pocohantas:


If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

J111333:
How much for a night would've been a good way to start a conversation with that lady.

She totally looks like one of them

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

Oluwasaeon:
It won't be an interview if the guy should ask how much she needs for her hair.
Anyways, it's none of my business

raymi:


It's a problematic question for ladies who are jobless and are living off of men who use them for transient pleasures.

lordskid:


Who even get d time sef? A typical 9ja babe is rude & delusional

Dammyt1:
Please nairalanders.. My phone and wrist Watch is stuck with the dhl.... They are asking me to pay over 100, 000 naira for custom duty charge ... Where do they want me to see that outrageous amount of money. Besides it's a used phone that my uncle just dash me. I'm confused right now... Has anyone experienced this before.. What's your advice Pls help a friend

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

lefulefu:
i refuse to believe a full grown man will sit on a chair hours upon hours sendin chats to a random stange girl on instagram. girl wey i no know ......just cos i saw one fake edited pix. some guys dey try abeg.

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

Amakavula:
I have a "blocklist " of monikers on Nairaland I don't reply or interact with what so ever. If you want to join them , call me a liar again.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

AwkaetitiBabe:
Men of these days are fond of the "What do you do" question, immediately you guys start chatting.

Quite annoying

pocohantas:


If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Men of these days are fond of the "What do you do" question, immediately you guys start chatting.

Quite annoying

omokoginimi:
Me: How are You?

Her: Fyn. nd u

B, you are cancelled

lefulefu:
i refuse to believe a full grown man will sit on a chair hours upon hours sendin chats to a random stange girl on instagram.girl wey i no know...just cos i saw one fake edited pix.some guys dey try abeg.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

Tallesty1:
Because you're jobless.



I thought you girls said that we can't approach working class ladies because their wealth intimidates us?

pocohantas:


If one has a job he/she is proud of, why will that question be a problem?

Go for organizations dinner parties, you see people introducing themselves and asking these questions. No one gets angry, maybe because it is a gathering of professionals or because they are seeing physically.

Him: What do you do?

She: I am a doctor, a baker, a cook, an olosho...

Throw the question back at him. What do you do too? If they are in similar sectors, fine. Another topic done commot o!

If for confidential reasons she isn't ready to disclose that, she can politely decline.

obekediamondfuto:



this question only irks lazy a555 folks.... men and women!
nothing absolutely wrong with that question, even for a student or a politician!!!!