| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by 6ixVille: 1:44pm On Jan 29 |
Apologise to him. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by keylogger(m): 1:47pm On Jan 29 |
Sorry oooooo, now you will be a side chick to another man. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Blueace247(f): 1:47pm On Jan 29 |
GOFRONT:
Hubby 2 VS 0 Wife
The earlier women understand that Men are Polygamous in nature, they better for them.
Well, you may contact Obamamessi for a proper shining of your congo. Lastweek,he (obamamessi) has shined the congo of his coursemate who is a married woman too. its left for them to realise..when majorrity off women have been ploygamous before the death of jesus christ 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Available9: 1:49pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. I know those people that advised you to leave the marriage... blessing CEO, Amanda chisom, and the others... 6 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by amnesty7: 1:50pm On Jan 29 |
A nice fiction. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by BloomingDale(f): 1:50pm On Jan 29 |
Fake story by a man to acclimatize women in staying with their cheating husbands. I wonder what woman with healthy self esteem will tolerate all that nonsense. She should go for an STD test and thank her lucky stars if she is clean. Never stay with with a cheat. It is unhealthy. That is no relationship. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Olam09(m): 1:50pm On Jan 29 |
All your story here on nairaland seems made up 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Paraman: 1:50pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. Your husband wicked and cruel o 🥺🥺 Are you making money or do you have money? I'm sorry am about to ask a rude question, but please forgive me... Is your father and mother poor? I'm sorry I am asking you this kind of question If you're not from a poor family or if you have a good income, I will advise you to leave with your kids. Your husband is a shameless person. He totally downgraded you. He has no respect for you and your parents/family. If you're legally married to him, you can kick out the lady from your matrimonial home but just know it might lead to a fight between you and your husband or the lady or a divorce or a fight/divorce. I can't believe a man can be as heartless as your husband sha... Omo people dey o I can't believe you're ready to forgive and live with that kind of person 😐 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by rickleye: 1:50pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. He called your bluff. Why would you want to continue in such atmosphere when you now know he’s a serial womaniser. And when found out didn’t even apologize. I think there is more to the story than what you have inferred but if I am wrong . You need to find someone your husband listen to to try and resolve the issue. BOL |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by seanery: 1:51pm On Jan 29 |
Na hin MONEY and the size of hin PENIS make you love him soo much. The moment you left his house, twas over. Dont bother yourself again, just go and re-Marry... OtiLo Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Anguldi(m): 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
DSS1335:
Just move on bcs there is nothing you can do about it.
This reminds me during my youthful years immediately after NYSC in 2008. My girlfriend back then whom I have decided to settle down with left me after intense quarreling saying she can't marry a firstborn, that I was too chubby and fair in complexion. That she wanted a dark complexion man that is slim...immediately she left two other beautiful damsel fought to take her place and one of them eventually became my wife today. She has been stalking me on all social media platforms and keep blocking her. Its a pity she would be 40 yrs old April this year and unmarried Wahala |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by GloriousGbola: 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. this story reads like a red pillers wet dream mods going in hard for that sweet sweet red pill traffic 
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by zrocky: 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. your husband no get family people you go report am to. nawa for marriage people |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Capernum: 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
Dear woman. Leave all the trash people have been saying. Your marriage is under attack. A strange woman just came to snatch your man and destroy your home. Listen up! The attack is not against you but the future of your children.
Can you pray? Do you go to prayer mountains?
If you can pray, the strange woman will forcefully leave him and he'll be back to his senses. It's an attack. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by TimiRume(f): 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
The op is a guy trying to make mockery of women.
The story is fake 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by LockDown69(m): 1:52pm On Jan 29 |
Lamba!  |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by OluwaSegun0509(m): 1:53pm On Jan 29 |
In as much as I don't support extra marital affairs, it is wrong of a lady/woman to leave because the husbands cheat. When you do, you open the door widely for him to do so. The only reason I can support you as a woman when leave your matrimonial home is when the marriage is becoming to aggressive and physical. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by CHRISTFUCKER: 1:54pm On Jan 29 |
Better cope with him
While you were forking different dudes , no one disturbed you
Cope and seethe my dear |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by superCleanworks(m): 1:55pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. Hahahahahahahaha. You just made my day. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Zhunnurayn(m): 1:55pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. My whole advice is don't mind the naysayers and negative comments on nairaland. Figure out what made your husband not to reciprocate your feelings, it's hard for a man who gets everything he wants in a marriage from his woman to be so indifferent. I won't go plain, but do you pet him like when you were dating, do you dress nicely for him, and do all sorts of things in a new relationship. Every man wants to be petted and wants to have a relationship that is forever new. How was yours after the marriage? No man getting the above mentioned will want to lose you. You may have resorted to just being a wife and mother and cared less about being his rom*#ce partner and girlfriend. This makes him to take compensatory resort in those girls. With mediation of his family members, get back to your home restore your marriage and begin working on those things. Take him to a matrimonial world of Bliss...... . awaiting your response concerning those roles 3 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Slurity(m): 1:55pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. To be honest with you, I did not pity you a bit. You created the gap by leaving him to your parents house and expecting him to feel the pain and come and beg when you knew you still want him. I am not saying you can not show your grievance by moving out but doing so to a lose man that is not sober dating other women will only widen the gap. Unfortunately, your parent that supposed to see what you are not seeing did not help, it is already too late, only God can rescue that home at this point. The suffering what is waiting for your kids is my my worry and not yours. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by nairalanda1(m): 1:56pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. You have two choices, you can be forgiving and stay in the marriage , or you can divorce him. I think it is time you divorced him, and moved on, because you have married a cheat. BUt before you make any decision, better take yourself to a hospital, and get checked for STI's, ALL OF THEM...especially the HIV. For the sake of your children. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Tunde25(m): 1:57pm On Jan 29 |
DSS1335:
Just move on bcs there is nothing you can do about it.
This reminds me during my youthful years immediately after NYSC in 2008. My girlfriend back then whom I have decided to settle down with left me after intense quarreling saying she can't marry a firstborn, that I was too chubby and fair in complexion.That she wanted a dark complexion man that is slim .. immediately she left two other beautiful damsel fought to take her place and one of them eventually became my wife today. She has been stalking me on all social media platforms and keep blocking her. Its a pity she would be 40 yrs old April this year and unmarried What a lame excuse? She had someome with that same spec secretly while dating you, but ending up marrying her. Tit for tat. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by TimiRume(f): 1:57pm On Jan 29 |
rickleye:
He called your bluff. Why would you want to continue in such atmosphere when you now know he’s a serial womaniser. And when found out didn’t even apologize.
I think there is more to the story than what you have inferred but if I am wrong . You need to find someone your husband listen to to try and resolve the issue.
BOL
The Op is a redpiller trying to stir up male chauvinism against women by fabricating this story. And he seems to be succeeding |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Beverlyjean(f): 1:58pm On Jan 29 |
Whoever advised u to leave ur husband is ur enemy |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by nairalanda1(m): 1:59pm On Jan 29 |
ObamaMessi:
I have never laughed so hard!! What a funny story 😂😂😂
You left your husband then another woman came in and you rushed back to beg. Na alpha male him be and kudos to him.
Women are always the cause of their problems... you have also been cheating since you got married but you decide to mire your side of the story of how you brought his friends, alot of them to sleep with you in the kitchen, palor and toilet.
Personally I know how many of your type I have flogged either in my mom's bed room or on their matrimonial beds (in rare cases). ..so shut the Bleep up and look for the next street suck. Your husband is gone for good. I know many alpha males who slept with all the women, whose wives were forgiving, .....and who ended up infecting their long suffering wives with HIV. I even know some of those women died of AIDS. Better not justify wrong. If your woman slept around , you won't forgive her. YOu won't call her alpha male, so why is it right for her husband to betray her? Honestly, some of you guys need to spend time in hospitals and see how many women's health has been damaged because their husband is awon alpha male... Remember, some of those women the husband is sleeping with are also sleeping with other men. THat is how the thing spreads.... If you like call me simp. I have seen these nonsense for 20 years, and I am tired of the suffering it causes. If you cannot control your dong, don't get married, ffs. It is not a must you must marry. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by mightyhazel: 2:00pm On Jan 29 |
ObamaMessi:
I have never laughed so hard!! What a funny story 😂😂😂
You left your husband then another woman came in and you rushed back to beg. Na alpha male him be and kudos to him.
Women are always the cause of their problems... you have also been cheating since you got married but you decide to mire your side of the story of how you brought his friends, alot of them to sleep with you in the kitchen, palor and toilet.
Personally I know how many of your type I have flogged either in my mom's bed room or on their matrimonial beds (in rare cases). ..so shut the Bleep up and look for the next street suck. Your husband is gone for good. Stop sleeping with married women and go atone properly for your sins Hospital and prison visitations with lots of helping to your neighbors and relatives,both material and physical like digging gutters and clearing primary school fields As it is now,u stink before God...and men 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Dense1512v(m): 2:00pm On Jan 29 |
luminouz:
You made a mistake leaving without your children. 😉 |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by BabaAduras: 2:01pm On Jan 29 |
ObamaMessi:
I have never laughed so hard!! What a funny story 😂😂😂
You left your husband then another woman came in and you rushed back to beg. Na alpha male him be and kudos to him.
Women are always the cause of their problems... you have also been cheating since you got married but you decide to mire your side of the story of how you brought his friends, alot of them to sleep with you in the kitchen, palor and toilet.
Personally I know how many of your type I have flogged either in my mom's bed room or on their matrimonial beds (in rare cases). ..so shut the Bleep up and look for the next street suck. Your husband is gone for good. Obviously, from your comment we know you are sad man with little or no respect for the opposite sex. One can also guess that if you are married at all, your marriage is not a happy one. I pray God will locate you and give you peace. Personal advice - Stop venting your personal frustration on social media. It does not score you any cheap point. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by EZENDIZUOGU(m): 2:01pm On Jan 29 |
Otilor, its only God that can help you to recover him back. The vacuum you created when you left him, has been filed by someone else . |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by KanuSE: 2:01pm On Jan 29 |
Kíni big deal. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Husband Has Been Cheating Since We Got Married by Privatepart00: 2:02pm On Jan 29 |
Nataliace:
I'm married for twelve years now and my marriage is blessed with two kids all boys, 11 and 9 respectively. Our marriage was also blessed with peace until I discovered my husband dates girls.
The one that pains me most is dating a neighbor who has been my enemy since we relocated to that settlement. My husband has side chicks too numerous to mention and I tried to talk to him but he refused. I left him and went back to my parents house thinking that will make him change and to come and apologize, to my greatest surprise he didn't make a move of putting things in order.
The worst is that the girl in the neighborhood is now living with him sleeping in our Matrimonial bed doing all the house chores and taking my children to school.
I came back and apologized to my husband but he said it's over between us. I love my husband so much that I can't afford to lose him. What should I have done? I expressed my grief of being hurt but it bounced back negatively.
Please advise me on how to restore my marriage. As a married woman, is better for your husband to send you packing, instead of the woman packing out herself, especially when she’s not leaving the marriage. NB: You leaving on your own, clips the reason he decided not to apologize for his wrongs. Bet you he wasn’t expecting you back anymore. Meanwhile, why do most married men cheat? |
