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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by fof1: 7:56pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 18, 2023
FuckSilly:

I don't like engaging in talks with dumb and deluded girls that are obscured by emotions.
What senseless question is am I a virgin?
Is it paining you that virginity is not important or part of what qualifies a man as high value?
Or
Is it paining you that you're no longer a virgin and you lost it to someone who's no longer important nor relevant in your life?
Which one?
I only deduced from your earlier statement and here you are loosing your cool. Now tell me who's being emotional here? I only asked a simple question if you are a virgin to be regarded as a high value man as you clearly stated virginity as a prerequisite to being a high value individual. So why are you fuming and bleating like a he- goat on heat? Hahahaha cheesy

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jul 18, 2023
fof1:


Obvious Signs of End Times ...More Grievous and Terrible Things will even Happen....Wait for them as they unfold
May God save His people
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Abemy(m): 8:05pm On Jul 18, 2023
The fidelity subsidy has been removed. That's why.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by FuckSilly: 8:14pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
I only deduced from your earlier statement and here you are loosing your cool. Now tell me who's being emotional here? I only asked a simple question if you are a virgin to be regarded as a high value man as you clearly stated virginity as a prerequisite to being a high value individual. So why are you fuming and bleating like a he- goat on heat? Hahahaha cheesy
Lol
Gaslighting is the very last thing that anyone can use to get back at me cheesy It NEVER works cheesy cheesy
Again, virginity is only a prerequisite for women and not men. Till date, there's no culture in the world that doesn't cherish and value sexual purity and virginity in women. Even God values it and that was why he chose Mary who was a virgin to birth Jesus and not a whóre.
In the earlier days, a girl that's found not to be a virgin on her wedding is regarded to be a shame and disgrace to herself and family members. Even in the old testament, they are stoned and not considered worthy of being a bride...
- You'll not received bride price
- You'll not be allowed to wear white wedding dress, etc
So what has changed now? WOKENESS?
OR HAS THE BIBLE CHANGED?

So what are you talking about!?
Virginity is the most important and valuable gift a girl can give to any man but unfortunately, you girls of this age will lose your virginity to Indomie and fanta or pizza and ice-cream grin
How can you be seen a someone with functional brains if you don't see any big deal in loosing your virginity to a lowlife or riffraff?
A precious valuable gift that you're supposed to give to someone very special and someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with.

A girl can give many men children, sex, love, marriage etc, BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY.
It's a shame the society has really degraded to the levels were we now bread shameless SLÚTs and whórës. As a man, I can never pay a full bride on a girl who's not a virgin, and no reasonable should pay as well.
For your bride price, the price should be divided by Your bodycount. If your bride price is 100k and your bodycount is 5, your deserved bride price should by 100k/5 = 20k.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by blesdman(m): 9:13pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?
APC hardship
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 18, 2023
FuckSilly:

Lol
Gaslighting is the very last thing that anyone can use to get back at me cheesy It NEVER works cheesy cheesy
Again, virginity is only a prerequisite for women and not men. Till date, there's no culture in the world that doesn't cherish and value sexual purity and virginity in women. Even God values it and that was why he chose Mary who was a virgin to birth Jesus and not a whóre.
In the earlier days, a girl that's found not to be a virgin on her wedding is regarded to be a shame and disgrace to herself and family members. Even in the old testament, they are stoned and not considered worthy of being a bride...
- You'll not received bride price
- You'll not be allowed to wear white wedding dress, etc
So what has changed now? WOKENESS?
OR HAS THE BIBLE CHANGED?

So what are you talking about!?
Virginity is the most important and valuable gift a girl can give to any man but unfortunately, you girls of this age will lose your virginity to Indomie and fanta or pizza and ice-cream grin
How can you be seen a someone with functional brains if you don't see any big deal in loosing your virginity to a lowlife or riffraff?
A precious valuable gift that you're supposed to give to someone very special and someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with.

A girl can give many men children, sex, love, marriage etc, BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY.
It's a shame the society has really degraded to the levels were we now bread shameless SLÚTs and whórës. As a man, I can never pay a full bride on a girl who's not a virgin, and no reasonable should pay as well.
For your bride price, the price should be divided by Your bodycount. If your bride price is 100k and your bodycount is 5, your deserved bride price should by 100k/5 = 20k.
buahahaha, see all this long epistle because you are crying for your future wife you have described on this post. Have you ever disvrigined a girl/lady woman in your life that you are requiring a virgin, then you are a hypocrite. Gaslight you? Niqqar puleeaaassse.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 18, 2023
blesdman:

APC hardship
embarassed
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by FuckSilly: 10:34pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
buahahaha, see all this long epistle because you are crying for your future wife you have described on this post. Have you ever disvrigined a girl/lady woman in your life that you are requiring a virgin, then you are a hypocrite. Gaslight you? Niqqar puleeaaassse.
Lol
Read the last post again and let it sink into your brains grin
We are wiser now.
You can't be fooling around and still be forming high value grin
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jul 18, 2023
FuckSilly:

Lol
Read the last post again and let it sink into your brains grin
We are wiser now.
You can't be fooling around and still be forming high value grin
Like i said earlier, to each his own. It is because you fool around and still consider yourself a high value man reason you presume every other per does that. This thread was created for your type undecided lipsrsealed tongue
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by FuckSilly: 10:42pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
Like i said earlier, to each his own. It is because you fool around and still consider yourself a high value man reason you presume every other per does that. This thread was created for your type undecided lipsrsealed tongue
Just stop wailing and stop fooling yourself.
You were the first person to assert the adjective "high value" to describe yourself and I'm 100% sure that you DIDN'T tick the basic boxes for qualities and prerequisite of a high value girl, WHICH IS WHY YOU'VE BEEN WAILING grin
It's very true that what's Fucƙed can never be UNFÚCKED grin grin grin
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 18, 2023
FuckSilly:

Just stop wailing and stop fooling yourself.
You were the first person to assert the adjective "high value" to describe yourself and I'm 100% sure that you DIDN'T tick the basic boxes for qualities and prerequisite of a high value girl, WHICH IS WHY YOU'VE BEEN WAILING grin
It's very true that what's Fucƙed can never be UNFÚCKED grin grin grin
You my dear are the foolish one in this context. You are on faceless forum contesting my value and all the while you have no idea whom you are relating with. All right, bye. We done here.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by FuckSilly: 11:05pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
You my dear are the foolish one in this context. You are on faceless forum contesting my value and all the while you have no idea whom you are relating with. All right, bye. We done here.
One doesn't need to get close to a shît to know how awful it stinks. By your post, one can sense your frustration and you stink!
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by isabi2lof: 11:09pm On Jul 18, 2023
Some married men are the greatest simps you could ever imagined undecided

They leave their beautiful wives and children to suffer in poverty,and they go about chasing and spending money on another men's wives..

Cheating is an expensive business, some steal from their wives to give to their side goats

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 18, 2023
FuckSilly:

One doesn't need to get close to a shît to know how awful it stinks. By your post, one can sense your frustration and you stink!
God Bless you. Have a great night.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 18, 2023
isabi2lof:
Some married men are the greatest simps you could ever imagined undecided

They leave their beautiful wives and children to suffer in poverty,and they go about chasing and spending money on another men's wives..

Cheating is an expensive business, some steal from their wives to give to their side goats
For real, you begin to wonder if these men are in their senses?

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by isabi2lof: 11:37pm On Jul 18, 2023
Jazmine10:
For real, you begin to wonder if these men are in their senses?

At all , they're never in their right senses, one was telling me how ugly his wife is , I was just like oga , no be me send you message, if you wan toast , go straight to the point , I don't need to hear your family problems, is either yes or no ....

We have many of them in our society , I know some ladies do go extra miles to get a man but majority of them do it with their eyes wide open, nothing like juju or kayanmata whatsoever..

Dating married men is not my thing, cos I do feel for their wives and children.. the truth is that most of them do have beautiful wives at home .. I do wonder if they're forced to marry their wives ..

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jul 18, 2023
isabi2lof:


At all , they're never in their right senses, one was telling me how ugly his wife is , I was just like oga , no be me send you message, if you wan toast , go straight to the point , I don't need to hear your family problems, is either yes or no ....

We have many of them in our society , I know some ladies do go extra miles to get a man but majority of them do it with their eyes wide open, nothing like juju or kayanmata whatsoever..

Dating married men is not my thing, cos I do feel for their wives and children.. the truth is that most of them do have beautiful wives at home .. I do wonder if they're forced to marry their wives ..
What is scary is that they cheat and still go home to their wives like nothing happened after disrespecting the mother of their children to some random stranger because they want kpekus. Imagine the ewu Gambia telling you his wife is ugly? Hian, i swear some men no get shame.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by isabi2lof: 12:51am On Jul 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
What is scary is that they cheat and still go home to their wives like nothing happened after disrespecting the mother of their children to some random stranger because they want kpekus. Imagine the ewu Gambia telling you his wife is ugly? Hian, i swear some men no get shame.

They don't have any atom of shame , they'll tell you everything about their families especially their wives own , me I do see them as mumu men 🤣🤣🤣

In my mind , I will be like , this one mumu na follow come and they're ready to do your biddings , if you agree to date them properly ..

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by AreaFada2: 2:42am On Jul 19, 2023
Every guy should do DNA test on ALL their kids.

So that you don't spend the best part of your life looking after another man's children.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Bolaji1996: 9:07am On Jul 19, 2023
The questions should be Why is fornication on the rise?

Why are we seeing immoral acts as normal?

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by EntertainKiki: 1:37pm On Jul 19, 2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8OOYdIx81I
Lol they take every opportunity
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by DOD88: 2:30pm On Jul 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
you have a point there; why drop the bulk of the blame on women when we live in a patriachial society? Men have been the ones known to disrespect the sanctity of marriage and most African men would be quick to remind women that they are entittled to numerous women? So you were saying?
So what's your point? In traditional African setting, is man not entitled to marrying more than one wife?
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by MrSly(m): 6:59pm On Jul 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
you have a point there; why drop the bulk of the blame on women when we live in a patriachial society? Men have been the ones known to disrespect the sanctity of marriage and most African men would be quick to remind women that they are entittled to numerous women? So you were saying?

He was saying that this very ideology of yours has been the cover under which women hide to perpetrate their henious infidelity.
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 3:04am On Jul 20, 2023
DOD88:

So what's your point? In traditional African setting, is man not entitled to marrying more than one wife?
Guy, currently are you living in traditional African setting? Most times men like yourself who believe in polygamy do you even discuss that with your partner before marriage to see if they'd be okay with it?
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by Nobody: 3:08am On Jul 20, 2023
MrSly:


He was saying that this very ideology of yours has been the cover under which women hide to perpetrate their henious infidelity.
What ideology? Holding men accountable for their slacking? Calling men out for always passing the bulk of blame of some of y'all cheating nature on women?
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by MrSly(m): 6:35am On Jul 22, 2023
Jazmine10:
What ideology? Holding men accountable for their slacking? Calling men out for always passing the bulk of blame of some of y'all cheating nature on women?
The ideology of "men are cheat, they are polygamous in nature and women are saints, they don't cheat but only cheated on"

It is most likely you have not been much into ladies affair. You wouldn't have got this mind set.

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by DonroxyII: 2:35am On Jul 23, 2023
Meerahbel:
I believe it's social media.
Back in the day, the only way to cheat was to hookup with someone from work or school on the gym or, meet someone somewhere else and get their number. it's was harder to hide those relationships with only calling, texting, and email as options. If your partner was frequently gone before it was a red flag.

Now they can do all of their communication online right on their phone, and make excuses to cheat in person by "working late".

Now there are accounts with messaging that is private. You can hide all of your bad activity.

Now you can also easily add people you hardly know to social media, where you post your thoughts and feelings and put your whole life on display.
Or to a site where you constantly put up photos of your life for strangers to see. Attention seeking men and women can easily seek out others online from all over to boost their egos on this photo app. People with low morals can frequently bombard taken people with messages.
On facebook, over time people can get a false feeling of "knowing someone". And it's very easy for men and women with no morals to cross that line and cheat online, and take it to real life.
Decent people don't do these things, but temptation for those without morals or weaker humans is much bigger.
Not only is social media destroying our interactions and creating false ideas of "friendship " but it's also making it much easier to meet strangers who want to flirt and people who try to get to know you based on your online persona.
I wish I'd been born during different times honestly.

Lol grin ... This is also the best time to be born .. Human Are Insatiable ....

This is the first time the World is getting United Across Humanities without Bomb nor Wars But Technologies.....

Ohhh, You would have loved to be born in WWII Era or Era were there is no Medicine for Malaria where still birth was refer to "Abiku" ...

Abeg, I love this Gen Z & There is no Era without the Goods & The Uglies ....

It is part of Life ... we shall Soon Re-Evolve unto Something Else But as Human Keep Advancing In Scientific-Knowledges & Technologies Our Worlds & Civilisations as we Known it are Bound to Change ....

This is the Best Era for Businesses connected the world via same social media you Criticised without Relishing the Beauties .....

You can become a Multi-Millions-Dollars Business by sitting in your home & Selling Product to Americans while living in Nigeria infact In Your Village as far Light, Network, Phone & Sub ....

I love this world... Life has never been about something without its Sacrifices.....
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by DonroxyII: 2:38am On Jul 23, 2023
Gyarah:
Because the level of morality & sense of decency is erupting the society and on the increase.

We must work towards enhancing these values to deal with the menace you have rightly observed.
Who are the We
I know trust Una at all ...

Una dey form Scoffield, Small Chicks na Una own go bad pass ....

Simply welcome to this Generations of Sinatullahi .... !

When the Change will Come, E go Come

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by IyaTola: 8:32am On Jul 23, 2023
Jazmine10:
Iyatola great perspective there! Some Nigerian men wanna be sissies looking for women to take care of them and feed them and their children in matrimony.
Run from such men or divorce them

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Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by WoroSeeWoro(m): 11:05am On Jul 27, 2023
Jazmine10:
Exactly. Now, how did this happen? What/ who is to be held responsible for this? The men! Y'all talking about making womwn accountable, let talk here about accountability and lack of accountability and failure by the men.

HEY be factful women constitute 70 percent of this fault
Re: Why Is Infidelity On The Rise? by vdestro: 12:59pm On Jul 27, 2023
Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Because people have become infidels.

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