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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by flexispy: 2:15pm On May 14, 2022
Damn
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by spartan117(m): 2:15pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
Call him and ask him out on a date, he probably felt your negative vibes and withdrew.

I for one won't have time for any girl that gives unnecessary attitude when I'm ready to settle down.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by ubee(m): 2:15pm On May 14, 2022
;DSometimes i feel that stories like this one posted on NR are just males that tirelessly want to ridicule females and continue festering this unfortunate gender war that has been on for years in the Social media community.

Because i just find it hard to believe this story is not made up.

Because how can a woman act so foolish and be so shameless to be seeking advice online to solve thé relationship problem she created for herself?

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Ezidimma(m): 2:15pm On May 14, 2022
Call him
Send him voice message on WhatsApp
Track him I'd possible visit his place
U are already desperate so no need pretending not to be.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


I'm a submissive woman, appreciative and also have my own things going on for myself. I don't bag and I'm peaceful. Thanks �
self-praise is always deceitful. Let people sing your praise while you act.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Bamzyriches451: 2:16pm On May 14, 2022
That's how real niggars behave, he called/text you for 2 days and you ignored him and you expect him to keep doing that? That shows you aren't serious.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by johndho(m): 2:16pm On May 14, 2022
Dem don table your matter today for NL. Have a wonderful weekend.

Just call him and check up on him. Tell him you are bored, simple.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by johndho(m): 2:16pm On May 14, 2022
Dem don table your matter today for NL. Have a wonderful weekend.

Just call him and check up on him. Tell him you are bored, simple.
wink wink
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Rita5(f): 2:16pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Just call him and be truthful, if it was 1 day you ignored him I would have said oya tell a white lie but 2 days I mean come on. I will get the message if a guy ignores me for 2 days. He definitely must be feeling you don't like him. Only the truth can help you here. Just call him apologize and hope he understands

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by johndho(m): 2:16pm On May 14, 2022
Dem don table your matter today for NL. Have a wonderful weekend.

Just call him and check up on him. Tell him you are bored, simple.
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by ObosiLandlord(m): 2:17pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
You ruined everything yourself. How person go message you and you no go reply even though you are online and you read the message

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by tmoneyu: 2:17pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.


Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
He has moved on, imagine your reasons, no time to check time baby, you killed the vibe and no man has that patience again... Continue ur life

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by RaptObserver: 2:17pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Pay him a surprise visit and tell him that you have been depressed about the death of your grand uncle who was close to your grandfather and raised your father that was why you stayed away to recover.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Mydazz(m): 2:17pm On May 14, 2022
Expressing how you feel or being free and friendly on a first date does not indicate throwing yourself at someone, trying to now change that your true you by forming something else is plain silly. Reading up chats and not replying for two days is outrighly a stupid thing to do.
It's not late, call him up, apologise and fix another date with him,...... in all of this be you,.... if you feel him let him know, if you have fears as well let him know.
Life is really that simple

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:18pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways
people have every right to be angry with you. Take it exactly the way it's and take corrections to prevent a future repeat.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Pootle: 2:18pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

who told you that...and where was that survey conducted
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by LUAN(m): 2:18pm On May 14, 2022
DaInferno:
grin it's either of the last statement...thats how I collected a lady's number who stopped me on the road saying I looked cute...only for madam to be replying me late or not at all. We turned status viewers till one day, while I church, pastor said its only when you open up that people come in, nobody should hold you down if they themselves are on ready to move forward.

The Holy spirit instructed me to delete her number that instant. grin
Life no suppose dey hard
shey the redpiller told you guys that the holy spirit does not like SIMPing. grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by PrinceMajestic: 2:18pm On May 14, 2022
This is why I hate you Nigerian ladies. Do you know how offensive it is to ignore somebody after reading the message? You still expect him to message you again despite not responding to his previous messages? Not that you're even a virgin, a fhuck remain snubbing somebody's message and still expect the person to keep sending message, I wonder what you disgusting Nigerian bitches feel like. I hope he fhucked you the first day, I hope he finally move on. Nigerian girls are USELESS - Mosdii

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Zhirinovsky: 2:18pm On May 14, 2022
[you are 33 and still no wan give yourself sense.
Better call what'sapp him this minute and tell him last week was extremely busy for you at work and you are sorry for not returning his call.

After 33 na 35 oh, then 38/40.
The distance from 33 to 40 no reach 3 years again oh!! quote author=jackals post=112815228]I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested[/quote]
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Amumaigwe: 2:19pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

See reasoning.. Women sef

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by advanceDNA: 2:19pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way


U did right by giving him small space...playing hard to get is not a bad idea...he's the guy...he should chase you..since you have shown him you like him..

The nigga is from a place where women make first move all the timr...dont be shy....send him a message.....

"Hey..i know you would be busy with other stuff coming all the way home...well, ive given you enough space to breath...whats up...when are we seeing again"

If he doesnt play ball after the message....its his loss jare...he should get the fvck out
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Supermajor(m): 2:19pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Lolxx!! U set know say baba is ready to settle down and u want to be wasting his time by playing mind game, abi u don forget say no matter wetin u think say u get for this life another lady dey wey get am times 20, is it beauty, money, respect, rudeness, etc..

So swallow that useless pride and call the baba, and just pray the interest he had is still there

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:20pm On May 14, 2022
Juoflife1:
Call him. Make up something like you went to work somewhere with poor network or bad connection. just make up something and apologize. It's a bad habit to ignore people, man/woman.

How smart of you to think he'll fall for that excuse...do you think men are that stupid?

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by PROPEACE: 2:21pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways
You girls often get things wrong. Showing a man you love him doesn't make him disrespect you. I expect you all to be happy having a man that will be proud and take no disrespect. Ignoring a loved one's call is plain disrespectful and you have no business doing that to a man you your to marry. Tell me, will you be happy having a man you are disrespecting still coming for you pants down. You will hate that kind of sissy on the long run. I hope he comea back for you. If he does, treat him with utmost respect and make sure you get same from him. Take care.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Johel(m): 2:22pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested



You got issues....it will end in tears anyways.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Figger(m): 2:23pm On May 14, 2022
U ruined your chances by yourself, even if u want to play mind games, there re other ways to achieve that, reading a massage and not replying is way out of it. Person like me na blocking u go collect. We move!

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by GentleKingdom: 2:23pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways


If you lose him, it’s actually your fault.
You shouldn’t be forming hard girl, even if you throw your to him, it’s meaningless .
He don’t stay here, he will be matured and can understand how you feel by doing that.

Don’t lose him, call him and explain everything to him.
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by jclassiq(m): 2:23pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

And on top the whole thing you are not even intelligent at all.
That guy had better moved on. You don't reason properly. He will get his fingers burnt by wasting his time on you. Continue with your "beautiful, submissive, have everything going for me" single life.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Eyinju112(f): 2:24pm On May 14, 2022
How I wish the guy is on nairaland reading this grin grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by kenx1(m): 2:27pm On May 14, 2022
Sister take note The violent take it by force
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Johel(m): 2:27pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.


Someone like you don't deserve a good man tbh...You really got issues with yourself,I advise you work on your attitude,character and reasoning...infact work on yourself generally.

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