't take it, I can't do it, I can't compromise a little, it is my way or no way'...

'I, I, I, I' and yet will place on their CV as 'team players; ability to negotiate; ability to work under pressure' bla bla.

Practice these skills at home.
nicely said HOWEVER ma'am the game changes when the man is a manipulating selfish self righteous,never wrong, misogynist who NEVER plays fair in his crooked games and you start to ask yourself,come o, things have to change around here. when you start to loose your mind and mental health becomes a real life issue, one has to pull back and keep her head on top of water to stay alive.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by wisdomiskey(m): 9:40pm On May 23, 2020
abelswife:
I'm hearing this for the first time. Its actually the other way round

Don't mind OP.. there's a new pathetic trend of creating female counter-threads to every topic that hits the front page.
So lame.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:41pm On May 23, 2020
yvelchstores:
nicely said HOWEVER ma'am the game changes when the man is a manipulating selfish self righteous,never wrong, misogynist who NEVER plays fair in his crooked games and you start to ask yourself,come o, things have to change around here. when you start to loose your mind and mental health becomes a real life issue, one has to pull back and keep her head on top of water to stay alive.

I am actually talking to both parties.

This was my response to someone on the other thread for men.

I just copied and pasted here.

Hahahahahahaha @ crooked games.

It is well.

Marriages crumbling left, right and center.

And these people know how to treat others outside.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:43pm On May 23, 2020
vikkimimi:
Most men stop being nice, loving and stop trying to please)make the lady happy because in their mind they've "caught the fish, what's the use of throwing worms into the water to lure them"
Without realising that after marriage the love should tripled and the value placed on the lady shouldn't drop.

Same goes to the ladies, you feel too relaxed, shop making up, don't bother getting your toiletries and stop looking good, because you feel you've gotten the man of your dreams so no need looking good...
SO WRONG

Very true.

Like they say 'why campaign after election?'.

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by softplace: 9:45pm On May 23, 2020
95% of women never get tired of marriages even when its toxic

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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by yvelchstores(f): 9:48pm On May 23, 2020
bukatyne:


I am actually talking to both parties.

This was my response to someone on the other thread for men.

I just copied and pasted here.

Hahahahahahaha @ crooked games.

It is well.

Marriages crumbling left, right and center.

And these people know how to treat others outside.

it's well. your posts encourages,for sure...I just wish it was very easy as it sounds. sometimes you give give give give and it's never enough. Over to you Jesus,na where I dey right about now #handsup
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Amopeekun(f): 10:03pm On May 23, 2020
In total support, my sister. E tire me
bukatyne:
I will lift what I just wrote in the other thread directed to men in response to someone:

Honestly, there is a war against marriages.

How spouses would be more tender to bosses, subordinates, friends, random people, neighbors, colleagues, classmates than themselves is worrisome.

When it comes to their spouse, 'I won't take it, I can't do it, I can't compromise a little, it is my way or no way'...

'I, I, I, I' and yet will place on their CV as 'team players; ability to negotiate; ability to work under pressure' bla bla.

Practice these skills at home.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On May 23, 2020
yvelchstores:
it's well. your posts encourages,for sure...I just wish it was very easy as it sounds. sometimes you give give give give and it's never enough. Over to you Jesus,na where I dey right about now #handsup

It is about been deliberate which starts from the mind.

I understand that sometimes, even one's best is not enough.

God will give you the wisdom required to resolve the issues the best way.

All will be well sis.

*Hugs*
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 10:06pm On May 23, 2020
Amopeekun:
In total support, my sister. E tire me

All will be well. smiley
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by toscolee(m): 10:07pm On May 23, 2020
bukatyne:
I will lift what I just wrote in the other thread directed to men in response to someone:

Honestly, there is a war against marriages.

How spouses would be more tender to bosses, subordinates, friends, random people, neighbors, colleagues, classmates than themselves is worrisome.

When it comes to their spouse, 'I won't take it, I can't do it, I can't compromise a little, it is my way or no way'...

'I, I, I, I' and yet will place on their CV as 'team players; ability to negotiate; ability to work under pressure' bla bla.

Practice these skills at home.




Thanks.
I will save this information in my mind for the future.
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by yvelchstores(f): 10:08pm On May 23, 2020
bukatyne:


It is about been deliberate which starts from the mind.

I understand that sometimes, even one's best is not enough.

God will give you the wisdom required to resolve the issues the best way.

All will be well sis.

*Hugs*
amen.thanks
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by crackland: 10:10pm On May 23, 2020
Married women are losing interest in their husbands because fvck boyz are doing an excellent job on them outside. cheesy

The only advise that husbands of such women need, is to ensure they always do regular checkups to ensure they don't contract anything from their wives, and compulsory DNA tests on every child born to them.

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