odinson1:
1. No matter the level of confidence a person has,it still wouldn't stop bullies from Bullying him/her.

2. The only way to Fight back an enemy is to actually fight back. You can't ignore that bully forever because the sadistic ones would even delight in the fact that you are dying in silence. So if a bully walks up to you and hits you in the face for no good reason,hit him harder and stand your ground. Do not allow yourself to be intimidated! This world is not for the Weak,only the strong can survive so stop teaching your children to be perfect in an imperfect world.

3. Who has seen squid game on Netflix here? Life is exactly like squid game. You either kill or be killed,it might sound harsh but that is the REALITY of life. Stop teaching your children to be polite or to treat "People" with respect. Tell them to give respect only to whom respect is due.

My 2 cents.

1. Even adults get bullied regularly at work or anywhere else. Having a strong sense of sf is not meant as a way of keeping bullies away but in helping one realize where the problem really lies when faced by a bully.

2. No one is saying to ignore bullying at all. We adults call the cops when we are bullied do we not?

Kids tell their teachers and parents in order that they can bring resolution to the problem on their behalf. Asking your kid to engage in violence is opening children to believing violence is a solution when we know that is never a good way of resolving any issue.

3. The squid game was made by Koreans , was it not, a country were violence is frowned upon? Research to find how problems of bullying are handled in their school systems.

BKsoul2:
So parents that do not have the means should kill themselves so as to please the children of the rich like you? Better put, you should teach your child to know that all fingers are not equal.... Teach your child kindness and love, so that the milk of humanity will flow..

Do you understand my post at all.

GboyegaD:

Do you understand my post at all.

I think i do sir.... abi kini e feel?

Kobojunkie:


3. The squid game was made by Koreans , was it not, a country were violence is frowned upon? Research to find how problems of bullying are handled in their school systems.

It's a country where domestic violence is common and teachers are instructed by parents to hit their children.

Cousin9999:


Nah. I think it's a combination of things, but perhaps mainly it comes from insecurity and a person not getting the emotional support they need. People who do it "because they can" seem to suffer from mental illness (e.g. sociopath) or rētārdation. It's really only people with strong mental and emotional problems who get satisfaction out of tormenting someone.

The self esteem of people who bully is fine trust me. It's human nature. It's not right, but it happens and will always happen as long as people who seem defenseless exist.

For instance, look at how Nigeria was colonized by the British. If Nigerians were an advanced nation we would have not subdued and invaded by the British but it happened because Nigeria was weaker and weren't as advanced and the British saw the advantage.

Have you heard about natural selection? Nature also isn't forgiving to people who have some vulnerability.

BKsoul2:
I think i do sir.... abi kini e feel?

I don't think you do although the latter part suggest you do however, your first sentence does not.

Cousin9999:
It's a country where domestic violence is common and teachers are instructed by parents to hit their children.

According to what source and this compared to Nigeria is where?

My sibling that helped us travelled abroad tried to bully me.
I managed till my legs became stabled.
I broke away from him for life.
I cant relate with someone that could not remember our beginning.

Romanoff:
Even in fighting back, your child can get killed.

Many of us here were bullies, it is a very bad behaviour and if has messed up the mental health of a lot of kids.

It has nothing to do with boarding schools cause even day school children get bullied.

It has to do with failed parenting.

I think parents should also be held accountable for the behaviours of their kids.

You nailed it.

People just go into marriage to breed animals called children.

If you are not ready to train and discipline a child USE CONDOM.

GboyegaD:


I don't think you do although the latter part suggest you do however, your first sentence does not.

Emabinu baami...... eku ose tuntun.....

1Sharon:


The self esteem of people who bully is fine trust me. It's human nature. It's not right, but it happens and will always happen as long as people who seem defenseless exist.

It's really not. Just because someone seems confident and secure doesn't mean they are. And I also said it's a result of mental illness. The problem may be a lack of normal, well-adjusted thinking and behavior. They may come from a violent home, have a chemical imbalance, have a fētish for violence, or be rētārded in a way that isn't obvious. There's any number of things that could be wrong. It's not normal behavior.

Have you heard about natural selection? Nature also isn't forgiving to people who have some vulnerability.

We are not wild animals or a forest. We think on a high level and act based on biology and social conditioning.

No offense, but you sound oyinbo. They always try to pretend that animalistic behavior is somehow normal to justify their sick thinking and behavior.

Cousin9999:


It's really not. Just because someone seems confident and secure doesn't mean they are. And I also said it's a result of mental illness. The problem may be a lack of normal, well-adjusted thinking and behavior. They may come from a violent home, have a chemical imbalance, have a fētish for violence, or be rētārded in a way that isn't obvious. There's any number of things that could be wrong. It's not normal behavior.

We are not wild animals or a forest. We think on a high level and act based on biology and social conditioning.

No offense, but you sound oyinbo. They always try to pretend that animalistic behavior is somehow normal to justify their sick thinking and behavior.

Why are you mentioning violence? Bullying is not always violent. It could be simple teasing.

As I said before bullies target people they perceive as weaker and vulnerable.
Bullies will always exist as long as vulnerable people exist. I already gave the example of colonization.

Whether you like it or not humans are mammals and humans have animal instincts and natural selection is real.

1Sharon:


Whether you like it or not humans are mammals and humans have animal instincts and natural selection is real.

Human beings don't sh*t and copulate outside. Humans don't eat random garbage. Pretending as if it's valid to compare a human being to a wild animal is an absurd argument. And it's sad, gross, and uneducated for someone to somehow identify with an animal.

Cousin9999:


Human beings don't sh*t and copulate outside. Humans don't eat random garbage. Pretending as if it's valid to compare a human being to a wild animal is an absurd argument. And it's sad, gross, and uneducated for someone to somehow identify with an animal.

Are human beings mammals, yes or no?
Humans are high functioning animals. Your feelings don't change the facts.

EdoFirstBorn:
Gave my 8 year old a switch blade and taught her how to aim for the arteries and stab pull downwards and outwards when removing the blade. I taught her all the vulnerable spots in an adult man's body, the armpit the lower inside thigh , the abdomen the neck, the diaphragm, the kidney, eye balls etc

My little princess is deadly and can protect herself. I told her how to breath deeply and take a hard punch .

As a single father I gotta make sure she can protect herself to an extent

^^^


Its official. You have no joy.

Cousin9999:


Human beings don't sh*t and copulate outside. Humans don't eat random garbage.

Ahem...

Lagos just left the building...