@ Op, Sapele Don has said it all. I have that kinda experience with my GF and we separated cos of gossips I heard abt her from friends, family and neighbors. Bt to my greatest surprise wen we came together again I met her virgin. Bf coming back to her, I ve met gals bt none was like her, I had to go back to her. He will still find out the truth and look out for you.

@sapele_don:Thanks for the wonderful advice.I felt kind of happy reading your comment.
@obicentlis:Thanks too

sweethrt, pls move on. You dont need that kind of man in your life. You should even be happy its all happening now. As you said, its difficultletting go, but deep down, i know you know you should. You have done your part of trying to clear things up. What i see is him using the incidence as an excuse to end the relationship. The more you keep holding on, the more chances you take at missing that good man that God has in store for you.
Just do what is right, and i believe you will thank God for it, if not now, later.
All the best...

@Ezeed:It's hard o but I just have to.Thanks

Anthonia, trust me, i know exactly how hard it can be. But i also know that your marital destiny is in God's hands. Commit this whole thing to him and He will give you more than what you even asked for in a man. Just take one day at a time, and believe that there are greater things ahead.

All the best...

Thanks dear@Ezeed

Did you guys get back together?

@friedmeat:It's been kind of on and off

friedmeat: Did you guys get back together?

Yes.We are getting married soooooon..

I just want to thank the Almighty God for everything,He gave me the strength to carry on,He settled everything at the right time, He vindicated me, He has made me laugh once again.Lord, You are too much.May your name be praised.

You love me sooo much.I promised to testify to your Goodness once you proved yourself in my case.Here I am Lord, to testify of your love, your miraculous works in my life.I am still amazed as to how you made everything easy, the people that once hate me now love me, you proved the devil wrong in my case, you vindicated me and put a smile on my face after three solid years.I don't know how to thank You My Lord, all I have to say is, thank you Lord.

To those who encouraged me when I was down, thank you, I'm grateful.
To those who called me names, thank you.

Oghene we kobiruo.Igbunu no weru kome, e domero fia.

Dec 27th is the day.Rice and chicken very plenty.

Congratulations dear.. The Lord is faithful

Congrats dear. This matter from 2011 no be small thing. God bless your new home.

@Pinkishgal & Peziz:Thank u very much.

anthoniaz:
I just want to thank the Almighty God for everything,He gave me the strength to carry on,He settled everything at the right time, He vindicated me, He has made me laugh once again.Lord, You are too much.May your name be praised.

You love me sooo much.I promised to testify to your Goodness once you proved yourself in my case.Here I am Lord, to testify of your love, your miraculous works in my life.I am still amazed as to how you made everything easy, the people that once hate me now love me, you proved the devil wrong in my case, you vindicated me and put a smile on my face after three solid years.I don't know how to thank You My Lord, all I have to say is, thank you Lord.

To those who encouraged me when I was down, thank you, I'm grateful.
To those who called me names, thank you.

Oghene we kobiruo.Igbunu no weru kome, e domero fia.

Dec 27th is the day.Rice and chicken very plenty.

Congratulations, anthoniaz. You really fought for this, guess it's the jinx of first love that kept you going. Most would've given up. Bravo!

Has he seen this thread?

bekay911:
Wat d heck r u doing with a MaMONNa aka Mama's Boy. I knw it hurts so bad, ur guy do dis ur guy do dat bt u shud knw dat wat will b will always b. If both of u r meant 2 b 2geda his parents cant come in btw.
If u love sumtn set it free if it comes back 2 u den it is urs bt if it doesnt it was neva urs. Kpelle ma dear sisi dont mind dose in-'laws from hell bad belles
after all wen a door closes two windiows open

Why are u being biased in favour of d op? Wht do u mean by mama's boy? Perhaps because u're young, when u grow up & your son disrespect u because of a lady u'll how it feels.

U're implicitly saying d guy should ignore the counsel of his pple? Didn't he warn d girl not to go? d girl in question was simply recalcitrant, which bespeaks she is likely to disrespect her man even after d wedding.

Op sorry am sounding like this,because I knw u're going tru a lot. But I need to chide u to avoid future occurence.honestly, u didn't respect your man, if not u would have stayed behind. This is 9ja, u don't expect a man to sympathize with a lady dat has been with him 4 jst 3yrs & turn against his family that has been with him all his life.

Apologise to your man 4 disrespecting him, give him time, let d guy talk to his pple, he'll come back if he's yours.

Ladies; learn to trust & respect your man,it's a crucial factor in any relationship/marriage.

@Jackpot, thank u very much.No oo He won't like it sef.

@Skelefish:I didn't mean to disrespect him, something happened before that time that made me do what I did.But haba, u no read my latest post for this thread? We are married now oo and everything is fine, everyone is happy including my inlaws

anthoniaz:
@Jackpot, thank u very much.No oo He won't like it sef.

@Skelefish:I didn't mean to disrespect him, something happened before that time that made me do what I did.But haba, u no read my latest post for this thread? We are married now oo and everything is fine, everyone is happy including my inlaws

Tank God.
Na once in a while I dey enter nl.

skelefish:

Tank God.
Na once in a while I dey enter nl.

OkOk

anthoniaz:
I have been dating a guy for about 3yrs now and about a month ago,someone in PH where my guy is living claimed 2 have been seeing me coming to visit my guy and at the same time going to visit other guys.All this while my guy didnt tell me cos according to him,the guy in question told his own sister and the sister told my guy's elder sister.When my guy's elder sister called my guy,he explained everything to her that am not that type of person,she agreed and two of them(my guy n his sister) agreed to let the matter die.Last week my guy travelled his home town for the elder brother's marriage,behold,the sister of the who brought up this story had gone to report to my guy's parents that the girl their son wants to get married to is dating other men and even before my guy got home they had concluded that they were not going to let him get married to me.My problem now is that,the text msg I sent to my guy's younger brother is being misinterpreted.When I went for the marriage,though my guy warned me not to go,but I felt he just fabricated the story cos he told the whole thing just a day before the brother's marriage,I noticed the brothers were not happy with me so I sent one of them a txt msg,that they should knw am not desperate ro get married to their brother and that I've never cheated on him rather,he's the one that has done that to me.I also said in the txt msg that my hrt is bitter cos I didn't do it and that it won't b well 4 d guy who cooked up this story.Now,my guy's pple are saying I insulted them,my guy has never ceased to blame me,they're all on one side while am alone,I even asked him yesterday if he's going to leave me but he couldn't reply cos from what I see,their parents control them.What do I do?Am so bitter,my hrt hasn't known peace since this started,I can't eat,I can't sleep cos am always crying,Hw can someone spoil my name this way?Nw they've diverted their attention to the txt msg I sent.Please I need serious advice here cos my hrt is broken.

Abeg move on with your life jare.

davidif:


Abeg move on with your life jare.

We are married now with a child☺(tthis is the 3rd year sef)
They did all they could but my hubby refused to let them control him so they had no choice than to give us their blessing.We are all happy.Thanks

anthoniaz:

We are married now with a child☺(tthis is the 3rd year sef)
They did all they could but my hubby refused to let them control him so they had no choice than to give us their blessing.We are all happy.Thanks

Wow! I'm so happy for you. Wish you a blissful married life.

Nma27:
Wow! I'm so happy for you. Wish you a blissful married life.

Thanks

anthoniaz:

We are married now with a child☺(tthis is the 3rd year sef)
They did all they could but my hubby refused to let them control him so they had no choice than to give us their blessing.We are all happy.Thanks

Niiiiiiiiice.

davidif:


Niiiiiiiiice.

Thanks

slimyem:
my guy,the guy,my guy,the guy,my guy, haba!u wan confuse person??

Ah swear! I thought I was the only one that couldn't keep up.

At OP, they are plenty wise people on this thread. Look for the recurring advice.

Modified: Thank God you are alright now.

anthoniaz:

Thanks

You're welcome.

anthoniaz:
I have been dating a guy for about 3yrs now and about a month ago,someone in PH where my guy is living claimed 2 have been seeing me coming to visit my guy and at the same time going to visit other guys.All this while my guy didnt tell me cos according to him,the guy in question told his own sister and the sister told my guy's elder sister.When my guy's elder sister called my guy,he explained everything to her that am not that type of person,she agreed and two of them(my guy n his sister) agreed to let the matter die.Last week my guy travelled his home town for the elder brother's marriage,behold,the sister of the who brought up this story had gone to report to my guy's parents that the girl their son wants to get married to is dating other men and even before my guy got home they had concluded that they were not going to let him get married to me.My problem now is that,the text msg I sent to my guy's younger brother is being misinterpreted.When I went for the marriage,though my guy warned me not to go,but I felt he just fabricated the story cos he told the whole thing just a day before the brother's marriage,I noticed the brothers were not happy with me so I sent one of them a txt msg,that they should knw am not desperate ro get married to their brother and that I've never cheated on him rather,he's the one that has done that to me.I also said in the txt msg that my hrt is bitter cos I didn't do it and that it won't b well 4 d guy who cooked up this story.Now,my guy's pple are saying I insulted them,my guy has never ceased to blame me,they're all on one side while am alone,I even asked him yesterday if he's going to leave me but he couldn't reply cos from what I see,their parents control them.What do I do?Am so bitter,my hrt hasn't known peace since this started,I can't eat,I can't sleep cos am always crying,Hw can someone spoil my name this way?Nw they've diverted their attention to the txt msg I sent.Please I need serious advice here cos my hrt is broken.

I just checked your profile to realize that you are now married….

Is it the same guy you married?

anthoniaz:
@adromida,That's not d issue,d family nw assume I sent the txt msg 2 insult n curse all of them whereas I sent d txt 2 the brother,explaining 2 him I didn't do anytin like that n that the person that said it will neva knw peace.I was cursing the guy who forged the story,bt evrybody in his family is claiming I sent the msg 2 insult them.Talking 2 my guy isn't the problem,my problem is the family n that's y is furious wit me that I didn't listen 2 him in the first place,if I had not gone 4 d wedding all these won't happen,that's d reason he's very angry wit me bt deep inside me n Wit God as my witness,I didn't insult any of them,I only wnted them 2 knw,am nt what that guy said I am.

Should I give you secret code that will help u pull through this?