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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
SPAMBOX7:
Bro if you no stand well better back off o. Make your guy come naija make you give am her details make he chase him problems himself. Cos like this as you described that woman fit afford hitmen o  Exactly my thought She will kill him at any amount She can't afford loosing the luxury life now |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Panda7(m): 9:14pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
internet yahoo story and you believe it |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Kreasse(m): 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mind ya business, Ewu. 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Fantazy(m): 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak  ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Just back out of the whole thing. Tell ur friend to leave you out of it and trace the child on his own. though he will find them but don't be the one to direct him. Note: At this stage, If ur friend finds them, the girl will never forgive you, she will think you are the one who directed him to her. So you have to be extra careful cos u might as well put urself in trouble (the girl is well to do now financially) so she can come for you later, cos thats her marriage at stake. 2 Likes |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
OP like this eh your life is in danger, relocate because from your analysis of the babe current status, she can hit u and burry u in a bid to conceal her location via any route
Let that your SA guy come back and hit the streets in search of her since he understand the streets better
Boss for the sake of your life, change your unit, that babe may currently be planning on how to silent any truth. Do you think she can afford loosing her current luxurious living
Dodge the bullet or take the hit the choice is yours
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:30pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:
is it a nollywood movie right??
let the OP be involved in issues that may end his life. helping the friends suggests he was about the money and not about the child... You’re right, Bro. In fact, I think the friend cajoled him into doing it instead of doing it himself because he knew op would be daft enough to make himself a target. 3 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by emmanuelpopson(m): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican:
You’re right, Bro. In fact, I think the friend cajoled him into doing it instead of doing it himself because he knew op would be daft enough to make himself a target. he wanna make make money at the detriment of his life. money that he may not spend when the kasala burst on his head.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Blackdeewhy:
You are the one plainly STUPID here.
If things were to be that the lady dump the baby in the gutter, you slowpoke will be among the nitwit that will curse her.
Let the step dad sdk of every single penny he spent on this seven years old girl from her biological dad and see how he will craw back into hiding.
And again, you are mad gan for calling your MOTHER STUPID, ORI E DARU.
They’re giving it to the mother hot but not the deadbeat criminal that’s been cowering for over seven years! If the mother is olosho then what should we call the friend for having unprotected marathon sex with an olosho? A man can know for seven years that he might have a child but not do anything or contribute a penny towards upkeep? Deadbeat. Loser. Simp. He was aware of the lie they were going to tell the oil guy (if it was a lie at all) but now he’s concerned about the innocent husband? He was an accomplice in the lie and I hope he suffers. 5 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 9:39pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:
he wanna make make money at the detriment of his life. money that he may not spend when the kasala burst on his head.. I think they forgot that the friend has known about this for seven years and spent his yahoo money as he pleased while another man took care of what might be his baby. Another man carried a burden for 7 years and they feel they’re doing him a favor by telling? It will be very nice if the husband beats 7 years of Naira out of op and his friend’s asses. Op is looking dumber and dumber by the minute for involving himself in this bad Nollywood drama. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ilekokonit: 9:51pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......
Above is the answer you require. Allow the girl child to stay with the man she knows as her father and that can offer her good morals instead of pushing the faultless child into the hands of her real father who by your own admission above has nothing positive to offer the child except dodgy yahoo money that doesn't last long and carries a curse. The man she currently knows as her father can offer her money in addition to a good morally sound upbringing. Don't allow yourself to be used in tearing this child's sound family life apart. Delete the husbands linked in from your contacts and tell your friend you could not trace his Ex girlfriend and let the child grow up in a happy home and let the matter rest. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 9:53pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
MoneyMustBMade:
Is only u(female) that speak the truth among other female
Atime I used to wonder if women feel bad about things they do atimes
DO they feel that they are right even when they are wrong I don't understand women atimes I am married and a mother. I cannot support such evil. 2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ilekokonit: 10:01pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Okonandmary:
The truth of the matter is after you destroy her marriage, her children might likely suffer and you will feel guilt for the rest of your life True talk. The child's interests are paramount to consider. It is dangerous to burst the child's balloon and tell her that the loving man she regarded as her Daddy is in actual fact not her Daddy any more. Your friend in South Africa should forget about this little girl and try and raise his own new family with another woman. If he claims to love his child than he should let her be with the man she knows as Dad and not break into her peaceful family life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by YeePeyHaa: 10:17pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
If every woman tell their kids who their real father is
Trouble will be plenty for Nigeria.
Thank God they know how to keep secrets
Day of Judgement will ZEH! |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by fuckwell2080: 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
The story between SIMP, ASHAWO, YAHOO BOY AKA BAD GUY.This to tell you some WOMEN are so dangerous.because of POVERTY and LAZINESS.You hang PREGNANCY on another man head.@OP expose the ASHAWO Let her pay for her HOEING LIFE.You dont collect money already from ur FRIEND. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 10:23pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
FuckSilly:
Hoelowfoe
The truth is BITTER.
You people are fond of supporting evil, that's why this country has remained like this.
BLOODY HYPOCRITE.
Again, may your dirty past hunt you too. Honestly, I'm surprised by the comments made by some women (and men) here. It's making me think that paternity fraud is more common in Nigeria than first thought. 2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jubrilELsudan: 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
FuckSilly:
Lol
Hoe low Ree buu ruu kuu.
May you suffer the same fate marrying a WHORĒ that will bring another man's child for you to raise and if Na girl you be, MAY YOUR DIRTY PAST HUNT YOU TOO.
ODE MUMU 
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:28pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
I’m still waiting to learn how he is sure that the child is his friend’s. I’m also shocked at how many people support him approaching the woman or her husband armed with only the story a criminal is telling him. He’s walking into a fire blind and most of the people encouraging him wouldn’t take their own advice. 1 Like |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by jubrilELsudan: 10:32pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
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HUUUSBAAAAAAAAAAAND SNAAAAAAAAATCHEEEEEEEEEEEEER
HOOOOOOOME WREEEEEEEECKEEEEEEEERR 
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by nedekid: 10:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Nonexisting:
I don't have pity for vaginarians. The evil that they do in their hoe phase will always catch up with them one way or another. If you decide not to tell your guy that you found her, you have failed as a friend you claim to be and make no mistakes about it, he will definitely find his daughter. The olosho can not hide for long. She committed crime against humanity by committing paternity fraud and will never go unpunished. OP should mind his business. He wants to be the Cain that is used to flog somebody. Guess what, the Cain suffers the most if it could cry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Ilekokonit:
True talk.
The child's interests are paramount to consider.
It is dangerous to burst the child's balloon and tell her that the loving man she regarded as her Daddy is in actual fact not her Daddy any more.
Your friend in South Africa should forget about this little girl and try and raise his own new family with another woman.
If he claims to love his child than he should let her be with the man she knows as Dad and not break into her peaceful family life. He’s acting as a representative of his friend without even knowing if his friend has any history with the husband. It’s possible the friend has caused trouble in their lives in the past or bothered the wife and the husband is aware of who he is. People don’t care about the child. They can’t see past their hatred for dishonest women, ‘simps’, children escaping poverty, and bitterness from their own bad experiences. I wonder who they’re thinking will let an unemployed criminal living in South Africa go to Nigeria and walk away with a child that isn’t yet proven to be his and he’s never laid eyes on. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by leofab(f): 10:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mom007:
You are a small boy trying to play God with what you don't know about. That cheating girl you knew 7years ago is no more o, let me tell you. She is now a mother of 3 children and somebody's wife. Remove hand from her and her family matter before something bad happens to you. Or are you jealous her life turned out better than you expected? The small child you claim you are feeling for, what better place do you think she can be aside from where she is? You want to bring a druggy, junkie, armed robber yahoo boy into the small child's life now and you think thats really the best for her? Can your friend take care of the child? What claim does he have on that child besides donating sperm? Leave that family alone if you like yourself. Besides, if you tell the husband, you ruin the whole family. What of he sends her out with the 2 kids who are truly his and they become destitute in the street? Can you have that on your conscience? Whats it to you anyway? You are not connected to them in any way so whats your own? The woman's karma will locate her eventually, never doubt it but it doesn't need to come from you. what if the two other kids are not for the man either? Will you keep quiet if you later discover they the said main is your brother? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:
he wanna make make money at the detriment of his life. money that he may not spend when the kasala burst on his head.. He said in his first paragraph that the girl was seeing both men at the same time so it could be either man’s child or even neither man’s child. He is concerned about himself, not the child. He is operating on an assumption fueled by greed and this is sure to backfire in his face. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ngozi123(f): 10:44pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Ilekokonit:
True talk.
The child's interests are paramount to consider.
It is dangerous to burst the child's balloon and tell her that the loving man she regarded as her Daddy is in actual fact not her Daddy any more.
Your friend in South Africa should forget about this little girl and try and raise his own new family with another woman.
If he claims to love his child than he should let her be with the man she knows as Dad and not break into her peaceful family life. What about the innocent husband? Should his feelings be ignored in this situation? 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 10:51pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
What if all 3 children are proven to be the husband’s? The girl was sleeping with both men at the time the child was conceived. Then the wife will be able to play on the husband’s shame and guilt and get away everything happily ever after.
Here in the states on the television shows that do DNA tests, the child that looks the most like the man is always proven not to be his while the one that looks nothing like him comes back as 99.999% his child. |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by putmanj146: 11:05pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
I think you want them to separate, I pray against every monitoring spirit like you. Must you ask him about his personal life all the time? 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by tonididdy(m): 11:30pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
@OP don't fix what's not broken.
That little girl is happy and has love from both her parents now.
This is a dangerous quest you are adventuring into and about.
Beware! 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by AfroKnight: 11:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Paternity fraud should ALWAYS be exposed.
They say you want to destroy her home but she already did that from the beginning. You cannot destroy what has already been destroyed.
Prepare to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life though.
Evil Women who have money are ruthless when their source of income is threatened especially when that source is a man.
This story sounds fictitious but it can provide instruction for up and coming hœs. Paternity fraud must be exposed and punished ALWAYS.
All the OP has to do is create doubt in the mind of the husband until he performs a DNA test on the child. 1 Like 1 Share |
