coolsegun2002:


Oh I get u now....

still.....

If you give ur boyfriend a Christmas Cash gift and he says, no I don’t want cos I already bought a Christmas stuff. be sincere, would u feel weird?

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!

Akwaibom1stlady:


Idioko Eyineka

ZIINI:

Olohun
Laslas na to dey fûck olosho na hin pay pass
I give olosho 7pa the way she fûck me my GF no fit fuçk me like that
Na their I go kon dey give one girl 30k untop wetin,money wey be say her parents no fit spend am on her shior

Elsueno:


Bros ehn, D amount of cash I saved since I stopped dis dating thing eh...it surprising fa

Nonexistent2:
Dump her ass. Did she give you any money to keep for her? I'm sure she is acting up because of the latest bone straight hair trend. I laugh at guys who claim to have girlfriends.

Sixfeetbelle:


She doesn't have to accept it cause she's not a beggar. You send money to people out of your goodwill and from your benevolence, it's now left to them to decide what to do with what you sent. I know it seems rude to reject the money but she has a right to reject what you gave her. It's a gift and gifts get rejected all the time.

Sixfeetbelle:


I believe it's better to reject 5k that will not be useful in your hand so the sender can find more use for it with someone else than to accept it out of 'gratitude' and waste it.

Yes, of course, rejecting it and making it known cause it's small is bad. Courtesy should have been applied here.

Sixfeetbelle:


Even when you know she can give you more than that?

Why do men now complain that their girlfriends bought them ordinary boxers and singlet? Is it not gift? Are they not being ungrateful?

kunkelhanspeter:

You might be surprise the girl self you will be dating will be doing low key runs .

Elsueno:


Sorry to disappoint you, I don plan on dating or getting married yet, thinking of baby mama thing

coolsegun2002:



If she wish.?? ....I thought she’s a mere merchandise waiting to be purchased...does she still have the decency to have a choice

like u said.. it doesn’t even matter how shes going to be handled so far she’s has been purchased...

OlayemiAshraf:
Ask your self this question "do you love her" ....if yes... Then ask her if she love you.... If she said no... forward me her number.... I'm love therapist

onyechez:

If you're not done with Senior high school, please do, it will really help you.

Tunde835:
I almost read dat as rapist

mii4u:

Pls stay off my mention, if u have nothing reasonable to say

idahme:


Your assertions is only valid if the person rejecting doesn't put a condition for the rejection. Rejection of a gift should not be based on the condition that she needs more, it should be done on the condition that she doesn't need the money. But in this case she is Oliver Twist trying to box the giver into a tight condition in order to receive more quantity of the gift, who gives his or her benefactor a condition to receive a gift from him? Relationship that is not based on mutual and symbiotic levels is tantamount to a relationship between hook warms and humans and should be jettisoned .....

Lomprico2:


she does not owe me money!!!

frozen70:

If you feel is for sale, go get your choice then

onyechez:

Stay off social media, it will make you feel better. You're still thinking you're in your father's house eya

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

Sixfeetbelle:


She doesn't have to accept it cause she's not a beggar. You send money to people out of your goodwill and from your benevolence, it's now left to them to decide what to do with what you sent. I know it seems rude to reject the money but she has a right to reject what you gave her. It's a gift and gifts get rejected all the time.

coolsegun2002:


On the contrary, u are the one that said women were for sale initially, and if we don’t have the money we should bounce.....

authority2006:


Lol. Gifts with one way direction that's still getting rejected. Wonder shall never end

kunkelhanspeter:
Enjoying my single life no billing this Xmas

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

ogbonti:




the preek no sweet her too? do unmarried girls not crave sex? i beg carry ya mumu talk comot from here joor

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

victorjoe:


Aba ke Uyo?

frozen70:


It's because you read from the reverse side, that's why you assume that women are for sale and men like your are their patronage

Just show me were I said women are for sale in this post and if you can't get it and post it here then done with you

onyechez:

Stay off social media, it will make you feel better. You're still thinking you're in your father's house eya

Akwaibom1stlady:


Eyo! mba ke lagos