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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Yankiss(m): 4:53am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie:You might be right. But the situation today is dire. I know a pastor whose daughter pretends to be sexually pure but highly experienced. The parents did their utmost best to rein her in. But rebellion was going on above their nose. The bottomline is that enforcement of chastity before marriage might drive the marriage institution aground as nobody may come to wed and they would still go and cohabit in the name of marriage. Rebellion is real. The more strict a parent is, the worse the underground activities. The mother was not morally right in sending a 16 year old to family planning. But before blaming her, it's necessary to inquire if she had tried all controls and failed. Children of today get exposed easily. You would think you are on top of it but may not know what's going on behind you. We need God and prayers to guide them. Enforcement of purity is possible and attainable only with God. If we are not careful with stringent rules it might backfire. 6 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by alabo1: 5:03am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: 16 is the legal age for consensual sex in most countries including the US. This is a pragmatic step by the mother. All too often we rely on prayer and faith when a practical solution exists. Kids are exposed to so much more now. The mum knows the girl is sexually active and this is the best solution so she does not repeat the same cycle. Peace |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Osanoghodua1: 5:08am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie:Sorry brother, you're totally wrong. Give advise to a young girl from now till eternity, she will still have sex and unprotected one. I have teenages coming to my backyard to have sex, I do chase them and counsel them, last week, I was going to my poultry, I saw unknown guy standing at my free water tap, I ask do you want to fetch water ne replied nay! I move forward and saw my teenager neighbor dressing up to her uniform, she have been having sex and didn't go to school and dressing up to make it look she is coming from school, dey had sex elsewhere but came here to change. The Mum has begged me to help take care of the daughter, I can't because many things are involved with her mum herself. Just pray not to have an evil child. 1 Like |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Francis88095(m): 5:23am On Nov 28, 2022 |
You have said it all efficiencie: |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by arantess: 5:24am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie:Did you not read on this here app when a pastor cancelled a wedding because they fingered? Did you commend him or you threw a blind eye to that? Even so a lot of people bashed the pastor for taking that bold step We live in a dysfunctional system and perilous times and I must say the church is trying to uphold what good is left in this world 1 Like |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by mrkings84(m): 5:32am On Nov 28, 2022 |
The mom did very well. This era it's good you don't hide whatever information that may help your child. I recommend all moms do same, that way the society will have less unwanted pregnancies and stigmas from unwanted pregnancies. And abortions that claim thousands of lives annually will drastically reduce. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by WillyCassey: 5:45am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Mindlog: I like the way you think. � 2 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by GboyegaD(m): 5:47am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Shadysen:. The reason why they should have educated her on sex and the necessary things she needs to do. Slapping her at that point in time is just so wrong. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Mindlog: 5:48am On Nov 28, 2022 |
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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by BABANGBALI: 6:00am On Nov 28, 2022 |
To prevent accidental discharge Lalasticlala I dash you this babe, take her home, make she dey help madam wash plates for house
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Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by miketayo(m): 6:02am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: Church marriage is a white man traditional marriage. Engagement is out trad and that is what God recognise for Africans, and court is what the law requires. Don't carry church marriage for head it's just a blessing/thanksgiving, it is not compulsory. Any child that wants to spoil will spoil, just pray to have good kids. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Bimpe29: 6:02am On Nov 28, 2022 |
It's really worrisome to see a teenager being referred to a family planning facility. Actually, the immorality of this generation around sex and sexuality has gone haywire. This trajectory portends gloomy tendencies if not controlled appropriately. 2 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by sonature1: 6:09am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: The church is not a judge, God almighty is. Don't arrogate God's responsibilities to the church. If Churches start doing what you ask for, nobody will be qualified to wed in the church. Please let God be the judge. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Mrkumareze(m): 6:09am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Religious institutions This institution has ruined many young girls. Pastors, reverend fathers, choirmaster etc. So parents should try their best, the gud n bad of their children re mostly received by them first before others |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Naijatask: 6:10am On Nov 28, 2022 |
MeghaneMorgane: Wow, keep it up sis. I'm 23 too,and wish to finally get married one day, to a virgin like me. Non-vigins disgusts me to be honest. Especially the so-called woke ones. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Fahvvy: 6:11am On Nov 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: Your ignorance is indeed VERY LOUD ... Go read some books on contraceptives and then maybe we'd have a conversation ... Until then... Enjoy the bliss that comes with ignorance ... Good day! |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Naijatask: 6:11am On Nov 28, 2022 |
LordErrk: Yen yen yen. Always talking trash about virgins, and secretly wish to marry one. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Naijatask: 6:12am On Nov 28, 2022 |
mmadu5: So many demented slowpoke pedophiles on this forum |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Nobody: 6:12am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Fahvvy: You are absolutely right. Slay mother and daughter. Infact in developed countries that they claimed to copy. Making a teen under 18 passing through such is considered illegal. Giving a 16year old pass for sexual activity should have been frown at by the Clinic except if the teen is being referred through medical condition. Don't be surprised, the mother might be the one pimping her out. 2 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by fawaz050(m): 6:12am On Nov 28, 2022 |
This matter is delicate, but the answer to it is simple. The root solution is to imbibe the fear of God in them from their crawling days. I know of a boy born in 2009. Whenever he lies, his mom reminds him of what Allah said about the liars in the Qur'an and he starts crying � and begging his mom to help him seek forgiveness. His mum would say you need to seek forgiveness yourself then he does ablution start praying and making funny prayer points. If he doesn't want to pray, his mom reminds him of what was said about people who don't pray and he runs after us to the Masjid. In addition, She does a lot of Positive reinforcement. For instance, she might say you are a good boy, right? Good boys don't play rough and he would stay quiet. She asks him his role model and gets him to imitate his role model after watching him on YouTube. The outcome of all of that is wonderful. This boy is so modest, shy, upright. I pray God continues to guide him. I know all that seemed Islamic but I believe it can work with other beliefs too. My point is - Inculcating the dear of God in children goes a long way. 3 Likes |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by paradiseadams: 6:21am On Nov 28, 2022 |
That is not the fear of god
that is emotional abuse on the child |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Nobody: 6:23am On Nov 28, 2022 |
ahnie: Good morning beautiful How are you doing Been awhile o Sorry say I entered you and it got to you Really sorry, took it as a joke not something personally..sorry |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Obynolee(f): 6:25am On Nov 28, 2022 |
efficiencie: Why coming out here to expose your ignorance, does church contract marriage in Nigeria?,in case you don't know,church only CELEBRATE marriage (a marriage MUST have existed before the celebration). There are two laws that guides marriage in Nigeria, the custom and the Act,it is because of this reason that no pastor or church will CELEBRATE your marriage on realising that you have not contract it either by the custom or the Act. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by ThugOfWar: 6:28am On Nov 28, 2022 |
eyinjuege:whats the point of preventing pregnancy through child planning. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by ThugOfWar: 6:29am On Nov 28, 2022 |
BABANGBALI:where can i find this young girl |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 6:39am On Nov 28, 2022 |
She is likely to have her kids out of wedlock as well . It is a general pattern. Action of mother would make it happen faster. If she is lucky to get married, she might end up being divorced. Using wrong approach to solve societal ill would just make thing worse. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by joyandfaith: 6:44am On Nov 28, 2022 |
eyinjuege: Abstinence is the best. That is godly approach. Worldly approach is the root of decay in society as most criminals are products of unstable families. Most of children borne out of wedlock are nuisance to society. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by Shadysen: 6:47am On Nov 28, 2022 |
GboyegaD:girls of nowadays are terrible come and see them in ph money has taken over their heads you can get them as you want as long as you have a little cash |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by nobilie: 6:49am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Will the family planning prevent her from being infected? Some women still get pregnant with an active family planning method. |
Re: A Mother Referred Her 16 Years Old Daughter To The Family Planning Clinic by falcon01: 6:56am On Nov 28, 2022 |
MufasaLion:I don't trust you |
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