talented321:
Oh no' but normally depend on the love u give ur man to cheat on u go tire am, because he take's u as a lovely sister and not only wife again.
So u don't have forginess, my question is what do u gain by cheating back? So u prefer to be single instead of enjoying ur marriage, do u really know how marriage sweet. Pls stop that mentality' u hear

Lol... When I'm ready for marriage, I'll marry someone who I know loves me nd I too loves him... The day he cheats, and I'm aware, I won't cheat back intentionally but if someone moves me, I won't think twice...
As long as there's no Domestic violence, I won't initiate proceedings of Divorce, but if he does, I'll gladly sign it....
Why should I forgive him?? After cheating on me.. lol... He should wait, I cheat back then we forgive ourselves...
He isn't doing me a favour by marrying me ooo.....

And I won't reply again on this thread...
Before my crush sees my post.. lol

bonnyhope:


There's no infidelity anywhere
Stop discouraging the young ones from getting married

I am not discouraging anyone. These are genuine concern from a high valued Nigerian Woman. You men imagine y'all are the only one with concerns about marriage? The average Nigerian man gives the heebeejeebees vibe.

Poor economy,

Shey u sabi how much they sell fuel now??

IyaTola:
In

Iyatola great perspective there! Some Nigerian men wanna be sissies looking for women to take care of them and feed them and their children in matrimony.

Puss360:

Lol... When I'm ready for marriage, I'll marry someone who I know loves me nd I too loves him... The day he cheats, and I'm aware, I won't cheat back intentionally but if someone moves me, I won't think twice...
As long as there's no Domestic violence, I won't initiate proceedings of Divorce, but if he does, I'll gladly sign it....
Why should I forgive him?? After cheating on me.. lol... He should wait, I cheat back then we forgive ourselves...
He isn't doing me a favour by marrying me ooo.....

And I won't reply again on this thread...
Before my crush sees my post.. lol

That right there is one of the issue. The average Nigerian man thinks marrying a woman is doing the woman a favour. Why should you hide your thoughts from your crush? If he can't like you for you, what's there to crush about him if you cannot be your messy authentic self? No man born of a woman should make you less than yourself in your words thoughts or actions If they wanna influence you positively that's okay.

Nothing can be done - Even the sons and prophets of God were adulterous

Jazmine10:
That right there is one of the issue. The average Nigerian man thinks marrying a woman is doing the woman a favour.

is the woman doing the man any favours - please least common ones apart from sex

tomoregie:
Nothing can be done - Even the sons and prophets of God were adulterous

Glad you as a man have somewhat admitted that men are to be held responsible here.

tomoregie:


is the woman doing the man any favours - please least common ones apart from sex

Yes, women are doing y'all men a favor from when konji hold una and una go be like mumu until una release to carrying your babies 9 whole months with different changes and experiences altwring her body to propagating your generation and generational lineage. E no important to una? Abi make women change am for una? Who go suffer?

Lack of fear of God... Most people name the name of God but have not departed from sins..

jmoore:
Adultery is directly proportional to fornication.

High rate of fornication evolves to high rate of adultery.

Until premarital sex reduces, adultery will continue to rise.

You are very wise...
Imagine a guy that has different girlfriends before marriage, he takes agbo or Viagra to do 3 to 5 rounds with them turn by turn, through the week and so on. How can that person be satisfied by one wife in marriage.

A girl has multiple boyfriends and they all knack her plenty rounds from time to time. How will one dick now be enough for her especially if she now ends up with a small dick?

Mobile phones and social media.

Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria

Because the love of pleasure is on the rise too.

and what can be done to mitigate it?

If individuals start practicing self-discipline.




No long 🧢

Big Ikebe that's why...pure unadulterated big ikebe.

LUAN:
I had a conversation with tinder girl today, she was begging me to come see me. She never knew I came there to catch cruise with them

😂😂😂

Puss360:

Lol... When I'm ready for marriage, I'll marry someone who I know loves me nd I too loves him... The day he cheats, and I'm aware, I won't cheat back intentionally but if someone moves me, I won't think twice...
As long as there's no Domestic violence, I won't initiate proceedings of Divorce, but if he does, I'll gladly sign it....
Why should I forgive him?? After cheating on me.. lol... He should wait, I cheat back then we forgive ourselves...
He isn't doing me a favour by marrying me ooo.....

And I won't reply again on this thread...
Before my crush sees my post.. lol

There's nothing like divorce papers in Nigeria

Jazmine10:
Different cultures? Last i checked most Nigerian men practice an evolved modern lifestyle of monogamy which involves one man, one woman. For Islam adherents a number of 4 wives is permitted, for a traditional African man, he'd contest an option for an harem of women and for the average Christan man, polygamy is sin. Now that's settled most men involved in the nefarious act of cheating are mostly the so called evolved modern man or the Christian man.
Men usually have the higher body count as its some trophy for bragging rights amongst your peers. Women are never at liberty in society that the body counts y'all have on the day y'all sick and out of commission is what would count for a woman as a prostitute/harlot.
Who are dis- virgining the ladies?
So you were saying again?

Lol
You're either being delusional or DECEIVING yourself.
Now let's do a small experiment of reality.
If you're in your 20s (18-25 years), let's check you and people around you.
Pick 10 guys at random and 10 girls at random in that age group. Check their bodycount and tell me who has the highest bodycount.
In today's society, a girl of 17-19 years on an average have between 3-5 bodycount, whereas, most guys won't even have the opportunity to have sex until they attain mid or late 20s. THIS IS A FACT.
YOU GIRLS HAVE ACCESS TO SEX EASILY.
As long as a girl is mature and good looking, many men wants to have sex with you already. Compare the number of guys that wants to have sex with you with the number of guys you're interested in to have sex with and see the wide difference.
Men need to have and provide a lot of values (money, good looks, intelligence, money, money, money) before they can have access to sex, whereas you as a girl only need to be presentable.
The only group of guys that have higher bodycount than most average girls are extremely small in number.
They are randy married men with some change in their pockets, high value men with cash and Fucƙ boys with good games.
In all RAMIFICATIONS in this era, an average guy can never have as much bodycount like an average girl.
BEFORE MARRIAGE, MOST GIRLS HAVE HIGHER BODYCOUNT THAN THEIR SPOUSE BUT AFTER MARRIAGE, SOME FEW MEN WILL BEGIN TO HAVE MORE BODYCOUNT THAN THEIR SPOUSE.
THIS IS BECAUSE YOUR BEAUTY IS LIKE A PERISHABLE ASSET. YOU DEPRECIATE EVERY DAY AS YOU GET OLDER (30+). THIS WILL CAUSE THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE THAT HAVE INTEREST IN HAVING SEX WITH YOU TO REDUCE, BUT FOR MEN, WE OFTEN BECOME STRONGER (25-55), RICHER AND BEGIN TO HAVE ACCESS TO MANY GIRLS WE CAN HAVE SEX WITH.

FrancisDiote:

So you don't know Conji is a bastard Abi? Stay there

konji is a bastard? Bastard it with your partner dia. Abi make your woman tell you say konji is a bastard do am with another man?

sparko1:


Nothing is on the rise, we are just more aware of it.

So you allege that our mothers were cheating on our fathers then but they had stable marriages and Nigeria was saner then? It must be Nigeria is not a Patriachial Society or the men back then must have been weaklings?

advanceDNA:


Is it ur infidelity.....??

You no wan repent abi?

Lukuluku69:


It is Worldwide Phenomenon.

Worldwide Phenomenon? Nigeria must be leading!

Because the forbidden fruit is always the sweetest....

Same with drugs alcohol gossip slander greed stealing gluttony.......



Take your pick people choose the one that suits them......

Karlifate:

Because the love of pleasure is on the rise too.



If individuals start practicing self-discipline.




No long 🧢

Excellent point there, but you'd bq quick to agree with me the men mostly should take the initiative?

ISellBeer:

Reason is Sapa

On thevpart of rhe women indulging in prostitution? How about the men? Is it the sam sapa that is making them shell money out to several women a day?

grandstar:


Nothing can be done about. It is global. Look at what the Bible predicted would happen to morals in these last days at 2 Timothy 3:1-5

1 But know this, that in the last days
critical times hard to deal with will be here.
2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, haughty, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal,
3 having no natural affection, not open to any agreement, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, without love of goodness,
4 betrayers, headstrong, puffed up with pride, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God,
5 having an appearance of godliness but proving false to its power and from these turn away.

Great insight there.

LUAN:
I had a conversation with tinder girl today, she was begging me to come see me. She never knew I came there to catch cruise with them

Someone say because na sapa dey cause am. Yoi sef wetin be the cruise weyvcarry you go dia?

Jazmine10:
Worldwide Phenomenon? Nigeria must be leading!

Don't bet on that. You can only say things about what happens around you.

Infidelity amongst spouses is a Global Phenomenon well you can say Nigeria leads because every thing this part of the Globe is on the extreme side.

Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Number one of them is poverty. That thing has cheaply cause divide , domestic violence, quarrels etc.


Fear poverty, but our leaders brought this upon us.

Fish soup don go high, they need to balance husband allowance.

Houseofglam7:
…..because stolen wine is sweet…the good book 📖 says so 🤭


🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣

Yeah, for the thieves. But the good book also say a man involved in adultery is like a fool who puts hot coals in his bosom. The good also says men do not despise a thief if he steals to satify his soul when he is hingry but if he be found he shall restore "7" fold of all that he has. There' for the thieves who enjoy stolen wine. It also is a very grave matter.

Women dey enjoy sha they still see ashewo do.

Lukuluku69:


Don't bet on that. You can only say things about what happens around you.

Infidelity amongst spouses is a Global Phenomenon well you can say Nigeria leads because every thing this part of the Globe is on the extreme side.

I like your honesty. Now, isn't that worrisome in the grand scheme of things?