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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Iluvmycontr3: 9:22pm On Mar 23, 2020
donbachi:
Every exam get result..show dem ur report get.

Exactly.

An old woman called out to her grandson at the park; Degree, what are you doing there? And a passerby was kinda shocked to hear the uncommon name.

So he decided to go closer to the old woman. Mama, what did you jst call your little boy, and the old woman said "Degree' of course, and out of curiosity the young man probed further, mama but why such a name?

Then grandma smiled and responded-- I SENT HIS MOM TO SCHOOL AND THIS IS WHAT SHE BROUGHT.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Doyin2(m): 9:22pm On Mar 23, 2020
What a costly misadventure.

Whatever decision you take,there are consequences.

Accept my sincere empathy.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by kingsleybrave(m): 9:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
What kind of help.....money for abortion.....or money for you to go back to the village or money for both of you marry ... To enable both also a legal couple in the house?
Useless children.......it's even more irritating that a learned mod brought this puke to FP.....this is totally childish from the mod.....

Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by VBCampaign: 9:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
Pls don't abort this child.

Have the baby and give it up for adoption. I'm sure these foster parent will also gladly be willing to sponsor you through school.

Send me a PM if you need help in doing this. BUT PLS DON'T ABORT THAT CHILD...
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by shogsman(m): 9:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
You're in ss2 you're practically a child,the deed is done now however I'd advice you to tell your aunt,the best course of action for you is an abortion. Hope you learn from this.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ruggedniggaone: 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
take 4 postinor 2 with ogogoro
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by nextstep(m): 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
I'm going to get crucified for this, but it's not like I'm suggesting things that don't already happen.

The quickest, no skills needed way to get money is to do runs... I'm being morally agnostic. Runs for a month, and use the money to fund the needful.

People say keep the baby... with what earnings? There are also people on this board who like saying shit like: "why bring a baby into this world if you can't take care of it". Well, here's a good chance to put those arguments to use: they can't afford a baby right now.

Don't abort? Why not? Another child raised before parents are able to take care of it. OP may still have to do runs once baby is born. She's not the first, and won't be the last. Better one month runs, than 10 years.

Detractors: unless you plan to put money into her account, either to keep (or not keep) the baby, please keep your sanctimony and "you shouldn't haves". Doesn't solve the problem, but only makes you feel good.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jaxxy(m): 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Huhhh Primary school
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Bladesociety: 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
If you are in Abuja
Get in touch with me
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by 12345baba(m): 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
Did u come to borrow money from us?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by safarigirl(f): 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2020
crackkhaus:
8weeks gone, and you called it only? shocked
That will be a high-risk abortion and I doubt drugs will still work at this stage.

I really like it when secret lovers keep their sexual indiscretions within the family though cheesy

Just inform your sister and her husband, they may even help you two wed each other properly.

Congratulations in advance mummy.
8 weeks is just two months, that isn't a high risk abortion. Once she reaches 10-12 weeks, that is when you can talk of high risk.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by victorjoe(m): 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
thorpido:
Well,you are not blood relations so you can have the baby.
If you like yourselves so much to be sleeping with each other then maybe you can progress to marriage.
You can just have a small introduction and the wedding later.

Corona virus no even fear una.


Hmmm.... Make God forgive is o, that year. In house something that you don't need to spend money or show working just collect at will whenever coast is clear.

E been de sweet o.
But we were smart enough to always, I repeat always use protection cos of stories like this. Cos e for bad.

Bought gold circle that year from aboki sotay one day aboki asked ",who u de ***** self?" Had to change buying venue.

It has tay Sha o, like 13 years ago.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Jonathan39: 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Are you a Virgin?
worworbabe:
This is not incest. You are not related by blood. So, you can have the baby. But you lack the funds to care for one or even for yourself.


You should not have engaged in sex when you are not married. and if at all you choose to, you should have protected yourself.

I hope this serves as a lesson to others.

That's all I have to say.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Villain7: 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
Its seem shamefull from the beginning but the end will be a past.
Please abortion should not be your option. Do what you can to keep the child and accept the harsh consequences that may follow... "I walk through hel l almost every night, but I believe is a pathway."
Stay blessed dear
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by iknopro(m): 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Wait, did you just say you are in Ss2 and ss3? God nothing wey person no go see for this world of Corona
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by alexmakaay(m): 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

if you both have settled for abortion, go borrow money and do your wish. capital to execute your plan is the problem.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by mranova(m): 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Oga which one be incest here na?
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by IneedSugarMumy1(m): 9:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Congrats

Sell your phone
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:26pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

What's a child in SS3 having sex for? From the day she started menstruating, she didn't know she was already capable of getting pregnant?

This kind of foolishness galls me. She'll have the baby, and hopefully learn the lesson. This is no case where the topic of an abortion should be discussed. Was she raped? Is she in a life or death situation to not have the baby? Attempting an abortion is what would put her life at risk. She should have the baby, biko.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by starbuck(f): 9:26pm On Mar 23, 2020
Valentine kpekus don dey yield grin grin

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Benkingg: 9:26pm On Mar 23, 2020
Am new here, but the only advice I will tell you is to please don't let the little baby angry with you. Because by the time you try to remove it, it may end up removing you from the surface of the earth.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by IbrahimSkiba(f): 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.




A VERY BRILLIANT COMMENT

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
crackkhaus:
[s]8weeks gone, and you called it only? shocked
That will be a high-risk abortion and I doubt drugs will still work at this stage[/s].

I really like it when secret lovers keep their sexual indiscretions within the family though cheesy

Just inform your sister and her husband, they may even help you two wed each other properly.

Congratulations in advance mummy.



Sorry(not), the struck out part is untrue
tongue
Very kwa shocked

Dear poster @ Ngozey, this is not incest, you didn’t sleep with your wife’s husband, you guys are friends I presume...it’s a bit unconventional but I like it, the whole context and all. Please permit me to say congrats here!
Meanwhile you walked into a hospital and said “oh please give me an abortion” and they just named a huge price like that? You don’t know abortion is illegal in this country? I think your post is a scam one...when I “see” adistressed andhelplessunabletocarryababy pregnant woman, I know. This is not one of those times.
What sealed my thinking into a being a conviction is your main issue with being caught by your sister- being sent back to the village, dear pregnant youangry
I call your post out, for being a lie!
SMH


(Edit- If you guys are in secondary school and not corpers like I hastily presumed? I take back everything I posted up there to you @ OP)

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Moneyabman: 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Where is the incest? Is she related by blood to her brother in law?
. Is an aborminable art for 2 blood bthrs to get marry to blood strs. The families alway end-up with mistrous $ communual death.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by civilserva: 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
Don't commit murder. Keep the pregnancy, I will adopt the child

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by VBCampaign: 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
Bladesociety:
If you are in Abuja
Get in touch with me

Light
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by sweetlo: 9:27pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

It isn't incest Bro.

they can get married without issues
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by IneedSugarMumy1(m): 9:28pm On Mar 23, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


What's a child in SS3 having sex for? From the day she started menstruating, she didn't know she was already capable of getting pregnant?

This kind of foolishness galls me. She'll have the baby, and hopefully learn the lesson. This is no case where the topic of an abortion should be discussed. Was she raped? Is she in a life or death situation to not have the baby? Attempting an abortion is what would put her life at risk. She should have the baby, biko.


Lolz primary 6 don de bang
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by hammerT: 9:29pm On Mar 23, 2020
safarigirl:
8 weeks is just two months, that isn't a high risk abortion. Once she reaches 10-12 weeks, that is when you can talk of high risk.

2 months and....



Remaining 6 months and... for persin head to come out of her vagina. grin


Odikwa risky...
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by jimcaddy(m): 9:29pm On Mar 23, 2020
So you allow brother to release thick hot akamu inside of you abi... Wehdone ma..
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Fabulousman11: 9:30pm On Mar 23, 2020
You are not the first person to get pregnant dear. Most of those people criticizing you here have also done abortion. All I can tell is that 8weeks is too risky. You might loss your life. I will advise u tell ur sister. The future is bright for u. U made a mistake. We re humans and we make mistakes everyday. Pls do well not to think of taking ur life as it will be worse for u. U have a great life ahead dear.
Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Olayetan(m): 9:30pm On Mar 23, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Where is the incest? Is she related by blood to her brother in law?
Mesef wandered.


But it's not acceptable in yoruba culture for 2 blood sisters to marry in one family..

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