kkins25:

You are right my friend..
Some years ago, when i was still teachinand earning roughly 20k per month.. I am a bachelor ohh but i always wondered how men who earn d same as me survive....
Im telling you bro. All this nairaland talk is bullshit. Millions of ppl live below that per month.
A certain man was even using the same 20k to take his 2 kid to higher institutions.... Can u believe that? He's wife wasnt working because she had fallen victim of diabetes. Yet he took care of drugs, feeding nd school fees.. I always salute dat man...
One day he told me, he said see ehn:" i can hold 500 naira for one week without touching it".. What he is trying to tell me is he manages money superbly....
To hell with dis nairaland psuedo feminist

FORGET THIS NAIRALAND. ALL OVER THE INTERNET NA NIGERIANS AND PACKAGING, AND OPPRESSING THEIR NEIGHBORS.

THE SAME GROUPS CHANTING MONEY MONEY MONEY WILL BE THE SAME GROUP CREATING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS JUST TO APPLY FOR 100 NAIRA AIRTIME GIVEAWAY IF YOU LAUNCH ONE.

GUY, THE RICH PEOPLE ARE VERY FEW. THEN THERE ARE MEDIUM CLASS PEOPLE, AND THESE TWO SETS DON'T MAKE UP TO 40% OF THE NIGERIAN POPULACE. IN THIS NAIJA IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HUNDRED BUCKS FOR A TRADER THE KIND OF PRAISES THEY'D SHOWER YOU WITH.... ONLY THIS LOCKDOWN SEASON SEE THE CROWDS BATTLING FOR YAM AND NOODLES PALLIATIVES.
THEN YOU'LL COME TO NAIRALAND AND READ SOME FOOLS SAYING THAT A MAN EARNING 80,000 SHOULD NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP, LET ALONE GET MARRIED. LOL.
IF WE START ASKING THESE FOOLS FOR STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT EACH TIME THEY COME UP WITH SUCH SILLINESS THEY'D BE DEACTIVATING DAILY.

THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GET MARRIED AND YOU SEE THEM SMILING AND DANCING ON THEIR WEDDINGS LIKE WHAT. CHECK THEM OUT BOTH COUPLES ARE PRIMARY SCHOOL TEACHERS EARNING LESS THAN 70,000 COMBINED. SOME HAVE LIVED FOR OVER 10 YEARS WITH FINE KIDS, VERY QUIET LIFE AND THEY LIVE ON LESS THAN A HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA SALARY PER MONTH.

220 MILLION OF US, I CAN BET MY LIFE THAT OVER 100MILLION NIGERIANS HAVE NEVER HAD A MILLION NAIRA TO CALL THEIRS. IF WE'RE TO GO BY WHAT THESE FOOLS POST ONLINE.. LOL. BROS.
ANYWAY I UNDERSTAND THAT THEY'RE JUST PLAYING THEIR WINGS. INSTEAD OF POOR WOMEN TO MARRY POOR MEN, UP TO 20 POOR WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MARRY ONE RICH MAN. THAT'S THE SUMMARY OF WHAT THEY'RE ADVOCATING. .

excanny:


Women are not supposed to see men as a means to escape poverty.

She should be hardworking enough to raise her own kids with or without a man.

CAPSLOCKED:


FORGET THIS NAIRALAND. ALL OVER THE INTERNET NA NIGERIANS AND PACKAGING, AND OPPRESSING THEIR NEIGHBORS.

THE SAME GROUPS CHANTING MONEY MONEY MONEY WILL BE THE SAME GROUP CREATING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS JUST TO APPLY FOR 100 NAIRA AIRTIME GIVEAWAY IF YOU LAUNCH ONE.

GUY, THE RICH PEOPLE ARE VERY FEW. THEN THERE ARE MEDIUM CLASS PEOPLE, AND THESE TWO SETS DON'T MAKE UP TO 40% OF THE NIGERIAN POPULACE. IN THIS NAIJA IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HUNDRED BUCKS FOR A TRADER THE KIND OF PRAISES THEY'D SHOWER YOU WITH.... ONLY THIS LOCKDOWN SEASON SEE THE CROWDS BATTLING FOR YAM AND NOODLES PALLIATIVES.
THEN YOU'LL COME TO NAIRALAND AND READ SOME FOOLS SAYING THAT A MAN EARNING 80,000 SHOULD NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP, LET ALONE GET MARRIED. LOL.
IF WE START ASKING THESE FOOLS FOR STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT EACH TIME THEY COME UP WITH SUCH SILLINESS THEY'D BE DEACTIVATING DAILY.

THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GET MARRIED AND YOU SEE THEM SMILING AND DANCING ON THEIR WEDDINGS LIKE WHAT. CHECK THEM OUT BOTH COUPLES ARE PRIMARY SCHOOL TEACHERS EARNING LESS THAN 70,000 COMBINED. SOME HAVE LIVED FOR OVER 10 YEARS WITH FINE KIDS, VERY QUIET LIFE AND THEY LIVE ON LESS THAN A HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA SALARY PER MONTH.

220 MILLION OF US, I CAN BET MY LIFE THAT OVER 100MILLION NIGERIANS HAVE NEVER HAD A MILLION NAIRA TO CALL THEIRS. IF WE'RE TO GO BY WHAT THESE FOOLS POST ONLINE.. LOL. BROS.
ANYWAY I UNDERSTAND THAT THEY'RE JUST PLAYING THEIR WINGS. INSTEAD OF POOR WOMEN TO MARRY POOR MEN, UP TO 20 POOR WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MARRY ONE RICH MAN. THAT'S THE SUMMARY OF WHAT THEY'RE ADVOCATING. .

SweetCunt97:
Ain't you even ashamed of this nonsense you typed? She will b caring for kids and grown man inclusive huh? While d loafer collects free pussy in d name of marriage huh? Abegi

excanny:


I can't be ashamed of exposing money hungry hoes

thelish:


They are living but not happily

CAPSLOCKED:


FORGET THIS NAIRALAND. ALL OVER THE INTERNET NA NIGERIANS AND PACKAGING, AND OPPRESSING THEIR NEIGHBORS.

THE SAME GROUPS CHANTING MONEY MONEY MONEY WILL BE THE SAME GROUP CREATING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS JUST TO APPLY FOR 100 NAIRA AIRTIME GIVEAWAY IF YOU LAUNCH ONE.

GUY, THE RICH PEOPLE ARE VERY FEW. THEN THERE ARE MEDIUM CLASS PEOPLE, AND THESE TWO SETS DON'T MAKE UP TO 40% OF THE NIGERIAN POPULACE. IN THIS NAIJA IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HUNDRED BUCKS FOR A TRADER THE KIND OF PRAISES THEY'D SHOWER YOU WITH.... ONLY THIS LOCKDOWN SEASON SEE THE CROWDS BATTLING FOR YAM AND NOODLES PALLIATIVES.
THEN YOU'LL COME TO NAIRALAND AND READ SOME FOOLS SAYING THAT A MAN EARNING 80,000 SHOULD NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP, LET ALONE GET MARRIED. LOL.
IF WE START ASKING THESE FOOLS FOR STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT EACH TIME THEY COME UP WITH SUCH SILLINESS THEY'D BE DEACTIVATING DAILY.

THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GET MARRIED AND YOU SEE THEM SMILING AND DANCING ON THEIR WEDDINGS LIKE WHAT. CHECK THEM OUT BOTH COUPLES ARE PRIMARY SCHOOL TEACHERS EARNING LESS THAN 70,000 COMBINED. SOME HAVE LIVED FOR OVER 10 YEARS WITH FINE KIDS, VERY QUIET LIFE AND THEY LIVE ON LESS THAN A HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA SALARY PER MONTH.

220 MILLION OF US, I CAN BET MY LIFE THAT OVER 100MILLION NIGERIANS HAVE NEVER HAD A MILLION NAIRA TO CALL THEIRS. IF WE'RE TO GO BY WHAT THESE FOOLS POST ONLINE.. LOL. BROS.
ANYWAY I UNDERSTAND THAT THEY'RE JUST PLAYING THEIR WINGS. INSTEAD OF POOR WOMEN TO MARRY POOR MEN, UP TO 20 POOR WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MARRY ONE RICH MAN. THAT'S THE SUMMARY OF WHAT THEY'RE ADVOCATING. .

CAPSLOCKED:


FORGET THIS NAIRALAND. ALL OVER THE INTERNET NA NIGERIANS AND PACKAGING, AND OPPRESSING THEIR NEIGHBORS.

THE SAME GROUPS CHANTING MONEY MONEY MONEY WILL BE THE SAME GROUP CREATING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS JUST TO APPLY FOR 100 NAIRA AIRTIME GIVEAWAY IF YOU LAUNCH ONE.

GUY, THE RICH PEOPLE ARE VERY FEW. THEN THERE ARE MEDIUM CLASS PEOPLE, AND THESE TWO SETS DON'T MAKE UP TO 40% OF THE NIGERIAN POPULACE. IN THIS NAIJA IF YOU LEAVE YOUR HUNDRED BUCKS FOR A TRADER THE KIND OF PRAISES THEY'D SHOWER YOU WITH.... ONLY THIS LOCKDOWN SEASON SEE THE CROWDS BATTLING FOR YAM AND NOODLES PALLIATIVES.
THEN YOU'LL COME TO NAIRALAND AND READ SOME FOOLS SAYING THAT A MAN EARNING 80,000 SHOULD NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP, LET ALONE GET MARRIED. LOL.
IF WE START ASKING THESE FOOLS FOR STATEMENT OF ACCOUNT EACH TIME THEY COME UP WITH SUCH SILLINESS THEY'D BE DEACTIVATING DAILY.

THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT GET MARRIED AND YOU SEE THEM SMILING AND DANCING ON THEIR WEDDINGS LIKE WHAT. CHECK THEM OUT BOTH COUPLES ARE PRIMARY SCHOOL TEACHERS EARNING LESS THAN 70,000 COMBINED. SOME HAVE LIVED FOR OVER 10 YEARS WITH FINE KIDS, VERY QUIET LIFE AND THEY LIVE ON LESS THAN A HUNDRED THOUSAND NAIRA SALARY PER MONTH.

220 MILLION OF US, I CAN BET MY LIFE THAT OVER 100MILLION NIGERIANS HAVE NEVER HAD A MILLION NAIRA TO CALL THEIRS. IF WE'RE TO GO BY WHAT THESE FOOLS POST ONLINE.. LOL. BROS.
ANYWAY I UNDERSTAND THAT THEY'RE JUST PLAYING THEIR WINGS. INSTEAD OF POOR WOMEN TO MARRY POOR MEN, UP TO 20 POOR WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO MARRY ONE RICH MAN. THAT'S THE SUMMARY OF WHAT THEY'RE ADVOCATING. .

kkins25:
who tell you??
I do not have a relationship with both my parents. My parents in turn are semi divorced. Even with all d money back then when i was about 12 i knew, something was not right in my home..
Im a living testimony that not in all cases that money buys happiness.

kkins25:
who tell you??
I do not have a relationship with both my parents. My parents in turn are semi divorced. Even with all d money back then when i was about 12 i knew, something was not right in my home..
Im a living testimony that not in all cases that money buys happiness.

kkins25:

You are right my friend..
Some years ago, when i was still teachinand earning roughly 20k per month.. I am a bachelor ohh but i always wondered how men who earn d same as me survive....
Im telling you bro. All this nairaland talk is bullshit. Millions of ppl live below that per month.
A certain man was even using the same 20k to take his 2 kid to higher institutions.... Can u believe that? He's wife wasnt working because she had fallen victim of diabetes. Yet he took care of drugs, feeding nd school fees.. I always salute dat man...
One day he told me, he said see ehn:" i can hold 500 naira for one week without touching it".. What he is trying to tell me is he manages money superbly....
To hell with dis nairaland psuedo feminist

thelish:


Who will be happy when there is no food at home
Who will be happy when d kids are being driven home from school
Who will be happy when a child is sick, and there is no money for proper medical attention?
The list go on n on n on.
There is no complete happiness in poverty n suffering.
I have been there, I know what am saying.

CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'RE LETTING MOVIES AND MUSIC VIDEOS DECEIVE YOU. YOU WANT EVERY LIVING MAN TO BE LIKE DAVIDO AND E-MONEY. BUT IT'S NOT POSSIBLE.

PLEASE TELL ME, WHERE IS IT WRITTEN THAT IN THE FAMILIES WHERE COUPLES EARN 50, 100, OR 10 THOUSAND MONTHLY, THERE'S USUALLY HUNGER AND POVERTY, NO MEDICAL ATTENTION AND ALL THAT?
YOU'RE BEGINNING TO SOUND MĄD TO BE HONEST, HOW DO YOU PEOPLE REASON?

MUST EVERY FAMILY MOVE AROUND IN A LEXUS BEFORE YOU KNOW THEY'RE HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH LIFE? MANY FAMILIES OF 4-5 DON'T SPEND UP TO 50,000 NAIRA MONTHLY. IN YOUR BOOK, THEY'RE ALL POOR AND HUNGRY AND LACKING MEDICAL CARE.
NOBODY SHOULD BOTHER ARGUING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU THINK THIS LIFE IS A FILM OBVIOUSLY. GO OUT THERE AND SEE WHAT'S HAPPENING.

emmaodet:


I don't know where the high taste, luxurious life fantasies, unrealistic dreams of nowadays ladies coming from.
A lot guys are in trouble in this generation because they really have a lot to battle with when it comes to choosing a spouse because a lot of ladies out there are devourers and neither are they ready to endure a struggling man nor are they ready to support him, all they want to do is come into your life and enjoy and when it has finished, they dump your ass and move on

CAPSLOCKED:


YOU'RE LETTING MOVIES AND MUSIC VIDEOS DECEIVE YOU. YOU WANT EVERY LIVING MAN TO BE LIKE DAVIDO AND E-MONEY. BUT IT'S NOT POSSIBLE.

PLEASE TELL ME, WHERE IS IT WRITTEN THAT IN THE FAMILIES WHERE COUPLES EARN 50, 100, OR 10 THOUSAND MONTHLY, THERE'S USUALLY HUNGER AND POVERTY, NO MEDICAL ATTENTION AND ALL THAT?
YOU'RE BEGINNING TO SOUND MĄD TO BE HONEST, HOW DO YOU PEOPLE REASON?

MUST EVERY FAMILY MOVE AROUND IN A LEXUS BEFORE YOU KNOW THEY'RE HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH LIFE? MANY FAMILIES OF 4-5 DON'T SPEND UP TO 50,000 NAIRA MONTHLY. IN YOUR BOOK, THEY'RE ALL POOR AND HUNGRY AND LACKING MEDICAL CARE.
NOBODY SHOULD BOTHER ARGUING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU THINK THIS LIFE IS A FILM OBVIOUSLY. GO OUT THERE AND SEE WHAT'S HAPPENING.

crackkhaus:

Poverty background bruv... Such ladies are tired of suffer-head life.

A classic analogy will be that village girl in Nollywood movies who is desperately waiting for one city boy to visit his parents and then see her & fall in love with her.

The internet has made it so much easier now.
They can scout for a big boy living anywhere in the world and try to make him fall in love with them.

thelish:



I regret starting a conversation with u in d first place
Am so sorry sir.
Do have a nice day
Continue holding 500 naira a week, if that makes u happy.

CONTINUE HOLDING ZERO NAIRA ALL YOUR LIFE AND KEEP DOING "PLS I NID A FAVOR" IN EVERY GUY'S WHATSAPP WHILE WAITING FOR E-MONEY TO COME RESCUE YOU FROM POVERTY.

emmaodet:



You are right bro.
But then, they need to be logical and know that reality is different from movies.
Believe me, a lot of guys were forced or pressured into yahoo, rituals, drug pushing, pipeline vandalization etc because of their women. A sizeable percentage of guys are in their early graves, some languishing in china, india etc prisons just to be able to meet up and make their women happy and proud.
Never again will i do such rubbish.
If you want a good life, go out there and take the risk rather than using relationship to push your man into fulfilling your dream life.

crackkhaus:

My brother they know already, na talk dem just wan talk.

Most of them will not see a wealthy man to marry or the ones who are already married, are simply not married to wealthy men.

The real wealthy guys from a particular economic class do not even look their way for marriage. The parents no dey gree...

They always settle for men doing average jobs and earning average income... Or at best, look for a man with basic income living in a country whose currency is higher than Naira so that they can form rich after currency conversion.

emmaodet:



You are right bro.
But then, they need to be logical and know that reality is different from movies.
Believe me, a lot of guys were forced or pressured into yahoo, rituals, drug pushing, pipeline vandalization etc because of their women. A sizeable percentage of guys are in their early graves, some languishing in china, india etc prisons just to be able to meet up and make their women happy and proud.
Never again will i do such rubbish.
If you want a good life, go out there and take the risk rather than using relationship to push your man into fulfilling your dream life.

rationalhuman:
Absolutely right, For few of us it may sound crazy, but some of these bitches who somehow mange to go abroad for study or some small work dont spare this trap even overseas.
I came to knew about a fella in New Delhi he was arrested in some serious scam (Not a big news as we were use to hear these things in local news on daily basis) but one of my classmate told me that fella was very good in his class, His Indian professors had very good hope from him and one bitch trapped him for her needs.To fulfill her wishes he became a part time scammer. Bitch not only destroyed a good person but his family as well, who knows what land, house they had to sold to send their son in hope for bright carrier and better future .
Beware of whoes fella, They dont change colors even abroad.

emmaodet:


You are right bro, very correct.
Are you in india presently? Schooling or what? Medicine?
I was in india 2013. I stayed at Navi-Mumbai.
Are you in mumbai too or new dehli?
I always go by train to masjid where we do have lot of igbos settlement and also to buy things to nigeria.

emmaodet:


Lol
And if we are to follow your advice, do you know only 30% of women will get married especially in nigeria? What happens to the remaining 70%? Just curious.
Die childless?

CAPSLOCKED:


WHAT A VERY STUPID POST. I EVEN THOUGHT YOU HAD THE TINIEST BIT OF SENSE WHICH IS WHY I ENGAGED YOU.
FOR YOUR INFO, THE MAN YOU'VE INSULTED FOR NO REASON IS RICHER THAN ALL THE MEN IN YOUR FAMILY AND KINDRED PUT TOGETHER.

rationalhuman:
No Brother, i was there till 2012, Was in Agra and Delhi.
BTW i am not Nigerian but Kenyan.

You mean Masjid moth (Delhi) via Metro Train??

emmaodet:


Na wa oooo.
Some men dey try oooo.
The kind of women they have at home.
Baba God, na beg i dey beg ooo
Too much venom, anger and very Toxic
Hmmmm
I jump and pass

rationalhuman:
No Brother, i was there till 2012, Was in Agra and Delhi.
BTW i am not Nigerian but Kenyan.

You mean Masjid moth (Delhi) via Metro Train??

Raalsalghul:


Bros, you know better than to keep engaging her na.

Raalsalghul:


I kind of agree with the person you quoted.

We need to start propagating the anti-marriage propaganda.

That shit favors only a few.

emmaodet:
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The question is - How many women are the rich guys ready to marry? Nowadays guys are not ready for unnecessary responsibilities. How many women will rich guys fvck? Do the rich guys really want all these broke and poor ladies? or the ladies think it is a taboo for a man to marry a well to do woman or a woman from a rich home?
I just don't know why ladies will be running away from their background unlike men.