luminouz:

Send her to me. Let me console her!!!😉

Evil...lol...u wanna score 3 points

DestinedForGrea:

This is not true.

Men are not polygamous in nature, stop justifying wrong with what you think is natural.

Wake up from this delusion.

They are.... Actually.

See how much the modern society has tried to downplay it, see how men have been resilient to carry on the multipartner activities

Mada u vex commot thinking dey will come beg you as queen of d coast . U should be happy a lady volunteer to carry kids to school.

She deserve ur husband not you.

ObamaMessi:
I have never laughed so hard!! What a funny story 😂😂😂

You left your husband then another woman came in and you rushed back to beg. Na alpha male him be and kudos to him.
Women are always the cause of their problems... you have also been cheating since you got married but you decide to mire your side of the story of how you brought his friends, alot of them to sleep with you in the kitchen, palor and toilet.
Personally I know how many of your type I have flogged either in my mom's bed room or on their matrimonial beds (in rare cases). ..so shut the Bleep up and look for the next street suck. Your husband is gone for good.

abeggi...if she makes this a court case she will easily win

Your utterances is coming from a very bitter place...go and seek help

Eiyah sorry ooo

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

You have made an irreversible mistake..You left your matrimonial home for a strange woman, lo and behold, they have turned you to strange woman..This life.

You even abandoned your kids Because you suspected your hubby is cheating..

Na everyday we go explain say a man can have sex with another woman to ease off, but loves and cherish his wife/mother of his children .

Same cannot be for a woman..Women have these things with emotions attached.

You have lost that home..All you can do now is co-parenting. Your husband has tested and compared the sweetness of the other lady who will meet up where you lacked.

Before a man who used his hard earned money to marry you, cater and take care of his home, decided to look outside, something must cause it.

Maybe you treated him bad, and the single neighbor started having pity for him..

Some good men end up marry bad wife..

Some bad men , equally end up marrying good wife.

To the married women out there, never you ever leave your matrimonial home like this, as long as their is no domestic violence..If you do, it is 50/50...

tyup:
Nataliace to be very honest with you, you shouldn't have leave your home. Read ur story and there was no where you reported him hitting or beating you cuz that's the only reason you would have been justified for leaving ur home guard less cuz your life would have been at stake from violence but there was none. What has kept them all including ur neighbor away from ur home was You but you left the checkpoint and gave her access to ur home.

The deed has been done quite alright, and I'll just advice you visit his parents and explain everything to them, a family meeting should be called.

And the man should stop sleeping around. He is a married man now, not the reincarnation of Hef.

EconomistXplain:


simply take him to court...there he will pay u for divorce nd child custody sorted out...d t b timid, u also hv a right in d marriage

In Nigeria? This is not abroad o.

Highest court will award 20k monthly upkeep to the wife and children

Eeyah, to prevent further cheating advise him to bring her in as 2nd wife

Marriages na long relationships nowadays. No kill yourself.

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

The earlier you know cheating is inevitable the better. It’s not a big deal.


There is no marriage that is not having the issue. Get matured!

Buy your husband all the traditional wedding materials, encourage him to do the rites , accept to be the second wife since the girl didn't meet you at home. Better still return his bride price like Tonto Dike and live your life peace.



Men don't like embarrassment. Men don't like nagging. Men don't like coercion from women.
In any marital unfaithfulness, women suffer more. Since you don't have a God-fearing man as a husband, you will have to live with him, carrying your cross. Before the cross was easy, now you make it complicated. Pray that your rival does not have babies for him.
Even your parents will blame you.
Good luck.

GOFRONT:

Hubby 2 VS 0 Wife


The earlier women understand that Men are Polygamous in nature, they better for them.

Well, you may contact Obamamessi for a proper shining of your congo. Lastweek,he (obamamessi) has shined the congo of his coursemate who is a married woman too.

Don't use the narrative "men are polygamous in nature" as a defence for promiscuous men.

Women alike can be promiscuous too you know, so is it fair to now opine that women who are promiscuous are polygamous in nature as well? Spell adultery how it should be spelt.

The man committed adultery and instead of feeling sorry that should lead to apology and eventual repentance for his disgraceful sin, he became even hardened.

The woman on the other hand should had employed a different approach towards addressing his infidelity instead of fleeing home leaving her kids behind just like that.

Both parties lacked wisdom in this context.

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

once a woman leaves her matrimonial home of her own volition and spent more than 24 hours outside, no reasonable man should take her back.

To get his head back in the game, you need to sue him. Gather evidence, get a lawyer, and sue him. You can actually win custody of those kids. You can't have another woman taking care of your kids when you are healthy enough to do so.

BadBradley:
once a woman leaves her matrimonial home of her own volition and spent more than 24 hours outside, no reasonable man should take her back.

You don't know what you are talking about. You are talking trash.

DestinedForGrea:

This is not true.

Men are not polygamous in nature, stop justifying wrong with what you think is natural.

Wake up from this delusion.

So tell us the truth if men is not polygamouse in nature

Coldspice:


Why should he open a mall for her when he can use the money to marry more wives if she leaves?

I can only advice the man on that,if he was the one asking for help. Now its the wife that needs help,and she came asking NL. We have to look out for her,and as such I am more concerned about what she will gain from the man.. The man matter no concern me.. You get it now,right?

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

Even before marriage sef, just reset your mind to the time before you became aware. Good luck

luminouz:

Send her to me. Let me console her!!!😉

Lol...make una still dey show small mercy na

Foolish woman. Why must you try to control a man how to live his life in the first place.

Coldspice:


Someone that went out and is begging to come back is the one you want to file divorce.

Na people like you use mumu advise ruin her.

I swear that person wen dey advice her to go court is a foolish human being

TimiRume:
The Op is a redpiller trying to stir up male chauvinism against women by fabricating this story. And he seems to be succeeding

You have a point.. note the op said 'she just ' discovered.. but from the body of the story it showed she has detected it since and has since left him bla bla

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

So when u were dating u didn't know he was the promiscuous and randy type? or he suddenly developed the bad habit after marriage?

in any case if u want to leave a man house and want it to pain him carry his children along. He will come looking for u.

Also there are other was to address cheating without leaving ur matrimonial home.

TheFarmer1:

You don't know what you are talking about. You are talking trash.

Mmm try it with ur husband and see., except ur husband na simp then he can take u back

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

You left him with kids to cater for in the form of punishment. You would have isolated him sexually with the reason of not been infected or supply him condoms to send the message across. Leaving your home is a wrong move and I think it's advice of a fellow female

Remove Natasha Museveni Karugire picture as your DP first before I contribute to your post

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

You finished everything by leaving your matrimonial home

That gave your husband space to forget about you

He definitely have moved on from you

I don't think there's anything you can do about it


Mistake women make is by leaving there matrimonial home

Once Men are giving space
They Develop a thicker skin

If you were around
He may still have the fondness for you and with time
Change his ways

But giving him space
Finished everything

I know someone presently in this your kind of case
She gave the man space
By returning to her people's place

Now the Man has moved on

You left you home for the viper to enter. Now you've come back begging? Mehn that's hilarious. De play

Nataliace:

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

Do you still love your cheating husband or the comfort that he provides?
Since you left, we can assume you have some principle and dignity.
But by going back to beg, you have become useless to him.

Even if he accepts you back, he will see you as nothing but a domestic maid.
Be ready to prepare meals when he brings his girlfriends home.

The marriage that you desire is gone forever.
But if you really really want to restore your "marriage". You have to promise
him never to complain about his cheating ways again even he bring girls home.
You may also have to accept the neighbor as the first wife and you the second.
If you promise to do that he may reconsider you.

You did not mention whether you have a job.
Those could also count.

If you have any dignity left, never ever go back.

TeamXola:



The earlier you know cheating is inevitable the better. It’s not a big deal.


There is no marriage that is not having the issue. Get matured!

Not all men or women cheat, and at the end, cheating can hurt relationships and so on

If your girl cheated on you, you would be angry and you would be bitter.

Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.

The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.

The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.

I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.

Please advise me on how to restore my marriage.

You shouldn't have left ur home because of that. What were expecting to happen? Na bad advise carry u enter this one. When u should have stayed back to fight for what u love. U forgot women are ur worst enemies. Even those advising u sef are into it. U just let them looseguard u. Now u will see real torture from the other woman in charge of what used to be ur home. Wisdom is very far from u madam... Very far