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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by ednut1(m): 10:59am On May 14, 2022
Playing games at 33 Omo

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Fanikoko: 11:00am On May 14, 2022
Them de do that kinda thing with sense
2days grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by dawnomike(m): 11:02am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
when you want something... Go all out for it!!!!

Gone are the days when ladies use to form

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by CAPSLOCKED: 11:03am On May 14, 2022
jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

I'D BACK OUT EXACTLY THAT SAME WAY. I USUALLY WASTE NO TIME. cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Jayzx: 11:16am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways
Yeah! Exactly what you have been doing all over the years till you are now 33. Continue do the same thing for the next coming guy. After all you ladies believe marriage is not compulsory

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Jayzx: 11:17am On May 14, 2022
That is how most of them will be forming hard to get and be crying every Saturday in their closet when their younger one are getting married. Yeye people

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by sofiscatedmoron: 11:24am On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question
How can you be certain that her pucci is worn out? Hmn

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by makeherscream(m): 11:30am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
when will women like you learn that not all men are the same , some men like me always want his woman's attention ,

madam how will you be ignoring someone giving you attention all in the name of you don't want him to think you're after his wealth or personality .

Madam just put your self in his shoes , you're chatting someone you said you like and the person is not replying your chat , how will you feel madam ?

Won't you think the person is chatting with another babe ?

I can't imagine the fact that you ignore him for 2 days , haba madam do you know how painful it is to see someone you claim you love is online and not replying their chat

Everyman will do the same , madam that's not the right way to see if he's really into you , if a man really like you will stay , the fact that you're not a liability matters alot

Most men love and respect working class ladies like you , madam you don Bleep up big time undecided

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Ikea81: 11:36am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

You deliver yourself from the ogbanje spirit and village deity that come to nack you daily at night.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by baretalk: 11:39am On May 14, 2022
Time no dey. You form/snooze you loose out.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by drlateef: 11:40am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested


You gave him a negative signal and that’s what he took. He would think that your reaching out again is an afterthought. Some men are not patient and call the bluff easily on women. Alas he is not meant for you. Next time always show positive signals, if the man is yours he will appreciate it and feel happy to have won a jackpot.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by otonye12(m): 11:54am On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Good day, I think you are at fault(my opinion), cus if the man didn't value you, he wouldn't have messaged you after the date you guys had where you said it seems you were throwing yourself at him.
The gentleman has much self respect to know that he should avoid person who don't want his company.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by JoyousFurnitire(m): 11:56am On May 14, 2022
You never sabi anything. You go tey for your house with that una yeye mentality.

You left him un-replied for *2 days. You expect him to come weep or beg?

Your are your village people.

Man respected himself by giving you the space you need.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:03pm On May 14, 2022
DaInferno:

The Holy spirit instructed me to delete her number that instant. grin
Life no suppose dey hard

Hian! small small boss. This zobo go choke you grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by richie3384: 12:10pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

The. Best way to fix it is by speaking to the person that linked u both.at least u HV learnt ur lesson. Mind game is expensive. Men HV moved on from the past way of chasing women

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Truvelisback(m): 12:13pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
U Shit for Church finish, u still dey ask why the place dey smell?

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 12:14pm On May 14, 2022
IamV:
Miss 33,first & foremost,I want to start by telling you that you're no shit,and I love the level of self worth that young man got for himself & how he's not willing to play your BS mind games.

Great guy,he did the right thing.

You read his messages,ignored it for two days because you want to play nonsense mind games,and you're trying to make it his fault for respecting himself to withdraw from a situation he's not considered important to get a response ?


I actually love how he decided to mind his business,because that's what all self respecting men will do in this kind of scenario.
You don't treat people like an option ,and you expect to be treated like a priority.
I hope he moves on,and never look back.

Confused , irrational & fickle ladies like you have no right to be in a relationship.
cheesy chai! All this for miss 33?

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 12:14pm On May 14, 2022
Truvelisback:
U Shit for Church finish, u still dey ask why the place dey smell?
cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Truvelisback(m): 12:15pm On May 14, 2022
JoyousFurnitire:
You never sabi anything. You go tey for your house with that una yeye mentality.

You left him un-replied for *2 days. You expect him to come weep or beg?

Your are your village people.

Man respected himself by giving you the space you need.
Can u imagine? grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 12:15pm On May 14, 2022
Truvelisback:
U Shit for Church finish, u still dey ask why the place dey smell?
grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:18pm On May 14, 2022
Jeweltz:
Sister please move on. Those abroad guys already have someone arranged for him by his family before he comes. That's why he is ignoring you. Don't allow your heart to get disturb over a man that will not love you o. Can see you're already forming feelings

Goan collect your school fees. Gosh! angry

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:20pm On May 14, 2022
Jeweltz:
The day I see that I started believing that I don't need a man to be happy is the day I started having rest. If he comes, good, if he doesn't, all I can do is pray and hope he comes. I can't be going about and toast a man. That too, a man that doesn't show interest. All they want to do is to Bleep and show their friend they've got a beautiful catch

Na your type yoruba people call dabimosheda (since your own no better, you make sure theirs no go better) grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Mattwillz: 12:21pm On May 14, 2022
Na so you go do till you reach 40...boyz no just get timeee..how many times will they tell you

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Arsenate(m): 12:21pm On May 14, 2022
Life does not stop and start at your convenience.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:23pm On May 14, 2022
Truvelisback:
U Shit for Church finish, u still dey ask why the place dey smell?

This one dey find person wey go run hypothesis for the smell of her shit. Lmfao grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 12:28pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
men has grown balls this days if i chat you up and you refuse to reply in next day i unfollow u so many fish to catch why spend energy on one who feels super hyped

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Connected1: 12:46pm On May 14, 2022
godofuck231:
its normal for you to fall head over heels for jim at first , its your emotions , but men who have been burnt usually suppress their emotions and reason with signs and signals , your withdrawal was a sign of deceit ,and deception is close to witchcraft, am not saying you are a witch, am saying witchcraft is rebellion, so he sees you as a woman who could turn against him in future , mind you , you're dealing with an extremely intellectual person and you are dumping tons of information and he has been processing , your reaction came too quick you didn't have entire to observe him too , he's not all matured and he's had issues with toxic women , you need a man who understands your emotions not just you getting married
You should probably marry her, since you seem to understand her better.

Rubbish.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by kwaso2: 12:48pm On May 14, 2022
That's why you are not married- Assumption and over entitlements.

Even at 33? Are you sure it's not a spiritual husband matter you are dealing with? It makes one act funny just to cause distraction and regrets.

Better follow bro up while you can before we forms an opinion on you.

Goodluck

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by areeo(m): 12:51pm On May 14, 2022
Pick up your phone and call the guy.Hear his own side .It might not even be what your are thinking.Your attitude might even be interpreted as EGO TRIP.Communication is key.
jackals:


.I was just expecting you guys to drop something. How to fix this. Since you're Men and you know what attracts you aside from beauty and body....

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by sharpwriter(m): 12:54pm On May 14, 2022
Cokahot, your opinion is needed here grin
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 12:58pm On May 14, 2022
My nigga. Realest niggas don't have time to be playing games, if you down to ride just state it and let's proceed, which one is read message and don't reply, are you dumb? In this RP era.

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