macrodata:
Do whatever you like. I only want to read how it ended in tears, once it seem like you enjoy having unappreciating girlfriend.

Kapilta:
Honestly i wanted to praise the lady for being an "Alfa" female before opening the thread didn't know it's actually that OP is doomed.

Nuel4:
she does not respect him. No girl I've ever been with will tell me what I gave her is too small. It just wouldn't happen. Even if I use her account to receive money yesterday she knows she has to take whatever I give her

PopSmoke:
share the money for urgent 2k crew on here

onyechez:

Look at what you're saying, you get mind I swear.. Do you know the traditional rite he will perform during the burial.
Do you have any idea who the person they will bury.
Do you know if they're fixing house before burial, are you aware cement is 4,500 naira a bag.
Stop being evil.
I don't think you have engage enough with life.

paulolee:
she asked for 2k and u sent her 10k for total package and she refunded 8k back saying that it cant get her Christmas things and maybe bone straight and u didnt ask her abt the remaining 2k??
I swear she must refund that 2k before we break up

Just123:


I can't believe what I just read, the entitlement in this one is strong ooo.
I blame the op for turning himself to a cashcow for his girlfriend.
Them never born anybody birthed by a woman both guy and ladies way I go "dash" money to tell me "it's not enough"

Sixfeetbelle:


This is what I don't understand about relationships to be honest. Your girlfriend doesn't have to accept whatever you give her. It isn't written anywhere. If she doesn't like it, she should send it back. Just because hungry Broke Girls accept any thing you give them doesn't make it right

Bullhari:


That act isn't childish. I child is contented. She is evil. She will never give him peace of mind.

Black052:
there's nothing to talk over he made it clear he needs to support his dad and she should manage the 10k which is not bad at all considering the economy of this our country,to avoid stories that touch stay clear from women like that it's obvious she does not want to understand your situation

Verysmart101:

Cos its ur fellow lady baaaa.He's got no biz with her.Am happy he realised the type of girl hes dating.

Nuel4:
yes she has to accept it. It's called appreciating your efforts even if it is small. If her father or elder brother sends her 10k will she return it back to them? No why? Because she respects them. If a lady has the guts to tell you what you gave her is too small for her it's because you failed to properly mold her right from the beginning and was forming big boy and she has zero respect for you

Just123:


She doesn't understand her man if she had,she would know things are hard for the guy currently.

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

Lomprico2:


dump the ingrate ASAP!

if you give her 1million from your 10 million, she still will not appreciate it.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are oallowed

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

Fuckhypocrite:
Lol

Vagina people and wahala be like ashawo and condom dem no dey seperate!

Nonexistent2:
Dump her ass. Did she give you any money to keep for her? I'm sure she is acting up because of the latest bone straight hair trend. I laugh at guys who claim to have girlfriends.

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other

Sixfeetbelle:


Is it that the concept of rejecting gifts is foreign to guys or what? Can't she reject the money offered if she feels it's a waste to her?

mii4u:

Sorry, wat are u actually saying? I don't seem to understand u

mii4u:

Sorry, wat are u actually saying? I don't seem to understand u

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!