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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Maxmavis(m): 2:36pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Bros, your life doesn't revolve around your dick. Keep that in mind Back in jss3, I learnt masturbation, I got so addicted that I did it like 7-10 times daily. On weekends with my parents out, and me alone, I used to tear myself and cum to stupor. Yea I'm not ashamed. But see I've noticed that it weighs you down faster when u feel guilty. I remember it Killing my self esteem, making me unproductive, like my life was totally useless, I didn't think of anything else than satisfying myself. Getting to university I could not stay with a girl cause after hours of fu_ck, I'd still maturbate to cum. I seeked therapy and bro. It's the best decision I ever made. Bleep I embraced it. I totally stopped feeling guilty about it, instead excitement. At some point, I remembered that I had not masturbated for a week, then I quickly did it. See ba, the last time I did it was in 2019. Since then nothing, cause I suddenly stopped enjoying it. It's worse now cause when I'm Hot I have to find someone to Bleep and it's not easy. Sometimes I play with my dick yes but nothing happens. It's all in your mind bro. But I noticed why. I didn't have a life. I promise you the moment that you engage yourself, probably sch, career development, volunteer, projects, parties, you'll be good. Always try to involve yourself in long term goals than short term. You don't need to pressure yourself to have friends or be an extrovert. You may even be gay. Just stop judging yourself and you'll be fine. I think the devil uses that as a whip of sort. Only take advise from people who can relate. Don't try to take antitestestorone drugs. They'll give u boobs and ass. Say goodbye to abs and facial hairs and muscles. Work on your mindset. I see u blabbing sin and Satan. Bros. Your future doesn't revolve around your dick, neither does it revolve around sin or Satan or your pastors laid down rules to salvation. Wake the Bleep up 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Remix10(m): 2:38pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
The first step to freedom is self realization. I am so happy for you, masturbation has myriad of psychological, biological and emotional problems. I don't want to go into details but its good you've known it is a silent killer. What should you do: STOP PORNOGRAPHY, STOP PORNOGRAPHY, STOP PORNOGRAPHY!!!!!! 100% of wankers self-service with pornographic pictures, so to kill the urge, avoid the occasion and source of it 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by oderinde151(m): 2:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:I've stopped now for over 5 months |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Kaysalas(m): 2:41pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:Locate and read from page 1, it will be a blessing to you. There is also a WhatsApp group to defeat this. https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/400#93644967 |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Obakovicho: 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Abouwaza:Espirit de corp |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by ChickenHead(m): 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Get your self busy with a job and it will drive idle mind from you........try not to be all by your self frequently and that will make the thought of watching pornography flee from you......most importantly don't be idle because na idle mind be devil workshop oooooo A word is enough for the wise |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by YungLasaint(m): 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
First of all your English isn't bad and your writing is cool. Getting rid of Masturabtion is a different ball game when it becomes a habit that you can't stay without it. As someone that was in your shoe I tried everything possible but couldn't get rid of it. I was so frustrated, I hated myself, I feel I'm not worthy enough to the point I stop going to church because the devil will always be there to constantly tell you how sinful you are. It got to a point that I needed a change so badly but there was none. If I stop for one week I have tried. Like you my phone browser was porn and I was one of the biggest consumer of pornhub, xnxx, and xvideos. How did I reduce the urge? At a point I zero my mind that anything that want to happen should happen I continue my masturabtion but this time I was fully conscious of it and I didn't feel any guilt again. I start making friends and spending time outdoors. That help to reduce the time I masturbate. After that I reduce the level of porn intake instead I channel it into something else like research about countries, career and I even started learning Spanish, that alone took my whole being. Two days pass, week pass I didn't even have the urge to masturbate. That's how I gradually stop it. If you don't have a girlfriend just get one if not for anything but to get engaged. Before I drop my pen let me tell you this, it gonna take time so don't rush it. You can't kill 9 years addiction in few days. If you see yourself masturbating don't be guilty try to do this if you stay for 2 days before you masturbate try extending it to 4 days then 8 days, by doing that you have control over it and it will leave naturally. Anytime you found yourself masturbating don't hate it, enjoy the process. What you should do is to note what prompted you to do that and work on those weaknesses if you want to keep a journal please do because it will help you to track down your weaknesses and help you improve. Be positive always and don't feel bad about it, the devil is playing with you also play with him. If you see yourself masturbating say this words LORD I THANK YOU BECAUSE I SEE MYSELF STOPPING THIS. It's hard and unreal but believe me don't underestimate the power of Positive Words. Don't stop to bless yourself that is another weapon to fight it. I'm always here to share and help. This is my story I don't guarantee that it will work for you but if you put it to consideration it will go along way. BE POSITIVE, SOON IT WILL BE A THING OF THE PAST. #graciacs 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Rawhumper(m): 2:51pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
This The worst advise ever, is he Walking on The right path to progress as your signature implies? madampresident: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by joshrare(m): 2:52pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: challenge yourself |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Rawhumper(m): 2:53pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
And most of them indulge in it, especially those ones that form hard to get. quote author=lightangel65i post=93976849] There is no side effect to female masturbation only that they would prefer masturbation to sex.[/quote] |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by pretyval: 2:54pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Good one properties4sale: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by swankmee(f): 2:55pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: Hello bro, I understand how you feel. Please read this article here am sure it will help you. https://theyouthblog.com/2020/09/16/is-masturbation-healthy/ |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chideodiba(m): 2:56pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
When ever the urge comes, wisper to ur yourself "I will never masturbate" it is working for me, for the past 2 months I have not masturbated but I no longer last when having sex with my partner like before again Ghost8889: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by greenguy: 2:56pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Slawormir: A good one there. MOST men do it. Most just love to pretend about it because of how the society sees it. I'm married and I still do it. My wife knows, all my friends knows, and I have no shame about it. Masturbation can save you from banging dirty puss*es and a lot of troubles. It clears the head and is a good relief from stress. Sex is a basic need of man just like food and clothing, so something must be Fu*ked. Too much of anything is still a problem. That is what needs to be fixed and the OP needs serious help. Find happiness elsewhere, not your dick. Get a life. It never gets in the way of my relationship with God. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by QDubz(m): 2:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Man wish we could talk more privately, been down this pit before and very well understand your fears and pain... You need to stop counting the number of days you've been off masturbation cause it constantly keeps your mind on the act itself. Your lack of erection/gf is caused by extreme self doubt, low self 'estimation', lack of confidence and low testorone due to jacking off often. I could suggest some books that helped and some tricks I can't share here lol... But fact is, all this wouldn't work if you are not ready to take action. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by akmath: 2:58pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Only nine years. |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by abbey621(m): 3:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
This year alone we've had this topic from 5 diffferent guys, dem swear for una? Carry your pipi go butcher shop, cut the thing off if it causes you to sin....GBAM Problem solved |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by domino4211(m): 3:05pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi: ....its a big sin... According to? |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by IronGalaxy: 3:08pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Konji die-hards |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Chris2863(m): 3:08pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889:Thirdly, your advice |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by SommyGudman(m): 3:09pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Bro listen masturbation is very hard to stop.but for you to get rid of it, firstly, you must avoid been idle,two drop your Android phone for at least 3 months and look for a buttons phone. Or if you can, avoid subscription of data. When you are lonely in an enclosure read something,if you are a Christian read and pray. If it disturbs you at night bro knell down and pray while praying you wil fall asleep Avoid sleeping with your prick touching the bed, Avoid illicit picture, film, site and stop looking at girls sexy parts twice Avoid staring at girls Indecent Because it is the nude pics, videos. That you saw with your eyes will give you the desire to practice May God deliver you Andn 1 Like |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Chris2863(m): 3:10pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Slawormir:Nairaland needs to sale or dash you out |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by nwele2017: 3:10pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
prince985:seriously, I want to know how masturbation ruined there life. is masturbation the reason why you are poor? is masturbation the reason why you are unemployed? is masturbation the reason why you not posperous in life? |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Chris2863(m): 3:11pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Special adviser to the president on hand cutting motionarena: |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 3:13pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
chideodiba:But no sex nah |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Badbishop15(m): 3:14pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Vivian16: some guys dey use anointing oil self....so it depends...Lolz |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by rhymesnoni(m): 3:16pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889: Get urself busy doing other things, Masturbation would die a natural death |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by rhymesnoni(m): 3:18pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Ghost8889: Jst get yourself busy ding other things, Masturbation wld die naturally |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Cooleasy(m): 3:19pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:Bros, see this. Very clear, straighforward and detailed. I hope you and others will find it useful. Good luck: https://www.nairaland.com/2077982/side-effects-porn-masturbation-how |
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by zinodizt: 3:21pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Pls talk to your parents it’s okay that way Blackurglyboi: |
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