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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Soulvein: 4:39pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Nah, this is not peculiar to Nigerian men and neither does culture or values play any role here. The point is that a lot of married men abroad can't completely abstain from sex because this requires a great deal of self discipline and this is not something everyone is capable of. |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Shokoloko(f): 4:41pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Juoflife1:I was looking for this comment 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by DMerciful(m): 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
In Nigeria, a man can decide to marry more than one wife and society accepts it because its cultural and biblical. Women do not have such liberties so arguing reality is not a way to push gender supremacy. Men are men, women are women...not same! Kobojunkie: |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Soulvein:1. From what you describe, it is. 2. Your point makes no sense since we ain't discussing celibacy or complete abstinence but Marriage and what it means to be Married to those married. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by IamMobisola(f): 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
palsenator:But when women start engaging in paternity frauds, you all will cry fowl. Mtchww 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by pocohantas(f): 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
TheGoodAmerican: And his brothers here are defending it. Dating app? As in, dating app? A married man and so called professional. The standard is really low for Nigerian men sha. And na them dey use their hand bring am down. How else do you explain their posts here? Make she just hold am like that. Imagine her joining him and they have issues. People would say it is because he has brought her to the UK. Ignoring the real issue. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
DMerciful:At least you admit that this "sense" of yours only holds among Nigerian men who think as you do. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Tzar(m): 4:44pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
So, in your matured mind, you believe any man without erectile dysfunction/ or for religious celibacy is capable of staying away from sex for over 12months?! Even Nigerian women are no longer capable of that feat. If you find yourself in a long distance relationship or marriage you better learn patience and letting go o. Otherwise end the marriage or abandon everything you are doing now to be with your husband ASAP! Na wetin you leave unattended na hin goat dey carry o! |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Emaprince: 4:45pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Jeon:Can you vouch for her that no man is fuccking her since 2021 that her hubby left? She is even serving..lol..and we all know how married women do in NYSC talk less of the one whose hubby is in another country. |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kaycee54321(m): 4:47pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Salewabeau: It's a pity that this is happening to you. I'm a bit pessimistic when it comes to marriage/committed unions...simply because, realistically speaking, I don't expect a woman to NEVER have sexual relations with anyone else but me when we tie the knot. To me, it just looks like wishful thinking that I'd marry a 25 year old and she will not have sex with any other man till she's 40, 50, 60...and dies. I always feel that a lot of things happen/have happened under the hood for any relationship/marriage that lasted for donkey years... I don't know about you...but my deal breaker in a union is DISRESPECT. No be say if my woman cheat on me, e no go pain me...but sincerely, I don't expect too much in that department. In your case, what you should do really depends on you. If you were my sister, I will go the nihilistic route and advise you to mentally disconnect from the relationship, continue with your plans to migrate...when you're settled in, depending on the atmosphere of your relationship, you can boot him out of your life or decide to remain with him... And oh, get yourself on a dating site too while you're at it. You also need to 'socialize'... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Emaprince: 4:47pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:You must be very naive. Continue to reason this way until your woman starts collecting just after a month away from you. You must be leaving in a cave 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by adecz: 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Man must be man & body no be firewood... Important thing be say, the preeek no go finish.☺️☺️☺️ Just finish service go join am, shikena..✌️�✌️ |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by litaninja(m): 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Otilor. Salewabeau: |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by jackals(f): 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Men!!. Very confused gender. Most don't even know what they want. See, my sister, don't allow the devil to use you . That man want you to mess up and frustrate him so he can find excuse to dump your sorry ass and continue his wayward life abroad. Tell him how you truly feel about him and don't fight it. Stay awake at night and pray for him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by RexTramadol1: 4:49pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
How u take know |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by 79733139(m): 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Loving your husband and being the only man you have ever known wouldn't preventing him from seeing other women. You have two real options: 1.) Focus on getting everything that you think he should give you as a husband and a father to your children. 2.) Separate from him (or divorce him) You will damage your mental health worrying about what he is doing or not doing, or what he has done or hasn't done. He has freewill, once you understand that, it becomes less painful to deal with the issue. Salewabeau: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by dagano: 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Fist off, sorry for your troubles. I know there'll be a flurry of advices you'll be getting now. I'd advise you to keep him in your prayers and commit him to God. I know cos I have seen this simple truth work wonders for families. Don't give up. Let your husband know that regardless of his misdeeds, you still love him and will keep yourself for him. See how that works. Stoop to conquer. |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by PapaFejiro: 4:52pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
The man is lonely. That is the simple and plain truth. We outside get serious depression out of loneliness. Abroad is such a cruel place that you might not even see or know your next door neighbor. He should not have lied initially, however, please forgive him. He is there just to mingle, his real love and attention is for you and no one else. Salewabeau: |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by DMerciful(m): 4:52pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
I was specific to say in Nigeria. If you dont wanna marry a Nigerian man, you have over 182 countries to choose from. Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:52pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kaycee54321:So, would you be accepting then of a woman whose sole intention is you use you in achieving what are her private and selfish goals in life.. dumping you afterwards ofcourse? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by MoneyMustBMade(m): 4:53pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Be strong you husband is save |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
DMerciful:Again, I am not interested in digging through your obviously limited Nigerian form of sense. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by pocohantas(f): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kaycee54321: Chineke!!! I was on a foreign relationship page and they asked why women initiate divorce more. I said it is because men do not care about the quality of marriage. Their solution to ordinary headache is to cheat. So they remain in the marriage and keep cheating. Even if they lose their wife or divorce, they are always the fastest to remarry while most women would rather remain single and face their kids. I wouldn’t advise her to play it cool until he takes her abroad. I am particularly scared of a divorce abroad than a divorce in Nigeria. So if she is playing it cool, she should make sure it is what she can live with for life, except the dynamics of the marriage changes. If she can’t take it, better to remain here as a home-based wife and enjoy her life. I hate to say, every man comes with his own skorskor. This one is cheat, the next might be faithful, but something else. Identify your dealbreaker and choose your poison wisely. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Pojaay(m): 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:Why are people so toxic on this app, do you people really care about this woman’s mental health at all?? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
PapaFejiro:So the woman he left in Nigeria is not also "lonely"? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Flamemignon1(m): 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:Not really,if he truly wanted sex, it's an easy thing,he could meet anyone abroad and they could third base but I think he's looking for something new like something much more than sex, he's looking for a relationship,she should break up with him at this point 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Igboslayer: 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:Facts only. |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by nkemoma(m): 4:56pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kaycee54321(m): 4:57pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Lol. If I were the husband, then I had it coming. Also, what one wants & what one gets are very often different. The key is to flow with the tide. Eg. - I'd never steal another person's phone...my phone has been stolen twice. - This OP has never been with another man. Yet her man is hawking himself on a dating app. We get what we get Bro. Surviving is all about handling life's curve balls. Appropriately. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Flamemignon1(m): 4:57pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:So she can also do the same thing he's doing there right? 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
dagano:1. Why do you folks like to drag God's name into what is foolishness? Is God the reason why the man is cheating on her? Why is she, the victim here, to now subject herself to more inner angst by praying for him when she could instead work on her self esteem and confidence as an individual through this? 2. Let him know of his misdeeds? You mean he, as an adult is not clearly aware of this himself? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Flamemignon1(m): 5:00pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Igiaruwe04:No buddy,women do feel loneliness,they just don't give up sex easily,she could find a companion that she feels a romantic connection with and then things move on sexually, that's how women roll 3 Likes 1 Share |
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