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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 11:41am On Aug 04, 2023
Guys, my advice? Run away from people who post brainless stuff like this....... Its insulting to an Intelligent, Capable and well-groomed person who actually has good home training. The No. 1 on this list really cracks me up. If you don't have anything legible to say, don't say a damn thing. Child birth aside, apart from Sex, What tangible thing do YOU have to offer a man? Inherent qualities that you can't put a name on shows your current level of intelligence. SMH for you, little girl
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Proserpina: 11:41am On Aug 04, 2023
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by favour32(m): 11:42am On Aug 04, 2023
Empowerment, entitlement and retirement chasing lazy_ass females.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Ikpunnegi01: 11:43am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

What will you do with their earnings; you must be an ólê.. Seems like you're one of those feminists here, but still goes out there to collect monkey style koboko from men..
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Karlifate: 11:43am On Aug 04, 2023
JuicyStar:
I don’t know why the question “what are u bringing to the table?” is a problem. It is said that iron sharpens iron. So it is good to know what addition an other party if bringing into the relationship.

If u are really a person of value u shouldn’t be offended by that question. This latest trend arose cos some people just take and take without bringing and substance and these kind of people easily move on to the next available victim.

So ladies should add value to themselves so that when a man meets u, it is very visible to see that u are a high woman of substance.

Exactly! grin

They're triggered by the question cos they truly don't have any value, except displaying their expensive wig worn on their air head.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by okorogodwin4(m): 11:44am On Aug 04, 2023
Data wasters posting trash

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Karlifate: 11:44am On Aug 04, 2023
jaxxy:


The way these lazy and hungry Nigerian girls think is ridiculous and sad.

Can't u girls understand basic English?

The only girl that's complains about what ure brings to the table is girl that has nothing to offer the guy.

Everybody brings smtn to the table. it's expected to avoid a 1 sided relationship.


👌💯

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by folake4u(f): 11:46am On Aug 04, 2023
Proserpina:
Wait let me get my lawyer folake4u while I await her arrival, I will like you send me the court address since I have a case to " explain myself to you. grin

Lol you must be deluded to think I will answer you ( an online anonymous moniker) with list of qualities on "Why I think you should marry me" grin grin grin

My sister!!!

If we nor see evidence for him body, he go explain tire. grin grin grin

Men who know what they want do not need to ask such question. Women already bring a LOT to the table when they bear children, and take care of the family.

Everybody knows their responsibilities.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by orohbiro(f): 11:47am On Aug 04, 2023
Nairaland men are broke
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by lollybizzu(m): 11:49am On Aug 04, 2023
MadamExcellency:
Mumu@ assumption. Who likes liability?

Time has gone when women rely on men to take care of them and their children.

We go to the same school, graduate at the same time and got employed in the same offices and fields. Most of us are better placed than our husbands hence why must there be this dichotomy on who takes care of the family?

Is like most people especially women intend to go to the grave with their money. Spend the money on the family including on your husband and make sure the children are better placed than the parents.

Family first.

God bless you.

The truth is women are naturally selfish; it is innate; and this not just a quote but reality.

Just the way men are naturally egotistical. However, most men use the ego wrongly and foolishly; to oppress and dominate.

The ego is meant for a man never to settle for less, fight for what is his and protect what belongs to him.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Mountbatten: 11:49am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.


Will you be quiet! To the streets you belong.

Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by cliqtips: 11:49am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:


Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

So, guy shouldn't ask the lady he wants to spend the rest of his life with, the lady that would eventually be his wife and mother of his children about her past?

You're joking, right?

So, after living a reckless life in the past or she don date Yahoo boys wey don use her. The guy shouldn't vet.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by LegallyBlunt: 11:50am On Aug 04, 2023
Proserpina:
No this is not a discourse, you made your question personal and it seem like I am to prove myself here.
Rephrase your question, maybe just maybe I will be interested in an open end discourse .

Lol... If I was triggered I would have referred you to women and families in your life and around you. Your question isn't a rocket science, it's what you can see everywhere. grin
If it's what I can see everywhere, why do women feel they shouldn't answer it?

To rephrase: In what ways would you (or other women) be a help meet or support your spouse.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Proserpina: 11:50am On Aug 04, 2023
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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Jughead29: 11:50am On Aug 04, 2023
Women like this knows they don't have anything to bring to the table. Its a shame instead of working on yourself you will be defending your stupidity. How can you have nothing to offer?

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Okechinwadike: 11:51am On Aug 04, 2023
but wait ooo, come to think of it, what is wrong asking for your contribution even when is not monetary contribution, what will you contribute is not a bad question

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by alllivesmatter(m): 11:52am On Aug 04, 2023
Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....

Hello Babe...What are you bringing to the table in Marriage. What exactly can you offer in Marriage apart from your body.

In addition, why should I choose you? What makes your body so special?

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by phemmyfour: 11:52am On Aug 04, 2023
Proserpina:
My submission is a response to your allegation that Nigerian women dodge financial responsibility. You are being dishonest with your rebuttal, your allegation and your reality.
Like I stated earlier in the post you were too eager to counter than understand. It is very childish, immature and irresponsible for a man to ask such silly question. A man discern how valuable a woman is without having to sound stupid by asking silly questions.

Like it or not, it is your responsibility as a man to care of your wife and kids, pay their bills and ensure their wellbeing. Whatever your wife adds is support not the main deal. If you can't do this then you should remain single.
Unfortunately, we are not in sync. My post is a relative reply to the video. Yours isn't

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by zanebaddo(m): 11:52am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

A man will tell you his earnings and all of these things you listed but a man who desires to know one thing which is what you bring to the table is a problem?

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Adakintroy: 11:52am On Aug 04, 2023
But you women don't hesitate to ask men same question on what they have to offer? But now the question is being reversed and rather than answer it as you always demand. You go in guilt mode. Its a ration question . if we are going to build a house What is your own contribution.

If you have something you bring state it . Or you really don't have something?.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by HajiaNotu: 11:54am On Aug 04, 2023
No responsible man will ask any lady that kinda question.. You can walk away if the lady isn't your type...
Asking that kinda question sounds rude.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Puss360(f): 11:54am On Aug 04, 2023
alllivesmatter:


Hello Babe...What are you bringing to the table in Marriage. What exactly can you offer in Marriage apart from your body.

In addition, why should I choose you? What makes your body so special?
Wahala.. see relationship interview o... grin
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by milky3(f): 11:55am On Aug 04, 2023
These will not go down with some alpha male lazybones and some beggars among them...
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Proserpina: 11:56am On Aug 04, 2023
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Deepthoughts: 11:57am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

8.Run from the writer of this post for exhibiting the tendencies of a gold digger.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Nobody: 11:57am On Aug 04, 2023
Bridget95:
Kpekus alone is enough to bring to the table

i hope you will not vex when men objectify you and say its only sex you have to offer.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Gentew(m): 11:57am On Aug 04, 2023
Men that marries liability have alternative advise for fellow men folks.......
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivta(m): 11:57am On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Lalasticlala nlfpmod rule 2. Insulting someone.

Sharatap there, mentally deranged Superstar wanna be
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by CodeTemplar: 11:59am On Aug 04, 2023
Useless relationship advises everywhere. They only prey on the emotional weaknesses of the female gender to sell hateful and cheap ideas of selfishness.

Any person, man or woman, who doesn't know what he or she brings to the table is an accident waiting to happen.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 11:59am On Aug 04, 2023
LMAO..... grin grin
Ikpunnegi01:
What will you do with their earnings; you must be an ólê.. Seems like you're one of those feminists here, but still goes out there to collect monkey style koboko from men..

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by xynerise: 11:59am On Aug 04, 2023
The question is irrelevant. You already know the kind of lady you want to marry if all she brings is pussy or not.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Ellasure: 12:02pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.is

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.


this is the memo of the unserious girl in this world today. it is not a curse she can not do well in life long venture. she is not a good companion to travel the journey of life with.

with this manifesto she need a good deliverance session in a well organized and spiritual church. she will need a good counselor to help her review what life living is all about and taught about purposes to attain good relationship.

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