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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by 00FFT00(m): 12:02pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

What happened to partnership? What is your definition of the term?

Do you still want to be treated as equals or not?


2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

But you also submit a resume when applying for a job, why is that?

Why do you need to hide your past from your partner if you are truly interested in a symbiotic and equitable relationship?


3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

Good things come from exploration. Most of you are not forced to open your legs. It is your insatiable greed for material possessions, expected to be obtained through the irresponsible sexual indiscretions of your gender, that exposes you to this exploitation.

What do you expect from a man you throw yourself at for financial gain?


4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

You obviously do not believe that a man has the right to be informed of the primary facts about the woman he is going to marry.

She must be accepted and consumed at face value, but a man should become a canary bird and sing more than Michael Jackson? Okay. Isorrit.


5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

But for these two people, there will be no man for you to meet and exploit. While an adult male should be just that, it is understandable that your exploiting gender would want to keep your sordid deeds a secret.

You certainly don't want someone advising a less discerning man to get his act together. Bad market for the lazy "a man must pay for my life" crew.


6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

He is still studying her, and rightly so. Why would he introduce someone he does not fully know to others before he has made up his mind where the journey is going?. Besides, some of you have been known to betray your partners with the friends he introduced you to when your gender sees greener pastures on the other side.


7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Wise guys!. That's a very effective anti-gold-digging measure. You have to get out of the mindset that somebody owes you something for a body part you have because you didn't give it to yourself.

You will not die if you add real value to a relationship that you want to benefit from.


Now, my utmost respect does to all the responsible ladies out there. It is the lazy, entitled gluttons among you who bring your reputation into disrepute that we address.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 04, 2023
phemmyfour:
Unfortunately, we are not in sync. My post is a relative reply to the video. Yours isn't

you get time argue with woman sha

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 12:03pm On Aug 04, 2023
SMH
milky3:
These will not go down with some alpha male lazybones and some beggars among them...

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Father4all: 12:04pm On Aug 04, 2023
Nigerian Ladies are Useless

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by franugo(m): 12:05pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?
During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.

You want a man to disclose his earnings to a girlfriend? For what possible reason? What exactly will she do with it?
Help me understand why i cannot ask a woman i want to marry how she will benefit me in the union.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by specialmati(m): 12:05pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin who are you,where do you come from and where are you going to

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 12:06pm On Aug 04, 2023
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.

Who here is the unfortunate guy that wants to rape this thing? undecided undecided undecided undecided
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tivhador: 12:08pm On Aug 04, 2023
The FORCE is strong with this one.... Good question, bro
franugo:


You want a man to disclose his earnings to a girlfriend? For what possible reason? What exactly will she do with it?
Help me understand why i cannot ask a woman i want to marry how she will benefit me in the union.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by litaninja(m): 12:09pm On Aug 04, 2023
Na nuisance e be actually.
Justbehave:
Lazy ass
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Lighthammer(m): 12:17pm On Aug 04, 2023
Am not surprised where this post came from..nairaland woke feminist on the prowl..
Daughters of Lilith personified..

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by elonize(m): 12:17pm On Aug 04, 2023
Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....
ur own worst.na man wen nor get sense go marry u😂😂
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Enice(m): 12:20pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.
You are very right in your summation but number 3 is out of order. If you cannot judge a woman with sex, so also you cannot judge a man with sex. Opening of your legs does not mean anything. It's just a pleasurable exercise designed by God for a male and a female who genuinely have interest in each other.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blazepascal(m): 12:21pm On Aug 04, 2023
Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....
madam be calming down
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Puss360(f): 12:22pm On Aug 04, 2023
elonize:
ur own worst.na man wen nor get sense go marry u😂😂
Really..
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Proserpina: 12:25pm On Aug 04, 2023
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by casualobserver: 12:26pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

[b]I agree they have no intention of marriage but also the woman is likely an u desirable life partner, let me explain.

If a man asks what a woman brings to the table it’s because he doesn’t see the value she adds to his life. A man can see the value in a desirable woman without asking. Asking a woman is merely trying to belittle the woman. Let me make this clear, you don’t add value to a man merely because you are a woman. Women need to purge themselves of this mindset that they add value simply because they are women. Just like not every man has value to add to a woman. Many woman have little value to add to a man. Let me also say that a well brought up man will not ask this question because if he realizes a woman adds no value to him, he will just walk away. So asking this question is a poor reflection on both the woman and the man. Nobody asks a woman of value what she brings because it is obvious, no man tries to belittle a woman of low value by asking her such a question. [/b]

Let me stress this no woman will ask Dangote, Elumelu, Bosun Tijani, Elon Musk or any up and coming hardworking, ambitious young man what he brings to her life because it is clear even if it hasn’t manifested. If a woman asks a man, it is because she sees him as a loser, a bum going nowhere, it is similar for a man.

Aman does not ask that question seeking an answer, he asks to tell the woman he has no regard for her as a potential life partner. It is a question asked out of contempt. If I were a woman, I would take a look at myself not the man, despite it being ungentlemanly and bad behavior from a man. A man knows a good woman when he sees one even if she is not for him.



2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

A man’s value is in his future and a woman’s value is in her past. A woman wants to know if a man has the ability, ambition, etc to provide for her and her children and aman wants to know if his future wife and mother of his children has a past that will be a source of embarrassment and shame to him and his family

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

If a man did not rape you, you are responsible for opening your legs or keeping them shut and the consequences thereof on your life and your resultant value in the market .

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

I agree with this

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

This works for men and women.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

100% agree


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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by tnerro1(m): 12:29pm On Aug 04, 2023
Probably single and searching
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Justbehave(m): 12:29pm On Aug 04, 2023
litaninja:
Na nuisance e be actually.
True talk
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by WayoProphet: 12:30pm On Aug 04, 2023
Accountability is most ladies worst enemy and nightmare. Spits

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by elonize(m): 12:30pm On Aug 04, 2023
Puss360:

Really..
yes o
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blackgold2018(m): 12:33pm On Aug 04, 2023
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.
you are very funny and delusional.

So a man that loves you and what to spend the rest of his life with you is not obliged to know your past??

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blazepascal(m): 12:33pm On Aug 04, 2023
My own is just have good character weather you bring something or not the economy economy alone is harsh on us.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blazepascal(m): 12:34pm On Aug 04, 2023
NOwazobia:
It all sound like a cruise to you ladies until life is done on you.
they don't know that's just it

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Confirm4real(m): 12:38pm On Aug 04, 2023
No man wants a liability, period! tongue

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Thomasankara(m): 12:38pm On Aug 04, 2023
[/color]this one na just random illiterate gal,that has access to phone,just imagine the quality of set of ladies moulding opinion for our ladies these days. Gone are the days of Mrs funmilayo kuti,Okonjo iweala, Dora Akunyili. She made a statement and went against it. #the lady emphasized that a responsible man, genuinely looking to build a meaningful future with a lady, would never resort to such tactics.# Her submission here is never plan to build a future with a lady and accept anything that comes your way as fate,such a dumbo. No be women be Ashleigh plumptree and Oshoala doing well for themselves.[color=#770077]
saphiere:
Any Man Who Asks You What You Can Bring To The Table Does Not Have Intention Of Marrying You – Nigerian Lady

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cvg63n2o-8M/?

Watch the video here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEeg3QAyUvI
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by blackgold2018(m): 12:38pm On Aug 04, 2023
id4sho:

Liability in disguise. Rest, you've tried tongue
very funny idiot lady for that matter.

funny and delusional.

So a man that loves a lady and what to spend the rest of his life with her is not obliged to know your past??

This is show you that person has a dirty past. How will ladies enjoy and useless their youthful ages. And will want an innocent man to propose without having any knowledge about her past.

Even the Bible say you reap what you sow. Those aged ladies going from church to church crying and asking God for husband, should concentrate more on praying for God’s Mercy and forgiveness.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Thomasankara(m): 12:40pm On Aug 04, 2023
[/color]you are very bad influence to vulnerable ladies[color=#770077]
saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.
Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Thomasankara(m): 12:42pm On Aug 04, 2023
[/color] intelligent response,don't mind her,what she's doing there is called social conditioning and it's for the gullible[color=#770077]
MadamExcellency:
Mumu@ assumption. Who likes liability?

Time has gone when women rely on men to take care of them and their children.

We go to the same school, graduate at the same time and got employed in the same offices and fields. Most of us are better placed than our husbands hence why must there be this dichotomy on who takes care of the family?

Is like most people especially women intend to go to the grave with their money. Spend the money on the family including on your husband and make sure the children are better placed than the parents.

Family first.
Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Ubanz: 12:48pm On Aug 04, 2023
See them, always having that sense of entitlement.
Sometime ago in the UK,a lady who doesn't have anything to offer never gets a husband.
In one of Daniel Defoe's works,Molly has to feign being wealthy just to get a gentleman ask for her hand in marriage.

Nigerian women needs to wake up.
Thank God u are not from India where women pay for dowries.

My homest advice:
Asides education,get urselves a skill or something to make u independent.

There's nothing wrong in making urself rich first before looking for a rich dude
Don't make people feel you are a parasite.

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by Karlifate: 12:49pm On Aug 04, 2023
cliqtips:


So, guy shouldn't ask the lady he wants to spend the rest of his life with, the lady that would eventually be his wife and mother of his children about her past?

You're joking, right?

So, after living a reckless life in the past or she don date Yahoo boys wey don use her. The guy shouldn't vet.


It's because they're not ready for anything serious.

They want to play games till 40 years, then retire to a tall, dark, rich & handsome man 🤣🤣

People that are ready for something serious, are open to honest conversations

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Re: Any Man Who Asks You 'what Can You Bring To The Table?' Does Not .......... by fredoooooo: 12:52pm On Aug 04, 2023
Elebi

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