Sheleads:
never knew this post go enter front pageoooo lol.

*Update*
I have told him several times he was just laughing at me. He finally said that he doesn't want to cage me, that he wants the best for me. He still want me to experience life, and that I may meet other men and loose interest in him. And sometimes he avoids such discussion with me.
Anyway he said he doesn't want to tell me anything for now.
I just tire...

godliman:

Yah God gave them those feelings but with a caveat, express it in marriage not before or outside marriage. Does it ever occur to you that sex within the confines of marriage makes humans different from animals? There must be moral principles to regulate social behaviour. If your wife says she feels attracted to her boss and her boss feels same is it okay for them to bond since they are consenting adults? The conscience that forbids sex outside marriage also forbids sex before marriage. Let the parents of the girl be rewarded for bringing her up, let the society be aware that is all. Yet corrupt minded people can't wait. And when they come to marry they are already professionals (in what they ought to be novice) with high body count. Very pathetic, even Sodom will be shocked at our perversions

nonix22:
you are not his type.
that's all.

Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

Munzy14:

That was cold..

Candidlady:


On the contrary ihave been inlove, iam just a product of the pit of love ifell into... Hence my signature

nonix22:
its not like that.
That's a fact.
I have been there; I hate wasting time in matters like this.

Munzy14:

I understand perfectly bro...Realistic people appears cold with raw facts.

You will kill the butterfly in her stomach..

Unfortunately, one serious guy fit dey hit on her, and she will be curving him but dying to convert the bestie to boy friend..

Munzy14:

Talking about a married person in the scenario is a different ball game,even if we can't pretend that some married ladies enjoy flings outside matrimonial home just like some male counterparts..They do it with a feeling of we are both guilty so we die with our secrets.

As for life in general, things have changed...Ladies with high body count still marry good guys who come to pay their dowry and do the needful..And they equally live happily ever after.
Things have changed unfortunately God and his demands have not changed we shall all account to him for all our deeds and misdeeds one day.
You have to stick to how Destiny navigate you in life as a human.

Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

BoredBerry:
I was bullied by the older girls too...

Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......

Sheleads:


We were just speaking on phone as normal friends, the first day we met I was physically attracted to him. After the kinda lustful act I regretted it.. but we remained as close friends, we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but we don't go out in public neither do any of his friends know me, this guy knows even my deepest secret, what linked us is that I needed a solution to a particular issue, which he intervened. Right now the bond, and closeness has changed my feelings for him. I feel like leaving that relationship because I will end up getting hurt... It's just annoying...

Sheleads:


We were just speaking on phone as normal friends, the first day we met I was physically attracted to him. After the kinda lustful act I regretted it.. but we remained as close friends, we do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do together, but we don't go out in public neither do any of his friends know me, this guy knows even my deepest secret, what linked us is that I needed a solution to a particular issue, which he intervened. Right now the bond, and closeness has changed my feelings for him. I feel like leaving that relationship because I will end up getting hurt... It's just annoying...

wowcatty:
What is pussy for?
Dido lobo jo! It's not as if that will be the first thing she will lay on the table. The man has a job to do to lead her to the point of that, and it's not going to matter anyway, she's in love.

Candidlady:
Can't you guys bond as friends like plain good friends


Must bonding always be bout relationships(romantic blah blah)


Auntie free the guy leave him be...

BoredBerry:
Don't be horrible... It's possible...

You're the sort of men women tend to avoid...

In secondary school... Most of my close friends were boys...

Descottes:
You wouldn't understand cus you're not like her. People are different.

There are those who easily get attracted to someone.. but it's usually nothing strong, they can lose interest in a blink... and there are those who don't easily fall but when they do, they fall really deep (people like me, and probably the op)

You strike me as someone who can easily crush on the cute guy next door and lose interest the next day to crush on another cute guy around the neighborhood lol.
So I'm not surprised by your comment on this issue.
Like I said, people are different.

jonahhh:


Yeah you’re right if she’s in love it won’t matter... they’ll open their sweet watery guts to whoever they like