| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by SPAMBOX7: 8:10pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak  ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Bro if you no stand well better back off o. Make your guy come naija make you give am her details make he chase him problems himself. Cos like this as you described that woman fit afford hitmen o  2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Jefferyhi86(m): 8:14pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Why the insult, people like you are in support of rubbish, I believe ur not the true son of ur dad the way u sound yeldey:
Who told you Canada PR application requires a DNA test?
Asshoo.le |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Tutu19: 8:15pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Plsnreveal the secret so there will be peace. It is bad living in falsehood. 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by frozen70(f): 8:16pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
This is a dicey matter Just ignore everything and face your own problems Your life and safety is in your hands Pull out of this sensitive issue 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:17pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
-His friend/the Yahoo boy sent him a friend request and said he couldn’t trace the mother. He found the mother on social media. If both guys have social media, why did his friend need him to find her?
This story is sketchy for many reasons. The friend is using this guy as a mark. 6 Likes |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by toujurs: 8:20pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican:
This is part of a story told to him by a yahoo boy. What proof do you have that his friend is the father of the child?How does he know that the girl didn’t have sex with anyone else during the same period she was having sex with him? you women are unbelievable, because it's your gender that commited this atrocious behavior, you feel it is right to defend her abi. You aren't different from that girl. She is lucky, this Op is nice, if i am the one, i will tell her husband mum, and sisters before i tell her husband. I wonder what her husband enjoyed marrying, a coochie that a rogue has smashed shit out of. It's a shame, i feel for her husband. As rich as he is, he settled for less. Only if he knew. I can never be this stupid with how hard the economy is. 3 Likes |
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by FuckSilly: 8:24pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Mom007:
Your mum right?
*spits No Your mom Like mother like daughter 2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:24pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
toujurs:
you women are unbelievable, because it's your gender that commited this atrocious behavior, you feel it is right to defend her abi. You aren't different from that girl.
She is lucky, this Op is nice, if i am the one, i will tell her husband mum, and sisters before i tell her husband.
I wonder what her husband enjoyed marrying, a coochie that a rogue has smashed shit out of. It's a shame, i feel for her husband.
As rich as he is, he settled for less. Only if he knew. I can never be this stupid with how hard the economy is.
So every man that sleeps with a woman who later says she is pregnant is definitely the father of a baby that the woman gives birth to? Was it impossible to have another partner while having sex with his friend? |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by ume1000: 8:24pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
nedekid:
Hmm, ok
But note 90% of folks that write on this forum are young people with little life experience. So don't use all the comments you see here as a bench mark.
Painful as it is, there are issues you don't put mouth in, even with your best friend. Ones of them is wife and husband matter. It will only turn out bad for you.
I have seen a mother blame her little daughter all the years till she became a grown woman bitterly. In fact till the woman died. She blamed and hated the lady for destroying her marriage to the ladies father.
Watin happen, when this girl was below 10 or so, she caught the father with a woman in a compromising way. She told the mother. Mother fought the man and he took off. Na so marriage end. This woman tried to make up the marriage, but oga don move on. Do you know that woman is dead today, the father has new family and does not want to see his kids from the first wife, imagine a 23 year old beautiful lady having to carry the weight of 2 siblings, school, feeding etc.
Was she wrong to have told her mother?
that's a kid, these are grownups and that was irresponsible of the mother and yes the the kid did the right Saying the truth doesn't always have a pleasant outcome that's why it's the truth cos no one wants to hear it , but it must be told,even the smallest of truth(if it ever was ) could alter history on a grand scale Imagine if Mohammed Ali had grown up in a false home or Michael Jackson in a similar situation Don't play GOD by withholding crucial information from those concern cos u deffinatly would make it worse and bear the guilt as long as you live 2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:26pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
I can’t understand how these guys are 100% positive that a DNA test will prove that his friend is this child’s father. 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by riczy(m): 8:33pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
This ur story lacks coherence! Pisure or na lie! 3 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by bhassan20: 8:34pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
einsteine:
The guy will eventually trace them and get his daughter.
Paternity fraudsters should not be allowed to get away with stuff. What if this daughter grows up and commit incest with her relatives because she didn't know them?
Better for the truth to be out while they are still children now. You made a great point regarding incest |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Enyimbamercedes: 8:35pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Woman’s husband- working in oil company living soft life
Your friend- blown yahoo boy living in SA
You- aspiring Sherlock Holmes with nothing better to do than to put your nose in other people’s matter.
Keep your nose on your face , mind your business and find something more productive to do 5 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:37pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
riczy:
This ur story lacks coherence! Pisure or na lie! The story is filled with hypocrisy and holes. If the girl and her mother could lie to the husband then couldn’t the girl have also lied to the friend? These guys are calling the husband a simp for taking care of a child that’s not his but why aren’t they calling the friend a simp for trying to claim a child that he doesn’t know is his or not? Either this story is a tall tale or it involves really daft people. 3 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by victor9jaar: 8:40pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Another episode of FEAR WOMEN! 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by victor9jaar: 8:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Enyimbamercedes:
Woman’s husband- working in oil company living soft life
Your friend- blown yahoo boy living in SA
You- aspiring Sherlock Holmes with nothing better to do than to put your nose in other people’s matter.
Keep your nose on your face , mind your business and find something more productive to do I'm his Watson |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by beejay85: 8:42pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
U are as good as dead if u dnt mind your business  1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by frank016(m): 8:47pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
My opinion... I don't care about the hoe, the biological father or the child, my main pity Is for the good man that might not knw he is moving mountains for someone else child. He deserves the truth. He is innocent and nice. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Jayrockk: 8:47pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Bro tell the husband, how would u feel if it were your brother who was raising another man's child? Better to say the truth while it's early. Put yourself in the husband's shoe, how would you feel if you found out decades later that your first born wasn't yours, after years of investing in the child you find out the child's not yours before, it's heartbreaking. The little girl will be affected surely, but its only a short term, and since her real father is coming for her she will be alright. You know the right thing to do, send an anonymous later and tell the man to do a DNA test on his first daughter. SAVE A LIFE 2 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by emmanuelpopson(m): 8:48pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
FuckSilly:
Many of you people just dish out senseless advice.
What you can not eat, you dish to others...
If the husband was you or your brother, would you prefer not to know this secret.
Paternity fraud is a very serious crime and I could kill a wife that tries it with me. More importantly, a deceitful woman doesn't deserve a pity, no matter the weight of the crime and how long the crime has been committed. are you the husband now or the friend.. so his life at risk for something he can stay out of. the wayward guy shd employ someone else but now that the guy had exposed himself, if the lady finds out that the ex locate her. she will finger the guy as the one who did it. you can do anything for the friend at d cost of your life.
do what suits you bro.. 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by nedekid: 8:48pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
ume1000:
that's a kid, these are grownups and that was irresponsible of the mother and yes the the kid did the right
Saying the truth doesn't always have a pleasant outcome that's why it's the truth cos no one wants to hear it , but it must be told,even the smallest of truth(if it ever was ) could alter history on a grand scale
Imagine if Mohammed Ali had grown up in a false home or Michael Jackson in a similar situation
Don't play GOD by withholding crucial information from those concern cos u deffinatly would make it worse and bear the guilt as long as you live
"Imagine if Mohammed Ali had grown up in a false home or Michael Jackson in a similar situation" Oga, there are things left unspoken. Even na oyinbo adage. Is it not because of the recent DNA test people can know? All these years noko, how are you sure Mike or Mohammed Ali don't have such issues? Truth is good, but sometimes it makes issue worse, hence the adage I quoted earlier. When you go out as a man to knack, do you come back home to tall madam, darling, I have to tell you the truth, I knacked one olosho and I am bearing the guilt? In this case, leave that family alone! You do not know the man so which yeye guilt is worrying the op? Anyway, lessons are meant to be learnt everyday. The op should go ahead. Guess he has one to learn how not to put mouth in what does not concern him. 3 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:54pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
emmanuelpopson:
are you the husband now or the friend.. so his life at risk for something he can stay out of. the wayward guy shd employ someone else but now that the guy had exposed himself, if the lady finds out that the ex locate her. she will finger the guy as the one who did it. you can do anything for the friend at d cost of your life.
do what suits you bro.. Plot twist: he disrupts this family’s life and the husband takes his advice and does a DNA test and the child is proven to be the husband’s(she actually met oil guy before his friend) and the husband hires bandits to hunt down OP because of the unnecessary drama he brought into their lives, yahoo friend disappears and leaves daft OP to deal with the consequences. 4 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by imagrg(m): 8:59pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Since your friend was irresponsible enough not to claim his child when she was pregnant for him, let him keep quiet forever about the child. The child belongs to the person who paid her bride price according to Igbo tradition. 4 Likes |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Prettychild(f): 8:59pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Tell the truth. It’s better the husband knows early and restructure his life than leaving it till old age where it can cause him high blood pressure 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Wizmj4real(m): 9:00pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
I have one question for you comrade
If this girl is your second cousin will you ever tell her husband?
Well if the answer is NO, thar means you shouldn't play thus revelation minister.
Nothing is hidden under the SUN that's for sure
Let the said girl and her mother bear the consequences when the real father of the 7year old girl shows up on day. For now lay low tell him you can't trace them. Let the girl child grow up in a well groomed environment, trust me she will definitely discover the truth one day by then she can handle the truth. The only advice I want you to reach out to the mum is to tell that baby gal when she's 15. Things like this can get you killed if that woman decides to do the unthinkable with the money she has access to currently if you insist. My brother fear women especially the ones with a broken heart
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| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by emmanuelpopson(m): 9:02pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
1stGenAmerican:
Plot twist: he disrupts this family’s life and the husband takes his advice and does a DNA test and the child is proven to be the husband’s(she actually met oil guy before his friend) and the husband hires bandits to hunt down OP because of the unnecessary drama he brought into their lives, yahoo friend disappears and leaves daft OP to deal with the consequences. is it a nollywood movie right??
let the OP be involved in issues that may end his life. helping the friends suggests he was about the money and not about the child... 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.
I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.
When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..
Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.
It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.
I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...
My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..
Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.
Mak I just de prepare money 4 DNA Tests b4 my marriage  Dis Hoes can't be trusted 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by ume1000: 9:03pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
nedekid:
"Imagine if Mohammed Ali had grown up in a false home or Michael Jackson in a similar situation"
Oga, there are things left unspoken. Even na oyinbo adage. Is it not because of the recent DNA test people can know? All these years noko, how are you sure Mike or Mohammed Ali don't have such issues?
Truth is good, but sometimes it makes issue worse, hence the adage I quoted earlier.
When you go out as a man to knack, do you come back home to tall madam, darling, I have to tell you the truth, I knacked one olosho and I am bearing the guilt?
In this case, leave that family alone! You do not know the man so which yeye guilt is worrying the op?
Anyway, lessons are meant to be learnt everyday. The op should go ahead. Guess he has one to learn how not to put mouth in . what
does not concern him
if only you knew an untold truth could prove fatal tomorrow ,if only you knew the concept of space time and how everything in the universe is linked ,you did rather cut off your hands before typing such 1 Like |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Zindalati: 9:04pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
that is very unwise of you, what were you thinking calling her on phone. now I know why the say that common sense is not common and it can't be gotten by accumulation of certificate. congratulation for you have put yourself in between the devil and a red sea. the girl may trace you, hire an assassin to kill you in other to protect her secret. given the history of the biological father he may hurt you deeply or kill you when he finds out you have betrayed him by not disclosing their whereabout. since you have bleeped up. time to clean your mess.
control measure! call your ex room mate, inform him you have the girl and child location, that you will only reveal it once he has paid you well for relocation to another state or out of nigreria since your life is under threat by her.
one way or another the truth can't be hidden forever for it will surely speak and when that happen you must be involved either as a witness or a double crosser |
| Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post... I read this in the afternoon but couldn't comment because I wasn't logged in. I hate to say this because I believe the man needs to know the truth. But of what benefit is the truth if it will destroy the life of the child whose real father is a super-irresponsible criminal? Look beyond the fraudulent wealth of your friend that dumb guy (even you said he isn't your friend). He abandoned a child he knew/suspected was his only to show up 8 years later and try to claim her because he got wealthy? Ill-gotten wealth for that matter? What kind of examples do you think he's would be for the child? Is that the kind of man you want that girl to grow with? What if the crime money dries up? What if the police arrest him and he goes to prison for his past offenses? What if some of his former guys (cos I sense he was a criminal/cultist from what you wrote up there) shows up and guns him down? What do you think would happen to the girl? And all this is assuming the man doesn't fight back. If the man refuses to give up the child, it's possible that the court would side with him over that dumb friend of yours. I believe the man would find out if he's destined to. But make sure it is not through you. 2 Likes |
