freecocoa: Duh!
Tell me which of us especially those raised in Nigeria didn't feel like slapping a parent when we were growing up?

coogar:

so what's the difference between what was said behind you or in front of you? the only reason a child in nigeria will not talk back to his parents is because he would get thrashed not that he's not offended by the actions of his parents like his counterpart abroad....



your child is human not an animal or a slave in the 6th century.



yet more hypocrisy....
in spite of the draconian corporal punishment and strict upbringing, nigeria still ships the highest number of pröstitutes to europe so what happened to the strict upbringing and the religious beliefs? make una dey deceive unaselves with the barbaric ways of raising a child!

coogar:

so you know......
i was at a party recently and one of the guests asked if any of us as a kid ever thought or questioned maybe our parents weren't really the biological parents with the kind of strict discipline we had growing up.......we all raised our hands!

freecocoa: Duh!

Tell me which of us especially those raised in Nigeria didn't feel like slapping a parent when we were growing up?

Galaxy.Note.II:

freecocoa: Duh!

Tell me which of us especially those raised in Nigeria didn't feel like slapping a parent when we were growing up?

adaobi123:
you didnt ?? really ?

HARDDON:

feel all the ish you may.

In Nigeria, there is respect culture and shyte like this can NEVER occur!

moraly depraved foreign bigots

Galaxy.Note.II:

freecocoa: I see comprehension is the problem here, I only felt like slapping which is very normal but never carried out the act.

Feeling and doing are two different things, collect a refund from your basic english teacher.

HARDDON:

Long may your days be.

i live to see your kids beat the crap out of your crude reasoning ways.

spare the rod and spoil the child.... that isnt in your bible too huh?

keep on living in this pseudo planet.

freecocoa: Keep lying to yourself, except your parents never did something that angered you which is practically impossible.

HARDDON:
Long may your days be.
i live to see your kids beat the crap out of your crude reasoning ways.
spare the rod and spoil the child.... that isnt in your bible too huh?
keep on living in this pseudo planet.

dayokanu:

But the same children they didnt spare the rods for turned out to be Agberos, Militants, Yahooyahoo, Boko Harams and Pr0stitutes all over Nigeria and abroad

freecocoa: Duh!

Tell me which of us especially those raised in Nigeria didn't feel like slapping a parent when we were growing up?

Galaxy.Note.II:


Honestly, I can't remember.
I'm being treated like royalty right now

Amelian:

but why would a kid talk back to his or her elders? To prove what? That they are really outspoken and rude?... By the time an outspoken and upfront child embarrasses you, infront of your friends and colleagues, and you see the frown and shock on their faces, then u will understand. A child should be trained on how to listen , think before asking questions mildly , not lousely. And when that outspoken child grows up, especially the mum the op says na devil dey display, abi?
Don't worry when he grows up, I pray say the Devil no go truly display... Then the mother will know what unrest , high bp, and fear means, especially when she is old and frail.
Av seen such scenarios, happen on several occasions, and where does it leads? Uncontrollable tears and incessant increase of Bp, which leads to untimely death of such parents.
To before warned , is to before armed...am not saying terrorize a child when bringing him or her up, but train children wisely and firmly.

slimyem: I didn't!!!

freecocoa: You make it sound like they don't have such kids abroad, when a kid grows up and decides to become whatever then he should be held accountable for his actions as far as I'm concerned.

dayokanu:

But Nigerians still top the countries that export Pr0stitutes most, one of the leading yahoo yahoo, one of the rising militants etc despite the "discipline" we get

freecocoa: How did you arrive at that conclusion? Let's even agree what you wrote up there is true, so you don't know that many factors contribute to the decisions people make?

By the time better hunger waya you for here or you trek endlessly in search of work to no avail, you no go even know when you carry laptop enter badoo begin search for potential magas.

coogar:

the so-called respect is shrouded by hypocrisy.....
the kids in naija are as bad as the ones abroad. the only difference is the kids abroad are trained to be upfront and outspoken. the ones in naija are trained to listen and not talk back. their minds are the same but one is free to express himself while the other is meant to keep mute!

Amelian:

but why would a kid talk back to his or her elders? To prove what? That they are really outspoken and rude?... By the time an outspoken and upfront child embarrasses you, infront of your friends and colleagues, and you see the frown and shock on their faces, then u will understand. A child should be trained on how to listen , think before asking questions mildly , not lousely. And when that outspoken child grows up, especially the mum the op says na devil dey display, abi?
Don't worry when he grows up, I pray say the Devil no go truly display... Then the mother will know what unrest , high bp, and fear means, especially when she is old and frail.
Av seen such scenarios, happen on several occasions, and where does it leads? Uncontrollable tears and incessant increase of Bp, which leads to untimely death of such parents.
To before warned , is to before armed...am not saying terrorize a child when bringing him or her up, but train children wisely and firmly.

dayokanu:

So what happened to the discipline the incessant flogging ingrained in you? Or that discipline suddenly flew out in the time of hunger?

Is discipline for times when things are smooth or when they are rough? I think discipline is for both

onila: kids from lagos

children shld never be raised in lagos

all the children from Lagos , I know lack manners and are very rude

onila: kids from lagos

children shld never be raised in lagos

all the children from Lagos , I know lack manners and are very rude

freecocoa: Ehen now you come, so you see? Even for the bad things wey lagos kids sabi, onitsha kids sabi am pass.

If you want talk of children wey sabi book wella, check yoruba kids and igbo kids wey grow up for north.