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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Nobody: 11:21am On Aug 04, 2023
Sharpsharp00123:
Must these people let the world know they are this dumb?

Yes They Have To. It is Necessary😂

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by AmbFmk: 11:21am On Aug 04, 2023
MadamExcellency:
Mumu@ assumption. Who likes liability?

Time has gone when women rely on men to take care of them and their children.

We go to the same school, graduate at the same time and got employed in the same offices and fields. Most of us are better placed than our husbands hence why must there be this dichotomy on who takes care of the family?

Is like most people especially women intend to go to the grave with their money. Spend the money on the family including on your husband and make sure the children are better placed than the parents.

Family first.

And i called you an "INTELLECTUAL" Woman.

Your kind is rare I swear.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Exceed15: 11:22am On Aug 04, 2023
Mumu advice. No wonder men die early. A supportive wife is a life saver. Her 30% contribution to my 70% input is a big deal for me. I love her dieee.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by NeeKlaus: 11:23am On Aug 04, 2023
Look at the little girl you are taking relationship advice from. Somebody that is probably not married and not even in a successful relationship.

LMAO.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Stubborn82: 11:23am On Aug 04, 2023
And these women are the same set of people that won't allow the man to spend his hard earned money on another woman, they won't allow the man to enjoy his money as he want to.
My advice for men in their 40s and above, have more than 2 women, don't sleep with dirty women, don't sleep with someone wife, spend on the woman you are sleeping with.
The true is, God also want you to have as many women as you can dare to have, God isn't gonna punish you for sleeping or having affair with many women. But be wise don't let any woman claim you to herself alone.
Doing this, will make you live long, more stronger, more better fulfill life, than sticking with one entitled woman, you will work and labour for her and her children but she will always take the credit, when you died, another man will continue digging her. Everyman should try and enjoy his life, America men doesn't marry two wives at once but they can divorce more than 10 women and get another women before they died, they even father children that their government are taking care of. Don't let your pastor deceive you, God want you to have many woman as possible, its not a sin.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by gentleguy1975: 11:24am On Aug 04, 2023
GanagiBitrus:
But a man can easily make that judgment without needing to ask.
exactly!A business minded lady who is already making some money from her business definitely has something to bring to the table

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by flexrivers(m): 11:24am On Aug 04, 2023
All men must run from this particular type of woman.
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by XAUBulls: 11:25am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Any Man Who Asks You What You Can Bring To The Table Does Not Have Intention Of Marrying You – Nigerian Lady

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cvg63n2o-8M/?

Watch the video here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEeg3QAyUvI
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Quebec91(m): 11:25am On Aug 04, 2023
I tell you
nivvynivans:
You need mental rehabilitation.

Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by RonuThings(m): 11:26am On Aug 04, 2023
Tattoo cry cry

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by chatinent: 11:27am On Aug 04, 2023
Does the question need to be asked? It's usually boldly written on your face naw.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by XAUBulls: 11:27am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

#2 to #7... 6 red flags out of 7 bullet points!

The number one question could be better framed by men... Just get to know what her values are, and where she sees herself in the NEXT 1 to 5 years career and relationship-wise. Those would be better conversational points to start with and not bluntly asking what she has to offer or what she is bringing to the table which sound overtly transactional or based on overt self-interest which is insulting.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by brizziedos(m): 11:28am On Aug 04, 2023
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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Proserpina: 11:28am On Aug 04, 2023
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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blazepascal(m): 11:29am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

my mum don't know how much my dad is earning their marriage has been wonderful

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by fineboynl(m): 11:29am On Aug 04, 2023
Just tell him you can cook and bring to the table.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Relevant123: 11:31am On Aug 04, 2023
Yea
Of a truth, I wont ask a lady im in love with a question like that
She doesnt have to say for me to know it
I dont have to say it for her to knw it eighter....

When two adults loves each other and want to spend d rest of their lives together,
what they are bringing to d table wont be an issue,they dont need to be told or reminded.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by guywitzerogal(m): 11:32am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Bridget95(f): 11:33am On Aug 04, 2023
NBAjunior:


And you are not ashamed of saying it

Useless thing !
back to ur poopsi
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by LegallyBlunt: 11:33am On Aug 04, 2023
Proserpina:
Wait let me get my lawyer folake4u while I await her arrival, I will like you send me the court address since I have a case to " explain myself to you. grin

Lol you must be deluded to think I will answer you ( an online anonymous moniker) with list of qualities on "Why I think you should marry me" grin grin grin
Nah, it's a discussion. I'm. Not asking you to be accountable to me. But it seems the question is triggering every female in the thread.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by sterlingD(m): 11:34am On Aug 04, 2023
We don tire to dey hear this.Let us focus on what to do about our present economic situation.The street is not smiling ,boys are not smiling

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:34am On Aug 04, 2023
Real niggaz don't expect any woman to bring anything to the table...

The only thing I expect every woman to bring is their pussies, and you only bring that to my bed, not my table...

Get fvcked. Get paid. Then get the fvck outta my way...

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by phemmyfour: 11:34am On Aug 04, 2023
Proserpina:
Lol it is only on Nl Nigerian men are the sole providers in their homes. The Nigerian women you claim to dodge financial responsibility are everywhere as traders in the markets "hustling" to take care of their families. Some take loans from cooperatives and pay with their salaries, some are breadwinners in their families. Somehow these women efforts aren't enough, you do not only feel entitled to more you belittle their efforts by popping out idiotic questions.

In Nigeria only few men can take 100% financial responsibility of their families but you all will come here to argue nonsense like you have money growing in your backyards. Lol . Wahala for those dating you lots.
You submission does not juxtapose with the argument .

Most women that do all that are not scared about answering the question "What are you bringing to the table"?. Infact, men don't ask them such questions cos they see in them beyond cosmetic beauty. The question is meant for nonchalant, unambitious entitlement ladies like the one in the video that sees marriage as a gateway to exit poverty for herself and family.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by JuicyStar: 11:35am On Aug 04, 2023
I don’t know why the question “what are u bringing to the table?” is a problem. It is said that iron sharpens iron. So it is good to know what addition the other party is bringing into the relationship.

If u are really a person of value u shouldn’t be offended by that question. This latest trend arose cos some people just take and take without bringing any substance and these kind of people easily move on to the next available victim.

So ladies should add value to themselves so that when a man meets u, it is very visible to see that u are a high woman of substance.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by jaxxy(m): 11:35am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.


The way these lazy and hungry Nigerian girls think is ridiculous and sad.

Can't u girls understand basic English?

The only girl that's complains about what ure bringing to the table is a girl that has nothing to offer the guy.

Everybody brings smtn to the table. it's expected to avoid a 1 sided relationship.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 11:36am On Aug 04, 2023
I bet that girl isn't married yet. Probably gonna be a long time before she even sees someone dumb enough to marry her..........
Sharpsharp00123:
Must these people let the world know they are this dumb?
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Karlifate: 11:36am On Aug 04, 2023
Exceed15:
Mumu advice. No wonder men die early. A supportive wife is a life saver. Her 30% contribution to my 70% input is a big deal for me. I love her dieee.

No mind them.

Internet makes stupid opinions relevant.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Gamesmart: 11:37am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Any Man Who Asks You What You Can Bring To The Table Does Not Have Intention Of Marrying You – Nigerian Lady

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cvg63n2o-8M/?

Watch the video here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEeg3QAyUvI

Whether you are a man or a woman, if you have any brain cell working, NEVER EVER take relationship advice from a woman.

Majority of them are experts in giving Dogshit advice about relationships.

You decide to take advice from women on relationships as a man, you will have one of the following:

1. End up without a relationship as women don't find your qualities attractive

2. End up with some ugly woman you are not that attracted to, or with a single mother and her palava, because you want to be a "real and responsible man"

3. End up being a Simp that his woman is shagging an Alpha male behind his back because she is more attracted to his own qualities

You decide to take advice from women on relationships as a woman, you will have one of the following:

1. End up wasting your youth not making the best of it developing yourself and selecting the right man before you hit the wall

2. End up divorced, or with many broken relationships you ended, and dying alone in misery like your fellow strong and independent advisors

WOMEN ARE DOGSHIT ADVICE EXPERTS!!!

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Xpol: 11:37am On Aug 04, 2023
Abi does not want to marry a liability, dey play.

Marriage is a contract and before signing any contract you have to look deep into its terms and conditions though asking such question directly may not sound right but the motive is right.

Even true love these days have expiry date.
So marriage shouldn't stand only on love

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Ojagun(m): 11:38am On Aug 04, 2023
phemmyfour:
All those things she listed still didn't address what a woman is bringing to the table financially.

BTW, whether she put to bed or not, her breast will eventually fall. No breast stands forever, they all obey law of gravity.
Hee..,hee...hee...She was talking about men finding their "true love" (whatever that means).The lady is an expert in gaslighting...Just look at her hairline.The black women in Nigeria have no idea how lucky they are with the black men in Nigeria (Only the ones who have travelled and reside abroad will understand what i mean)

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by iamjavadem(m): 11:40am On Aug 04, 2023
......and the man will only ask if he cannot see it by himself.
Watinhapen:
What can you bring to the table simply means what are the benefits of marrying you. What can I get as a form of benefits from being with you. It doesn’t have to be money. There should be great qualities that you can bring to the relationship.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by advanceDNA: 11:41am On Aug 04, 2023
Relevant123:
Yea
Of a truth, I wont ask a lady im in love with a question like that
She doesnt have to say for me to know it
I dont have to say it for her to knw it eighter....

When two adults loves each other and want to spend d rest of their lives together,
what they are bringing to d table wont be an issue,they dont need to be told or reminded.

This nigga is talking about love...

hahahahahaha

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