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Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by spoilt(f): 1:02am On May 07, 2007
TattleTale:

@Spoilt
You are too much o, Anyway am waiting for that inflammatory post, I cannot wait, grin

thrashing out this issue on this thread has left me with almost blistered fingers. i have to rest them . by tomorrow or next. i'll probably post something that will have the black guys frothing at the mouth. (im kidding)
hope you'll be here to fight for the sistas.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 2:19am On May 07, 2007
@Spoilt I shall be here( if am not banned grin) with silver bells on too,
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 3:52pm On May 07, 2007
Now the people I blame so much are the sistas that go having babies 4 losers

I must say, I definitely agree with you on this, Ikomi. Most black women complain about being taken for granted but that's because they tend to accept ANY kind of loser all in the name of being there for a "black brother". They know if they do wrong and crawl back, you'll take them so why the hell wont they use that against you? shio.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 4:47pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

I must say, I definitely agree with you on this, Ikomi. Most black women complain about being taken for granted but that's because they tend to accept ANY kind of loser all in the name of being there for a "black brother". They know if they do wrong and crawl back, you'll take them so why the hell wont they use that against you? shio.

U shuold equally agree dat there are black sistas who are loosers looking 4 a black brotha to hang on, and when the black brother says no to them and moves on 4 any other race whom he believes is up there and would help him going strong, the black sista feels cheated.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 4:51pm On May 07, 2007
well I guess their question is if they are going to look for someone else who isnt a loser(one "o" Btw), why not look for another black woman who is "up there and will help them become stronger" instead of giving up on their race entirely.

Personally I don't care. I don't need to beg for love/force someone to want to stay with me  wink
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:05pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

why not look for another black woman who is "up there and will help them become stronger" instead of giving up on their race entirely.


Dat sounds a bit compelling. What says he must keep his eyes on black african-american, and even if he insists on blacks, he might choose a black-asian or black south-american, or are those less of a black.  tongue
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 5:08pm On May 07, 2007
What exactly is the excuse for not wanting to find a black female that isnt of "loser status" is the question really and you are right, no one is to say that he has to but like I said, they feel like it's putting them at a disadvantage.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:16pm On May 07, 2007
Can we give a straight solution to this matter.
Then for my black sistas who feel left out. There are loads of black brothas back there in Africa, who would treat u like a queen for coming to marry them, and because u marrying them would give them an oppurtunity in life. Why not try dat, and u'll see within months the equation will balance. But plz look out carefully 4 responsible ones. Could dat be a solution.
lol
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 5:18pm On May 07, 2007
Lol please they will treat you well once they get that visa status then after that they will run. cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:22pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

Lol please they will treat you well once they get that visa status then after that they will run. cheesy

Please your putting all black brothas in one basket and that is where the whole problem starts from initially. Why do u think its only VISA they want. What about the fact that u could be knowledgeble than they are what of the fact that u gave a hand to raise them from the dust. Most black brothas I know do this. Why not black sistas.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 5:25pm On May 07, 2007
Stop crying on my shoes, jare.

I was playing around although you Naija boys are especially known for doing this which is why these women have trouble trusting you people.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:29pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

I was playing around although you Naija boys are especially known for doing this which is why these women have trouble trusting you.

Another assumption, what makes u conclude am 9ija. Secondly africa holds about 52 countries, u can as well go marry from somalia, even Sudan. Abi no be black brotha u want. Tory don change. cool
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 5:31pm On May 07, 2007
I guess it was the horrible grammar. cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:39pm On May 07, 2007
hmmmmmm ty.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by TerraCotta(m): 5:52pm On May 07, 2007
My red lips will remain sealed on this topic lipsrsealed
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 5:59pm On May 07, 2007
tongue meaning?
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Ikomi(m): 5:59pm On May 07, 2007
TerraCotta:

My red lips will remain sealed on this topic lipsrsealed



Dont say a word our black sistas would insult u. Now I know why they want black bothas, or even think of slapping u.

Av heard it all, and weighed it all.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 6:01pm On May 07, 2007
Rofl. grin
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by TerraCotta(m): 6:14pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

tongue meaning?

I meant my red lips are "unavailable" (it seems like 'taken' is overused in these parts). This is a conversation of most concern to those still looking.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 6:21pm On May 07, 2007
TerraCotta:

.This is a conversation of most concern to those still looking.

That is true.  wink
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 8:22pm On May 07, 2007

Roflmao 
ok we geddit  "  grincheesy wink
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 8:48pm On May 07, 2007
sharrap over there you this Brooklyn hoodrat tongue
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by ikamefa(f): 9:20pm On May 07, 2007
Red_Lips:

sharrap over there you this Brooklyn hoodrat tongue

Buhahahaha! village kangaroo! ! who you talking to? cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 9:31pm On May 07, 2007
yooooooooooou abi you wan join us? cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Nobody: 11:15pm On May 07, 2007
This topic has changed to something else.
Spoilt don't let the efulefu brothers get to you.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:27pm On May 07, 2007
babyosisi:

This topic has changed to something else.
Spoilt don't let the efulefu brothers get to you.

They are trying to change it but it is unlikely, some guy will come on here and post professing his love for white women and the "lying dogs will no longer lay" and the thread will be set a blaze again.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 11:44pm On May 07, 2007
AmerOmoge:

They are trying to change it but it is unlikely, some guy will come on here and post professing his love for white women and the "lying dogs will no longer lay" and the thread will be set a blaze again.


Thank God you are here. Where is Spoilt and Cute Ass?  And missing Davidylan and Ikomi as well.

As soon as they are found, buzz me. so we can resume where we left off cheesy cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by RedLips3(f): 11:46pm On May 07, 2007
hasnt changed. Not sure why Ikomi thought he was trying to fool himself by saying he's not Nigerian when he's infact Igbo.
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by cuteass1(f): 11:52pm On May 07, 2007
TattleTale:

Thank God you are here. Where is Spoilt and Cute Ass? And missing Davidylan and Ikomi as well.

As soon as they are found, buzz me. so we can resume where we left off cheesy cheesy

Darling i'm right here, waiting for "hell" to let loose grin

Please be here when it happens wink kiss kiss
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by neelsel(f): 11:55pm On May 07, 2007
@Cute Ass, yes o, buzz me when the spark has been ignited, Paging Davidylan and Ikomi, Where are you?? grin cheesy wink cheesy
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by AmerOmoge(f): 11:59pm On May 07, 2007
Only waiting on Spoilt and the boys!!!
Re: Marriage Squeeze: Is This Only An African American Woman's Problem? by Nobody: 12:52am On May 08, 2007
all of una never marry? grin grin

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