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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2020
Wetin u want make we tell you?

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by froze6(m): 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder
please explain which "incest"
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
Wow, this is huge, no need to castigate you, how old are you?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jericco1(m): 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2020
Lol.. the time you were enjoying it, you didn't tell us now you want a solution? What would you want us to tell you that you don't know? tongue
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by miketayo(m): 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.


You will be fine, just tell ur sis husband

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Offpoint: 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder
What's "Incest" there?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by nuele(m): 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
Better inform your sister. Better she is informed before you go and meet a quack who will damage your womb rendering your future significantly hurt permanently.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by statesman6: 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
Congratulations
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by zonax(m): 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

You said it all
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by 24kmagic: 8:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
Solidkay:
How many times will I tell you people to stop bringing personal problems like these to NL,

for crying out loud you won't find solution here,
some people here commit far more heinous crimes than this very one.

We have corona virus issue to face, that's more than enough for us now.

You enjoyed the fun alone, please don't disturb us with the aftermath.

Next time, don't even view the thread
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jericco1(m): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Where is the incest? Is she related by blood to her brother in law?

I was almost confused
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder
It's not incest, please read and stop running for first to comment.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by awa(m): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
You messed up by sleeping with your brother in law and you are telling us no insult kwa.... No abort the baby oooo
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by spongeisback: 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
khalhokage:
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No please edit your comment. That drug causes extremely heavy bleeding and since she's 8 weeks gone it not advisable.

She should tell her mother so they can take her to a gynaecologist.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by EagleSquare1(m): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
It is too dangerous to opt for an abortion of the pregnancy. As a matter of fact, you may lose your life in the process of taking a life. I have 2 beautiful nephew and niece in my family. We are absolutely overjoyed to have them in the family despite initial worries.
Keep the pregnancy, and wean the babies into full growth. You are blessed, Ngozey



Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.
I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by israelmao(m): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
Then would you like to elope with him to China on all-expense paid trip?

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jaxxy(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

Both of u are very stupid. Ure students and dependents and yet fucking more than married couples and recklessly for dat matter What a useless set of humanbeings.


I don’t think I have any good advice for u. U allowed a young boy to destroy ur life. U have 2 options.

1.Find the money smhow and abort.
2.Tell ur sister and face the music. (Best option)

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by coolik247: 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Send me a message, I can help you out
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by mbahdi(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
Ndi Igbo si na ogo mma nma agbaya ngba na mbo.
When in-law sweet u marry again from such family.why do u accept abortion its risky don't risk ur life.d did has bn done.bear d shame n live to tell d story.or abort n die n die to shame.u were expecting bread n butter while having it with ur brother in-law.well he's not blood related to u.u can advice him to marry u if he's man enurf.but ome Tara furu.e mere aru shame on u both
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by PrinzCarter(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Winneygirl:
You are looking for a "Cheap" hospital to do an abortion?
I wont say anything.
You won't be the first to get pregnant. The world will not come to an end because of it.
lol if u no a cheap one help her na lol
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jericco1(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

shocked
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by vickydankal(f): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

Congratulations on your pregnancy. Have a safe delivery.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
rockstarB:
You can marry each other, at least you're not blood relatives grin

Must they even marry each other? Nigerians and marriage sha...
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by ramon212: 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.
Very true.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by pennywys(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
when you were fucckin what was ur expectations, then you enjoyed even thrust probably request for more without informing us. Now u are here troubling us
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by CeeJay9ja(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
Your situation is not worse than Covid-19..

Nobody will be so shocked at your news. I am just worried about all the babies born at this point in time.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by eleojo23: 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please


SS2 and 3? shocked
I am officially weak.
The hormones overpowered you guys huh?

It's unfortunate that it took this for you to learn that actions have consequences. There is no permanently free pleasure.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by khalhokage(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
spongeisback:


No please edit your comment. That drug causes extremely heavy bleeding and since she's 8 weeks gone it not advisable.

She should tell her mother so they can take her to a gynaecologist.
ok I will
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Sirlins(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
Go and quarantine yourself
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by phenol33(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
u don't have any problem! u can marry him it is 100% acceptable, it no abomination!
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by deltateam: 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Incest?

You are not serious.

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