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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jahlove4jah: 9:12pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

I fear for your boldness. You want us to be partaker of your murderous intention. Haba. Are you a scammer or are you for real?

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by hammerT: 9:12pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

I would have given you the money but I never took a life before and wouldn't want that stain on me.

Blood is a powerful thing.

Nyway, wen u get yourself out of this one, feel free to disturb my mention in a couple of months time.

I want to see how good u are in bed. grin

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ignorance is not an excuse, fools die many times before the final death. IF you cant use condom then zip up or close your legs. Topics like this reeks of stupidity and foolishness because i think the school fees your sister and her husband are paying is a waste of fund if you do not know the implication of sex without protection.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Iluvmycontr3: 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

No, there must be insults cox ur type can't learn without it.
In btw, life is a teacher. Accept your fate.
I would hav really sent you the money to solve the problem if it were something else, but i can't support abortion, and can't give any meaningful suggestions as well.
,,, Life is a teacher and it has a kind of long cane that it usually use to flog foolishness outta kids...

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Unluckrees(m): 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020

Fake story from an account opened today

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by samwash(m): 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020

I think both of u are old enough to take responsibility for ur act, and u guys are not blood related,so u can get married. No cause for alarm.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Aturitoroman: 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

Mtcheww,

E dy sweet you when you were busy having sex with him ..

I dont believe this story

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by bigman001(m): 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

staga:

When you were forcking him, you did not consult us. Now we are thinking of how to survive this coronavirus, you are disturbing us. Which Kain nonsense be dis?

A problem shared is a problem at least half solved, stop acting irresponsible here and be a brothers keeper, covid-19 will go as it came, no room for covid-19 in Nigeria.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

AgbariOjukwu1:

They are still within the Prohibited degrees of consanguinity and affinity.

Prohibited by who please?

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

The more reason you should avoid abortion...I lost a friend Ekatte in secondary school,I actually catch her one time with an overgrown junior but thought it was nothing that both of them were in secluded place ...

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by SolarKing1: 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

You shall not only be judged for wickedly cheating on your future husband and becoming a borehole long before he later finds and marries you. 2ndly, you shall not only be just for the innocent child you are about to kill, if your Mum aborted and killed you and those supporting your murderous heart, you won't even be alive to type. Your type often come here to soliciting for pity party and evil encouragers. For committing your fornication in secret and now coming here in public to massively implicate innocent NL Souls to become co-murderers by encouraging you to murder the innocent child, the blood of all the gullible Souls that would become murderers and end up in Hell because they advised you to kill the baby, their own blood and that of the baby shall be on your head! If you are not more satanic and heartless than devil himself, you would have chose to face your consequence and go to Hell alone, but for being a tool in the hand of Satan to implicate and lure the unvigilant Souls into Hellfire by using you to turn them into murderers. Destruction and multiple anger from above you've incurred.

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Iluvmycontr3: 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2020

Exponental:
Condom has been the cheapest I know after sachet water..... Was it so hard to use one? Anyway, personally I don't support abortion but do what you have to do

I don't support it as well..

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by kenodrill: 9:15pm On Mar 23, 2020

There's nothing wrong if two blood brothers marry from same family.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by evil1: 9:16pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

Madam go n buy misoprotocol and mifepristone Though it depends if they will sell it for u n besides there are drugs dat can flush it out based on ur cash

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by sofiscatedmoron: 9:17pm On Mar 23, 2020

rockstarB:
You can marry each other, at least you're not blood relatives

That is Not possible in igbo land,,

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Oyindidi(f): 9:17pm On Mar 23, 2020

PrinzCarter:
i dnt agree with u oo its a painfull mistake she might end up killing her self because of shame n other factors

She no know before she open her legs? Abegi, let her learn from her mistake

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ebí ọkọ ègbón rẹ "jẹ méjì ní abà Àlàdé".
It a good thing.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by howmarket2: 9:18pm On Mar 23, 2020

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

how is that incest u fool.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by atinicrown(m): 9:18pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ibidapo niyen

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 23, 2020

Let's be sincere with ourselves. This is a fake story!!!

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Baba has heard your cry. The ancestors have spoken. That child belongs to Amadioha. You must not kill him.. Abi na her sef

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Bigii(m): 9:19pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

PM me if you're in Enugu

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Kylekent59: 9:19pm On Mar 23, 2020

Well the truth remains: Some persons are afraid to give an advice because we don't know what may happen tomorrow. As at now, we also have COVID_19 threatening the whole earth, so people are scared to put hands into your matter.

What has been done has been done. I would advise you show your strength here.

Keep the baby. Abortion is very risky, you need to expect the unexpected an be prepared for it.

According to Jack, he says," I love waking up in the morning, not knowing what is gonna happen to be, whom I will meet, or what I am to expect. As long as I have air in my lungs, and my materials that makes me happy. I have nothing to fear."

Sister, keep the baby.

The best thing in life is to live e without guilty conscience.

I know a girl in my street that got pregnant at JSS3, she had the baby.

She didn't care what people say, her strength was her innocence and decision on having the baby.

Life goes on.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by manlawal(m): 9:19pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

both of you haven't heard of condom before or you haven't heard of postinor .

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:20pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

The things I want to say to you...Lord, help me!

Abort what? You'll live with the consequences of your actions for the rest of yout life!

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 23, 2020

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

. So glad to read something so sense able full of wisdom. Only few will come to terms with your write up

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Doctordogood(m): 9:20pm On Mar 23, 2020

You are in SS3, going by the trend of things these days, I should guess that your age will either be 16 or 17 years. Be bold & summon courage, tell your sister what happened between the both of you. I suppose both of you are still minors, if that be the case, it makes it more pertinent that you should let an adult know about it now. The earlier the better, further delay is dangerous. " JUST LET THE CAT OUT OF THE BAG" And the solution will come.

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by bcashy: 9:20pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and [b]we promise not to sleep together anymore [/b]please

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by NettyNelly(m): 9:20pm On Mar 23, 2020

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

You are here seeking for a solution but it Seems you have chosen a path and ve made up your mind to follow it.

Why abortion?
Eliminate all your fears and Just be open to your big sis and hubby. Though they won't take it lightly with you but, I bet you will be surprised at the kind of help they will render because they were guilty too for letting two of you stay with them without considering the possible outcome. prepare yourself to face harsh circumstances but you be fine at the end

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jahlove4jah: 9:21pm On Mar 23, 2020

jahlove4jah:
I fear for your boldness. You want us to be partakers of your murderous intention. Haba. Are you a scammer or are you for real?

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by kcowen(m): 9:21pm On Mar 23, 2020

How will you be pregnant and you didn't know until it gets to 8weeks,so the guy just continue to dey pour inside... If it was just 1-4weeks I go fit try help you

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