Ebubu:


please add “pamper your sister, pamper your wife, and pamper your mother”, to your context.

Because that is what pastor meant, and not “pamper your girlfriend”.

Before wife, wasn't she girlfriend?

How does the wife know you will pamper her when u didn't pamper her when there were no kids and lesser burden to bear?

Make una dey think before writing.... Small pampering won't kill you..... This is y the African man appears unromantic.

I like reading Prob: Chapters-5,6,7.The Lord tells us to stay clear away from women..

sharone21:


A woman most times takes care of all others apart from herself ... She loses much in blood and physique just to birth babies to make a family complete. .. You men still want her to add earning income to her already FULL schedule doing wifey and motherly duties.....

Your little pampering will not kill you.... When u sow love, care and pampering, you reap likewise even from your children who you think aren't watching.

My dear child birth is no excuse..Men don't lose blood in their jobs?? The earlier you go get a job to use in supporting yourself the better for you.....

sharone21:


Before wife, wasn't she girlfriend?

How does the wife know you will pamper her when u didn't pamper her when there were no kids and lesser burden to bear?

Make una dey think before writing.... Small pampering won't kill you..... This is y the African man appears unromantic.

Better go and get a job otherwise no man will marry you....

BigBashiru:


Better go and get a job otherwise no man will marry you....

For una little mind in Nairaland, a Naija woman is a beggar.....

Better change your mindset on women generally and marriage... If not, don't enter into the institution as marriage is NOT for everyone especially SELFISH men like you who want to kill a woman all in the name of her bearing your valueless surname.

I advise you get a baby mama who actually wants to birth for you from the onset of una 1 night stand abi na 1 year stand encounter so that u don't deceive her and later incur her wrath and curses...

BigBashiru:


My dear child birth is no excuse..Men don't lose blood in their jobs?? The earlier you go get a job to use in supporting yourself the better for you.....

When I already get a job, why will I still need a SELFISH man like you?

Your type will need to do interviews and FBI investigations on any woman u plan to marry, if at all there will be any marriage...

Change your view on how to be a MAN to your woman and even children because this OVERSABI you are doing now will not pay you ultimately....

Your type will want to eat their cakes and have it then, want to compare themselves with selfless men, ko possible!

sharone21:


When I already get a job, why will I still need a SELFISH man like you?

Your type will need to do interviews and FBI investigations on any woman u plan to marry, if at all there will be any marriage...

Change your view on how to be a MAN to your woman and even children because this OVERSABI you are doing now will not pay you ultimately....

Your type will want to eat their cakes and have it then, want to compare themselves with selfless men, ko possible!

You are the selfish person. Your money is your money while my money is our money bah?

The advent of social media has accelerated men's connaisssance of female tricks....

Get a job and use ur money to support urself....the husband gets a job and uses his own moni to support himself. Everyone is happy.

But ur gold digging tendency won't let you...you want ur hands on his money under the guise of "marriage" and "being head"... while you keep urs and only bring it out when convenient....

Male provision in the past wasn't altruistic....it wasn't charity...men expected something in return....and marriage isn't based on "love" and "romance"....its based on compatibility and mutual benefits

SmartyPants:


Where does the scripture say women are created to be taken care of? Are you meant to be a burden or a help??

Ephesians 5 from 20 will help you understand, the mystery called marriage.

dealslip:

Ephesians 5 from 20 will help you understand, the mystery called marriage.

Expound on it dear.

dealslip:

Ephesians 5 from 20 will help you understand, the mystery called marriage.

Marriage is not a mystery....the mystery all boils down to the notion that a man should be a financial slave....try and come up with something else.

BigBashiru:


You are the selfish person. Your money is your money while my money is our money bah?

The advent of social media has accelerated men's connaisssance of female tricks....

Get a job and use ur money to support urself....the husband gets a job and uses his own moni to support himself. Everyone is happy.

But ur gold digging tendency won't let you...you want ur hands on his money under the guise of "marriage" and "being head"... while you keep urs and only bring it out when convenient....

Male provision in the past wasn't altruistic....it wasn't charity...men expected something in return....and marriage isn't based on "love" and "romance"....its based on compatibility and mutual benefits

So y would a woman marry you or your type?

U sound like a lazy MAN or cripple for u like to shout this at the rooftop in Nairaland...
You want the woman to also be a provider, say u go born for her eg through surrogate?

I advice u don't marry because u are expecting too much from an already overstretched woman.

sharone21:


Before wife, wasn't she girlfriend?

How does the wife know you will pamper her when u didn't pamper her when there were no kids and lesser burden to bear?

Make una dey think before writing.... Small pampering won't kill you..... This is y the African man appears unromantic.

you dey craze well well. pampering kill your mama there you beg african man to pamper you and still insult him. thunder faya your mama faya who want pamper you join

why not express your desire on how you will like to be treated well without insulting who you are demanding such from?

BigBashiru:


Marriage is not a mystery....the mystery all boils down to the notion that a man should be a financial slave....try and come up with something else.

If you haven't read the verse. I have nothing to say to you.

sharone21:


So y would a woman marry you or your type?

U sound like a lazy MAN or cripple for u like to shout this at the rooftop in Nairaland...
You want the woman to also be a provider, say u go born for her eg through surrogate?

I advice u don't marry because u are expecting too much from an already overstretched woman.

You are the lazy gold digger and you know it.... go and work na why must a man give you his money....did you make it with him?? Entitlement mentality of gold diggers....

BigBashiru:


You are the lazy gold digger and you know it.... go and work na why must a man give you his money....did you make it with him?? Entitlement mentality of gold diggers....

Easy words to use on women: Hoe, Gold diggers.... We are used to it already.... A simp! Very irresponsible.

I don't blame you.... Your background may be affecting you where mama sees dad as Baba omo mi instead of Oko mi.... You don't know the difference....

When u grow up in a dysfunctional home where dad doesn't do his duties to his wife apart from sex, you grow up with such mentality.....Your type should marry from similar backgrounds and not be entangled with people from decent backgrounds with father, mother and children setting, each knowing their roles and mum playing her SUPPORTIVE role to her KING, who pamperd and cares for her and the kids.... So, I can't be forcing what I'm used to on someone who is YAWA....

either u stay single, or marry a YAWA woman like yourself so she can be married to you and still be living like a widow.

Na u sabi, if u like marry and not care for your wife, na still Nairaland u go come with anonymous status for us to give u advice.

Bye

Ebubu:
you dey craze well well. pampering kill your mama there you beg african man to pamper you and still insult him. thunder faya your mama faya who want pamper you join

why not express your desire on how you will like to be treated well without insulting who you are demanding such from?

That thunder you are calling will surely destroy and eliminate that your UNLOVED mama and HARDENED, FOOLISH papa...

Did I insult you for you to talk foolishly?...
Anyway, when no money dey, u frustrated Nairaland men start hating women, instead of PMB that caused your problems.

Anyway, if a woman isn't good like your mama, marry a wicked man like your papa and be gay naw

sharone21:


Easy words to use on women: Hoe, Gold diggers.... We are used to it already.... A simp! Very irresponsible.

I don't blame you.... Your background may be affecting you where mama sees dad as Baba omo mi instead of Oko mi.... You don't know the difference....

When u grow up in a dysfunctional home where dad doesn't do his duties to his wife apart from sex, you grow up with such mentality.....Your type should marry from similar backgrounds and not be entangled with people from decent backgrounds with father, mother and children setting, each knowing their roles and mum playing her SUPPORTIVE role to her KING, who pamperd and cares for her and the kids.... So, I can't be forcing what I'm used to on someone who is YAWA....

either u stay single, or marry a YAWA woman like yourself so she can be married to you and still be living like a widow.

Na u sabi, if u like marry and not care for your wife, na still Nairaland u go come with anonymous status for us to give u advice.

Bye

I'm happily married and the wife supports herself....it has made the home more peaceful....

Between me and you you know "her king" concept is a lie....more like her 'work horse"

BigBashiru:


I'm happily married and the wife supports herself....it has made the home more peaceful....

Between me and you you know "her king" concept is a lie....more like her 'work horse"

BigBashiru:


I'm happily married and the wife supports herself....it has made the home more peaceful....

Between me and you you know "her king" concept is a lie....more like her 'work horse"

Woman will play her role in giving birth plus add yours ( apart from others)while u play only yours and dodge ie 2:1... Well done.... You see being responsible as woman pushing burden on u?

I don't envy u, definitely another man will be or soon be playing your role in her life ( lol)as u can't change the natural order of things due to oversabi or laziness... You for just come as woman.

I now see y tongues wag because women like this move on quickly with their lives when their spouses are no more, since they have NO fond memories of them....

Marrying u will be tougher than Nigerians being under APC....

Bye

sharone21:


That thunder you are calling will surely destroy and eliminate that your UNLOVED mama and HARDENED, FOOLISH papa...

Did I insult you for you to talk foolishly?...
Anyway, when no money dey, u frustrated Nairaland men start hating women, instead of PMB that caused your problems.

Anyway, if a woman isn't good like your mama, marry a wicked man like your papa and be gay naw

see who dey find pampering nigerian women like to find who go pamper them and their insultive mouths

na your type dey marry who go use ur house do boxing ring because of ur mouth

wetting be pampering for wey una dey? when boxing dey? insultive ugly old girl

sharone21:


That thunder you are calling will surely destroy and eliminate that your UNLOVED mama and HARDENED, FOOLISH papa...

Did I insult you for you to talk foolishly?...
Anyway, when no money dey, u frustrated Nairaland men start hating women, instead of PMB that caused your problems.

Anyway, if a woman isn't good like your mama, marry a wicked man like your papa and be gay naw

see your picture below
as you ugly reach, u dey find pampering

who told you that pampering is for ugly girls you no go go back to your cave you gollum

better go and improve urself to look like wetting dem fit pamper.

na fear we suppose dey fear you based on how u look, no be pamper.

try and be pretty at least, ugly girl


just see as you look below


no scare me abeg
bye bye

sharone21:




Woman will play her role in giving birth plus add yours ( apart from others)while u play only yours and dodge ie 2:1... Well done.... You see being responsible as woman pushing burden on u?

I don't envy u, definitely another man will be or soon be playing your role in her life ( lol)as u can't change the natural order of things due to oversabi or laziness... You for just come as woman.

I now see y tongues wag because women like this move on quickly with their lives when their spouses are no more, since they have NO fond memories of them....

Marrying u will be tougher than Nigerians being under APC....

Bye

Giving birth is not a "role". In the olden days women didnt use to go to school, had limited rights etc, today females earn degrees, get good jobs and participate in the economy - this is a good thing because it means she can now provide for herself in marriage....and there is nothing natural in your so called "natural order of things"; between you and me we know it is plain manipulation....

Women Were Not Created To Take Care Of Themselves -
Where in the bible does this heading say?

See what a typical shameless Irresponsible simp does for a living...

Not that he is even moving big money( lol)... This is why they are so frustrated because PMB is dealing with them but they now pour their anger on women since they can't date a reasonable, decent woman as she is highly unaffordable to their type.

Instead of EBUBU to put his life in order first, na how to bash women.... And this one pocket too UGLY....

Awon crypto aka SCAMMER...

Sha no scam people too much just to enjoy yuletide( lol)

sharone21:
See what a typical shameless Irresponsible simp does for a living...

Not that he is even moving big money( lol)... This is why they are so frustrated because PMB is dealing with them but they now pour their anger on women since they can't date a reasonable, decent woman as she is highly unaffordable to their type.

Instead of EBUBU to put his life in order first, na how to bash women.... And this one pocket too UGLY....

Awon crypto aka SCAMMER...

Sha no scam people too much just to enjoy yuletide( lol)

ugly fool you are only fit for househelp work
you wan make person marry you make you born ugly bastards for an ? i no for pay ur hospital bills, born troway like u see picture below

Ebubu:

ugly fool you are only fit for househelp work
you wan make person marry you make you born ugly bastards for an ? i no for pay ur hospital bills, born troway like u see picture below

Mumu....

Ugly fool with ugly pocket....

Thunder continue to fire your useless ugly parents( ugly in heart and face).

Jobless fool.... Write any nonsense again about women....Idiot!

sharone21:


Mumu....

Ugly fool with ugly pocket....

Thunder continue to fire your useless ugly parents( ugly in heart and face).

Jobless fool.... Write any nonsense again about women....Idiot!

your mama and papa dey ugly and poor for dem to born one ugly troll that no man wants to pamper hahahaha