are you trying to spark a fire david? too bad you join so late i'm off to bed now!!!

sparking a fire ke? So you can all come down on my head like piranhas?
Just wondering why you all have not found black brothers yet? Some of the sisters here like Red_Lips are already "taken", she can show you all the way.

davidylan:

sparking a fire ke? So you can all come down on my head like piranhas?
Just wondering why you all have not found black brothers yet? Some of the sisters here like Red_Lips are already "taken", she can show you all the way.

So there is even a "way"? lol . . the thing no easy at all ooh. . the "so called black brothas" are becoming more "expensive" by the second, since you now have to ask somone else who already knows the way to show you directons

@ Red_Lips
I hope you're still on line, so you can show the black ladies who are lost the "way" lol

_{i'm not one, BTW}

Let's see

Well, First of all I don't refer to myself as being a "sister".

You girls should jot that down 

Sister, strong black woman all na the same Red_Lips just show them the way so that we black fellas can have some peace to pursue our white women.

davidylan:

Sister, strong black woman all na the same Red_Lips just show them the way so that we black fellas can have some peace to pursue our white women.

And who is holding you back from running behind Jessica Simpson and Brittney Spears

TattleTale:

And who is holding you back from running behind Jessica Simpson and Brittney Spears

who wants a world record divorce time or spend free time at rehab clinics? Tattletale, there are boy toys too o.

davidylan:

Tattletale, there are boy toys too o.

Keep away from me and my Rabbits, bullets and Jelly fishes

Trust me those white girls, uhhh, they have them in abundance, so you better be prepared to share your time with silicone apparatuses

@ameromoge and tattle tale
its a pity i got back late from work. today was one of those days. i arrived home so tired that even the hairs on my head hurt.and theres still dinner to be manufactured.so cant give this blessed thread my attention tonight. but i cant logout before telling you gals what i saw today. the classical inter-racial couple. blackman sleek as hell. his white woman? i cant even begin to describe what she was like! it only remained for her to start crawling on the ground on all fours! (you get the picture?) [s]and he was clutching her hand like he was scared she was going to escape. hehehehe[/s].

Red_Lips:

Not sure why Ikomi thought he was trying to fool himself by saying he's not Nigerian when he's infact Igbo.

Abeg AmerOmoge, cute-ass, spoilt make una helep me warn Red_lips ooohh. Make una tell Red_lips make she no carry me play ooooohhhhh.

Now Red _Lips for your Information I come from the beautiful good land of Darfur, In Sudan, where there is a good number of ethnic Igbos.

And secondly whether black brotha marry black sista or black sista marry black brotha how is that my wahala because as for me am a green brotha how about that.

Na green babes I dey follow.

Make una help me warn Red_Lips ooohhhhhhhhh

or what will happen?

spoilt:

@ameromoge and tattle tale
its a pity i got back late from work. today was one of those days. i arrived home so tired that even the hairs on my head hurt.and theres still dinner to be manufactured.so can't give this blessed thread my attention tonight. but i can't logout before telling you gals what i saw today. the classical inter-racial couple. blackman sleek as hell. his white woman? i can't even begin to describe what she was like! it only remained for her to start crawling on the ground on all fours! (you get the picture?) [s]and he was clutching her hand like he was scared she was going to escape. hehehehe[/s].

AwWWWWW!!
Was waiting for you so that we could have raised "hell" up in here, Your absence enabled me to spend time reading one mad woman's rants in another thread, Sisimose is trying to make a bat out of her stupidity, As I told her before, only a dumb monkey wouldn't know who Sisi ho or Tattletale is,
Still not sure why she keeps on acussing others,

@Topic

Spoilt,
Am still awaiting that piece you promised to post

Red_Lips:

or what will happen?

Or I'll entrust u to a green brotha. lol

@Spoilt ,
Maybe when Davidylan and his crew sign on, you can repaste what you saw, Let them read it o

This poem was written long before the article and this thread:
I’m not a racist but
I’m not a racist but, I get sick to my stomach, when I see a brother with a white chick
Now the world may think that I am envious or may even say I am jealous But how can the mother of the human race wear a green face
See it’s not that I want to take her place, The issue is much greater and I need to express my feelings with a bit of grace

I’m not a racist but, How dare you put her before me, treating her like the Queen only I can be
The thought alone puts me in a rage Shut up and listen while I express myself on this page
You say I am full of drama, Ooo you know what let me lower my voice and speak a little calmer
Sitting here telling me you an equal opportunity lover, Trying to convince me LOVE knows no color

I’m not a racist but, I lose respect for you as a MAN, She wont ever understand, regardless to how much she tans
She can NEVER be who I am, I am your friend, your lover your sista, your partner, your wife, I am the air you breathe that gives you life
Biblically, I am your neck, your EVE, and even the mother of your seeds, I am not a racist but, can’t you see your involvement with her is destroying the us in we.

That is indeed racism if it actually makes you sick to see an interracial couple.

Dont know why you girls are fooling yourselves.

Red_Lips:

That is indeed racism if it actually makes you sick to see an interracial couple.

Dont know why you girls are fooling yourselves.

Have u changed ur position

Red_Lips:

That is indeed racism if it actually makes you sick to see an interracial couple.

Dont know why you girls are fooling yourselves.

Darling you are free to think whatever you wish but I know what racism is and as a black people or as black people we do not possess the wealth to be racist, Am I discriminatory maybe but so are you and everyone else, when you choose red over blue or green over yellow. But having preferences do not make one a racist.  The individual must possess power in order to due so.  Just as women can't be sexist blacks cant be racist!!!

Ikomi:

Have u changed your position

David and you have caused fear catch Red_lips, what yall do?

Ikomi, can you please show me where I ever said I was against interracial relationships? I believe I even mentioned that I was in one for a couple of years

All I said is that most black males, the ones who arent rich should stop dating the ugly ones.

Ameromoge is there yelling how blacks can't be racist yet posted some dumb poem about some woman claiming not to be racist. Since blacks supposedly can't be racist then what exactly is the point of the whole "I'm not racist but, " nonsense?

Maybe if people didnt spend so much time wondering why certain people are with someone else maybe then they'd have free time to have someone instead of constantly whining about being alone. You claim that black men only come back after the white females have taken them to the cleaners, so how about not taking those losers back then? They do it because you weaklings know you'll take his lame broke ass back.  You run around having his bastard children, accepting 15 years relationships that never go anywhere then when he leaves your ass, you start going on about how you have to do so much and cater for so much with no one helping. Maybe if you didnt give yourselves so freely then they wouldnt take you for granted. Have you ever wondered why they put more effort in their relationships with these white women than they do with you girls? Because they usually make them work for it. Have some pride instead of just taking any idiot all in the name of him being black and stop waiting for them to eventually come back because they probably wont and there you will be 55, still singing some hate-filled poem.


What the hell was the point of the civil rights movement when you people pretty much still want to be segregated? Perhaps you would have perferred if America was back in the era where being seen with a white female was enough to be murdered.

Berra join the nation of Islam and find a "brother" there, last I heard they werent allowed to date white women.

Again Red_Lips you are free to think what you wish, no one ever stated that you need to agree!
No one here whining about being alone!!!Please don't get it twisted, poetry is creative expression try using your imagination, Maybe it is titled that way because people like yourself who don't know better see the statements made as racism, it so that they can understand.

But if you want to say we have low self esteem or imply it maybe you should take your interracial couple loving ass and post a thread praising it's glory as for this thread you wont find it here.

I will assume when you use the word "you" you are referring to women in general especially with regards to relationships, but if you didn't do the same things(make the same mistakes) wit that white man you'd still be with him.  Because if you paid attention to the women of the thread we can stand alone with or without a man.  But you want to see our love, passion and compassion for our culture, hertiage, community and future as a people as a weakness, Then I say again to you, you are free to think as you wish as I am, And if loving my people and wanting us to grow strong families is a weakness then call me WEAK O'jare!!!!

I will agree to disagree with you Red-Lips, being a woman of opinion I respect that we each have one!!

Why do you keep telling me that I'm free to think what I wish? I would think it was obvious that I had that right. No need to state the obvious my dear.

no one is whining about being alone, lol, no offence dear but you've been doing that all over Nairaland. Btw Im gonna ignore that comment you made about my ex since you are just bitter. that so called mistake was the best mistake of my life.

Anyway, I found that poem you quoted to be highly depressing. Almost pathetic really. Like a dog begging for love. "please come to me, leave that woman alone and love me. I deserve you not her", almost like an episode of Grey's Anatomy.

You make it seem like EVERY black guy is dating a white woman. That the black and African culture are in danger. Not really. Maybe you should stop going after the ones that don't want to be with you. Stop staring at the ones who are with white woman and get with the ones that arent. You're saying that you're not a "racist" for having a perference but you are pretty much implying that the men are. Kinda hypocritical don't you think?

You say you want there to be love and stronger families. Like I said before, how is that possible? Ever heard the racist joke, that states that Father's Day is the most confusing day in the black community? Sure it's a racist sterotype but to every sterotype there is a grain of truth. every wonder why that is? Yes single families arent just exclusive to black families but they seem to be known for it, even Africans look down on black americans for it. Go around with these losers, have their kids, the guy never mentions anything about marriage, they spend 20 years being gfs and the women are fine. They accept such dumb situations and they wonder why they are later taken for granted. When you believe you deserve better then you get it.

I saw the cover of Essence a few months back. Kim Porter and P. Diddy. That dumb ass woman has been with him for how long? 10 years or more? Recently had another pair of kids and he STILL doesnt want to marry her ass. STILL dates other women. How can any female be proud of that? God Forbid we see the black community condemning such things, instead you have people praising it. Instead of talking about that and how black females should better themselves and not lower themselves to such pitiful situations, you are instead whining about the men running after whomever. Like I said, they only do it because they can and because they know when they come back, you will accept them.

You have every right to disagree, no need to tell me that. Just like I have every right to say my mind so no I'm not going else where with my words. pele 

Freedom at last

@topic
As soon as I find the time to read through the lastest developments, I shall return with my 2cents, Until such time, keep it civil

lmao

@topic
no it is not an african American woman problem, more so over there i might add.
_{Be back}

Interesting thread

Hello GNature

I dont even know why Ameromoge cares. Most Nigerians marry fellow Nigerians to perserve this same culture she believes is dying. If they wanna fool around with others before then, let them be jare.

How things Miss Red_Lips. Just enjoying the lively discussion on this thread.

Varying, yet intelligent perspectives on the "black man squeeze" issue 

@Red_lips,
So in other words are you trying to convince me that my hopes of returning to the islands with a Nigeria has been shattered?

@Gnature, what's up

Lol if you promise to take him to the islands, im sure he'll love you forever.

Not much @neesel. My sister, I thought you had forgotten your nairaland family demm, haven't heared from you in a while.

Glad to see you are okay

I can only smile. I saw it coming. Ameromoge and Red_Lips. hahahahahahahahahaha

Calabash don break. Yeeeeeparipa

I no talk am. But Red_Lips I still carry u 4 chest oooohhhhhhh. Our fight never finish.

Spoilt which side u go take now, hahahahahahahahahahaha.

Wind don blow, we don see wetin chicken they hide.

I go die ooohhhhhh.