spoilt:

@ davidylan
its now counting chickens? thought it was gathering dust on the back of the shelf?

Both are the same.

AmerOmoge:

Well if i want one. . .any piece of one. . . that I can have. . .but I am searching. . .seeking to build an empire with one and that requires more than settling for a piece of a man for the sake of saying I have one. . ._{oops i think that's for a different thread o!}

This "taken" wind blowing over the land these days na wa.

sisi-shame:

I see why many of your asses are single( men),

Always badmouthing Black ladies, then when the wrinkled, bad-smelling white girls take your money and manhood to the "dogs"., you guys run back to us as if we can ressurrect deads

It's a damn shame!!!

Welcome to Nairaland. . . thank you for checking out my thread and responding. . .afta my really long explanation I think I have scared off the men with regards to this topic. . .

AmerOmoge:

. . .after my really long explanation I think I have scared off the men with regards to this topic. . .

they are regrouping for a counter attack!

I feel genuinely sorry for black women, hopefully this trend is reversed because I do not find it funny. I've had many black men (inlcuding Nigerians) tell me that black women are not as attractive as white women but oh well.

Donzman:

I feel genuinely sorry for black women, hopefully this trend is reversed because I do not find it funny. I've had many black men (inlcuding Nigerians) tell me that black women are not as attractive as white women but oh well.

same sentiments here. Its a trend that is not likely to go away soon. Black women seem to be at the recieving end of society, being female and black at the same time. Every decent black man around is more likely to be with a white woman than a black one.

Some of the black men who will rather date white women than black women also do it because the white women make them feel better about themselves somehow. They somehow believe that the white woman appreciates them and what they bring more than the average black woman will. I do not understand it because most of these men go for white women on the low end of the beauty scale if you know what I mean.

Donzman:

I do not understand it because most of these men go for white women on the low end of the beauty scale if you know what I mean.

i do. dont trigger me off!

Donzman:

Some of the black men who will rather date white women than black women also do it because the white women make them feel better about themselves somehow. They somehow believe that the white woman appreciates them and what they bring more than the average black woman will. I do not understand it because most of these men go for white women on the low end of the beauty scale if you know what I mean.

spoilt:

i do. don't trigger me off!

Dont hurt 'em spoilt. . .

Butt the part about the lower end of the scale is so true. . . either facially or physically or both in many cases. . .Most black women carry their weight well-well but I have yet to see a white woman do the same. . .

It warms my heart to see men respond with understanding. . .

spoilt:

they are regrouping for a counter attack!

Let the bad-belles come we'll be ready between the two of us. . .

I most time think that the case of black men that marry white women could be well likened to that of the prodigal son.
As the white woman is deemed to be very expensive. But at a second look at it I have come to notice that a white woman could express her feelings quite frankly and openly, which is wat could make a disciplined man full of respect for her, and knwoing what her issues are then looks for ways to address them, unlike the black woman that tries to keep everything inside sometimes in the name of pleasing the man. Honestly av come across stunning black women, and beautiful white women, but the memory of the black ones I met lasts longer. Even though am sure id marrry any woman from any race as long as she has got (like we say in naija good moderate back and front.) that matters, and very intelligent and humble that would make a good wife anyday. Lets not mention the last one. Guys u know now.

whats the last one?

Ikomi:

I most time think that the case of black men that marry white women could be well likened to that of the prodigal son.
As the white woman is deemed to be very expensive. But at a second look at it I have come to notice that a white woman could express her feelings quite frankly and openly, which is what could make a disciplined man full of respect for her, and knwoing what her issues are then looks for ways to address them, unlike the black woman that tries to keep everything inside sometimes in the name of pleasing the man. Honestly av come across stunning black women, and beautiful white women, but the memory of the black ones I met lasts longer. Even though am sure id marrry any woman from any race as long as she has got (like we say in naija good moderate back and front.) that matters, and very intelligent and humble that would make a good wife anyday. Lets not mention the last one. Guys u know now.

AmerOmoge:

whats the last one?

Save my soul.

AmerOmoge:

Dont hurt 'em spoilt. . .

Butt the part about the lower end of the scale is so true. . . either facially or physically or both in many cases. . .

Not altogether true, but if it makes black women happy, they can keep up the stereotype.

AmerOmoge:

Most black women carry their weight well-well but I have yet to see a white woman do the same. . .

Really? I think white women do a better job with their weight. its saddening to see so many obese black women, the diff may be that most black women pretend to carry their weight well until they trap a hapless man into marriage and then . . .

Lol David, it's true 80% of the time. Unless the black male is rich and famous, most of the time you see them with some fugly looking white bumpkins, ugh. Especially the Nigerian guys in London and the states, face wowo past wowo. when it's not wowo they are morbidly obese.

Ridiculous really and I'm definitely NOT against interracial relationships as I was in one for over 2 years, but it's like if you're going to date outside your race, can you please go for the prized crop and not weeds. Gosh.

as for carrying weight well, I think she means a black obese woman looks better than a white obese woman which is true. They get spider veins and their strech marks and stuff are very visible as opposed to black women.

davidylan:


Really? I think white women do a better job with their weight. its saddening to see so many obese black women, the diff may be that most black women pretend to carry their weight well until they trap a hapless man into marriage and then . . .

who's stereotyping now?

Spoilt let him be he don't know any better,

@redlips you have explained my thoughts very well no need for further explanation!

I dont think its beauty or figure alone men are after it could be just adventure. Which might sound crazy but dont be suprised its true.

I don't think its beauty or figure alone men are after it could be just adventure. Which might sound crazy but don't be suprised its true.

what kind of adventure! have you read the thread about an experienced woman cause the men are afraid to admit to it.

Once again my heart bleeds for US black women.  Enough is Enough and I strongly believe it's high time BLACK WOMEN really KICK these triffling "brothers" to the curb.

So is it because we would not be at your beckon call, or because we stand up to your idiosyncrasies, and do not stand your bullshit, why we are considered LESS than your so-called slim pretty white chics?

Honestly I have GIVEN UP on black men, and NO NO I am not into white guys either( would rather date another woman before I tread those paths).  Too long have black women been subjected and degraded by the same men who cry foul when we decide not to be bothered with their sorry asses.

I have seen them (black men) after these white girls have taken them for a ride, come crawling back to us as if we can perform miracles.  The truth is BLACK MEN, the majority of these white girls would NEVER take you home to meet their parents.  And if they do, you MUST therefore have proven yourself to be an ASSET, rather than a liability.  You must have had accomplished enough to convinced their parents that you are NOT just another "black free loader" looking for an "easy" way out.

Thank God I have choosen my toys to get my freaky freak on, in so doing, my toy and I see no colour thus the issue of race is not necessary.

My prayers for these black men, whom by the way are nothing but intimacy gadgets to these white girls, would wake up and smell the coffee before it is too late.  Yes, I reiterate, The ONLY use white women have for BLACK men is SEX, I have worked, schooled and befriended many,  They drool at the mere fact that your "tool" can take them to heights that their counterparts aren't able to achieve, but when the sex is done they have No USE for your blackasses,

I am done, and I have NO apologies,

@ tattletale I love you girl, make no apologies cause none are needed, and as soon as I finish sending you this I will start a new thread about a woman's alternatives to black men who seek white women.  I LMAO about the toys, because withem at least you know then end result, bliss and satisfaction jare!

Me, spoilt, and babyosisi could have used your spirit early in this thread!

@Ameromoge, is there a way I we can chat in private??

I think there is a way but i havent figured it out yet, but email works too!

AmerOmoge:

I think there is a way but i havent figured it out yet, but email works too!

cool,

the level of frustration has reached fever pitch. O Lard!

davidylan:

the level of frustration has reached fever pitch. O Lard!

, That's all I do after reading your rants!!!!!

Sometimes you have to bring the fire o!

AmerOmoge:

Sometimes you have to bring the fire o!

Yes that's true, but I also need to shed tears,

TattleTale:

, That's all I do after reading your rants!!!!!

i'm not bothered dear, i'm not the one having fever over marriage matters. Enjoy yourself with your toys. It's good that when posts don't agree with your point of view you can refer to them as "rants". Only God knows what we should call the lengthy whactamacallit you posted earlier. Talk about kicking black men to the "curb". Is anyone bothered?

Dear black men who seek black wives are finding them aplenty. Sometimes the black women who shout the loudest are the ones who threw away opportunities that came there way earlier because the fellow did not look like P.Diddy, or his pad did not measure up to that of Micheal Jordan.
Met a few black ladies and there attitude alone is enough to put you in a cold shower forever. It's when they are 32 and without a husband that you start seeing long posts about kicking men to the curb. If black men are not available please find men of other colors!

Why the sudden surge in the "white women only want you for sex" excuses? We all know its not 100% true but at least we must find something bad to say shouldnt we?
Anybody reading this thread would have come up with 1001 reasons why a black man must not marry a white woman, either;
a. they are too fat and ugly
b. they only want you for sex
c. black women are available - the question is where? I have been here 2 yrs, unless ii go manufacture a Nigerian girl there is none anywhere!

When you find them at all they behave as if the world is at there feet.

David you confuse me man, at times I think you understand and then other times you go back to being a "bad belle" why? abeg either love us or leave us!!! we dont need any more heartache and confusion jare!

davidylan:

i'm not bothered dear, i'm not the one having fever over marriage matters. Enjoy yourself with your toys. It's good that when posts don't agree with your point of view you can refer to them as "rants". Only God knows what we should call the lengthy whactamacallit you posted earlier. Talk about kicking black men to the "curb". Is anyone bothered?

Dear black men who seek black wives are finding them aplenty. Sometimes the black women who shout the loudest are the ones who threw away opportunities that came there way earlier because the fellow did not look like P.Diddy, or his pad did not measure up to that of Micheal Jordan.
Met a few black ladies and there attitude alone is enough to put you in a cold shower forever. It's when they are 32 and without a husband that you start seeing long posts about kicking men to the curb. If black men are not available please find men of other colors!

No one is asking you for sympathy or for long ass drawn out sermons, Reading through your posts and they have ALL been disrespectful and degrading toward black women.

So you love white women? who cares? We are ALL entitled to our own choices, and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that.
But sometimes if we are know what is about to come out of our mouths aren't pleasant, I suggest we keep our traps shut, Silence is golden!!!!

Contiune to "rant" and "rage" and sing your praises Davidylan, remember Rome was NOT built in ONE day!!

PS, 30-40 yrs are the ideal period for marriage, at least by then you would have accomplished everything you need, thus not being labelled as a non-achiever,

Have fun with your white girls, I hope you have already set up your "Botox Fund trust""

Tattletale did I tell you I love you girl!