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Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 9:38pm On May 08, 2007 |
sharrap jare. I am still waiting for where I said otherwise, Ikomi |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 9:51pm On May 08, 2007 |
Red_Lips: Read ur old posts and u would find the answer. U wan hear from my mouth. hahahahahahaha. Dat one na deadi body get accident yeppaaaaa. No be my mouth. heyheyheyheeeeee |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 9:54pm On May 08, 2007 |
Ameromo i being think say una hold one position for the discussion oohhh. Anyways, unfortunately the story heat up no doubt. But in an unexpected direction. So wetin we they talk now na Racismmmm or Black brotha. Thank goodness am green. I don laugh die here. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 10:08pm On May 08, 2007 |
So in other words, I never did. Thanks for clearing that up. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 10:14pm On May 08, 2007 |
well I guess their question is if they are going to look for someone else who isnt a loser(one "o" Btw), why not look for another black woman who is "up there and will help them become stronger" instead of giving up on their race entirely. Madam Red_Lips explain dat. It even has race in it. And let me warn u watever u have to say dont insult me ooohhh. Otherwise. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by GNature(m): 10:20pm On May 08, 2007 |
Ikomi: You are from Darfur in Sudan ? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 10:41pm On May 08, 2007 |
@Gnature am good o( but I may have to desist from using Nigerian Lingo ) @topic, Mr. Darfur, maybe we can hook up. Have been planning on spending some time there, |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 10:41pm On May 08, 2007 |
This is my take on the whole thing, Dispite you not giving me respect I will show you that Red-Lips, I only ask that if you going to tell people what I say say it right, At no point did I ever say, recommend or suggest Black women lie on your back and let black men walk all over you, Not ever, At no point did I suggest nor recommend they waste their time on losers and low life. My words is that as Black women we always have your back, There are loads of educated black men who can't find work and his woman holds him down, as many of them same men once they find their ground leave them for white women or others, The women that may take them back with open arms does not have to be that woman, But didn't think I had to break it down that far. That woman could be another black woman, his sister, his mother who allows him to come back in their home tell he gets his footing, and at times it may be that same back women and most often she take him back for her children sake, She may be a fool but she knows without a father in the home her daughter is more likely to be pregnant before the age of 20. As far as losers and the sort white women can have each and everyone of them, matter of fact the black community may consider paying them a lump sum per loser. Most Everything I posted was regarding the impact this has on the community culture. I hope you know that your are free to say as you wish, I say it to show respect, but am not afford the same. No need to take anything personal but I ask you not to infer or imply that at any point I suggest Black woman put the esteem below that of their man. Please don't ever misquote me like that. Just incase yall need a refresher on what I been talking about here you go: 1. Let me make it simple. . . Ikomi no need to bate me into a battle with Red-Lips, I have my opinion she has her, I am not afraid or chicken to speak my mind, nor to disagree, but misquoting me and suggesting I am lonely when she don't know me from Ann, is a place I choose not to go any further with her or anyone else on nairaland. As I have said a thousand times we are all entitled to our opinions I am not asking NOT A ONE OF YOU to adopt mine. I am confident enough in my viewpoint to STAND ALONE if I have to. When I refer to the black community I refer to the ENTIRE BLACK/AFRICAN diaspora, From Africa to the Islands to the Americas. Like my signature say I am who YOU think I am but who I be will ALWAYS be ME. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 10:48pm On May 08, 2007 |
Re: Ameromoge did I say that they should lie down for anyone? I said that is what should be discussed. I said instead of them looking at themselves and how they do their thing and the kind crap they accept from their "brothers", they are too busy whining about who he's dating. Are you Nigerian? If so, which part? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 10:50pm On May 08, 2007 |
I said that is how most of these woman who have a problem with this situation are thinking, Ikomi. Hence the part of "THEIR QUESTION". Excuse you for not understanding English. Maybe I'll ask Osisi to translate it to Igbo for you. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 10:54pm On May 08, 2007 |
Who has the last laugh. Whether I understand english oohh or I dont understand english. We read it all. No be only me read am. Red _Lips u wan ruuuuuunnnnn. lol Una go kill me here wit laughter. Red_Lips and Ameromoge. Keep the heat on. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 10:58pm On May 08, 2007 |
na so so yinglish persin dey read for this thread! if your own don better no come put sand sand for people garri in here oh! Racism my big beautiful ass |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 10:58pm On May 08, 2007 |
You were in support of the question Red _Lips stop trying to bail out. And enough of ur insult ohhh. I go show u ohhhhhhhhhhh. ok |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:00pm On May 08, 2007 |
Ike6 which angle u dey come from? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:01pm On May 08, 2007 |
Ikomi: As I said I will not be bated, I will let my words speak for themselves. Those who agree speak up and those who don't do the same. If everyone thought like me then we would not have a debate here, and this topic would not be getting all this attention, So in my opinion my job is done #4 |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:01pm On May 08, 2007 |
@ ikomi was it not u who made fun of me for not understanding igbo |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 11:02pm On May 08, 2007 |
asko oh Ikomi: you dont need to know |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 11:03pm On May 08, 2007 |
Apparently English is optional in his village school. Poor kid doesnt know the difference between support and asking a question. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:04pm On May 08, 2007 |
blue-sky: So wetin u wan talk. Make una no make me loose temper here oohh. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by GNature(m): 11:04pm On May 08, 2007 |
neelsel: @neesel Haba, why stop using the lingo ? Get used to using the lingo so you'll be well prepared to communicate with your future Nigerian in-laws |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:04pm On May 08, 2007 |
@ topic wat is wrong with black men dating non black women? why are most black women more in favour of keeping to the race? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 11:07pm On May 08, 2007 |
Because what else will they have to whine about? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:07pm On May 08, 2007 |
Red_Lips: i understand wat ur saying, but when i dont understand igbo, he goes and insults me in igbo. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:09pm On May 08, 2007 |
Red_Lips: sometimes i wonder if the black men are running away from the black women who love to moan about everything |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Neish(f): 11:09pm On May 08, 2007 |
maybe blackmen feel black women are not bringing it like they used to |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:11pm On May 08, 2007 |
blue-sky: Red_Lips: Na me una wan face, the only luck wey una get be say I no fit insult person. But Red_Lips if u get strength ohhh Ameromo dey wait u. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:16pm On May 08, 2007 |
Ikomi: i am not trying to cause an argument with. You probably cannot remember wat u sed to me, so i will forget about it. friends so u are from Sudan? or r u Nigerian? |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 11:16pm On May 08, 2007 |
Red_Lips: are you white? if you are i need my oclometer quickly |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by GNature(m): 11:18pm On May 08, 2007 |
blue-sky: gotta love this thread. God bless Nairaland |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 11:18pm On May 08, 2007 |
Red_Lips u were all for black brotha wit black sistas dont try to play smart. As 4 Ika 6 I feel u. Ameromo, dont let Red_Lips get away wit it. Finally Blue_Sky If I see u writing in Igbo again. Let me just leave it there. |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by bluesky4(f): 11:22pm On May 08, 2007 |
GNature: did he not say he was from Dafur in sudan @ikomi when did i write in igbo |
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:22pm On May 08, 2007 |
blue-sky: Its about self preservation, self-love vs. self hate, culture and community? As long as that can be maintained then most of my concerns are voided. That's one of the reasons I jokingly said it's okay for a black woman to have white mans baby because you are what your mother is!!! But there is plenty else to whine about as Redlips put it, Money, Education, Alcoholism, Infidelity, shall I I am done here, the topic has been given its due attention, not need for me to go further Ikomi you are horrible, Na fight? no be me and you! |
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