AwkaetitiBabe:
Uhmmm! Is that so? That's ur opinion though

not that I'd respond to every Tom d111ick and Harry about what I do, but my point is in the reaction to the question!!!

depends on the person asking and my mood, I can decide to give a well detailed response, a generic response or simply ignore.... but it shouldn't trigger any form of negative mood....

"what do u do" is quite different from "are you stupid"

it's even different from "who are you" .... that common question that's always accompanied with "do you know who I am"?

obekediamondfuto:


not that I'd respond to every Tom d111ick and Harry about what I do, but my point is in the reaction to the question!!!

depends on the person asking and my mood, I can decide to give a well detailed response, a generic response or simply ignore.... but it shouldn't trigger any form of negative mood....

"what do u do" is quite different from "are you stupid"

it's even different from "who are you" .... that common question that's always accompanied with "do you know who I am"?

That is it! Abuja peeps ask that question like they wanna rate you or something. Too many gold diggers here

AwkaetitiBabe:
That is it! Abuja peeps ask that question like they wanna rate you or something. Too many gold diggers here

ooh OK, maybe it's peculiar to the location

Tallesty1:
She's saving the alphabets for her unborn kids to learn in school.


What's your problem sef

obekediamondfuto:


ooh OK, maybe it's peculiar to the location

My brother it is.

Tallesty1:
Abi? Shey nah person water see his legs e dey carry. No be when I come inbox you go embarrass me?

If you access these ladies' inboxes, you will pity them. You see this guys that are forming James Bond here, they are the ones causing most of the problem. They're always on the female's PM professing stupid love and begging to worship them.


I remember reading something from someone here to a lady.

Dude was stupid, how can you go to someone's PM and start telling her how you will like to fvck her and lick her anus while she sits on your face.

.

hahahaha! Dude must be a virgin boy wey too much porn don mess up im mind. No mature guy will relate with a female stranger in such a way

Tallesty1:
Abi? Shey nah person water see his legs e dey carry. No be when I come inbox you go embarrass me?

If you access these ladies' inboxes, you will pity them. You see this guys that are forming James Bond here, they are the ones causing most of the problem. They're always on the female's PM professing stupid love and begging to worship them.


I remember reading something from someone here to a lady.

Dude was stupid, how can you go to someone's PM and start telling her how you will like to fvck her and lick her anus while she sits on your face.

No be say unah don dey chat before.


Nah we dey give these women reason to be rude to us so I no blame them.

If I were them, I will even charge you to chat with you.

lol how can someone fall inlove with a girl just by seeing d pic. See ehn like i said b4 most of dese guys disturbing random girls on social media are just growing teens. A matured guy wont have dat time jumping into a girl's dm and tellin her dat he loves her and bla bla. Abeg who get dat time. So d girls dat he sees everyday and d ones he's very familiar with so im no see any beautiful one among them? If i must chat with a girl na lady wey i familiar with oo. When u chat with babes u roll with its much better and there's a relaxed atmosphere rather than chatting with some bimbo who thinks she is doing u a favour sendin u boring monosylable.

The number one cardinal rule in human relationship dynamics is that the male should not impress the female directly by chatting, spending, wooing etc, but impressing her indirectly with the lifestyle he has built for himself.

From time immemorial, where ladies compete for the commitment of village warriors, bountiful farmers, royal homes, princes, etc, or in the wildlife where the bulls gore themselves, birds dance, or the fishes build a spotless sea bed homes to attract and secure the right to mate with the female, the modern man has gotten it completely wrong in the timeless, ever-relevant ritual needed to attract the females without necessarily compromising his self-esteem, and be at the mercy of her consideration.

Movies, pick up artist, and relationship coach scammers have successfully deceived men to believe indulging in words and toasting skills will do the job. Sorry to be the usher of bad news, it doesn't, unless she has already pre-selected and finds you valuable, then it seems like your toasting skills did the job, but in reality, it was a mere confirmation to being chosen in the first place.

Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If its you, or her. If it's her (like the topic at hand implies), you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself always pushing to squeeze out words from her which if she did, will be one words constructed with shorthand. You'll feel the pressure the keep up the conversations, and find yourself compromising to retain her interest.

Now let's flip the table round. If she realized the man is the prize, even if you write just a word, it is enough for her to reply you with a letter, retain your attention, and the conversation going smoothly. Now let's swap the guy with Davido. Do you honestly think that a guy in the caliber of Davido will be treated like she did to the guy? She even went ahead to share the conversations, to reassure herself and her followers that she is the prize, and she have endless stream of thirsty male orbiting around her, its female narcissism at its finest.

The moral of the whole write up is that men should work on themself wholly (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), then you will grow higher in the sexual marketplace rank, and you will enjoy an endless stream of women who shall find you attractive, and you'll take your pick from there. Channel your energy rightly, not to woo her, but to build a admirable life for yourself, so that women who are on the lookout for viable males will find you a catch.

Pansophist

pansophist:
The number one cardinal rule in human relationship dynamics is that the Male should not impress the female directly by chatting, spending, wooing etc, but impressing her indirectly with the lifestyle he has built for yourself.

From time immemorial, where ladies compete for village warriors, bountiful farmers, royal homes, princes, etc, or in the wildlife where the male gore themselves, birds dance, or the fishes builds a spotless sea bed homes to attract and secure the right to mate with the female, the modern man has gotten it completely wrong in the timeless, ever relevant ritual needed to attract the females without necessarily compromising his self-esteem, and be at the mercy of her consideration.

Movies, pick up artist, and relationship coach scammers have successfully deceived men to believe indulging in words and toasting skills will do the job. Sorry to be the usher of bad news, it doesn't, unless she has already pre-selected and finds you valuable, then it seems like your toasting skills did the job, but in reality, it was a mere confirmation to being chosen in the first place.

Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If its you, or her. If it's her (like the topic at hand implies), you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself always pushing to squeeze out words from her which if she did, will be one words constructed with shorthand. You'll feel the pressure the keep up the conversations, and find yourself compromising to retain her interest.

Now let's flip the table round. If she realized the man is the prize, even if you write just a word, it is enough for her to reply you with a letter, retain your attention, and the conversation going smoothly. Now let's swap the guy with Davido. Do you honestly think that a guy in the caliber of Davido will be treated like she did to the guy? She even went ahead to share the conversations, to reassure herself and her followers that she is the prize, and she have endless stream of thirsty male orbiting around her, its female narcissism at its finest.

The moral of the whole write up is that men should work on themself wholly (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), then you will grow higher in the sexual marketplace rank, and you will enjoy an endless stream of women who shall find you attractive, and you'll take your pick from there. Channel your energy rightly, not to woo her, but to build a admirable life for yourself, so that women who are on the lookout for viable males will find you a catch.

Pansophist

This is the most compelling piece i’ve read in a while. Welldone

Tallesty1:
Sense will not kill you.

This is one of the few reasons I don't do PMs on social networks unless I have something very serious to discuss.

I remember contacting a lady sometime ago on Facebook because I was in possession of her missing phone. If you see the way she ignored me eeh, you will think my message was laced with asthma that the recipient will contact by just replying.

It is sad.

all wat some ladies reason is dat when sends a message on social media then that means he must be trying to woe them. They wont even know that he might be trying to send them an important message o. To them everything na toast,toast and toast.

lefulefu:
all wat some ladies reason is dat when sends a message on social media then that means he must be trying to woe them. They wont even know that he might be trying to send them an important message o. To them everything na toast,toast and toast.

Actually they dont mind be woed, they just don't want it from the guys they perceive as low value (even if he is not low value). Before they decide to respond to a guys message, they will browse his profile looking for cues that signifies his status. They will go far back to when he started posting, to determine if he is faking it, or class is woven in the fabric of his being. They will browse the profile of people tagged in his post, and determine their worth as well.

Men generally underestimate the extent and scope of female hypergamy. It is the single most important force that determines if a guy deserves her attention. For a woman to date a guy she considers as low status is a proof that she is not the prize, and she generally wont even respond, unless she has lost out in beauty, fertility and age, then is is when they generally lower their standards.

Women are always in constant battle amongst themselves. From the way they dress to impress other women, exotic place they've been to post on social media, or the kind of guy they associate with, all the external factors plays an important role on which men she will hang out with. She believes she is the prize, and that alone influences everything in her life, including men she will date.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Men of these days are fond of the "What do you do" question, immediately you guys start chatting.

Quite annoying

Maybe because of too many hookup

Sorry for quoting you ...

pansophist:


Actually they dont mind be woed, they just don't want it from the guys they perceive as low value (even if he is not low value). Before they decide to respond to a guys message, they will browse his profile looking for cues that signifies his status. They will go far back to when he started posting, to determine if he is faking it, or class is woven in the fabric of his being. They will browse the profile of people tagged in his post, and determine their worth as well.

Men generally underestimate the extent and scope of female hypergamy. It is the single most important force that determines if a guy deserves her attention. For a woman to date a guy she considers as low status is a proof that she is not the prize, and she generally wont even respond, unless she has lost out in beauty, fertility and age, then is is when they generally lower their standards.

Women are always in constant battle amongst themselves. From the way they dress to impress other women, exotic place they've been to post on social media, or the kind of guy they associate with, all the external factors plays an important role on which men she will hang out with. She believes she is the prize, and that alone influences everything in her life, including men she will date.

of course they want to be woed by rich guys.. Who no like better tin. A number of ladies hanging out on social media do it for hustling tinzs. Na d guys wasting their own precious time with such ladies i dey blame not the ladies. A sensible guy will know that d wise thing to do if a lady starts acting rude or hardly replies his message is to stop messaging her and move ahead but instead they will still keep on messaging until the girl finally blocks them. Foolishness at its peak from some dudes.

LesbianBoy:

Oshey.....Nairaland's beyouncy!
**Uses mic so she can hear it very well**
Liarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
Liar Liar pants on fire!

**Drops mic**

LesbianBoy:

Oshey.....Nairaland's beyouncy!
**Uses mic so she can hear it very well**
Liarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
Liar Liar pants on fire!

**Drops mic**

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

...



is this for real .. or this is an hacked account..

to me ..


it seemed that line " stop interviewing me" .. was meant to be a playful one .. but the guy took it out of context. but the mtcheew part probably made the whole sentence a rude one.


or she was dodging the niggas question . who knows she fit be olosho ..


someone like would still play along like


she: stop interviewing me mtcheeew
me: okay should i interrigate you then??



from here chats becomesa playful one..

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

Why I agree the Gloria in the OP was rude and unfriendly, only a girl with low self esteem and something to prove will fall for this bullshit.

And no offense, you sound like someone with low self esteem.

The lady is rude.

The guy is a pretender. The lady's rudeness brought out the real him.

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

Very insightful.

The guy even tried

What in God's name is fyn n u?

Are you an illiterate?

And how does a guy chat with an ill mannered girl?

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

epic, you are a bad hot bitch

pansophist:


Actually they dont mind be woed, they just don't want it from the guys they perceive as low value (even if he is not low value). Before they decide to respond to a guys message, they will browse his profile looking for cues that signifies his status. They will go far back to when he started posting, to determine if he is faking it, or class is woven in the fabric of his being. They will browse the profile of people tagged in his post, and determine their worth as well.

Men generally underestimate the extent and scope of female hypergamy. It is the single most important force that determines if a guy deserves her attention. For a woman to date a guy she considers as low status is a proof that she is not the prize, and she generally wont even respond, unless she has lost out in beauty, fertility and age, then is is when they generally lower their standards.

Women are always in constant battle amongst themselves. From the way they dress to impress other women, exotic place they've been to post on social media, or the kind of guy they associate with, all the external factors plays an important role on which men she will hang out with. She believes she is the prize, and that alone influences everything in her life, including men she will date.

Legendary, your daddy born ya well

To me, if u are doing well financially as a guy, don't go looking for ladies online because most will classify you as broke so long as you are not a popular social media celebrity or personality everybody knows. Cos to ladies, any guy who is not a popular personality or celebrity online is a broke guy that must be ignored

If you are a guy and u are doing well financially, forget about internet dates cos ladies will look down on u thinking u are a broke guy who can't get a girl offline, so go offline and find quality ladies; there are million places to find them, I wonder why guys see it difficult.

At least when she sees u in person, she will know u aren't a pauper, your aura should freak her out, and if u then have some power ride and stuff like that, it won't be difficult. Even if its gold diggers u get, it doesn't matter cos all ladies of today are gold diggers but of various capacity, so make sure the lady worth's it beauty wise and other qualities, don't let ugly girls broke girls use you to shine cos if u were broke, pretty ladies won't ever give u a chance, so if u are financially okay as a guy, go for only hot ladies, don't be scared of getting gold diggers I repeat, go for the best cos ladies too screen guys and go for the best at their level too

pansophist:
The number one cardinal rule in human relationship dynamics is that the Male should not impress the female directly by chatting, spending, wooing etc, but impressing her indirectly with the lifestyle he has built for himself.

From time immemorial, where ladies compete for village warriors, bountiful farmers, royal homes, princes, etc, or in the wildlife where the male gore themselves, birds dance, or the fishes builds a spotless sea bed homes to attract and secure the right to mate with the female, the modern man has gotten it completely wrong in the timeless, ever relevant ritual needed to attract the females without necessarily compromising his self-esteem, and be at the mercy of her consideration.

Movies, pick up artist, and relationship coach scammers have successfully deceived men to believe indulging in words and toasting skills will do the job. Sorry to be the usher of bad news, it doesn't, unless she has already pre-selected and finds you valuable, then it seems like your toasting skills did the job, but in reality, it was a mere confirmation to being chosen in the first place.

Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If its you, or her. If it's her (like the topic at hand implies), you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself always pushing to squeeze out words from her which if she did, will be one words constructed with shorthand. You'll feel the pressure the keep up the conversations, and find yourself compromising to retain her interest.

Now let's flip the table round. If she realized the man is the prize, even if you write just a word, it is enough for her to reply you with a letter, retain your attention, and the conversation going smoothly. Now let's swap the guy with Davido. Do you honestly think that a guy in the caliber of Davido will be treated like she did to the guy? She even went ahead to share the conversations, to reassure herself and her followers that she is the prize, and she have endless stream of thirsty male orbiting around her, its female narcissism at its finest.

The moral of the whole write up is that men should work on themself wholly (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), then you will grow higher in the sexual marketplace rank, and you will enjoy an endless stream of women who shall find you attractive, and you'll take your pick from there. Channel your energy rightly, not to woo her, but to build a admirable life for yourself, so that women who are on the lookout for viable males will find you a catch.

Pansophist

gbam! U just hit the nail on d head

pansophist:
The number one cardinal rule in human relationship dynamics is that the Male should not impress the female directly by chatting, spending, wooing etc, but impressing her indirectly with the lifestyle he has built for himself.

From time immemorial, where ladies compete for village warriors, bountiful farmers, royal homes, princes, etc, or in the wildlife where the male gore themselves, birds dance, or the fishes builds a spotless sea bed homes to attract and secure the right to mate with the female, the modern man has gotten it completely wrong in the timeless, ever relevant ritual needed to attract the females without necessarily compromising his self-esteem, and be at the mercy of her consideration.

Movies, pick up artist, and relationship coach scammers have successfully deceived men to believe indulging in words and toasting skills will do the job. Sorry to be the usher of bad news, it doesn't, unless she has already pre-selected and finds you valuable, then it seems like your toasting skills did the job, but in reality, it was a mere confirmation to being chosen in the first place.

Anytime a man approaches a woman, she automatically in high precision, filter out who is the prize. If its you, or her. If it's her (like the topic at hand implies), you will be the object of her scorn, the interaction will be devoid of interest, honour, and you'll find yourself always pushing to squeeze out words from her which if she did, will be one words constructed with shorthand. You'll feel the pressure the keep up the conversations, and find yourself compromising to retain her interest.

Now let's flip the table round. If she realized the man is the prize, even if you write just a word, it is enough for her to reply you with a letter, retain your attention, and the conversation going smoothly. Now let's swap the guy with Davido. Do you honestly think that a guy in the caliber of Davido will be treated like she did to the guy? She even went ahead to share the conversations, to reassure herself and her followers that she is the prize, and she have endless stream of thirsty male orbiting around her, its female narcissism at its finest.

The moral of the whole write up is that men should work on themself wholly (financially, physically, intellectually, professionally etc), then you will grow higher in the sexual marketplace rank, and you will enjoy an endless stream of women who shall find you attractive, and you'll take your pick from there. Channel your energy rightly, not to woo her, but to build a admirable life for yourself, so that women who are on the lookout for viable males will find you a catch.

Pansophist

God bless your wisdom. Preach on!

Guys should spend their time improving their financial life and personality and countless number of hot, quality women will be attracted to them and they will be the ones making the choice instead of spending their time wooing ladies who will be seeing them as pests disturbing their lives, which may affect their self esteem and also cause them to develop negative perception about women in general

franchasng:
Legendary, your daddy born ya well

To me, if u are doing well financially as a guy, don't go looking for ladies online because most will classify you as broke so long as you are not a popular social media celebrity or personality everybody knows. Cos to ladies, any guy who is not a popular personality or celebrity online is a broke guy that must be ignored

If you are a guy and u are doing well financially, forget about internet dates cos ladies will look down on u thinking u are a broke guy who can't get a girl offline, so go offline and find quality ladies; there are million places to find them, I wonder why guys see it difficult.

such guys will tell u dat they are introverts and they only prefer talking to girls on internet.thats one of d funny excuses they give.

lefulefu:
such guys will tell u dat they are introverts and they only prefer talking to girls on internet.thats one of d funny excuses they give.

Very funny, but its kind of true for some guys sha cos I used to be like that some years back, I thank God that things have changed totally for good.

I understand some guys are shy to woo ladies in real life, I used to be one of such shy guys lol, but financial freedom, exposure and success cures that shyness towards ladies, reason I keep advising guys now, pls spend your time working on improving your financial life biko, that thing called money is powerful oh, it makes a man attractive to young, old, broke and rich ladies.

Stable financial breakthrough will change a lot of things about you as a guy, your confidence will improve, you will realize ladies (super hot ladies I mean) are not as difficult to get as u used to think, and u will begin to see things fall in place without stress, your major challenge will become making choice of when to settle down and who to marry no longer how to get a lady to date

franchasng:
God bless your wisdom. Preach on!

Guys should spend their time improving their financial life and personality and countless number of hot, quality women will be attracted to them and they will be the ones making the choice instead of spending their time wooing ladies who will be seeing them as pests disturbing their lives, which may affect their self-esteem and also cause them to develop negative perception about women in general

Guys will never listen. Temporary gratification is more important than putting in the work and rise in the sexual market place. Another observable way of reasoning in most guys is that they do not understand the dynamic of SMV (sexual market value).

Women are first to reach the peak of their SMV naturally, she doesn't have to do anything and her breast, ass, waist will protrude, her body becomes voluptuous, portrays definition and she appears attractive to the males who endlessly woe her until she declines usually at age 35 for most. For men, it's different. Men SMV generally begins to grow from his late 20's, and peak at his early 40's. During this time, he should have built an admirable life for himself, with his finances and social class all top notch. At this age, men generally enjoy the level of attraction female enjoys in their 20's.

The difference between men and women SMV is that for women, it comes naturally. For men, it has to be worked for. So a man can be in his 30's and women will ignore him if he didn't build a good life for himself. Women are made, men are born.

franchasng:
Very funny, but its kind of true for some guys sha cos I used to be like that some years back, I thank God that things have changed totally for good.

I understand some guys are shy to woo ladies in real life, I used to be one of such shy guys lol, but financial freedom, exposure and success cures that shyness towards ladies, reason I keep advising guys now, pls spend your time working on improving your financial life biko, that thing called money is powerful oh, it makes a man attractive to young, old, broke and rich ladies.

Stable financial breakthrough will change a lot of things about you as a guy, your confidence will improve, you will realize ladies (super hot ladies I mean) are not as difficult to get as u used to think, and u will begin to see things fall in place without stress, your major challenge will become making choice of when to settle down and who to marry no longer how to get a lady to date

oversense dey worry u abeg

pansophist:


Guys will never listen. Temporary gratification is more important than putting in the work and rise in the sexual market place. Another observable way of reasoning in most guys is that they do not understand the dynamic of smv (sexual market value).

Women are first to reach the peak of their smv naturally, she doesn't have to do anything and her breast, ass, waist and protrude, her body becomes voluptuous, portrays definition and she appear attractive to the males who endlessly woe her, until she declines usually at age 35 for most. For men, its different. Men smv generally begins to grow from his late 20's, and peak at his early 40's. During this time, he should have built an admirable life for himself, with his finances and social class all top notch. At this age, men generally enjoy the level of attraction female enjoys in their 20's.

The difference between men and women smv is that for women, it comes naturally. For men, it has to be worked for. So a man can be in his 30's and women will ignore him if he didn't build a good life for himself.

Who gave birth to you Oh my goodness, you are too intelligent!!

Your reasoning is beyond normal. So apt.

You ought to author a book to guide young men. I am highly impressed by your words, mhen, more wisdom to your super brain

lefulefu:
oversense dey worry u abeg

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

Which kind girl you be self. see chat of the two people that drag us out. If they are anywhere this your level, will they be striking out this way.

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

20/10 for your analysis. You too much.