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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by adeniyilamlek(m): 9:57pm On Mar 17, 2022
godliman:

How are we different from dogs and goats then, shouldn't there be a measure of self control? We are humans and should show our superiority to animals. We don't fight and devour each other like animals, should we mate like them?
i wonder oooo, there are some excuse for the wrong doing..
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jaxxy(m): 9:58pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

There are easy ways to show a guy u like him or tell him indirectly so he starts to ask the right questions and u can easily deny it was his idea not urs. In this way u can know his mind and avoid rejection or get to know if he’s into u.

Or just ask questions about who he’s dating and hear his response if he’s not comfortable discussing it with u then he probably likes u bt if he discusses it at length he’s interested in the other gal. U can play jealous at that point and gauge his response futher. undecided

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 9:59pm On Mar 17, 2022
Like they say "Ask and ye shall receive"

You will receive either 'Yes' or 'No'
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Osashalom: 9:59pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


I want more, i love the guy.
Just say you have been dickmatized by the guy
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jaxxy(m): 10:01pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:

I am telling him indirectly, and he knows... He is a matured guy

How fine are u on a scale of 1 to 10? undecided

Is he attracted to u or how did u guys become friends??
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nahunger(m): 10:03pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

grin cheesy
Na them ooo
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Dcaliphate(m): 10:09pm On Mar 17, 2022
What most ppl wont tell you is that you're about to get phucked......and left.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Contekbbc: 10:15pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


We were just speaking on phone as normal friends, the first day we met I was physically attracted to him. After the kinda lustful act I regretted it.. but we remained as close friends, we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but we don't go out in public neither do any of his friends know me, this guy knows even my deepest secret, what linked us is that I needed a solution to a particular issue, which he intervened. Right now the bond, and closeness has changed my feelings for him. I feel like leaving that relationship because I will end up getting hurt... It's just annoying...

please be careful,he is mature enough to know how you feel towards him and if he does appear not to care,it's either he is not into you or he is a shy type.
Try and talk things through with him and stop being indirect in showing him what you feel towards him,if he now decides not to are it shows he is intentionally playing with your feelings and just catching cruise and that's when you really need to friendzone him too.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by IamRegal: 10:19pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
grin grin never knew this post go enter front pageoooo lol.

*Update*
I have told him several times he was just laughing at me. He finally said that he doesn't want to cage me, that he wants the best for me. He still want me to experience life, and that I may meet other men and loose interest in him. And sometimes he avoids such discussion with me.
Anyway he said he doesn't want to tell me anything for now.
I just tire...

He is already getting what he needs from you, so there's no reason to date you. Plus you mentioned he has others too.

He doesn't mind if you date another guy, as long as you're still serving him his share.

You're not his friend nor bestie, you're simply his s.x freind.
It up to you to continue or quite, but you won't get a relationship from him.

No, you don't love him either, na because he don see you finish make you.


Do you really value yourself?

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Contekbbc: 10:19pm On Mar 17, 2022
DisLifeSha:
I'm available dear. Let's connect



grin
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 10:19pm On Mar 17, 2022
VanBommel:
do you think it’s easy to be seeing his hard on almost all the time without catching feelings?
Are you a dog? undecided
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Mikefrik(m): 10:20pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


Don't you think it's too much?? It will make matters worst.
Better don't do it. But you self ehn, you are best friends and you're also having sex with him. Which kind human being you be?
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by VanBommel(m): 10:21pm On Mar 17, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Are you a dog? undecided
ask your daddy
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 10:22pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
grin grin never knew this post go enter front pageoooo lol.

*Update*
I have told him several times he was just laughing at me. He finally said that he doesn't want to cage me, that he wants the best for me. He still want me to experience life, and that I may meet other men and loose interest in him. And sometimes he avoids such discussion with me.
Anyway he said he doesn't want to tell me anything for now.
I just tire...
My guess is you are young and impressionable, which in itself is not bad. But try to learn to process what your body is telling you mentally so you don't confuse those signals for love abeg! undecided
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 10:22pm On Mar 17, 2022
VanBommel:
ask your daddy
So you are a dog after all! undecided

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Herbefair01(m): 10:23pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

Well, I don't really feel like intervening but then....
The truth is we guys I mean guys that got to lay their hands on a girl, we tend to forget about them easily, only if there's any other tangible thing attached, girls that just came out of no where and fills a void in our life at a particular time without any peculiar or any unique feelings (you might not understand) we tend to forget about 'em quick and even if we cannot let them go we just keep enjoying their company and set our mind elsewhere....
Have you guys been having sex?
How often are you guys going on yourselves?
Before the affection gets so deep, I just think you just have to come pure to guy and let him know how you feel but I doubt if he feels the way you feel tho!!!
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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by olisaEze(m): 10:24pm On Mar 17, 2022
The reason I don’t have anything reasonable to say is that I must comment. grin
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Odunayaw(m): 10:27pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......
Best friend in barely 3months? It doesn't add up. Don't throw that word anyhow.

However, it is not wrong to have feelings for your friend. But my best advice is to give it time. Time reveals truth about all things

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Dickson178(m): 10:32pm On Mar 17, 2022
Love strong oh . Like this I'm thinking of my girlfriend that Left me since December last year. Everyday I'm thinking of her . I pray let her be my dream wife. Sister go ahead and tell her how you feel, simple as fvck.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Unrated900(m): 10:33pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......



It is crystal clear that your manner would make u wait till infinity.
If they do not have anything reasonable to say they should not comment.
What a silly illiterate brat.
Take ur tales to Instagram where your so called brain less vision less propensity clueless people are.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......
Take courage tell him boldly how u feel no seduce am o
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 10:33pm On Mar 17, 2022
Odunayaw:
Best friend in barely 3months? It doesn't add up. Don't throw that word anyhow.

However, it is not wrong to have feelings for your friend. But my best advice is to give it time. Time reveals truth about all things
Exactly! In just 3 months.... undecided
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Moz22: 10:37pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


We were just speaking on phone as normal friends, the first day we met I was physically attracted to him. After the kinda lustful act I regretted it.. but we remained as close friends, we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but we don't go out in public neither do any of his friends know me, this guy knows even my deepest secret, what linked us is that I needed a solution to a particular issue, which he intervened. Right now the bond, and closeness has changed my feelings for him. I feel like leaving that relationship because I will end up getting hurt... It's just annoying...
like u guys have sex? Your best friend?
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Deicide: 10:37pm On Mar 17, 2022
Person open account and the first post make FP? Nairaland Na wa o
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by XDaBOSS(m): 10:43pm On Mar 17, 2022
Familiar story... undecided
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by lomprico(m): 10:49pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

You met him 3 months ago and he is already a best friend?
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by greypencils: 10:53pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


We were just speaking on phone as normal friends, the first day we met I was physically attracted to him. After the kinda lustful act I regretted it.. but we remained as close friends, we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but we don't go out in public neither do any of his friends know me, this guy knows even my deepest secret, what linked us is that I needed a solution to a particular issue, which he intervened. Right now the bond, and closeness has changed my feelings for him. I feel like leaving that relationship because I will end up getting hurt... It's just annoying...
The earlier you define how you feel about him and how he feels about you, the better. My female bestie and I have had a crush on each other for 10 years but we knew we were never gonna work out from the onset because we had the same AS genotype. We have managed to remain best of friends, occasionally confessing how we feel about each other but knowing the truth has kept us real cool. Define what and how you feel, tell him if you will but don't let it linger, you are only going to hurt yourself. If what you need is closure, the earlier you get it, the better.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by EndRape2(f): 10:56pm On Mar 17, 2022
You are not his type, do not force it, trust me if you are his type ,he would have toast you a long time ago,

You will destroy the friendship if you force relationship with him

It is a man that should love a woman, let the love come from him first.


Aunty look forward and accept other guys coming .



quote author=Sheleads post=110466509]I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by famology(m): 10:59pm On Mar 17, 2022
Na story u dey find
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by DrKKK1(m): 11:04pm On Mar 17, 2022
There are vital info you failed to give about you two, that will galvanize us to a helpful decision. If I knew your educational attainments, ages, job status, looks, beliefs, background etc will make it easier for your readers to give informed advice. However, you should have played a catch me if you can for sometimes before he sees your neckedness. Every man who is able will marry as soon as possible if there was no free sex. You are showing desperation already sister and sadly, he has seen you finish. He is still yours if you had more than sex to offer him. For godsake, all the girls that flock around him can offer him secs. Going forward, give some space and stop sleeping with him so that you will have enough sanity to take decision because you are already allowing your emotions to the better of you.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Hezmatosky: 11:07pm On Mar 17, 2022
This is not suppose to come here. But let me help you. Before women fell for love, men have. Maybe you are the type that doesn't give a dam sad

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