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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by kingsleybrave(m): 9:30pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
What kind of help.....money for abortion.....or money for you to go back to the village or money for both of you to marry ... And become legal couple in the house?
Useless children.......it's even more irritating that a learned mod brought this puke to FP.....this is totally childish from the mod.....
So you expect me to be advising some one that has already attempted abortion, (teenagers for that matters)that were deterred by finance..... wayward children......am pretty sure this not there first attempt....for she to be confident enough to say they went for abortion.....

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by CoronaVirusPro: 9:31pm On Mar 23, 2020
Kingosytex:
When you opened your legs wide screaming' harder. harder, harder' you never knew that pregnancy will occur right?

In your mind, you thought your brother in law was sterile...

You must be a joker.


I will advise you to remove abortion from the picture cos you might not come out of it a live.


False! Beer parlour talk

Abortion is 90% safe
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Olayetan(m): 9:31pm On Mar 23, 2020
thorpido:
Well,you are not blood relations so you can have the baby.
If you like yourselves so much to be sleeping with each other then maybe you can progress to marriage.
You can just have a small introduction and the wedding later.

Corona virus no even fear una.

What introduction again?

The family already knows eachother nah abi who them wan introduce again?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by ngwababe(f): 9:31pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder


How is it incest?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ayemileto(m): 9:32pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.


Is abortion legal in Nigeria?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by gbefun40(m): 9:33pm On Mar 23, 2020
Lol what a way for corona pikin to com this world.in laws dickin
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by peppermint7(m): 9:33pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
This is the real meaning of gbekus
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:33pm On Mar 23, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


What's a child in SS3 having sex for? From the day she started menstruating, she didn't know she was already capable of getting pregnant?

This kind of foolishness galls me. She'll have the baby, and hopefully learn the lesson. This is no case where the topic of an abortion should be discussed. Was she raped? Is she in a life or death situation to not have the baby? Attempting an abortion is what would put her life at risk. She should have the baby, biko.


SS3? I could have sworn I read NYSC?
cry
Meanwhile easy with the judgements nne.

If SS3 I take back my post to you earlier dear OP/poster. You may not be ready for what you have gotten yourself into.
A hot mess in that case
(Sigh)
But I still think you lie
Supposing (unlikely, but just supposing) you are not telling a lie? You need to tell your family. Do not make decisions alone, okay? @ Ngozey
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by arthorjnr(m): 9:34pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Lmao
This shii is funny as hell.
Just imagine kids.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Dididrumz(m): 9:35pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

How much is the hospital asking for??
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Bekeey: 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
Nawa o, the way ppl behave nowadays, how una go dey just nack bomba to bomba without any protection. No fear of HIV, Lassa, abi COVID-19. Abi una do test ni?

No try remove that innocent boy, he might be d next president.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by abundanceseun: 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
Look, you just need to open up to your sister.
Everything done in the secret shall be made known.
There is nothing secret in life.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by ngwababe(f): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
That energy you kept in fucking him, keep same energy in keeping the baby. Things might be wrong now, but believe you me, it shall be well tomorrow.

Las las, do what's in your mind. Nobody holy pass my sister.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Bukden16(m): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please


Ss3 and you're here looking for advice on NL..?

Covik one nine finish you there.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by slex(m): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey, talk to ur sister and if it’s abortion , let everybody put their views on the table .

We have many hypocrites in Nigeria . You would be amazed all those saying you will die or you should keep, majority of them have engaged in abortion directly or indirectly.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by dominion001(m): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder
read PLZ �

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by uzoexcel(m): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
this one weak me... op please no jokes
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by 6digitscomrade: 9:37pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
me too I’m scared because u are scared because as far I’m concerned u have done absolutely nothing wrong he isn’t ur sister’s husband but her brother in law which implies ur own brother in law I have seen twins marrying twins u might want to explain or differentiate similarities or peculiarities.. but in the end expunged ursef from any form of guilt my opinion though..
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Warmaterial(m): 9:37pm On Mar 23, 2020
Let me give u a tip, find a place and hide and throw ur phone inside dustbin and remove the Sim stay dia till evening then come back and fall in front of ur house with a fainting mode, while u already rob something inside ur private part... Already buying my idea, don't forget ur 8weeks pregnant
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by guestwlanb123: 9:38pm On Mar 23, 2020
Wicked people everywhere
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by ayemip(m): 9:38pm On Mar 23, 2020
Malpriprist drug will do d job but u have to get it now 4000 But promise me u will close ur legs after dis one
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by denitro(m): 9:38pm On Mar 23, 2020
Face the shame and let your sister know.
You abort that child and you can kiss Paradise goodbye.
Abortion is one of the evilest and selfish things to do.
Reason: You have deprived that spirit the opportunity to experience earth life, experience joy and pain,
learn and develop, marry and have children of its own. All because you are ashamed and in order
to cover your sin, you will prefer to deny that spirit a mortal body.
After this earth life, you will come face to face with that spirit (remember that).
Remember wickedness was never happiness.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Dididrumz(m): 9:39pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

Hi, please i like the way you talk. Lets be friends.

08161771106
Please message me on whatsapp.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Simbrixton(m): 9:39pm On Mar 23, 2020
ngozi is fraid of going bak to d village igboland is becoming more developed dere is no village in igbolnd again now
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Hallenjay: 9:39pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
BE CAREFUL NEXT TIME AND TAKE THE BEST COMMENTS SERIOUSLY.
8 WEEKS is too much but u can try abortion injection by a nurse/pharmacy (7k n bekow)or still mk attempt to get cycotech(2k n below).the dosage for dose price r enuf to clear ur uterus from any 8 weeks pregnancy.
Ask the seller d side effect so u won't b caught unaware
NB:YOU MUST B 18 or above b4 you take d above step.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Mopolchi: 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2020
Your sister's brother-in-law is definitely not your sister's husband. Tell her about it and both of you should plan how to convince your sister's husband to convince his brother to marry you.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Doyin2(m): 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2020
starbuck:
Valentine kpekus don dey yield grin grin

February,March

2 months grin grin
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Bartork(m): 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2020
You saw it coming

We were not called at when the fun was high and the enjoyment was deep

Now we have to worry how to fix the mess misplaced joy has brought...
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by ACE1010: 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2020
Keep knacking each other until the pregnancy disappears grin cheesy grin cheesy
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by nnaeyes6: 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2020
When both of u were moaning and enjoying the orgasm, u people didn't call us o, but now u need advice from NAIRALAND cabinet members.

Anyway, keep the baby. Is double in - law. Just that ur bride price was not paid.

Nice achievement.

Corona baby on the way, with no virus.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by chloride6: 9:42pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Better come clean to your mother. Let her tell your sister..

She will take it of it...

Else see finish go finish your family...

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