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Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by ImaIma1(f): 10:10am On Aug 03, 2019 |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 10:16am On Aug 03, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Sorry,I have already figured it out 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by ImaIma1(f): 10:49am On Aug 03, 2019 |
freecocoa: It's not a hopeless situation. It really has to do with upbringing and the kind of family. I happened to marry a very wise man. His case is even more delicate because he is the first son and his father is late. He and his mum are quite close and they speak like everyday but he they have an understanding when it comes to me. He once told her that he saw the way his father sheltered her from his family and put her first. That she shouldn't expect him to do differently. And where I come from, most people respect marriage and won't interfere. But it still lies on the man to be able to create the balance and do his duties to his mum and to his wife without issues. Those kind of men are rare especially from the comments we are seeing from men here. So freecoco.a don't lose hope or conclude based on the guys on this forum. Some of them are still seeing the issues as boys. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by babyfaceafrica: 1:15pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
freecocoa:do u have stats..or generalising as usual |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by babyfaceafrica: 1:19pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
this topic is deeper than this.....how ypu guys started will determine a lot 1 Like |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 4:12pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Logobenz2: These are the examples of mummy's boy.My friend your mum is your dad's priority. Your mum belongs to your dad and your wife belongs to you.When it comes to the issue of marriage, you have to protect your wife by so doing other members of your family will have no choice than to respect her.Of course no one is saying you should not love your mother but your wife is your no 1 priority. A lot of reasons why most marriages have issues is because of too much family interference, the way I love my dad ehen,my father can't expect me to make him my no 1 priority over my husband. 11 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 4:15pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
pocohantas: You are right sis |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by ogawisdom(m): 5:58pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
I can't love any woman more than my mum I hope my wife doesn't hear this lol it's the truth. No one can love me more than my mum, unconditional love personified. If not for children do we even need to marry 1 Like |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 6:06pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
ogawisdom: Then don't waste your time to get married.Marriage is not for babies like you. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 8:00pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
I thought freecocoa is a lesbian? What business do u have with marriage? |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 8:03pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
freecocoa:Yes! |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 8:06pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
ImaIma1:His mother becomes what? |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by peacefulhome(f): 8:09pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
It a general thing. They are just trying to protect their family . We as a lady will not be happy if our husband should keep complaining of any bad attitude that any of our family members has. No sane man will want his wife to get the bad image of his family, |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 8:14pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
peacefulhome:one chilled bottle of champagne for you my lady 1 Like |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 8:14pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
jenifer007:Keep deceiving yourself I hope u will say same when your son grow up Do u know d meaning of unconditional love?? Only a mother got unconditional love for his son, no woman on earth love can surpass that which the mother have for his son. That man you are calling hubby, there are certain conditions he may be in and if he approach u, u will turn down his offer, only a mother will stand behind his son regardless of his condition & this will ever make mothers special in the life of her son. There is a special spot we men keep for mothers in our life, no other woman can take that spot... 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 8:17pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
jenifer007:He is not a baby He stated the fact & a thousand of your kind can't change it |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 8:24pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Rubbiish:I'm with you on this bro. |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 8:25pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Think before talking. I am a mother and I love my son so much and I will never allow my son use me to intimidate his wife.He has to love his wife more than me because i am not a rival to his wife.it is men like you that make your mothers rivals to your wives. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 8:26pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
jenifer007:How old is your son? |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 8:27pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Marriage is not compulsory. Babies don't marry.Real men do marry. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Rubbiish(m): 9:07pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
jenifer007:@bold u make laugh The wife and mother have different place in the life of man, every man got only one mother, but number of wife is unlimited. U will naturally sound like this, till your son grow up, only then u will understand the pain of having an ungrateful son. The sacrifice a mother will make for her son, very few wives, if any sef can ever make it. U think it is easy to mould a man? Wait till u your son grow up Freecocoa is a lesbian and knows nothing about raising a child, dont allow her mislead u 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 9:08pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Rubbiish:bunch of jokers. I asked her how old her son is,she no respond They think moulding a man is easy. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 10:26pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
Logobenz2: I insist that babies don't marry young man.I am just seeing your post.When it comes to marriage, I am not a jjc.I am blessed with four children and they are all boys.My last born just finished secondary school.My first born is 24 years and in few years time he will be planning to settle down.I will never be a rival to my son's wife.You have a lot of growing up to do. Don't make your mother your wife's rival. No matter how sweet your mum is,you can never be her crown. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by cococandy(f): 4:03am On Aug 04, 2019 |
Your father’s priority. Simples Logobenz2: 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by ogawisdom(m): 6:12am On Aug 04, 2019 |
jenifer007: An idiot like u should learn to respect the opinion of others. Now get lost already. It's my choice I love my mum more than any wife n it will never change. I can marry 10 wives but will only have one mother guess ur decaying brain cell may never understand. My sweet mum is a no go area, she is the only person I can gladly die for in this world. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 9:26am On Aug 04, 2019 |
[quote author=ogawisdom post=80918837] An idiot like u should learn to respect the opinion of others. Now get lost already. It's my choice I love my mum more than any wife n it will never change. I can marry 10 wives but will only have one mother guess ur decaying brain cell may never understand. My sweet mum is a no go area, she is the only person I can gladly die for in this world.[/quot Tot from your user name,your words will be filled with wisdom but it is unfortunate you are the bigger fool. I hope you can also chest it when your wife tells you the only man that means so much to her is her father and she treats you like trash.Na you go tire because you will be so jealous of your father in law.Men gets more jealous than women. Your mumu go do one day. 4 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 9:27am On Aug 04, 2019 |
jenifer007:who said anything about making my mom and wife rivals? I only said I won't allow my wife counter my mom for no reason,whether she is wrong or right! And also,the love I have for my mom cannot be shared with anybody and I love it like that.whether wife or whoever... Maybe when you sacrifice for those boys like you shouldn't without any support and give them a golden spoon in their mouths at the detriment of your own relaxation and health,then I would believe you. |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 9:28am On Aug 04, 2019 |
cococandy:Do you have male children? |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by jenifer007: 11:06am On Aug 04, 2019 |
Logobenz2: O Ku orire....For the fact your mother sacrificed all for you, you can only show your appreciation by being there for her but she can never be your first wife. My prayer for you is to marry a wonderful woman,even your mother will have confidence in her and they both will love each other dearly.That will make you a happier man. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by nlPoster: 11:24am On Aug 04, 2019 |
Hopefully these "nude ladies" dancing in transparent vehicles in traffic, would get defenders like we're seeing here after some time. |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by Logobenz2: 12:38pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
jenifer007:exactly my thoughts.thank you. I will love to marry a woman who would see my mom as hers and I will see her and her family as mine too. We become one big happy family that shares success and weaknesses together. Let love lead rather than rivalry from both parties. |
Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by bukatyne(f): 2:20pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Logobenz2: You never ready to marry 1 Like |
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