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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Alvelt14(m): 1:42pm On Jul 18, 2023
Poverty and indiscipline

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Ubdavis(m): 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2023
talented321:
We are left with sex greed/addict people, especially the women

Are u victim?. Pls ems it there...
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by princemillla(m): 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2023
With the rubbish clothes taken our forex away.
Infidelity never even start. Cuz in few years to come it will be worst than where those oloso are learning from

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by AntiWailer: 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2023
Poverty is part of it.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Meerahbel: 1:45pm On Jul 18, 2023
I believe it's social media.
Back in the day, the only way to cheat was to hookup with someone from work or school on the gym or, meet someone somewhere else and get their number. it's was harder to hide those relationships with only calling, texting, and email as options. If your partner was frequently gone before it was a red flag.

Now they can do all of their communication online right on their phone, and make excuses to cheat in person by "working late".

Now there are accounts with messaging that is private. You can hide all of your bad activity.

Now you can also easily add people you hardly know to social media, where you post your thoughts and feelings and put your whole life on display.
Or to a site where you constantly put up photos of your life for strangers to see. Attention seeking men and women can easily seek out others online from all over to boost their egos on this photo app. People with low morals can frequently bombard taken people with messages.
On facebook, over time people can get a false feeling of "knowing someone". And it's very easy for men and women with no morals to cross that line and cheat online, and take it to real life.
Decent people don't do these things, but temptation for those without morals or weaker humans is much bigger.
Not only is social media destroying our interactions and creating false ideas of "friendship " but it's also making it much easier to meet strangers who want to flirt and people who try to get to know you based on your online persona.
I wish I'd been born during different times honestly.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by LUAN(m): 1:45pm On Jul 18, 2023
Paying we are paying for sex, if you have money you can pay as much as you can
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by YoungLionken(m): 1:46pm On Jul 18, 2023
In Nigeria, the economy, lack of fear for history and culture resulting to identity crisis ( not knowing who you are or where you're coming from)...

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by iCauseTrouble: 1:47pm On Jul 18, 2023
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by SemperFid: 1:49pm On Jul 18, 2023
Fools that are facing the highest level of hardship ever are more interested in what people do with their private parts. Imbeciles

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by A305: 1:49pm On Jul 18, 2023
The reason why infidelity is on the rise is because of how the dating market is structured.

Women want more resources for less sex and men wants more sex for less or no resources. It's hard to reach an equilibrium hence, the market will remain a stalemate making a man adopts scarcity mentality.

What that leads to is infidelity and promiscuity whereby, a man gets into any pusßy available because it's difficult to always come by one for less resources, so when he is easily presented with one. He go knack.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by OmoGomesIlorin: 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2023
born again Christian are reducing daily,
Kiriyo are also reducing

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by LUAN(m): 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Infact get on tinder, it is cringe worthy! Tueh.
I had a conversation with tinder girl today, she was begging me to come see me. She never knew I came there to catch cruise with them

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Wodu89: 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2023
Poverty and indiscipline

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Sharonstone7719: 1:51pm On Jul 18, 2023
I think it's just so much easier now with the internet and social media. Want to hook up? No problem, just go online and find someone. It takes zero effort.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by grandstar(m): 1:53pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Nothing can be done about. It is global. Look at what the Bible predicted would happen to morals in these last days at 2 Timothy 3:1-5

1 But know this, that in the last days
critical times hard to deal with will be here.
2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, haughty, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal,
3 having no natural affection, not open to any agreement, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, without love of goodness,
4 betrayers, headstrong, puffed up with pride, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God,
5 having an appearance of godliness but proving false to its power and from these turn away.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 1:55pm On Jul 18, 2023
The generation we find ourselves...
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by ednut1(m): 1:56pm On Jul 18, 2023
Social media and phones have made it easy to cheat everything is also sexualized from media to movies. Porn is easily accessible etc. nothing can be done unless you want to make Nigeria a sharia republic.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by ISellBeer: 1:57pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?
Reason is Sapa

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jul 18, 2023
People don't marry for love anymore because if a man/woman loves you cheating will be such a hard deal, forget all these men are polygamous in nature bullshit na just love no dy between una

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Lukuluku69(m): 1:57pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

It is Worldwide Phenomenon.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by jaxxy(m): 1:58pm On Jul 18, 2023
How was infidelity b4? I only know social media has made it more visible bt it has always been there and probably worse.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by advanceDNA: 1:58pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Is it ur infidelity.....?? grin
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by spencekat(m): 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2023
Sharonstone7719:
I think it's just so much easier now with the internet and social media. Want to hook up? No problem, just go online and find someone. [/b]It takes zero effort[b].
Zero effort with money o.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by izubext007: 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2023
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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by MICVOCT(m): 2:00pm On Jul 18, 2023
Trust issues.
Lack of mutual understanding and the likes....
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by INVINCIBLECSP1(m): 2:01pm On Jul 18, 2023
Kemadealadire:
The men are polygamous crew made it so.
What about the women?
undecided undecided undecided
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Culer: 2:01pm On Jul 18, 2023
SemperFid:
Fools that are facing the highest level of hardship ever are more interested in what people do with their private parts. Imbeciles
LMAO!! 😂😂😂
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by imagrg(m): 2:02pm On Jul 18, 2023
Because the rate of poverty is on the rise and husbands or boyfriends are unable to meet up with their financial obligations.

Let toto breathe. angry

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Gyarah: 2:02pm On Jul 18, 2023
Because the level of morality & sense of decency is erupting the society and on the increase.

We must work towards enhancing these values to deal with the menace you have rightly observed.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Eniolohunda: 2:03pm On Jul 18, 2023
Greediness and lack of fear of God. And to overcome it, put God first and fear him, then be contented with what God has done for you. And if you want more, seek from him with patience.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Fiscus105(m): 2:03pm On Jul 18, 2023
Hardship.
Social media exposure
Cultural devaluation.
Weakling religion stronghold.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by sparko1(m): 2:04pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Nothing is on the rise, we are just more aware of it.

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