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Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:58pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
joyandfaith: Well. I've had at least seven to ten female companions and never had sex with any or even fantasize about sex with them. The spirit of a man is subject to a man. My.rule when it comes to sex is that I must desire it and it must be deliberate and intentional otherwise I'm not taking. It has kept me up and running for years 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Mariangeles(f): 12:59pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Friendship with the opposite sex from childhood is different. They grow up to have siblings kind of affection for one another. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by joyandfaith: 1:00pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: It is not about you but others. Never trust your heart. Take precautions. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by PrinceMajestic: 1:03pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
This threads reeks of bad bloods and prostitutes. They're smelling here, I'm out 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by angelfallz(m): 1:03pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
The ones that leave their spouse and go abroad? Are they leaving their spouse of their own free will, or their company is sending them abroad for work? nenyewrites: |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by yuping(m): 1:03pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
the one that got away. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Emaprince: 1:05pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
CSTRR:The man is actually the one that saved the day. She is here getting praises as if she was strong enough to zipp up..when it was the man that ignored her first which allowed the burning feelings to wane. The women we have today are extra cheap to lay. Its just in the hands of the men. Once the man decides not to Bleep...she is saved. But if the man wants it, its ABC. The man in the story would have slept with the OP severally if he wanted to. The OP is just like other women - weak and cheap. The man freed her..and she dey form born again. No true born again nurtures fornication in her mind talk less adultery. She is probably one of these christ embassy members or new generation churches that throws "born again" about thinking its by mouth. Meanwhile they dress scantily to church. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by unscripted(m): 1:05pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
AjiBussu:I want to belive you did not read her story .. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Acidosis(m): 1:06pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
MeghaneMorgane: You cut communication with all male friends once they're married but not when they're courting or in a relationship/dating? What are you trying to achieve? You communicate with your crush, yes?? |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by unscripted(m): 1:10pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Emaprince:brother calm down ,, even as Christians we are prone to temptation ,, yours may be greed and selfishness, any one can Bleep up ,, she was battling with her conscience and some how she overcame . E dey happen , take gender out of this .. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by DoctorOlasDesk: 1:10pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
joyandfaith: Yes. Thanks. I don't meet females one on one in private by any means You're right sha. This sex thing. God will help us |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Detruth55: 1:11pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I can't believe a 'born again' will write this. You must be young both physically and spiritually to have this mindset. This is the type of mindset that make idol worshippers appear more loving than 'christians'. Have you heard of wounded soldiers before? Even when Jesus was tempted at Gethsemane, angels had to minister to Him. He that think he is standing should take heed less he falls. Shallom oldienavie: 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by anonimi: 1:12pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
postmann: Again, where did she use the word, all? If she did not use that word, what does that make you? A liar? A chronic liar desperate to push his pointless point 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by anonimi: 1:14pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
unscripted: Exactly. Does the Lord's Prayer, addressed to disciples not include: And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Joyrise: 1:15pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
princeeze1: You are absolutely correct. Our prayers is that the Holy Spirirt will help us to flee all appearances of evil. Let us all pray to have a sweet home and be contented. The OP was not contented enough with her husband not chatting along her mindset as she wish triggered the whole journey. That was the avenue the devil used to lucnh the attack. Many of us have passed this way but God saved us too. Would anyone want his/her spouse also taste this,No. So keep to your spouse and find way to be compatible. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Klass99(f): 1:16pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
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Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by LordOfTheGame: 1:18pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Madam OP pls tell us the honest truth and we'll not kill you. You fvcked with this man and somehow along the lines, the relationship got broken and he left (after collecting his own share of your kpekus) and you regretted it and inquired why, he gave you cold answer and you decided to keep cool. Not because you didn't wish to continue but because you've counted your loses and decided to lay low and maintain the "co-worker" status with him. These are what I deduced from your write-up, no offense. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by nairamaniac: 1:18pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
joyandfaith:except if one of them is very ugly or deformed. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by dhiqson(m): 1:18pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Female nature My only problem is you making a mockery of "born again" I mean you're "born again" and you don't know you've committed adultery? And [/i]Peruzzing[i] through your write-up you didn't even follow the biblical write-up to "flee" Bible wasn't wrong to say resist the devil Whole devil bible say RESIST but you see fornication/adultery it said RUN Did you run? Well, you just making light of the born again word and your marriage |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by anonimi: 1:18pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
chioma134: Just seeing your response to sanctimonious postmann. Well written. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by DANIEL5050(m): 1:19pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Hmmm This is a very serious issue |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by LordReed(m): 1:21pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
chioma134: I hope people learn from this. Being religious doesn't make you any less or more human. You are still human and don't have any special power that will make you less susceptible to the vagaries of life. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by postmann: 1:22pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
anonimi: Now, I had to do a cursory glance at your previous posts to determine your gender, given that there's no gender indicator attached to your sobriquet. It wasn't a coincidence the lack thereof. It reflects your views and general outlook. You epicene, analphabetic degenerate. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by dhiqson(m): 1:23pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Emaprince: God bless you my bro Live long and prosper! |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by MeghaneMorgane(f): 1:25pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Acidosis: I’m trying to make them concentrate on their marriage. Once they tell me they are seeing someone who they intend to eventually marry, I keep my distance. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by justli: 1:31pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
oldienavie: A sister just narrated her struggle and how God came to her aid. You could have advised her to flee and permanently cut all ties, but no, instead you spat on her and we are supposed to believe you are the real born again. Jesus line of "whoever is sinless should cast the first stone" will forever remain a classic. 4 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by PericomaNwankwo: 1:32pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Nobody can judge you, and nobody is a saint. You probably handled the situation better than most people. You're strong!! But, don't forget that the deed had already been done. Logically, this sin has already been committed by you. The man probably recoiled the first time because he perceived you as a temptation and weakness to his righteousness (bonragainness). But, the little indepth fear of God in you and your mental strength forced you to act like the born again you are and ended the immoral affair. Being the typical man, your lover felt belittled by your ability to get over his charm (This charm is his pride and your failure to fell for it forced him to reach out to you again to taunt your emotional judgement of the matter.) If you were not mentally strong, you'd have fallen for his last minute attempt, which was to check if he was still that special man in your life. Conclusion If your lover had not decreased velocity in the initial phase, he would have been able to lay with you over and over and over again. And yet, don't forget that it's not over!! He will keep coming back and one day you'll fell for it and have an experience of that lust that you shut down for morality sake. 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Dreiwizzy: 1:35pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:My bad; I quoted the wrong moniker. |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Samakus(m): 1:36pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
That's why I snub. It's the only way for me to send the signal to a female |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by nairamaniac: 1:36pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Hi chioma123. Glad you were able to overcome the temptation. Doesn't really make sense to be closer to any opposite-sex than your spouse. You are strong and came out victorious. It's not a sin to be tempted but it's a sin to fall into the temptation. Even Jesus Christ was tempted. Even though your strength was aided by distance. No one can have it alllll in marriage. You may have a husband that's boring or uptight, not interesting. But please, what you guys produced and are building together is a million times more valuable than *friendship*, *shoulder to cry on*, *Interesting catch up on social media trending issues* *Flings* You guys are nuturing lives of your children, Building a home Building finances for projects Choose which is more valuable, even if it comes with boredom or lack of sexual-chemistry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Klass99(f): 1:39pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by Heffalump(m): 1:43pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Sekoni003: You're a rare gem. Keep it up in your belief 2 Likes |
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