Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole



issue..



She is an ingrate

Not worthy for a life partner

The rest is ur to decide

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Raalsalghul:


You're a foolish person, I confirmed it today.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

victorjoe:



Ufan abadie?

CalliDora1:


Lalasticlala
Dominique

udomma1005:

I am not understanding u... what's there to talk about, ufan?

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

CalliDora1:



The girl understands her man to pull such stunt. If your babe knows you're aka gum, she wouldn't dare try it. So leave them alone.

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

Akwaibom1stlady:



These are petty things na, relationships shouldn't end just because of someone's obvious childish behaviour...lets end relationship on more pressing issues likes infidelity, abuse, violence...not because a girl is acting 16!!!���

Abadie??

Kapilta:
Honestly i wanted to praise the lady for being an "Alfa" female before opening the thread didn't know it's actually that OP is doomed.

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

paulolee:
she asked for 2k and u sent her 10k for total package and she refunded 8k back saying that it cant get her Christmas things and maybe bone straight and u didnt ask her abt the remaining 2k??
I swear she must refund that 2k before we break up

inioluwaDaniels:
Bros dis one ur babe don put u for high jump so abeg no come steal my phone oooo

gimakon:


Una type go day make these girls behave anyhow. If she chop ur money anyhow she be bad girl, she behave well now, na queer person, idea don full your head, you day threaten and think breakup.
Why are you peeps like this?

If u sha know say u no mature enough to handle these girls, please , We plenty way wan marry, leave these girls for us. I no like as most guys day do girls ... e sha no day make sense , lets be very honest.


This thing Day simple, i have a girl , very very beautiful i wanted to give some money, girl no day collect 1 naira from me
I ask her to send her account number, she no send. One day she mistakenly recharged 8000 naira , so she said someone should buy the creds from her, i agreed, sent her the 8000 and never sent my number for the creds.

She talk heaven, talk earth, i no answer , she is still my friend , even when i come back to Nigeria , i will see her with some more small gifts , how i go use do am, i no know, but i just ave to find a way around it. Surprise gifts and care matter, if she no collect am from you thru this, she go collect am from u another means. U have to win a girls heart o. That game no sha easy.

U just have to be calm sometimes and let them have their way. She no wan look cheap, you too throway eye. that 8k, if u know say u want this girl to love u, overlook her hard behavior and let things fly, one day she go realise her mumu somehow and start acting well.

The one i day toast now for Facebook day behave like person way swallow battery, but i just day take am very easy with her. Na so them be. So pls be calm.

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other

paulolee:
she asked for 2k and u sent her 10k for total package and she refunded 8k back saying that it cant get her Christmas things and maybe bone straight and u didnt ask her abt the remaining 2k??
I swear she must refund that 2k before we break up

gimakon:


Una type go day make these girls behave anyhow. If she chop ur money anyhow she be bad girl, she behave well now, na queer person, idea don full your head, you day threaten and think breakup.
Why are you peeps like this?

If u sha know say u no mature enough to handle these girls, please , We plenty way wan marry, leave these girls for us. I no like as most guys day do girls ... e sha no day make sense , lets be very honest.


This thing Day simple, i have a girl , very very beautiful i wanted to give some money, girl no day collect 1 naira from me
I ask her to send her account number, she no send. One day she mistakenly recharged 8000 naira , so she said someone should buy the creds from her, i agreed, sent her the 8000 and never sent my number for the creds.

She talk heaven, talk earth, i no answer , she is still my friend , even when i come back to Nigeria , i will see her with some more small gifts , how i go use do am, i no know, but i just ave to find a way around it. Surprise gifts and care matter, if she no collect am from you thru this, she go collect am from u another means. U have to win a girls heart o. That game no sha easy.

U just have to be calm sometimes and let them have their way. She no wan look cheap, you too throway eye. that 8k, if u know say u want this girl to love u, overlook her hard behavior and let things fly, one day she go realise her mumu somehow and start acting well.

The one i day toast now for Facebook day behave like person way swallow battery, but i just day take am very easy with her. Na so them be. So pls be calm.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!

Just123:


Have you asked that "beautiful girl" out. It might be because she has a boyfriend that's why she's refusing ur gifts.

oloshun:
We also don't need to know if you are helping your father financially, he is your father. He owes you no publication for supporting him and nobody on this forum is going to say 'Thank you for helping your father's. In my opinion, some things are better left unsaid.

IkpuMmadu:


Why are you girls leeches ... Can't you take care of yourself

Always depending and begging


Read what you wrote

mii4u:
Dey don't know how to manage common girlfriend that is giving dem red card but if na married couple bring the case come here now, u go dey hear, "divorce her silly ass, bundle her back to her parents house to get some training, kick her out of the house asap" and so on and so forth. Mtchewwwwwww.

Okuda:
person spend 30k on babe and he get mouth to talk am like say na achievement...hahahahahhahaha