Hurry up with your plans and join him asap. Body no be firewood

Dshocker:
What if the husband decides to marry two more wives?

In as much as i don't support polygamy, an African man has the right to marry as much wives as possible.
Whether you like it or not, the equality of a man is more higher, than that of a woman.... That was how God in heaven ordained it to be.

So if this woman decides to also exercise her right as a human by getting herself a sideman or even a second husband, what does it change of the fact that her husband in this case admitted to, this after initially denying it, cheating on her?

Kobojunkie:
So if this woman decides to also exercise her right as a human by getting herself a sideman or even a second husband, what does it change of the fact that her husband in this case admitted to, this after initially denying it, cheating on her?

If she gets herself a man, she go find herself for her papa house...

Dshocker:
If she gets herself a man, she go find herself for her papa house...

What century do you think you live in?
Don't bother responding as I see you are not interested in speaking reasonably in this.

gaby:
Hmmm...

I am "words of short" as a man knowing I could get caught up in this kinda exploratory and adventurous hubris.

My only issue is how he(we) would take this sort of exploration should the case be reversed.

I no fit shout jare

Unfortunately for the female folks, it's the man's world. What we get away with as men, they dare not attempt them. It's the unfair part of life

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

your husband is gone, plain truth, it's hard to take anyway

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

Join him as soon as possible. Even if he intend to cheat, your presence will put him in check.

He's fcking other women , just do quick and go join him , for now let him be

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

My family and I have lived here for years. I am a man that has never been on a dating site. 99.9% of dating sites are for sex. He didn't go to church/mosque/bar to socialize, na dating site. I no too get advice, put yourself first and tread carefully. Your husband dey lash steady. Tech bro wey no be man.

Kobojunkie:
What century do you think you live in?
Don't bother responding as I see you are not looking to speak reasonable in this.

Oni of ife is 10× more exposed than you are, but he got married to multiple wives.

Stop deceiving yourself, you want to drop your culture and adopt the white man's culture, claiming you are in the 21st century.

Neptunium:


Chai, see lies . He's on there for exactly what he said he's not on there for: dating. Lots of men also use dating sites to meet different women for sex. He's not leaving that daying site. A man like him started cheating long before now. Oyo is your case

Gbam! And STDs full everywhere. Na her husband take him hand destroy their marriage. Joining him will not stop him from lashing. The man still dey lie give am, no remorse, no nothing. She better not let the prospects of joining him in the UK cloud her judgement. She love him but he no love am. Husband and wife o, no be boyfriend and girlfriend.

Igiaruwe04:


It's better you tell her the truth. She's naive. They've collected her husband simple. And there is no possibility of him choosing her when the man has moved on to white women over there.

Nigeria girls are boring

They have collected her husband but he constantly sends money to her eh?

After your service just go and meet him there cause I know of a woman that was in the same shoes as you, her husband eventually messaged her to get someone else too… if you don’t go and meet him fast, you may lose him, I pray you don’t lose him though

Haba we are all humans; you can't say you dint have sex here in Nigeria for over a year now OP!

Women don't feel loneliness. And they're comfortable not having sex for donkey years. Men are not wired like that[/quote]

If you still want your relationship to work, don’t try to disrespect the man over this matter.
Nobody is holy, if reverse was the case you might have done worse cos I know what you Nigerian girls can do.
Just wrap up your youth service and go and meet him.
My one cent.
Peace!

Get your T-Mobile esim from me.

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

tell dat ur friend to go to hell, did.u invite her as a private investigator, what is she doing that she's so.close 2 ur husband to see him on dating site, my dear even dat ur friends husband does the same, she has caught him on numerous dating site but didn't breakup with him, and now she hates d fact u re.moving over 2 d UK, Madam if u like urslf, get to the UK, ur husband is getting bored thus d rsn for checking dating sites, I assure u, whatever he does is just for fun and nothing.more

The girl thats giving you info on your husband fit even dey lash am for uk.. no trust anyone

Questions

Do you have child for your husband?
Do you do court wedding?

If the above is no, your husband is gone.

The comments from most men here are really disturbing. Why marry when you intend disrespecting the marriage by cheating? You not only disrespect your spouse but by that, you are breaking trust. Shame on the men that see nothing wrong in this. If reverse were the case, you would not advise in this manner.
Op truth is your husband has been a cheat before now and he would hardly change.
I do not know how you can get him to change except by strongly registering your displeasure and letting him know cheating is a deal breaker for you (if it is for you) and there would be consequences and part of which is you are willing to walk away from a union he doesn't respect (people are not really mindful when there are no dire consequences for their actions) or you decide save the marriage and live with it while keep praying for him to change.
You cannot change an adult unless they want to themselves.

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

So long he’s still paying your bills
Better don’t go lose a husband
You will become evening newspaper in the eyes of other men
Best to ignore that woman that doesn’t have husband & be patient until you get to the UK
If you like go breakup
Good luck

Your husband is certainly screwing around, which is wrong. Do whatever you want with this information.

Lamanii22:
After your service just go and meet him there cause I know of a woman that was in the same shoes as you, her husband eventually messaged her to get someone else too… if you don’t go and meet him fast, you may lose him, I pray you don’t lose him though

Which one is you pray she doesn't lose the man? She already lost him. Imagine leaving your husband in the cold in the UK and expect him to be faithful. No be juju be that?

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

of course he is lying to you. If you didnt catch him, he would have slept with a white or black chick. Because tue level of fornication and adultery here is outstanding. Konji hold your man, work towards joining him to cure his konji.

Of course he's seeing someone else that side, did you really think he's gonna continue staying faithful to you after leaving for the UK?

Wake up and smell the coffee, long distance marriages and relationships always have a third party involved.

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

I want to blv the man is on that app for side hustle not just dating cos he's lonely.. bashing old women for extra cash..am not justifying him cheating sha

Dshocker:


What if the husband decides to marry two more wives?

In as much as i don't support polygamy, an African man has the right to marry as much wives as possible.

Whether you like it or not, the equality of a man is more higher, than that of a woman.... That was how God in heaven ordained it to be.

Which God in heaven?


If it's an angel, give me his name and rank


If it's in the Bible, which book, which verse?


Show me where God opened His mouth and directed men to have many wives

You people and your crazy stories. If your husband is in tech as was mentioned, he would NEVER register an account t on a publicly available dating site with all his details... including his picture!!!

You guys should plot your stories well before hitting the Submit button.

Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.



@ the above bolded, fa fa faa foul.....pure lies. Its just like when my Gf tells me "He is just my bestie. He is just my bestie and nothing more.
Its a lie.

So many husbands are in dating app......but your husband own don cast...

Even your friend is on dating app, she could even be a married woman.

Las las na all of us be ashawo.....

Your husband would soon give you HIV!!!

The fact he's on a dating site, does not mean he's cheating.

He may be there for fun and nothing else (having physical engagement with e'm bitches.) So chillax!.

Accusing him of cheating because he visited mere dating site, is like him accusing you of cheating because he caught you watching porn.

You wanted to be the only one enjoying him.
But seriously, your husband is a cheat. There are better ways of socialising

This still does not prove that he is cheating, making friends in a new place is difficult so he could be doing it to socialize